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**Matcha85** · 11-20-20 22:52

Originally Posted by MrLimpBiscuit [View Original Post]

https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.co...3/230350792084, pm, anyone seen her and donation. ?

Looks like these photos are from the instagram account tanyaadenise.

**MrLimpBiscuit** · 11-20-20 21:56

https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.co...3/230350792084, pm, anyone seen her and donation. ?

**NoskCaj** · 11-20-20 08:42

Originally Posted by Jfmu6 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I thought long and hard about this post but finally decided I needed to post this.

If you look at my history I am (was, not sure what the right term is) one of you. Trading info and participating in the hobby for many years, back to the EV / scorps etc days. My first hobby appts were mybobbisox and barbie10. Anyway in July of 2019, I was found out. My world as I knew it came crashing down as someone told my wife about my hobby times (pretty sure is was an SA ad I responded to but it does not even matter). She confronted me and threw me out, and I deserved it.

The hurt and pain in her eyes that I caused were something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

I know now that I was a full on addict to the hobby. It was my drug of choice. Even now it took me a long time to trust myself enough to come back to the site to even think about posting something like this. Please know that I hold zero judgement on anyone in the "hobby". I am simply posting here as when I was in it strangely enough I felt so very much alone with nobody to talk to. Even before getting caught I knew I was taking chances I should not have taken, not just with getting caught but with dangerous situations etc.

My story is much longer then this little blurb and is far from over, but I wanted to reach out and post something, and I know it will not be popular here. Not looking to get flamed or a bunch of hate messages as I am certainly not here to try and stop the hobby as that has nothing to do with me. I am simply offering to be a sounding board if anyone does not see a way out or keeps getting drawn back in. We all have our unique stories, situations, and of course demons, but for me if I can help someone avoid the hurt I went through as well as avoid hurting loved ones well its worth the risk of getting flamed for this post.

Please again let me be clear I am certainly not judging or trying to dissaude anyone from this hobby. Just sharing my experience and how if I knew now what I know then I sure wish I had not hurt my wife so deeply.

Anyway, for those of you not searching to see a post like this I apologize, but if there is someone like me who needs a non judgemental ear to listen I am willing.

A2 if you feel the need to ban my account for this post I understand, but I mean no disrespect to anyone here or this site (though I hope you will choose not to). The site does help people stay safer and informed.

Guys thank you all for reading.

Good for you dude. I won't lie. I'm a young single man and I do tend to be sort of judgmental towards married men in the hobby because it always seemed kind of selfish to me, but I've never been married and who is to say that if I ever found "the one" that it'd be as simple as just leaving the hobby one day. I feel like there's good and bad in the hobby. I've experienced both ends. I've had chicks built like your favorite pornstar that'd serve it up any way you like for less than a hundo. On the other end of the spectrum I've got chicks that I've spent thousands of dollars on in the span of less than 3 months (hence the addiction aspect you speak of). You can imagine what that does to a savings plan. My advice is just focus on your fam man and forget this site ever existed, because as long as you rely on your own strength and keep telling yourself you can handle browsing on here you're going to get drawn back in. That's like a crack addict saying theyre going to just sit and watch their friends smoke. At the end of the day this game is too dangerous to have a family in in my opinion. You have girls with habits, girls with stalkers, girls that have wronged the wrong dealer or monger, all of which could cause you to be an innocent bystander. Hell, a chick may have a debt that you don't know about and some pimp or dealer can end up trying to associate you with it although you had nothing to do with it. Best wishes moving forward and hopefully things work out.

**Monger01** · 11-19-20 23:08

Nothing wrong with leaving the hobby. We don't judge you. And yes, I and most mongers are sex addicts. No reason to deny it.

As for getting outed, now you see why I post so much about safety and anonymity. I constantly suggest a hobby phone. I never use my real name anywhere. I hide references to where I work (logos, keycards) when on date.

Never agree to "ID" for "prescreening" etc. Not saying I'll never get caught but I keep my odds of it low. I had SBs. I wrote the blog here on it. Not a single one knows my name or where I work. You have to stay anonymous always in this hobby!

I state none of this to mean you deserved it or told ya so. But as a reminder that this hobby has added dangers for guys with SOs.

Sorry for how things turned out for you.

Originally Posted by Jfmu6 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I thought long and hard about this post but finally decided I needed to post this.

If you look at my history I am (was, not sure what the right term is) one of you. Trading info and participating in the hobby for many years, back to the EV / scorps etc days. My first hobby appts were mybobbisox and barbie10. Anyway in July of 2019, I was found out. My world as I knew it came crashing down as someone told my wife about my hobby times (pretty sure is was an SA ad I responded to but it does not even matter). She confronted me and threw me out, and I deserved it.

The hurt and pain in her eyes that I caused were something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

I know now that I was a full on addict to the hobby. It was my drug of choice. Even now it took me a long time to trust myself enough to come back to the site to even think about posting something like this. Please know that I hold zero judgement on anyone in the "hobby". I am simply posting here as when I was in it strangely enough I felt so very much alone with nobody to talk to. Even before getting caught I knew I was taking chances I should not have taken, not just with getting caught but with dangerous situations etc.

My story is much longer then this little blurb and is far from over, but I wanted to reach out and post something, and I know it will not be popular here. Not looking to get flamed or a bunch of hate messages as I am certainly not here to try and stop the hobby as that has nothing to do with me. I am simply offering to be a sounding board if anyone does not see a way out or keeps getting drawn back in. We all have our unique stories, situations, and of course demons, but for me if I can help someone avoid the hurt I went through as well as avoid hurting loved ones well its worth the risk of getting flamed for this post.

Please again let me be clear I am certainly not judging or trying to dissaude anyone from this hobby. Just sharing my experience and how if I knew now what I know then I sure wish I had not hurt my wife so deeply.

Anyway, for those of you not searching to see a post like this I apologize, but if there is someone like me who needs a non judgemental ear to listen I am willing.

A2 if you feel the need to ban my account for this post I understand, but I mean no disrespect to anyone here or this site (though I hope you will choose not to). The site does help people stay safer and informed.

Guys thank you all for reading.

**Benjamin99** · 11-19-20 20:57

Thank you for the post, it almost happened to me one time when a drug addict that knew a few things about me, tried to blackmail me and threatened to contact my SO. I'm more careful now and I do happen to have nightmares of being caught once in a while. I'm semi-retired at the moment and only seeing my ATF.

Stay safe everyone.

Ben.

Originally Posted by Jfmu6 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I thought long and hard about this post but finally decided I needed to post this.

If you look at my history I am (was, not sure what the right term is) one of you. Trading info and participating in the hobby for many years, back to the EV / scorps etc days. My first hobby appts were mybobbisox and barbie10. Anyway in July of 2019, I was found out. My world as I knew it came crashing down as someone told my wife about my hobby times (pretty sure is was an SA ad I responded to but it does not even matter). She confronted me and threw me out, and I deserved it.

The hurt and pain in her eyes that I caused were something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

**DarkGrey** · 11-19-20 20:51

Originally Posted by Benz1 [View Original Post]

Welcome back Jfmu6.

We all have it, addiction.

Yes, you are one of us. Hope all is going well for you now.

If the marriage is young with young children, the wife seems to roll with it a little better than when they get older and don't need us as much. They weigh they're options and poof half our money is gone and so are most of our headaches.

It all averages out in the end.

The addiction is real, we can't help it. We can restrain ourselves for only so long before we give in to the hobby.

If only our wives were porn stars. Then we probably wouldn't have married them.

Have a good day and stay safe.

Well said Benz.

Just when you think you're out, they pull you back in.

**Benz1** · 11-19-20 16:20

Originally Posted by Jfmu6 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I thought long and hard about this post but finally decided I needed to post this.

Welcome back Jfmu6.

We all have it, addiction.

Yes, you are one of us. Hope all is going well for you now.

If the marriage is young with young children, the wife seems to roll with it a little better than when they get older and don't need us as much. They weigh they're options and poof half our money is gone and so are most of our headaches.

It all averages out in the end.

The addiction is real, we can't help it. We can restrain ourselves for only so long before we give in to the hobby.

If only our wives were porn stars. Then we probably wouldn't have married them.

Have a good day and stay safe.

**Moonglow913** · 11-19-20 11:13

You have a post by Jfmu6 pouring his heart out over the hardships of the hobby and you start to get a little reflective but keep reading and the very next post puts you back into reality - "who gives the best head in West Michigan"? Not sure I know why I found that juxtaposition funny.

**Ibow1** · 11-18-20 18:39

Originally Posted by Jfmu6 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I thought long and hard about this post but finally decided I needed to post this.

If you look at my history I am (was, not sure what the right term is) one of you. Trading info and participating in the hobby for many years, back to the EV / scorps etc days. My first hobby appts were mybobbisox and barbie10. Anyway in July of 2019, I was found out. My world as I knew it came crashing down as someone told my wife about my hobby times (pretty sure is was an SA ad I responded to but it does not even matter). She confronted me and threw me out, and I deserved it.

The hurt and pain in her eyes that I caused were something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

I know now that I was a full on addict to the hobby. It was my drug of choice. Even now it took me a long time to trust myself enough to come back to the site to even think about posting something like this. Please know that I hold zero judgement on anyone in the "hobby". I am simply posting here as when I was in it strangely enough I felt so very much alone with nobody to talk to. Even before getting caught I knew I was taking chances I should not have taken, not just with getting caught but with dangerous situations etc.

My story is much longer then this little blurb and is far from over, but I wanted to reach out and post something, and I know it will not be popular here. Not looking to get flamed or a bunch of hate messages as I am certainly not here to try and stop the hobby as that has nothing to do with me. I am simply offering to be a sounding board if anyone does not see a way out or keeps getting drawn back in. We all have our unique stories, situations, and of course demons, but for me if I can help someone avoid the hurt I went through as well as avoid hurting loved ones well its worth the risk of getting flamed for this post.

Please again let me be clear I am certainly not judging or trying to dissaude anyone from this hobby. Just sharing my experience and how if I knew now what I know then I sure wish I had not hurt my wife so deeply.

Anyway, for those of you not searching to see a post like this I apologize, but if there is someone like me who needs a non judgemental ear to listen I am willing.

The site does help people stay safer and informed.

Guys thank you all for reading.

Excellent post with some great food for thought. Thanks for posting.

**Member #6522** · 11-18-20 17:52

Originally Posted by Jfmu6 [View Original Post]

Guys,

I thought long and hard about this post but finally decided I needed to post this.

If you look at my history I am (was, not sure what the right term is) one of you. Trading info and participating in the hobby for many years, back to the EV / scorps etc days. My first hobby appts were mybobbisox and barbie10. Anyway in July of 2019, I was found out. My world as I knew it came crashing down as someone told my wife about my hobby times (pretty sure is was an SA ad I responded to but it does not even matter). She confronted me and threw me out, and I deserved it.

The hurt and pain in her eyes that I caused were something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

I know now that I was a full on addict to the hobby. It was my drug of choice. Even now it took me a long time to trust myself enough to come back to the site to even think about posting something like this. Please know that I hold zero judgement on anyone in the "hobby". I am simply posting here as when I was in it strangely enough I felt so very much alone with nobody to talk to. Even before getting caught I knew I was taking chances I should not have taken, not just with getting caught but with dangerous situations etc.

My story is much longer then this little blurb and is far from over, but I wanted to reach out and post something, and I know it will not be popular here. Not looking to get flamed or a bunch of hate messages as I am certainly not here to try and stop the hobby as that has nothing to do with me. I am simply offering to be a sounding board if anyone does not see a way out or keeps getting drawn back in. We all have our unique stories, situations, and of course demons, but for me if I can help someone avoid the hurt I went through as well as avoid hurting loved ones well its worth the risk of getting flamed for this post.

Please again let me be clear I am certainly not judging or trying to dissaude anyone from this hobby. Just sharing my experience and how if I knew now what I know then I sure wish I had not hurt my wife so deeply.

Anyway, for those of you not searching to see a post like this I apologize, but if there is someone like me who needs a non judgemental ear to listen I am willing.

A2 if you feel the need to ban my account for this post I understand, but I mean no disrespect to anyone here or this site (though I hope you will choose not to). The site does help people stay safer and informed.

Guys thank you all for reading.

No need to apologize. I myself almost had a close call once. It quickly put things into perspective. The rush and enjoyment from this quickly caused more pain and misery than anything I've been through. In the end I was lucky and was not found out. But it came really close.

**Member #6617** · 11-18-20 16:53

Guys,

I thought long and hard about this post but finally decided I needed to post this.

If you look at my history I am (was, not sure what the right term is) one of you. Trading info and participating in the hobby for many years, back to the EV / scorps etc days. My first hobby appts were mybobbisox and barbie10. Anyway in July of 2019, I was found out. My world as I knew it came crashing down as someone told my wife about my hobby times (pretty sure is was an SA ad I responded to but it does not even matter). She confronted me and threw me out, and I deserved it.

The hurt and pain in her eyes that I caused were something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

I know now that I was a full on addict to the hobby. It was my drug of choice. Even now it took me a long time to trust myself enough to come back to the site to even think about posting something like this. Please know that I hold zero judgement on anyone in the "hobby". I am simply posting here as when I was in it strangely enough I felt so very much alone with nobody to talk to. Even before getting caught I knew I was taking chances I should not have taken, not just with getting caught but with dangerous situations etc.

My story is much longer then this little blurb and is far from over, but I wanted to reach out and post something, and I know it will not be popular here. Not looking to get flamed or a bunch of hate messages as I am certainly not here to try and stop the hobby as that has nothing to do with me. I am simply offering to be a sounding board if anyone does not see a way out or keeps getting drawn back in. We all have our unique stories, situations, and of course demons, but for me if I can help someone avoid the hurt I went through as well as avoid hurting loved ones well its worth the risk of getting flamed for this post.

Please again let me be clear I am certainly not judging or trying to dissaude anyone from this hobby. Just sharing my experience and how if I knew now what I know then I sure wish I had not hurt my wife so deeply.

Anyway, for those of you not searching to see a post like this I apologize, but if there is someone like me who needs a non judgemental ear to listen I am willing.

A2 if you feel the need to ban my account for this post I understand, but I mean no disrespect to anyone here or this site (though I hope you will choose not to). The site does help people stay safer and informed.

Guys thank you all for reading.

**Amaregraeco** · 11-05-20 11:54

Best Head in West Michigan?

Jasmine, she has no peer or equal here in West Michigan for those members who visit her regularly.

Why? The combination of her decent looks, her personable nature, her enthusiastic "hunger", her natural ability to throat larger wood (and willingness to throatf—k and BE vigorously TF'ed, and take your load while you are fully seated firmly holding her head in place as you pump and unload in her throat), knowing how to edge your cock if you seek that, and her natural talent at sucking your balls, hungrily and as firmly as you can withstand.

Her oral talents and enthusiasm are without equal here in West Michigan (IMHO). Mind you, it'll prolly take you a couple of visits and your excellent hygiene to develop that rapport with her.

Additionally she is very Greek friendly, and duos as well.

If what you are really after is decent head and swallow from a SP you are seeing for just a single time, nothing more, Jas or Pinky.

Be safe.

AG.

**Surgon** · 11-04-20 19:30

Originally Posted by RaudenBush [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen Mandy? https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.co...d/734859913490.

Use the search feature.

**RaudenBush** · 11-04-20 14:10

Has anyone seen Mandy? https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.co...d/734859913490.

**Blackfire** · 10-30-20 07:47

Originally Posted by JonDoe2 [View Original Post]

I have never had a prostate massage, is there penetration involved with this or no? Am I really missing out on a great experience?

The simple answer is yes, it's a finger up the ass to the prostate. Good idea to have a clean ass before going. Google is your friend, do a google search and you'll easily learn all about it, how to do it and will know what to expect when getting your prostate stimulated.