"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Johnny Mapalo]

Just got out of a LTR and looking for some help, advice, coaching. I'm 55 and in pretty good shape and reasonable attractive (if that matters). I had a couple of SB back in the days when CL was a resource, but now I'm back and trying to stream line these adventrues. I'm looking for the hard bodies, which I'm sure come as a higher price. Is 200 a good ceiling?

I see most of the post are from SA, does anyone use SB?

Are the girls closer to the 18 yr range easier, less expensive, more challaging targets, then say the mid to late 20 year olds?

What is the nomral turn around time once you start exchanging messages before you meet? Does it really matter where you meet?

I guess you estiblish before the meet "I'm looking for NSA adult fun"?

Anything else I need to know, please share.

SB= secretbenefits.com is ass trash! It's a computer generated bot site that bait guys with fake messages from chic's, in order to get those guys to buy credit. Don't do it! Out of curiosity, I paid for a membership a few months ago and only got 1 good response and 1 phone number. Most chic's just respond with, "Hey", and you never hear from them again, although they're seemingly online everyday. Smdh.

Seeking is the only real site where action happens. You will get alot of scam action too. There's no set time table when you will get to smash, if you even get to smash. Good luck.

[Apollo007]

Just got out of a LTR and looking for some help, advice, coaching. I'm 55 and in pretty good shape and reasonable attractive (if that matters). I had a couple of SB back in the days when CL was a resource, but now I'm back and trying to stream line these adventrues. I'm looking for the hard bodies, which I'm sure come as a higher price. Is 200 a good ceiling?

I see most of the post are from SA, does anyone use SB?

Are the girls closer to the 18 yr range easier, less expensive, more challaging targets, then say the mid to late 20 year olds?

What is the nomral turn around time once you start exchanging messages before you meet? Does it really matter where you meet?

I guess you estiblish before the meet "I'm looking for NSA adult fun"?

Anything else I need to know, please share.

[Hal1957]

What's with all the new partial SA profiles? 21 in the Atlanta section age 19-29, SWF non-smoking. Was there a recruiting drive or something?

[SeekingHead]

I find it very important to use a burner number. One person inwas trying to meet when it didn't happen someone sent me threats and violent pictures. But I was protected as much as I could be via a burner and vpn.

This was SA, I have one off photos for SA. These were regular dating sites & the photos were reverse looked up & traced back to my facebook account which still shows I am married. They IMed me on facebook & tried blackmailing me, with threats to reveal my "secret" to my wife. I told the person they would need a ouji board to contact her.

[HollowGuy]

https://www.instagram.com/annakat404/

https://www.instagram.com/fitgirl009/

Thanks,

Has anyone seen her? Is she real or a scammer? Is the experience worth it? She hasn't asked for any money. We were suppose to meet but something about had a family emergency out of town.

[JeffInnAtlanta]

Anyone has any information on this one?

https://www.instagram.com/annakat404/

https://www.instagram.com/fitgirl009/

[HollowGuy]

Anyone has any information on this one?

[HollowGuy]

No match.com, tinder, & a couple of others. Yes some of the photos are from facebook, mostly travel photos which is how I think they matched them. I'm not worried as I'm single & run my own business so can't be fired or blackmailed.

I find it very important to use a burner number. One person inwas trying to meet when it didn't happen someone sent me threats and violent pictures. But I was protected as much as I could be via a burner and vpn.

[SeekingHead]

Wow. Do you use the same username and other info across all the dating sites? Same pictures as on facebook? I'm assuming by "dating" sites you mean the sugarbaby sites.

No match.com, tinder, & a couple of others. Yes some of the photos are from facebook, mostly travel photos which is how I think they matched them. I'm not worried as I'm single & run my own business so can't be fired or blackmailed.

[HawkJock]

I have profiles up on most major dating sites, scammers have doxed me, found my facebook account, & have demanded blackmail money. People are fucking assholes.

Use different usernames and take screen shots of your pictures that you use across different dating and social media sites. The screen shot will strip the metadata that is searchable on the interwebs.

[TechSticles]

I have profiles up on most major dating sites, scammers have doxed me, found my facebook account, & have demanded blackmail money. People are fucking assholes.

Wow. Do you use the same username and other info across all the dating sites? Same pictures as on facebook? I'm assuming by "dating" sites you mean the sugarbaby sites.

[SeekingHead]

LOL! You know damn well she's going to track your azz down for that easy money! She probably got smart and was like "why am I going after these SD's paying me chump change when I can get knocked up and go after everything! My advice that has crazy written all over that!

I have profiles up on most major dating sites, scammers have doxed me, found my facebook account, & have demanded blackmail money. People are fucking assholes.

[CarmelFight]

I really, really need to get a vasectomy.

LOL! You know damn well she's going to track your azz down for that easy money! She probably got smart and was like "why am I going after these SD's paying me chump change when I can get knocked up and go after everything! My advice that has crazy written all over that!

[Sgt Soros]

I don't know if this is what is happening, but there is a site where they post guys profile pictures and numbers and then try to blackmail them. Happened to me, but it wasn't a real pic and not my real number.

A few years back, I replied to one of those scam ads and started getting a slew of blackmail threats. Thankfully I had a burner phone number and I kept telling 'em to go fuck themseleves.

[2me4Looking2]

What's up with a private picture request. Then, you share it. Then you get a message from the profile that requested the picture asking how you are doing. You answer you are well and ask them how they are doing and then no response, nothing not even an acknowledgment of your message being received. Does anyone know why this happens on SA? Who wants the picture and why? Anyone??

I don't know if this is what is happening, but there is a site where they post guys profile pictures and numbers and then try to blackmail them. Happened to me, but it wasn't a real pic and not my real number.