"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Nickster53** · 09-26-19 07:45

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

Fair enough. She was 24, I'm 62. M / G was at a Mexican restaurant for dinner, margaritas and conversation. No donations. She thought about it for a week, then messaged she would like to meet again. She didn't specify an amount. I try to make it a memorable experience, chose a 4 star hotel and she stayed the night. I put an envelope in her purse with $$, so my investment in the first meet was dinner, drinks, hotel and the envelope, about 4 $. Steep by most standards, but she is 5/10, athletic, blonde, stacked and good looking to my taste. College grad and the conversation was intelligent.

Those are the things I look for anyway. After the first meet there were 3 more but then she decided to move along. I get a text from her occasionally, but she doesn't seem interested in a repeat and after this much time it would be a little weird. But for me it was memorable and I'm glad I didn't block her.

Great report, I'm envious that you found one like that. I just finished "30 days in the bowl" (report coming.) and that's exactly what I'm looking for. Plenty of opportunities to get together but as I would put it, no real keepers. There are a few "booty call" keepers but not really what I was looking for. My first month just expired and I'm going to work the number list that I built to see if I can find one like this. I'll post a report in a few days.

**Bross** · 09-25-19 13:34

Pro and Agency. Wants 400 and in apartment off Perimeter. Hell to the naw.

Demanded ID and selfie. Told her to take a hike. Sorry no link, we mutually blocked each other.

**Hal1957** · 09-25-19 01:26

Fair enough. She was 24, I'm 62. M / G was at a Mexican restaurant for dinner, margaritas and conversation. No donations. She thought about it for a week, then messaged she would like to meet again. She didn't specify an amount. I try to make it a memorable experience, chose a 4 star hotel and she stayed the night. I put an envelope in her purse with $$, so my investment in the first meet was dinner, drinks, hotel and the envelope, about 4 $. Steep by most standards, but she is 5/10, athletic, blonde, stacked and good looking to my taste. College grad and the conversation was intelligent.

Those are the things I look for anyway. After the first meet there were 3 more but then she decided to move along. I get a text from her occasionally, but she doesn't seem interested in a repeat and after this much time it would be a little weird. But for me it was memorable and I'm glad I didn't block her.

**MickyRocky** · 09-24-19 21:07

Thanks mate for the update!! I will pass.

Originally Posted by DudeNextDoor [View Original Post]

See my experience I had recently with her here: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...quot&p=4442716#post4442716.

Also, your second link is to your messages.

**Sneakey1961** · 09-24-19 15:34

I remember her from Meet and Greets a few years back, she is a true sweetheart, kind and very friendly. She has made it this long with those rates she must be doing something right! SA just another avenue for marketing. To each their own!

Originally Posted by Bross [View Original Post]

This one is an Eros pro, aka Ava Raleigh (or is someone using her pics). Sounds like her tho.

https://www.seeking.com/member/46232...b-09ab92a20f03

https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta...8170.htm?cat=1

**SeekingHead** · 09-24-19 15:13

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Bro that's a hard pass. She has a nice body but she has crazy prices listed on Eros like 500+ which is laughable for her looks and messed up haircut. Can do so much better on SA w a college hottie.

If it's the same girl, & I think it is. She is going to want $800 or more for a PPM & have to think there will be a lot of rules, probably some clock watching also.

**Gavin1112** · 09-24-19 14:58

I've chatted with heron the site, not sure what to think if real or GSP LOL. Anyone had any luck with her yet?

https://www.seeking.com/member/45b97...f-a65e8a3d1d86

**HollowGuy** · 09-24-19 13:39

I am looking for a snow bunny in the gwinnett area any recommendations would be appreciated.

**The Bobster** · 09-24-19 13:32

Recently passed contact info to someone on here that was reaching out for help in finding someone. Responded via pm with the number of a lady that was looking for new friends. Deed was done and the jerk "forgot" to comp. Just a warning to those that try to help others out.

**SeekingHead** · 09-24-19 12:30

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

I used to think like that too and it's a logical train of thought. First a couple of questions, have you hit it yet? If so please elaborate on the experience in detail. If not, then you haven't proven your point yet. Second, many members have declined the platonic invite and then been reported to SA by these girls for soliciting (they are usually the sensitive type,) and had their membership deleted.

I play the odds on these things. My guess is a platonic girl conversion rate is prob going to be 10% or less w so much hassle. If you are having a different experience then please share about it in detail so we can all benefit from what you have learned. IMHO, SA would be better for all of us if we just blocked all of the platonic, online and advanced payment girls so they get the message that this isn't the place for that nonsense. This would leave the girls that we all like who get how an arrangement works rather than trying to get money for nothing.

If you have found a new avenue to access these platonic girls, please share in detail your experience. School will be in session and I will be your first student. Ex: how many dates to get past platonic, did you get to FS? , allowance etc and how long did the arrangement last. I'm asking bc I have tried this numerous times and it's always beem annoying waste for me. In the meantime, I could snag 3-5 straight up SA girls with so much less effort and hassle.

Just my two cents.

Bojack.

From my experience about 1 in 5 of the platonic girls will give up the nooky. I've emailed over 20 girls who were well above average & had a look I liked. The girls used it for screening, The 3 I've been with have given me the same story, it gives them an easy out in screening guys who they are not attracted to & don't want to see. Also it cuts down on the spam emails from scammers. When I had my photo's public, one girl messaged me & stated the platonic was only a screening tool, she told me on her first profile she received a lot of messages from guys of all races & ages, what she wanted a mid 30's to early 50's business exec guy type, she even stated it in her profile but no one respected it. She deleted that profile & created a new platonic one, & left it very generic.

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-24-19 10:53

I used to think like that too and it's a logical train of thought. First a couple of questions, have you hit it yet? If so please elaborate on the experience in detail. If not, then you haven't proven your point yet. Second, many members have declined the platonic invite and then been reported to SA by these girls for soliciting (they are usually the sensitive type,) and had their membership deleted.

I play the odds on these things. My guess is a platonic girl conversion rate is prob going to be 10% or less w so much hassle. If you are having a different experience then please share about it in detail so we can all benefit from what you have learned. IMHO, SA would be better for all of us if we just blocked all of the platonic, online and advanced payment girls so they get the message that this isn't the place for that nonsense. This would leave the girls that we all like who get how an arrangement works rather than trying to get money for nothing.

If you have found a new avenue to access these platonic girls, please share in detail your experience. School will be in session and I will be your first student. Ex: how many dates to get past platonic, did you get to FS? , allowance etc and how long did the arrangement last. I'm asking bc I have tried this numerous times and it's always beem annoying waste for me. In the meantime, I could snag 3-5 straight up SA girls with so much less effort and hassle.

Just my two cents.

Bojack.

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

I had one who wanted money for platonic meets. I declined with a polite "we have different goals. " A couple of weeks later she contacted me and asked if I was still interested. I told her my goals haven't changed, intimacy must be part of the arrangement. She said ok, let's give this a try and see where it goes. Lesson: Be nice. Sometimes they come back. Also, as mentioned on many of these boards, these girls talk with each other. A polite "no thanks" will get you better mileage with the next girl if she checks on you.

**Bross** · 09-24-19 10:45

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Bro that's a hard pass. She has a nice body but she has crazy prices listed on Eros like 500+ which is laughable for her looks and messed up haircut. Can do so much better on SA w a college hottie.

No doubt! Just putting the pieces together to save folks time!

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-24-19 10:34

Bro that's a hard pass. She has a nice body but she has crazy prices listed on Eros like 500+ which is laughable for her looks and messed up haircut. Can do so much better on SA w a college hottie.

Originally Posted by Bross [View Original Post]

This one is an Eros pro, aka Ava Raleigh (or is someone using her pics). Sounds like her tho.

https://www.seeking.com/member/46232...b-09ab92a20f03

https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta...8170.htm?cat=1

**Bross** · 09-24-19 10:19

Fellas,

Messaged this one in my daily carpet bombing of SA and got this response:

"So if you're cool with not having vaginal or anal sex then we can probably work something out.

Completely understand if it's a dealbreaker".

Trans or naw? Not hating or whatever but as Tone Loc said, "Aint got no plans wit a man".

https://www.seeking.com/member/d7bf4...7-62e6703b96a9

**NewAnonymousName** · 09-24-19 09:17

I have a couple regulars and would like to take a break from Seeking for a couple of months. I know messages disappear after 180 days even if you're still a paid member. But what about new messages if you go to a free membership for a few months? If I let my paid membership lapse at the end of the month, will my more recent message strings still be around when I start paying again in December or so?