"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Peter Johnson]

I'd recommend making an account from a different computer and possibly a VPN to change the IP address.

I always use a VPN, so maybe I should just use a different location for that, but it's a bit of a hassle to remember to change it and change it back to what I usually use, for other sites. Why do you think it needs to be a different computer though? I doubt they do browser fingerprinting or anything like that. I will just make a new acct and have to scrap all my old photos, which is too bad, because I liked some of those. But it's fine, and I can just share those off the site. It really wasn't great having real photos of me up there to begin with, even though they were all private.

[Jims2321]

I just heard back from them:

"Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Your account has been suspended, we do not allow soliciting sex in exchange for money. This is a major violation of our Terms of Use and is ILLEGAL.

We are NOT an escort or prostitution service and soliciting sex for money is strictly prohibited.

Your account is not eligible for restoration and you have been permanently BANNED from SeekingArrangement. Any continued activity on our website will result in further action. This is all the information we are able to provide. Any future inquiries about or for the same information will not receive a response.

Respectfully,

Yvonne.

SeekingArrangement Support".

I wrote them back and asked for a refund or I will do a chargeback. I used a prepaid card, so they don't have my real name, although I suppose they have my photos. . Anyway, I'll just make a new account before long and will use a different pic and put in my profile that more pics are available once we start chatting. The women don't really care anyway and just care about $$.

If I have to do the chargeback and it works, I'll make a new account and use it for 25 days or so and then just try another chargeback. If SA wants to try to steal from me, then two can play that game. But it may not go through. I really doubt they are going to refund my payment though.

I wish I could remember what I said that could have gotten me banned. I know that there were no specific $ amounts discussed and no "soliciting". I still think an angry SB reported me and they just feel like they have to play it safe and come down hard on anyway, because of the moral hysteria right now in USA around sex workers and their customers. Both the Right and the Left are both against consenting adults having sex, if any money is involved. Oh well, whatever and I'll just roll with the punches, as necessary.

That is their canned response. Far as I can tell, they randomly pick men on the site and suspend them. Just do the chargeback, let them fight it out with the credit card company (regardless of whether its a prepaid or not) and move on.

Jim.

[TechSticles]

I just heard back from them:

"Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Your account has been suspended, we do not allow soliciting sex in exchange for money. This is a major violation of our Terms of Use and is ILLEGAL.

We are NOT an escort or prostitution service and soliciting sex for money is strictly prohibited.

Your account is not eligible for restoration and you have been permanently BANNED from SeekingArrangement. Any continued activity on our website will result in further action. This is all the information we are able to provide. Any future inquiries about or for the same information will not receive a response.

Respectfully,

Yvonne.

SeekingArrangement Support".

I wrote them back and asked for a refund or I will do a chargeback. I used a prepaid card, so they don't have my real name, although I suppose they have my photos. . Anyway, I'll just make a new account before long and will use a different pic and put in my profile that more pics are available once we start chatting. The women don't really care anyway and just care about $$.

If I have to do the chargeback and it works, I'll make a new account and use it for 25 days or so and then just try another chargeback. If SA wants to try to steal from me, then two can play that game. But it may not go through. I really doubt they are going to refund my payment though.

I wish I could remember what I said that could have gotten me banned. I know that there were no specific $ amounts discussed and no "soliciting". I still think an angry SB reported me and they just feel like they have to play it safe and come down hard on anyway, because of the moral hysteria right now in USA around sex workers and their customers. Both the Right and the Left are both against consenting adults having sex, if any money is involved. Oh well, whatever and I'll just roll with the punches, as necessary.

I'd recommend making an account from a different computer and possibly a VPN to change the IP address.

[Peter Johnson]

I've had this happen before. I complained a bunch and threatened a chargeback and they wouldn't reinstate me, just refunded my money.

I just made a new profile with the $$ they sent back. Got a month and a half for the price of one.

I just heard back from them:

"Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Your account has been suspended, we do not allow soliciting sex in exchange for money. This is a major violation of our Terms of Use and is ILLEGAL.

We are NOT an escort or prostitution service and soliciting sex for money is strictly prohibited.

Your account is not eligible for restoration and you have been permanently BANNED from SeekingArrangement. Any continued activity on our website will result in further action. This is all the information we are able to provide. Any future inquiries about or for the same information will not receive a response.

Respectfully,

Yvonne.

SeekingArrangement Support".

I wrote them back and asked for a refund or I will do a chargeback. I used a prepaid card, so they don't have my real name, although I suppose they have my photos. . Anyway, I'll just make a new account before long and will use a different pic and put in my profile that more pics are available once we start chatting. The women don't really care anyway and just care about $$.

If I have to do the chargeback and it works, I'll make a new account and use it for 25 days or so and then just try another chargeback. If SA wants to try to steal from me, then two can play that game. But it may not go through. I really doubt they are going to refund my payment though.

I wish I could remember what I said that could have gotten me banned. I know that there were no specific $ amounts discussed and no "soliciting". I still think an angry SB reported me and they just feel like they have to play it safe and come down hard on anyway, because of the moral hysteria right now in USA around sex workers and their customers. Both the Right and the Left are both against consenting adults having sex, if any money is involved. Oh well, whatever and I'll just roll with the punches, as necessary.

[Peter Johnson]

So was trying to think of possible ways to pull of a quickie and not have to fork out for hotel fees and some bitches live too far from my office. About a year ago I thought of the truck stop shower idea.

So the stars aligned last weekend with one of my regulars who I thought might be cool with the idea. So I pull into the truck stop and inform her what's up. She tells me I'm crazy, but she has a some alcohol and maybe other stuff in her and finally rolls with the idea.

I pay the 14.00 fee and get my shower # and PIN access #. Was good size room w / sink / toilet and large shower, plenty of big soft towels and soap. Great blast of water from shower kept us both warm with no problem.

Turned out to be fun as hell and kind of exciting and she loved it. Positions are limited to mainly bend over and grab ankles or hands on the wall police frisk LOL. Maybe could do standing w / a spinner.

Combination of catching the nut and hot shower left us both walking out with a big smile on our face.

That's a great idea. I have used those showers before while traveling, and they are usually pretty nice. Like an overly large hotel room bathroom. Yes, the limited positions would be a downside.

When the weather is not too hot out, I have had some fun in the back of my SUV with a couple of the girls. I keep a makeshift bed back there anyway for camping, so it works really well. You just obviously have to find a good place to park, but windows are tinted and can eve do cowgirl and doggie if you are a bit flexible.

The best was an SA girl in NC that I hit up while I was traveling. I picked her up at her trailer park and found a nice spot and she just blew me and swallowed and gave her 1.0 and was on my way.

[CagerCoach]

Whoever sent me the contact info of the lady in Winder, PM me the number again.

[CagerCoach]

Guys! The sure thing girls are getting few and far between. Any one with info you are willing to share? You know I will share the good, bad and the ugly. I'm willing to travel 50 miles or so from the Gainesville area. Any help will be greatly appreciated and I will return the favor.

[Sgt Soros]

Leep12, you're a genius, what a fantastic idea!

So was trying to think of possible ways to pull of a quickie and not have to fork out for hotel fees and some bitches live too far from my office. About a year ago I thought of the truck stop shower idea.

So the stars aligned last weekend with one of my regulars who I thought might be cool with the idea. So I pull into the truck stop and inform her what's up. She tells me I'm crazy, but she has a some alcohol and maybe other stuff in her and finally rolls with the idea.

I pay the 14.00 fee and get my shower # and PIN access #. Was good size room w / sink / toilet and large shower, plenty of big soft towels and soap. Great blast of water from shower kept us both warm with no problem.

Turned out to be fun as hell and kind of exciting and she loved it. Positions are limited to mainly bend over and grab ankles or hands on the wall police frisk LOL. Maybe could do standing w / a spinner.

Combination of catching the nut and hot shower left us both walking out with a big smile on our face.

[Leep12]

So was trying to think of possible ways to pull of a quickie and not have to fork out for hotel fees and some bitches live too far from my office. About a year ago I thought of the truck stop shower idea.

So the stars aligned last weekend with one of my regulars who I thought might be cool with the idea. So I pull into the truck stop and inform her what's up. She tells me I'm crazy, but she has a some alcohol and maybe other stuff in her and finally rolls with the idea.

I pay the 14.00 fee and get my shower # and PIN access #. Was good size room w / sink / toilet and large shower, plenty of big soft towels and soap. Great blast of water from shower kept us both warm with no problem.

Turned out to be fun as hell and kind of exciting and she loved it. Positions are limited to mainly bend over and grab ankles or hands on the wall police frisk LOL. Maybe could do standing w / a spinner.

Combination of catching the nut and hot shower left us both walking out with a big smile on our face.

[DWinthrop]

I made a support ticket, trying to get my account reinstated and I see one of SA's sister sites is called What's Your Price" - https://www.whatsyourprice.com/..

It's just ironic that they ban for me supposedly offering money to a woman, yet they encourage it on seeking.com as well as the other sites they run.

But that one apparently is for simps who will pay a woman just to go on a first date with them. No thanks.

I wrote SA support and told them, nicely, that I really don't want to dispute the charge on my credit card and if they reinstate me account, they will just get more $ out of me. Even if I lost the dispute, I don't think it's good for a company to even have attempted chargebacks, so we'll see what happens. It's a matter of principle, more than anything else, at this point.

I've had this happen before. I complained a bunch and threatened a chargeback and they wouldn't reinstate me, just refunded my money.

I just made a new profile with the $$ they sent back. Got a month and a half for the price of one.

[Peter Johnson]

I made a support ticket, trying to get my account reinstated and I see one of SA's sister sites is called What's Your Price" - https://www.whatsyourprice.com/..

It's just ironic that they ban for me supposedly offering money to a woman, yet they encourage it on seeking.com as well as the other sites they run.

But that one apparently is for simps who will pay a woman just to go on a first date with them. No thanks.

I wrote SA support and told them, nicely, that I really don't want to dispute the charge on my credit card and if they reinstate me account, they will just get more $ out of me. Even if I lost the dispute, I don't think it's good for a company to even have attempted chargebacks, so we'll see what happens. It's a matter of principle, more than anything else, at this point.

[CarmelFight]

Is the Seeking message hack still working for anyone? I can't get it to work all of a sudden.

To refresh your memory, it was a way to read messages, even though your account was not active / paid:

Go to messages, then inspect element, then network then click on the message then go to the inbox element and the message you can't read is visible.

Nope they caught on, they fixed that bug so it doesn't work anymore.

[CoveyLeader43]

Recently chatted this one up.

https://www.seeking.com/member/62785...8-686f44336886

After some talk she said she preferred to meet with her friend for safety. So set up a 3 some with them (she claimed they were bi and would be a good time) was to be 250 per woman. Woman in profile is attractive kind of big ass. Friend was not attractive and seemed uninterested. We chatted a bit and play began the bi thing was Piper eating her friend for all of a minute. Then it became me struggling to have fun with one attractive woman and one that was not interested and trying her hardest to not be part of the action. Neither allows CIM or BB. Friend says she doesn't even like to suck the D. Sorry but I tried to find the friend on there but she admits to not using her photos. But all in all I'd call it a waste of 500 and just trying to save some others some coin.

I was chatting with the hot one also. We moved it to text. She then started with the I want to bring a friend thing and I lost interest at that point. I have found that the 2 girl thing is just a fantasy important to just a few dudes. It would be totally distracting for me also. $250 for the hot chick would be ok. I just had 0 interest in the friend. I'm glad I declined their offer. Thanks for giving everyone a heads up. BTW, was the hot chick good? Like how was her head game? She looked like she had a nice ass on her. She reminded me of a gymnast.

[CoveyLeader43]

This girl has had multiple profiles. I talked with her for a while and it started with her wanting me to make her car payment. She always had an excuse why she couldn't meet. The most common one was that she babysits and can't get away. I personally wouldn't waste my time, I think she's just looking for the poor guys that will just send her money.

Precisely. She tried to tell me she was hungry. I asked her how she normally got money for food and she said she did SA and babysitting and yet she was hungry? Made absolutely no sense. I'm blocking her right now. Thanks for the heads up on what I already felt was a chick who was a flake.

[HotRod229]

This girl has had multiple profiles. I talked with her for a while and it started with her wanting me to make her car payment. She always had an excuse why she couldn't meet. The most common one was that she babysits and can't get away. I personally wouldn't waste my time, I think she's just looking for the poor guys that will just send her money.

Yes has every excuse in the book not to meet for any things, wants to sell you pics.