"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Johnny Mapalo** · 01-21-19 10:33

Originally Posted by CoveyLeader43 [View Original Post]

My thoughts are that's a guy, 😂.

Originally Posted by Member#2227 [View Original Post]

Ok good. So it's not just me.

A lot of girls look like guys nowadays. LOL. The sign of the times. Girls shaving their heads and dressing like dudes and getting upset when someone ask them if they're male or female. LOL. That same chic favorited me, I see, a while back. I never knew until I clicked the link. I rarely message any of these chic's on there. I found that to be a complete waste of time contrary to what others say. That Sugar Daddy site is a waiting game. It's not a get laid right now site.

You just have to view profiles and sit back and wait for them to message you. Going around messaging random chic's is a complete waste of time in my honest opinion. And also I usually offer them $10-$20 cash app for some "hot body pics" to see what their bodies look like. Holding up 2 fingers does nothing for me if she's completely clothed while doing so. I need to see some actual flesh to see what her body looks like.

**SkyWalker21** · 01-21-19 10:13

Originally Posted by Member#2227 [View Original Post]

Ok good. So it's not just me.

She's not a guy. I chatted with her and got some other pics of her. Just got busy and she got lost in the shuffle and hustle. Have done some texting with her, and did some recon on her and her local Bball team. Just didn't have time to meet her at the moment.

Skywalker.

**Member #2227** · 01-21-19 09:50

Originally Posted by CoveyLeader43 [View Original Post]

My thoughts are that's a guy, 😂.

Ok good. So it's not just me.

**CoveyLeader43** · 01-21-19 09:40

Originally Posted by Member#2227 [View Original Post]

Any thoughts on this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/76809...b-a8f24df89326.

My thoughts are that's a guy, 😂.

**Ripvan12** · 01-21-19 01:38

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

I used to think the same way. Was worried I would scare a good one off by asking for additional pics. But that's thinking with a scarcity mindset. I can see if we were working SA in Iowa where the number of dudes might equal the number of chicks on the site, but in Atlanta with all these options you have to adapt an abundance mindset. In this day and age where people post everything online an extra pic or two isn't a big deal to a real potential treat. Those hesitant to send extra pics are counting on luring you in with their best angled / filtered shots on their profile. Ripper.

**Member #2227** · 01-20-19 22:24

Any thoughts on this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/76809...b-a8f24df89326.

**SkyWalker21** · 01-20-19 19:04

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

I never have a problem with them sending pics. I always ask for something not on the Site. All have complied so far. Sweet talking has helped me to get some sexy pics without even asking. Work the lingo, and the possibility of cash always helps.

Skywalker.

**CoveyLeader43** · 01-20-19 18:39

Originally Posted by TallGuy3000 [View Original Post]

I use Amex gift cards from Kroger. I had an issue with VISA / Mastercards a while back due to an issue with off shore processing by SA.

AMEX it is! Thanks for the info. I was worried about dropping the coin on one of those burner cards and not being able to sign up.

Regards,

CoveyL.

**SoonerFan72** · 01-20-19 16:25

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

Like I said before, if they are serious, why wouldn't they do it? I'm not asking for nudes, just a simple picture. If they arent willing to provide it, is it really worth chancing they are who they say they are? To me its a great way to weed out the flakes.

**LoVecchio** · 01-20-19 15:41

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

I have almost every girl I plan to meet send me a specific picture. Tell them to send a selfie standing in front of a mirror holding up a specific number of fingers. If they are legit, and interested, they should have no problems providing it. Its a really quick way to weed out the fakes. It also allows you to see exactly what they look like right now.

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

**SoonerFan72** · 01-20-19 14:12

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

How are you getting access to her Facebook page? I don't use facebook anymore so I'm just curious. Is it with her phone number or something? I'm asking because it's a good hack to see how accurate their SA pics are. I have just started adding 10 lbs in my head to the pics on SA now, they all use glamour shots, and it's annoying.

I have almost every girl I plan to meet send me a specific picture. Tell them to send a selfie standing in front of a mirror holding up a specific number of fingers. If they are legit, and interested, they should have no problems providing it. Its a really quick way to weed out the fakes. It also allows you to see exactly what they look like right now.

**BoJackSugarman** · 01-20-19 13:15

Originally Posted by HenryV [View Original Post]

Well y'all can have it; I don't want it. She stressed the importance of meeting 1st, very reasonable, but then got hung up on numbers. "My previous arrangement was 1-2 weekly visits depending on our schedules and 600 a week. " Smells like GPS. I find much easier SBs out here, YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/19e32...5-225bc2db82fe

She is lying through her teeth! She told me her last arrangement was 750 per week for 1-2 weeks and that was just a few days ago. I passed as well telling her it was too high. She said she was willing to work with me but I found a hottie next day and smashed sonlost interest. I bet you anything she came down to 6 after my response. Keep pinging this one, she will come down, but she isn't that hot anyway. The pics are her best glamour shots and she has some slight baby damage up front.

**QuartJess** · 01-20-19 12:27

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

How are you getting access to her Facebook page? I don't use facebook anymore so I'm just curious. Is it with her phone number or something? I'm asking because it's a good hack to see how accurate their SA pics are. I have just started adding 10 lbs in my head to the pics on SA now, they all use glamour shots, and it's annoying.

This one was simple, others are a little harder. I just plugged her number in Google and it gave me her name, then I searched for her name on facebook.

**BoJackSugarman** · 01-19-19 23:30

https://www.seeking.com/member/bcbad...f-f222e693dd57

Djinny.

Pros: She is a really nice single mom who is actually fairly intelligent and interesting in her own way. You can def hit this for free she straight up told me it isn't about the money for her. She just wants to be around men that are going somewhere in life. She seems fairly open sexually too although not a full on submissive but sounds promising. We talked about sex and she is DTF if she likes you.

Cons: She definitely is good with the camera and there is a reason there is no full body shot. She has a good bit of baby damage upfront and she is tall too (5'9') so she just comes off kinda like a linebacker, but she isn't overtly fat just some sloppy fat in the stomach and ass areas. Also, she is an introvert and very awkward socially so I was just bored with the conversation which lacked flow at times. I just had dinner and then left. I wasn't really feeling it, plus I had to meet some friends after. I gave her a goodnight kiss to gauge chemistry and it was awkward as hell LOL. I'm pretty sure if I said let's get a hotel room she would have been down, despite the awkward kiss but somehow I just didn't want to.

Damage $0, just dinner. I left it alone contemplating what to do. However, if you do hit it, do me a favor and give her something. She seems like a genuinely good person and is legitimately trying to do it all on her own, and is a good soul. I can't decide if I want to see her again and deal with baby damage and awkward introversion or not, plus she is way out in dalton. Part of me just wants to give the poor girl a hug.

**HenryV** · 01-19-19 23:29

Well y'all can have it; I don't want it. She stressed the importance of meeting 1st, very reasonable, but then got hung up on numbers. "My previous arrangement was 1-2 weekly visits depending on our schedules and 600 a week. " Smells like GPS. I find much easier SBs out here, YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/19e32...5-225bc2db82fe