"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**AtlGuide** · 12-21-18 13:31

I also tend to go after 18-19 year olds. They tend to be very flakey or straight to the point. I haven't found an in between.

Originally Posted by Snake27 [View Original Post]

I met a gorgeous 18 yo college Freshman off SA in October. Very pretty and a track athlete. She was new at the time and must be popular, as she has logged in frequently between October and now. At the M&G she was so scared she brought along a girlfriend, even though it was at a coffee shop. She asked what I could spend (my budget is 600 per mo for 3 visits plus ancillary costs like dinner and hotel) and she said "Wow, that's a lot for a platonic relationship. " The interview went fairly well but I figured it would not work out. I don't do platonic. Maybe when I'm 80. However, I always keep a positive attitude. The goals are to get laid and be safe. Being negative when things don't work out does not achieve the goal; you certainly won't get laid, and it might even provoke an unsafe reaction.

At the end of the M&G, to my surprise she asked for my phone number and an hour later she texted me, saying that she could see herself being intimate with me after she knew me better. Fair enough. I figured I'd take a gamble. Unfortunately, after 3 dates (dinner, shopping, a movie once) she still would not even kiss me! So I stopped contacting her. She continued to contact me, though, and I always answered. After a couple weeks of this, I finally invited her very politely to a hotel. She said she was not comfortable having sex, and I told her, again very politely, that we were not going to be compatible. Whew!

Then in early December, after chatting with another 18 yo for a few weeks on SA and leaving her my number, she texted me after a long delay. It turned out to be the first girl's girlfriend, the one who had come to the interview in October. I somehow had not recognized that from her profile pictures. She was a lot more businesslike, willing to skip the M&G since we had one, and she stated that she was ready to have sex, but for a high price, $400 ! She used escort terminology..

**HawkJock** · 12-21-18 12:53

Fellas,

For those that do SD / SB relationships, what did you get her for Christmas? I'm looking for ideas to round out what I've already done. So far, I got tickets for her and I to the nutcracker, high end dinner downtown, $250 Buckle gift card, $100 at her Tanning place, and $100 at her nail place. I'm looking for something tangible, discreet, that she can keep after this relationship has run its course and she can think back to the fun have had.

HJ.

**Ripvan12** · 12-21-18 12:49

Originally Posted by Dickson13 [View Original Post]

Greetings brothers. Any info on this one https://www.seeking.com/member/52b66...5-2f4681b23f11.

Have been chatting on and off with this one for a bit. I offered $. 5 per visit and she agreed quickly. However something about the convo and her responses continually stops me from pulling the trigger. Messaged me earlier this week saying she had a friend that was in town to play.

Likely going to pass. I have no time for drama. Ripper.

**Dickson13** · 12-21-18 01:36

Greetings brothers. Any info on this one https://www.seeking.com/member/52b66...5-2f4681b23f11.

She has been giving mixed signals and is on the heavier side, but wanted to see if anyone has sampled this watermelon before.

**LogJammin18** · 12-20-18 18:17

Originally Posted by FriendlyFiend9 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546

Met this one last week. No meet and greet, she came straight to my hotel room. She asked for 350 but quickly agreed to 250 (so quickly that I regretted not going much lower). She immediately got naked. Not nearly as fit as her pics, but she was cute. She was a fun time, but not open to bb.

I wouldn't hit her up again unless it was convenient or I was in heat, but she is a young, reliable, and nice girl.

Does anyone have info on these two?

Nicole0202 https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546.

I've got a nice conversation going with her. She's asking for a lot more than I usually go for but I might pull the trigger when she gets back in town.

No username https://www.seeking.com/member/f286f...6-3b37476782e6.

She's hot and mentioned her roommate wanting to join. She responds sporadically so I haven't had a chance to meet yet.

Happy Holiday Hunting guys!

And clear your inbox. I can give you all the info you want on them.

**LogJammin18** · 12-20-18 18:14

Originally Posted by FriendlyFiend9 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546

Met this one last week. No meet and greet, she came straight to my hotel room. She asked for 350 but quickly agreed to 250 (so quickly that I regretted not going much lower). She immediately got naked. Not nearly as fit as her pics, but she was cute. She was a fun time, but not open to bb.

I wouldn't hit her up again unless it was convenient or I was in heat, but she is a young, reliable, and nice girl.

Does anyone have info on these two?

Nicole0202 https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546.

I've got a nice conversation going with her. She's asking for a lot more than I usually go for but I might pull the trigger when she gets back in town.

No username https://www.seeking.com/member/f286f...6-3b37476782e6.

She's hot and mentioned her roommate wanting to join. She responds sporadically so I haven't had a chance to meet yet.

Happy Holiday Hunting guys!

I know "Nicole" and her roomie. What are they quoting you for a double. They will waste you time.

**FriendlyFiend9** · 12-20-18 16:07

Originally Posted by Zipper34 [View Original Post]

Your link to Nicole is bunny again.

Sorry about that! https://www.seeking.com/member/e125e...2-c78e41b9a548.

**TallStack** · 12-20-18 14:20

Originally Posted by Zipper34 [View Original Post]

Your link to Nicole is bunny again.

Found her in Athens currently, probably home on break.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e125e...2-c78e41b9a548

**Zipper34** · 12-20-18 06:55

Originally Posted by FriendlyFiend9 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546

Met this one last week. No meet and greet, she came straight to my hotel room. She asked for 350 but quickly agreed to 250 (so quickly that I regretted not going much lower). She immediately got naked. Not nearly as fit as her pics, but she was cute. She was a fun time, but not open to bb.

I wouldn't hit her up again unless it was convenient or I was in heat, but she is a young, reliable, and nice girl.

Does anyone have info on these two?

Nicole0202 https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546.

Your link to Nicole is bunny again.

**FriendlyFiend9** · 12-19-18 15:12

https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546

Met this one last week. No meet and greet, she came straight to my hotel room. She asked for 350 but quickly agreed to 250 (so quickly that I regretted not going much lower). She immediately got naked. Not nearly as fit as her pics, but she was cute. She was a fun time, but not open to bb.

I wouldn't hit her up again unless it was convenient or I was in heat, but she is a young, reliable, and nice girl.

Does anyone have info on these two?

Nicole0202 https://www.seeking.com/member/d13df...a-e4c04b4b2546.

I've got a nice conversation going with her. She's asking for a lot more than I usually go for but I might pull the trigger when she gets back in town.

No username https://www.seeking.com/member/f286f...6-3b37476782e6.

She's hot and mentioned her roommate wanting to join. She responds sporadically so I haven't had a chance to meet yet.

Happy Holiday Hunting guys!

**Snake27** · 12-19-18 13:12

I met a gorgeous 18 yo college Freshman off SA in October. Very pretty and a track athlete. She was new at the time and must be popular, as she has logged in frequently between October and now. At the M&G she was so scared she brought along a girlfriend, even though it was at a coffee shop. She asked what I could spend (my budget is 600 per mo for 3 visits plus ancillary costs like dinner and hotel) and she said "Wow, that's a lot for a platonic relationship. " The interview went fairly well but I figured it would not work out. I don't do platonic. Maybe when I'm 80. However, I always keep a positive attitude. The goals are to get laid and be safe. Being negative when things don't work out does not achieve the goal; you certainly won't get laid, and it might even provoke an unsafe reaction.

At the end of the M&G, to my surprise she asked for my phone number and an hour later she texted me, saying that she could see herself being intimate with me after she knew me better. Fair enough. I figured I'd take a gamble. Unfortunately, after 3 dates (dinner, shopping, a movie once) she still would not even kiss me! So I stopped contacting her. She continued to contact me, though, and I always answered. After a couple weeks of this, I finally invited her very politely to a hotel. She said she was not comfortable having sex, and I told her, again very politely, that we were not going to be compatible. Whew!

Then in early December, after chatting with another 18 yo for a few weeks on SA and leaving her my number, she texted me after a long delay. It turned out to be the first girl's girlfriend, the one who had come to the interview in October. I somehow had not recognized that from her profile pictures. She was a lot more businesslike, willing to skip the M&G since we had one, and she stated that she was ready to have sex, but for a high price, $400 ! She used escort terminology. As I demurred she asked what I could spend, I said 200. To my surprise, she agreed. I haven't hooked up with her yet. I would prefer someone more on the naive semi-innocent end of the spectrum than on the expensive escort end. I know that some will argue that it's all the same. We will have to see what happens. The SB sites are a good reminder of the adage "don't count your chickens before they are hatch. " Another possible lesson is that I cannot do much on my budget. C'est la vie.

There are a lot of discussions about the 18 yo girls on the SB threads. Some say to avoid them: too flakey and too expensive. Others, and I tend to agree with this, say "go young". At least they have a good reason to be single and if they are in college they have a modicum of intelligence (important if you plan to talk to them) and they need the support for a legitimate reason without being too desperate. If they actually like you, the expense might be controlled. However, if someone asks for 400, I think it's a bad sign. She is probably out of my league.

**LoriTruck** · 12-18-18 14:31

https://www.seeking.com/member/abb8a...e-edda73a892d4

Any info on her? We were supposed to meet for drinks but she was running late so I canceled.

**AbeLincolnn** · 12-18-18 04:27

Originally Posted by Chaparrolo [View Original Post]

I was a premium member of the seeking (arrangement) site back in April or may for a month only, got what I wanted out of it and deleted the app and today I wanted to download the app again but for some reason idk why I couldn't find it in the Apple store. Anyone knows anything?

If you want to use seeking (arrangement) on your phone, go to safari and type in "www.seeking.com".

Its not as convenient as the app, but its the only alternative for now. Unless you want to switch to an android.