"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Leep12]

Would love some professional perspective on this. I recently met absolutely gorgeous 26 year-old white girl from a cuddling site. We seem to have developed a connection. I pay $80 an hour when we are in her bed cuddling. Which has lately turned into her naked and great kissing but no sex. When we head out to do things there's no money exchanged we just have a good time. I am taking her away to the shore for a few days this week and really looking forward to the time. She's made it clear she's looking forward to sex and that's it's just about us. No cuddling money. I have no desire that this is going to be a girlfriend as I'm in a relationship and much much older. Nevertheless I'm intrigued about what I stumbled into and would like some thoughts.

Also. On the web she has a few minor sites and sells pretty harmless of topless videos and photos of herself. She will frequently text to say hi or that she's missing me. She expressed how glad she is we met and that she's hoping it's long term. I'm curious as to what this all means. New ground for an old monger.

I guess I first wonder what use a cuddling service is when you can get a 60 min rub and tug for about the same money, unless they are catering to dudes with ED.

If you are in ATL and going to a "shore" that is no small trip. I think it is pretty typical that the sex be free and plentiful in this type of case as are paying travel / hotel / food and incidentals so I tend to take the deal at face value especially if she made the suggestion to go.

Lot of these millinennial chicks are crazy and will F you brains out just so they can take pictures from somewhere nice and post on social media.

That said, you are no rookie and keep your guard up and careful with cards and cash etc and don't get lured into anything dumb. I like to size up their financial situation and career to see how much they are counting on the sex biz for money, if it is mostly for sport or they really need the income? Other than that bring some lube and blue pills and enjoy. Just my opinion.

[CarmelFight]

A chick's first message to you is asking for money. What do you think is going to happen? If any lady asks for money before you have even seen her, block her and move on to the next one otherwise you are going to end up short some cash and with nothing to show for it.

Yes, however she has been reviewed on here and favorable. My question was really has she started skimping instead of actual SB now??

[CarmelFight]

I've personally met with her a few months back. Met at a spot not too far from Camp Creek. She wants 300, and that's why I haven't seen her again. But the time we spent together was well worth the cash spent (150 for 2 hours). Great sex, but search back and you'll see I posted more details.

Any babe asking for cash upfront, want to see how gullible you are. If they don't want to receive after giving, press on. I don't give up the cash until the deed is done and if the services were up to par.

Great advice! I kinda stopped talking to her after mutiple messages she sent with no reply so moved on. SA is a lot different from what I'm use too. Seems like more escorts than actual SB with a lot more scammers wanting to sell pics and vids. Like really?

[SkyWalker21]

Hey guys new to the site, but not new to the hobby. Saw some good reviews about Laney on here sentt her message. She replied back asking for money to get something to eat and is starving? Has no SD's that will help out which by some of the reviews I'm sure she has few of you guys LOL. I've had a few SB's that have moved on with life and was looking to see what's out there. Question is she pulling a scam now or what?

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a6c0...2-b36927140544

I've personally met with her a few months back. Met at a spot not too far from Camp Creek. She wants 300, and that's why I haven't seen her again. But the time we spent together was well worth the cash spent (150 for 2 hours). Great sex, but search back and you'll see I posted more details.

Any babe asking for cash upfront, want to see how gullible you are. If they don't want to receive after giving, press on. I don't give up the cash until the deed is done and if the services were up to par.

[LogJammin18]

Hi guys. First time poster here. I have had a fantastic week, and need to share. Figured you all would appreciate it.

Let me begin by pointing out that my tastes run different than most of the posters here. I filter for college educated woman who are at least 25. I like them smart and selective, with a great sense of humor. I appreciate getting to know potential babies, including going on dates, intelligent conversation, etc. The advantages to this approach: 1) I am clear that once we meet and get a certain level of trust established, there will not be daily contact and 2) once I get their clothes off, I am very, very rarely disappointed. I know this approach is not the norm, but to each their own, right?

Also, I know that I am not posting links. I am not doing so because the vast majority of posts her with links are either inquiries about certain ladies or a less than stellar review that generally includes the phrase, "Will not repeat. " 3 for 3, the ladies described below were stellar and I absolutely will repeat. Also, all three would be pissed if I posted a link (and I do not want any of them to be pissed) Finally, they are all three in Memphis and would do most of you no good. That being said, if any of you are interested, feel free to reach out in PM and I might share details if I don't think it will blow up on me. But know that all three will require conversation and probably some wining and dining.

The plan for the week of Thanksgiving:

Monday-Tuesday: I am a bachelor in ATL for a few days.

Wednesday: I fly to Memphis for the holiday.

Thursday: Thanksgiving.

Friday-Saturday: No plans in Memphis.

Sunday: Fly back to ATL.

How I used this plan:

Monday: Dinner with girlfriend #1. She is not a baby. Just a married woman who is unappreciated and unbelievably kinky. Unfortunately, I was still wrecked from a weekend cold, so dinner was all we shared. I was disappointed, but was honestly not up for anything more.

Tuesday: Visit with girlfriend #2. Again, not a baby, but a recent divorcee who is rebuilding her confidence. Ate a couple of edibles and had a few cocktails. Sex with her was awesome both times, but I won't share details since she is not a baby.

Wednesday: Supposed to fly to Memphis on a 7 o'clock-ish outbound, but changed to an early flight. Met Baby #1 for drinks in Memphis at 5. She is an elementary school teacher. 28, with rainbow hair. Curvy in exactly the right ways. Take her to dinner. She is smart, sexy, funny and engaging. As dinner is wrapping up, I ask what she wants to do next. Her answer: "My place is just around the corner. ".

Head to her place. She gives me a thirty second tour and we start kissing in the kitchen. Moved to her bedroom and clothes start coming off. She likes the lights on. I go down for DATY until she comes. She sits up and starts some of the sloppiest deep throat I have ever seen, much less experienced. In fact, I pondered just finishing there. But I did not. Condom on- missionary with her legs on my shoulders; she can't quite get there again. She rolls over for doggie and pulls out vibrator. She comes at least three times. Likes to be spanked and choked. Dirty talk gets her motor running.

Finished in doggie. We both had places to be then, so no round two. I drove her back to her car. Promised to be in touch next time I am in town.

Thursday: Thanksgiving, so no shenanigans. But I did check into the hotel for Friday.

Friday: Met Baby #2 at a Starbucks at 8 AM. She is a married, Hispanic grad student. Great ass. Meeting was to confirm the in person attraction. Had already discussed intimate details / desires / pics etc. We were naked in the hotel room by 830. Man, her tongue. Super long and super strong. Felt great in my mouth and her head game was on point. Spent a couple of hours in that room. She really enjoys 69, which is fine by me. She also loves doggie. I lost count of her orgasms, but she comes both on her clit and g-spot. As we were showering, she said it was the best sex of her life; while I am mindful of her motive to bullshit me, she seemed very sincere. Was in a great mood for the rest of the day.

Saturday: In some ways, Baby #3 was the most complicated experience, but I am glad it worked out the way that it did. We met for coffee. Had planned to head over to her place if everything went well. She had let me know (before leaving) that she had a last minute sitter issue and the sitter was at her place with her kid. I figured I had nothing going on anyway, so why not meet for coffee.

So we meet. Have coffee. She is a journalist. Early 30's. Long brown hair and big boobs. She wears glasses and makes the sexy librarian thing really work. We talk for a couple of hours. Coffee turns into lunch. She says twice how she wishes her place was available. After lunch, we each head our own ways, having kissed several times and me touching some of her better parts.

Unforseeably, I ended up being free that night. I reach out to her, and what do you know? She is too. I pick her up, take her to dinner and suggest a hotel room (her sitter issue being the same). She enthusiatiacally agrees. We check in and are naked in minutes. She is very submissive. She liked to ask for permission before orgasming. I told her "no" once and spanked her when she did it anyway. She is one of the unicorns who comes mostly from sex. Only regret is that I could only manage one round. I could have gotten number 2 in if I had 30 more minutes, but I had someplace to be before questions started getting asked.

I drove her home, kissed her goodby and promised to reach out next time I was in town. She may be coming to ATL soon and promised to reach out.

Sunday: Got on a plane and slept most of the way back.

I expressed my appreciation to each of the babies by giving them $300. I know there are those who will lambast me for offering too much, but I am unbothered. I had a really good time and wanted to build future good will. None of the three are women that are in the pool of women who will affect the market rates. Finally, they are all hundreds of miles away.

All in all, what was promising to be a dull and slow week turned into a magnificent one.

Happy hunting you guys.

Great first post. Stick to 200. Even if you can and want to give more. Bros before hoes.

[PrinceOfFools]

Hey guys new to the site, but not new to the hobby. Saw some good reviews about Laney on here sentt her message. She replied back asking for money to get something to eat and is starving? Has no SD's that will help out which by some of the reviews I'm sure she has few of you guys LOL. I've had a few SB's that have moved on with life and was looking to see what's out there. Question is she pulling a scam now or what?

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a6c0...2-b36927140544

A chick's first message to you is asking for money. What do you think is going to happen? If any lady asks for money before you have even seen her, block her and move on to the next one otherwise you are going to end up short some cash and with nothing to show for it.

[Focker 2]

Hey guys new to the site, but not new to the hobby. Saw some good reviews about Laney on here sentt her message. She replied back asking for money to get something to eat and is starving? Has no SD's that will help out which by some of the reviews I'm sure she has few of you guys LOL. I've had a few SB's that have moved on with life and was looking to see what's out there. Question is she pulling a scam now or what?

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a6c0...2-b36927140544

She's definitely baiting for some quick cashapp send. Rule of thumb#1: Never prepay dude.

[CarmelFight]

Hey guys new to the site, but not new to the hobby. Saw some good reviews about Laney on here sentt her message. She replied back asking for money to get something to eat and is starving? Has no SD's that will help out which by some of the reviews I'm sure she has few of you guys LOL. I've had a few SB's that have moved on with life and was looking to see what's out there. Question is she pulling a scam now or what?

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a6c0...2-b36927140544

[Petruchio]

Hi guys. First time poster here. I have had a fantastic week, and need to share. Figured you all would appreciate it.

Let me begin by pointing out that my tastes run different than most of the posters here. I filter for college educated woman who are at least 25. I like them smart and selective, with a great sense of humor. I appreciate getting to know potential babies, including going on dates, intelligent conversation, etc. The advantages to this approach: 1) I am clear that once we meet and get a certain level of trust established, there will not be daily contact and 2) once I get their clothes off, I am very, very rarely disappointed. I know this approach is not the norm, but to each their own, right?

Also, I know that I am not posting links. I am not doing so because the vast majority of posts her with links are either inquiries about certain ladies or a less than stellar review that generally includes the phrase, "Will not repeat. " 3 for 3, the ladies described below were stellar and I absolutely will repeat. Also, all three would be pissed if I posted a link (and I do not want any of them to be pissed) Finally, they are all three in Memphis and would do most of you no good. That being said, if any of you are interested, feel free to reach out in PM and I might share details if I don't think it will blow up on me. But know that all three will require conversation and probably some wining and dining.

The plan for the week of Thanksgiving:

Monday-Tuesday: I am a bachelor in ATL for a few days.

Wednesday: I fly to Memphis for the holiday.

Thursday: Thanksgiving.

Friday-Saturday: No plans in Memphis.

Sunday: Fly back to ATL.

How I used this plan:

Monday: Dinner with girlfriend #1. She is not a baby. Just a married woman who is unappreciated and unbelievably kinky. Unfortunately, I was still wrecked from a weekend cold, so dinner was all we shared. I was disappointed, but was honestly not up for anything more.

Tuesday: Visit with girlfriend #2. Again, not a baby, but a recent divorcee who is rebuilding her confidence. Ate a couple of edibles and had a few cocktails. Sex with her was awesome both times, but I won't share details since she is not a baby.

Wednesday: Supposed to fly to Memphis on a 7 o'clock-ish outbound, but changed to an early flight. Met Baby #1 for drinks in Memphis at 5. She is an elementary school teacher. 28, with rainbow hair. Curvy in exactly the right ways. Take her to dinner. She is smart, sexy, funny and engaging. As dinner is wrapping up, I ask what she wants to do next. Her answer: "My place is just around the corner. ".

Head to her place. She gives me a thirty second tour and we start kissing in the kitchen. Moved to her bedroom and clothes start coming off. She likes the lights on. I go down for DATY until she comes. She sits up and starts some of the sloppiest deep throat I have ever seen, much less experienced. In fact, I pondered just finishing there. But I did not. Condom on- missionary with her legs on my shoulders; she can't quite get there again. She rolls over for doggie and pulls out vibrator. She comes at least three times. Likes to be spanked and choked. Dirty talk gets her motor running.

Finished in doggie. We both had places to be then, so no round two. I drove her back to her car. Promised to be in touch next time I am in town.

Thursday: Thanksgiving, so no shenanigans. But I did check into the hotel for Friday.

Friday: Met Baby #2 at a Starbucks at 8 AM. She is a married, Hispanic grad student. Great ass. Meeting was to confirm the in person attraction. Had already discussed intimate details / desires / pics etc. We were naked in the hotel room by 830. Man, her tongue. Super long and super strong. Felt great in my mouth and her head game was on point. Spent a couple of hours in that room. She really enjoys 69, which is fine by me. She also loves doggie. I lost count of her orgasms, but she comes both on her clit and g-spot. As we were showering, she said it was the best sex of her life; while I am mindful of her motive to bullshit me, she seemed very sincere. Was in a great mood for the rest of the day.

Saturday: In some ways, Baby #3 was the most complicated experience, but I am glad it worked out the way that it did. We met for coffee. Had planned to head over to her place if everything went well. She had let me know (before leaving) that she had a last minute sitter issue and the sitter was at her place with her kid. I figured I had nothing going on anyway, so why not meet for coffee.

So we meet. Have coffee. She is a journalist. Early 30's. Long brown hair and big boobs. She wears glasses and makes the sexy librarian thing really work. We talk for a couple of hours. Coffee turns into lunch. She says twice how she wishes her place was available. After lunch, we each head our own ways, having kissed several times and me touching some of her better parts.

Unforseeably, I ended up being free that night. I reach out to her, and what do you know? She is too. I pick her up, take her to dinner and suggest a hotel room (her sitter issue being the same). She enthusiatiacally agrees. We check in and are naked in minutes. She is very submissive. She liked to ask for permission before orgasming. I told her "no" once and spanked her when she did it anyway. She is one of the unicorns who comes mostly from sex. Only regret is that I could only manage one round. I could have gotten number 2 in if I had 30 more minutes, but I had someplace to be before questions started getting asked.

I drove her home, kissed her goodby and promised to reach out next time I was in town. She may be coming to ATL soon and promised to reach out.

Sunday: Got on a plane and slept most of the way back.

I expressed my appreciation to each of the babies by giving them $300. I know there are those who will lambast me for offering too much, but I am unbothered. I had a really good time and wanted to build future good will. None of the three are women that are in the pool of women who will affect the market rates. Finally, they are all hundreds of miles away.

All in all, what was promising to be a dull and slow week turned into a magnificent one.

Happy hunting you guys.

[DL500]

She is legit, but has acute GPS.

Says she makes 1500 a day from her normal job and wants between 800 and 1200 per meet. I told her that if she makes that much, I would be happy to be her sugar baby. I know some simps would still give her that, but for me, that's probably about 8 younger girls at that range.

No thanks!!

I appreciate the "heads" up. And I'll also pass on that one.

Thanks DL.

[Ozymandias]

Would love some professional perspective on this. I recently met absolutely gorgeous 26 year-old white girl from a cuddling site. We seem to have developed a connection. I pay $80 an hour when we are in her bed cuddling. Which has lately turned into her naked and great kissing but no sex. When we head out to do things there's no money exchanged we just have a good time. I am taking her away to the shore for a few days this week and really looking forward to the time. She's made it clear she's looking forward to sex and that's it's just about us. No cuddling money. I have no desire that this is going to be a girlfriend as I'm in a relationship and much much older. Nevertheless I'm intrigued about what I stumbled into and would like some thoughts.

Also. On the web she has a few minor sites and sells pretty harmless of topless videos and photos of herself. She will frequently text to say hi or that she's missing me. She expressed how glad she is we met and that she's hoping it's long term. I'm curious as to what this all means. New ground for an old monger.

I can almost promise that she's running a long game on you; she sounds like a masterful manipulator. A cuddling site is probably her turkey shoot.

She's certainly fucking *someone*, and in my (considerable) experience, "no cuddling money" is a preface to a bigger money play (this is the pay for play version of "no money down!").

Anyway, up to you how you play this, but in my best robot voice: "Danger Will Robinson!

O.

[Peter Johnson]

Would love some professional perspective on this. I recently met absolutely gorgeous 26 year-old white girl from a cuddling site. We seem to have developed a connection. I pay $80 an hour when we are in her bed cuddling. Which has lately turned into her naked and great kissing but no sex. When we head out to do things there's no money exchanged we just have a good time. I am taking her away to the shore for a few days this week and really looking forward to the time. She's made it clear she's looking forward to sex and that's it's just about us. No cuddling money. I have no desire that this is going to be a girlfriend as I'm in a relationship and much much older. Nevertheless I'm intrigued about what I stumbled into and would like some thoughts.

Also. On the web she has a few minor sites and sells pretty harmless of topless videos and photos of herself. She will frequently text to say hi or that she's missing me. She expressed how glad she is we met and that she's hoping it's long term. I'm curious as to what this all means. New ground for an old monger.

That sounds interesting and I wonder how many guys can cuddle with a young attractive woman without at least trying something. It sounds like sweet torture. What is the name of the cuddling site if you don't mind letting us know.

As far as the rest of it, that is difficult to figure out, but be careful with her getting too attached to you, especially if you have a SO. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned and you don't need your cuddle bunny going psycho on you and ruining your life if you don't return her affections or whatever else she may expect. I'm not saying to break it off or move it forward or whatever, but just be careful. Maybe she did develop sincere feelings for you, but remember that most of those girls are mercenary and more likely it is some kind of manipulation. However, as long as you both get what you need out of it, all that is fine and we don't want complete honesty from these women, just not scary deceitful behavior. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

[Member #2227]

I will take her off your hands if needed.

Ha. Nope she mine!

[Bhach]

Out of curiousity, what is the site you met her from? I've never heard of a "cuddling site" before.

I will take her off your hands if needed.

[Focker 2]

Would love some professional perspective on this. I recently met absolutely gorgeous 26 year-old white girl from a cuddling site. We seem to have developed a connection. I pay $80 an hour when we are in her bed cuddling. Which has lately turned into her naked and great kissing but no sex. When we head out to do things there's no money exchanged we just have a good time. I am taking her away to the shore for a few days this week and really looking forward to the time. She's made it clear she's looking forward to sex and that's it's just about us. No cuddling money. I have no desire that this is going to be a girlfriend as I'm in a relationship and much much older. Nevertheless I'm intrigued about what I stumbled into and would like some thoughts.

Also. On the web she has a few minor sites and sells pretty harmless of topless videos and photos of herself. She will frequently text to say hi or that she's missing me. She expressed how glad she is we met and that she's hoping it's long term. I'm curious as to what this all means. New ground for an old monger.

Out of curiousity, what is the site you met her from? I've never heard of a "cuddling site" before.