"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**SugarDaddio** · 09-07-18 22:39

I'm sure if I search this forum deep enough I could find the answers to my questions but the things these women put on their "Seeking" really confuses me sometimes. Some are simple like "friends with benefits, no strings attached, discretion" etc. I pretty much take that as she is probably DTF. Then you see the "platonic" meaning to me you are going to have blue balls with this one (and by the way why would any guy reach out to a woman with platonic unless he is really up for a challenge, too much effort for me LOL). Then there are the money ones which I get, that is why they are here after all but those can be vague and not tell you what you really want to know (are they DTF). The ones that really confuse me are the combo of "fwb, nsa etc with platonic". OMG what the hell does that mean LOL. Now let me get off of my soapbox and say is that SA has been awesome for me. I travel most every week for work and I usually have multiple hookups arranged prior to the week I travel to a city. More pussy than I ever thought this old bald headed guy could ever get.

Be safe and have oh so much fun all.

SD.

**QuartJess** · 09-07-18 21:28

Originally Posted by DesiLover28 [View Original Post]

I had scheduled to meet her a while back, she is real and stays in Alpharetta and has her own room as she has a male roomie. I didn't meet her because tbh she's not all that and the money she's asking for does not match up with her appearance. There was another member who met up with her and complained about her being a dead fish and being a stinker. So its YMMV and tbh toftt. Your call.

I decided against meeting up. Just not enough positive comments from those who've met with her previously. I'll save my cash for another day.

**FarFarAway** · 09-07-18 18:06

Originally Posted by SurferDude7 [View Original Post]

I'm sure someone has got a method for meeting their SB in a public place and being discreet. I'm trying to figure out the best type of place to meet to either not be seen by anyone I know, or have a hell of a good reason why I'm with a woman way younger than me. What tactics do you fellow mongers use if you are trying very hard to be discreet?

Ideally, she's be someone you could pass off as your love child from an old fling that your SO doesn't know about, so you'd appreciate your friend you ran into keeping it under his hat. Also, of course, no PDA. I like to go to hotel bars and restaurants, most everyone there is from out of town, less of a chance you'll be spotted.

**Sgt Soros** · 09-07-18 17:34

Originally Posted by SurferDude7 [View Original Post]

I'm sure someone has got a method for meeting their SB in a public place and being discreet. I'm trying to figure out the best type of place to meet to either not be seen by anyone I know, or have a hell of a good reason why I'm with a woman way younger than me. What tactics do you fellow mongers use if you are trying very hard to be discreet?

The best policy is not to take a dump where you eat!

**DesiLover28** · 09-07-18 17:12

Originally Posted by QuartJess [View Original Post]

Good evening. Does anyone have experience with this gal here? Thinking about pulling a meet up.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12fb...c-9f79d84f10ac

I had scheduled to meet her a while back, she is real and stays in Alpharetta and has her own room as she has a male roomie. I didn't meet her because tbh she's not all that and the money she's asking for does not match up with her appearance. There was another member who met up with her and complained about her being a dead fish and being a stinker. So its YMMV and tbh toftt. Your call.

**SurferDude7** · 09-07-18 16:41

I'm sure someone has got a method for meeting their SB in a public place and being discreet. I'm trying to figure out the best type of place to meet to either not be seen by anyone I know, or have a hell of a good reason why I'm with a woman way younger than me. What tactics do you fellow mongers use if you are trying very hard to be discreet?

**AtlGuide** · 09-07-18 13:21

Originally Posted by SurferDude7 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any information on these?

SexxxiiiKaycee.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4bab9...1-ce22cd00b45c

Colombian_hunny.

https://www.seeking.com/member/63238...c-9e60bb2cc72e

Lilaclex.

https://www.seeking.com/member/90708...a-cb3226c5c608

Thanks to everyone who participates on this board, it is a life saver.

I met the second one last year. Her pics are probably that old too but she looksa as good as her picture. I didn't go any further than just dinner with her because I had other options at the time.

**Puttu3178** · 09-07-18 13:12

Originally Posted by NGASugarMan [View Original Post]

Brandi quit SA a few months ago. My current one is still on SA, but hasn't logged back in since we started meeting up. I keep an eye on SA, if Brandi pops back on, you'll see her profile show up if you search Gainesville and age 24. Her profile pic was close enough to the pic I posted for you to find her.

I wrote a small guide of my experiences a while ago, and these unicorn types are pretty much worthless to share (especially those asking for digits). I've ended up finding one each time I joined SA for a month, and all three were close to the same (First one was single, but broke up with a long-term BF). But, they are pretty damn hesitant. Two were close to quitting, but I had started to converse with them while they were on. The first one had quit SA completely after we had moved to text (but hadn't met yet). There is a pretty steep barrier to these girls. They are just like the normal, real SA babies, but even more hesitant, because they aren't quit as sexually experienced, or are far more "religious" than say a Ludas who I've talked about.

The problem I have with these types, is after all the work put in to breaking them in, It doesn't seem to last more than a few months. The effort and time put in to breaking them in, they want to either have a relationship, they don't want to settle into a hook-up / meet to fuck routine, or they are find a BF because they realize I don't want a relationship. I become the stop gap for them as they transitioned from being crushed in their marriage / break-up to recovering and starting to look for a new real relationship. I'm fine with that, but for the work put in, I'd like a little longer pussy return, LOL!

Thanks for the information.

**The Bird Man** · 09-07-18 12:02

Originally Posted by NGASugarMan [View Original Post]

My latest SA go around (last month) was my third SA dip. WAY more scammers and pretending Backpage chicks than the first two times! I also noticed the Facebook lookup wasn't as helpful as in times past. I think either Facebook default locked down search settings better, or women are realizing they need to secure their Facebook profiles.

This is why I'm hesitant to invest 80 chips in SA with limited guarantees. The value of a dollar still remains, I can't see myself wasting the 80 for the hope of meeting an "elite" or "low-key"provider. There's so much one can do with 80, despite ones income bracket.

**AtlEyez** · 09-07-18 11:51

Originally Posted by SkyWalker21 [View Original Post]

Brother,

You have to set all expectations up front. When you get to the point of texting, be clear about what you want. I usually say: I'm only available 2-4 times a month. Limited time due to busy work schedule, blah, blah, blah. I also say, that sexual intimacy is a must because I haven't had any in quite a few months. But I need an emotional, intellectual, connection too (Hmmm). Then we get into conversations about what they are ok with sexually. I had 1 tell me she doesn't catch (You know how that went, She catches), same one said she doesn't do anal. By the 2nd meeting, she was doing anal (Not my thing, but I had to use the Jedi powers on her). You got to listen to some of them to gauge their needs. That let's you know your Allowance starting point. She has to be Super fine, and down for it all before I move up to $$, or even $$$(Haven't done that yet, because had a couple ask for it).

So just be straightforward and gentlemanly about it, or you'll get took, and no Allowance until the Deed is done!

Is it usually $ to $.5?

**Dogs22** · 09-07-18 10:50

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

I've been messaging with a couple different ladies over a couple weeks as they are slow to respond. Finally got their cell numbers, but they are out of state (ny and Oklahoma). Neither are supposedly students either so wouldn't expect that.

Just thought that was strange and wanted to see what y'all thought. Thanks.

No worries for me with out of state numbers. 90% of the girls I meet anywhere have out of state numbers. It just means people move and keep their hometown numbers.

**NGASugarMan** · 09-07-18 10:07

Brandi quit SA a few months ago. My current one is still on SA, but hasn't logged back in since we started meeting up. I keep an eye on SA, if Brandi pops back on, you'll see her profile show up if you search Gainesville and age 24. Her profile pic was close enough to the pic I posted for you to find her.

I wrote a small guide of my experiences a while ago, and these unicorn types are pretty much worthless to share (especially those asking for digits). I've ended up finding one each time I joined SA for a month, and all three were close to the same (First one was single, but broke up with a long-term BF). But, they are pretty damn hesitant. Two were close to quitting, but I had started to converse with them while they were on. The first one had quit SA completely after we had moved to text (but hadn't met yet). There is a pretty steep barrier to these girls. They are just like the normal, real SA babies, but even more hesitant, because they aren't quit as sexually experienced, or are far more "religious" than say a Ludas who I've talked about.

The problem I have with these types, is after all the work put in to breaking them in, It doesn't seem to last more than a few months. The effort and time put in to breaking them in, they want to either have a relationship, they don't want to settle into a hook-up / meet to fuck routine, or they are find a BF because they realize I don't want a relationship. I become the stop gap for them as they transitioned from being crushed in their marriage / break-up to recovering and starting to look for a new real relationship. I'm fine with that, but for the work put in, I'd like a little longer pussy return, LOL!

Originally Posted by Puttu3178 [View Original Post]

Hello,

Can you please share the SA links?

**NGASugarMan** · 09-07-18 09:38

My latest SA go around (last month) was my third SA dip. WAY more scammers and pretending Backpage chicks than the first two times! I also noticed the Facebook lookup wasn't as helpful as in times past. I think either Facebook default locked down search settings better, or women are realizing they need to secure their Facebook profiles.

Originally Posted by TheJasonator [View Original Post]

I have been recently seeing more and more ladies have been now looking like they are using burners or something as recently I I've got about 2 out of town numbers.

**SurferDude7** · 09-07-18 07:36

Anyone have any information on these?

SexxxiiiKaycee.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4bab9...1-ce22cd00b45c

Colombian_hunny.

https://www.seeking.com/member/63238...c-9e60bb2cc72e

Lilaclex.

https://www.seeking.com/member/90708...a-cb3226c5c608

Thanks to everyone who participates on this board, it is a life saver.

**QuartJess** · 09-06-18 21:30

Originally Posted by TheJasonator [View Original Post]

She's real. There's a few post about her in here. She is by the Alpharetta area and she does have her own place. Plus there might be a " guy roommate" that stays there and a dog.

Ok, thanks. I'll look.