Seeking Arrangements

**Dump My Goo** · 03-05-18 22:30

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Hit up this young hottie. Lots of texting / sexting, sent photos of her semi naked -- but never with face showing.

Agreed to meet, allowance, activities for the night. Messaged back and forth for several days before I came to town.

90 minutes before our meeting, she says she's running a little late, so maybe 630. Silence after that. Phone went straight to voicemail.

Never asked for a penny in advance, so no scam there. But why did she put in so much effort messaging? The vagaries of woman's mind. All I can think is she found a better $/ hr offer.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-aac6be824cc1

Looks fake to me. Profile says she is 21 but has had a SA account since 2012? So she joined at age 15? Hmmm.

**Spill** · 03-05-18 15:54

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Hit up this young hottie. Lots of texting / sexting, sent photos of her semi naked -- but never with face showing.

Agreed to meet, allowance, activities for the night. Messaged back and forth for several days before I came to town.

90 minutes before our meeting, she says she's running a little late, so maybe 630. Silence after that. Phone went straight to voicemail.

Never asked for a penny in advance, so no scam there. But why did she put in so much effort messaging? The vagaries of woman's mind. All I can think is she found a better $/ hr offer.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-aac6be824cc1

I think sometimes they just chicken out.

**Ernest Ll** · 03-05-18 11:48

Hit up this young hottie. Lots of texting / sexting, sent photos of her semi naked -- but never with face showing.

Agreed to meet, allowance, activities for the night. Messaged back and forth for several days before I came to town.

90 minutes before our meeting, she says she's running a little late, so maybe 630. Silence after that. Phone went straight to voicemail.

Never asked for a penny in advance, so no scam there. But why did she put in so much effort messaging? The vagaries of woman's mind. All I can think is she found a better $/ hr offer.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-aac6be824cc1

**SixPacking** · 03-04-18 20:31

Like so many of them.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-ca30e13b7088

**Hobbyist420** · 03-03-18 12:35

Originally Posted by BostonMan781 [View Original Post]

Met a 20 year old Spanish college girl. Things got hot and for all you saying they are all pricey and unwilling are dead wrong. Got to find out the right ways to approach this.

Finding UTG girls requires a ton of work. But once you are on the site for a while, you can distinguish b / t the SB pros (who usually focus more on the commitment for allowance part) as supposed to those who, while they do want money, also want a good time and good dick.

**Cpcdman** · 03-03-18 08:58

Same experience!!

Originally Posted by SixPacking [View Original Post]

Don't waste your time with this one, myself into other guys I know made plays for her. Her mo seems to be the same, she will favorite you but her responses are single word answers and you never will move to texting. Complete time-waster.

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/me...d-c60e0a1f89bd

**BostonMan781** · 03-03-18 03:13

Met a 20 year old Spanish college girl. Things got hot and for all you saying they are all pricey and unwilling are dead wrong. Got to find out the right ways to approach this.

**Dump My Goo** · 03-02-18 16:31

Originally Posted by Herow [View Original Post]

There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

There is tons of variety on these sites. I have had a couple of longer term arrangements. One lasted over a year. I started out giving her $250 per meet and then eventually I was at $150 but I would also pay for her hair, nails, makeup etc. It was worth it. She was really nice and pretty. Oh and a sex machine. I would meet her 4-5 times a month at her apartment and romp for 2-4 hours. As much fun as I wanted. She graduated and got a job in Dallas. I met a girl on wyp that I agreed to give $40 to meet at DD. When she showed up she was not nearly as good looking as the pics on her profile would seem. They were pics of her but the angles and lighting were pretty strategic. Anyway, the little head takes over and we agree to go for a ride and discuss arrangements. I told her I was interested in oral fun only. She said I give the best head ever! I said well let's find out. She was damn right. Top 5 BJ girls I've ever had and I've had hundreds of them. I gave hera an extra $30. I met her an average of 1 x per week for the next 2 yrs for a pipe cleaning. I would give her between $30-40 each time. Just a couple of weeks ago I got a huge work bonus and decided to splurge I met this girl on WYP and had lunch with her and dessert at her place. I had never given a girl more than $300 before her. She asked for 500 and I was willing to do it. She is a solid 9. 5 -10 on anyones scale though.

**SixPacking** · 03-02-18 16:19

Don't waste your time with this one, myself into other guys I know made plays for her. Her mo seems to be the same, she will favorite you but her responses are single word answers and you never will move to texting. Complete time-waster.

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/me...d-c60e0a1f89bd

**Spike77** · 03-02-18 10:55

Originally Posted by Herow [View Original Post]

There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

Well said!

**Cpcdman** · 03-01-18 19:58

Great post!

I have found the total gambit on SA. I still see someone that I met 3 years ago here on the Cape. I started giving her $$ then as time went on I told her I was done with paying to see someone, she came back right away that she didn't want to stop seeing each other and from that time on there were no exchange of funds. We have the dom, sub dynamic so I think that's what keeps things going.

I had a year and half arrangement with a girl in her senior year of college. I did help her out through the whole time of the arrangement, it ranged from $$$ to $50 each time we saw each other. The only reason it ended was because she moved out of state for graduate school.

These two examples are the minority for this site, for example the scams. One example is a girl or whom ever was on the other end of the conversations was telling she had 30 K in medical bills that she couldn't pay during the school year. She told me she paid on it during the summer when she could have a summer job. I asked her during the summer how much was she paying on the bill, she told me 4 K a month because she didn't have to pay rent. I laughed to myself, that's one hell of summertime job to afford 4 K a month. I ended the conversation and blocked her.

It takes time on this site to weed out the BS posts, so I guess I've been somewhat lucky, but I'd rather take the time to come up with the diamond in the ruff than go on BP. I haven't seen a BP girl or an escort in a very long time.

QUOTE=Herow;3744069 There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

**Spill** · 03-01-18 18:48

Originally Posted by Herow [View Original Post]

There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

Well said!

**Herow** · 03-01-18 18:23

There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

Originally Posted by SecretSquirell [View Original Post]

This is just my opinion with no statistical data to back it up. I think there are basically two types of females and two types of males on SA:

Female type 1 - Former agency, BP & CL girls looking for a new way to find customers. They start high thinking maybe they'll come across a few who are looking for a SB & don't know they're just hookers. When you tell them their rates are crazy they drop quick.

Female type 2 - legit college girl or single woman having trouble making ends meet and one way or another comes across the site. Believes the hype that they will actually meet a sugar daddy who will pay their bills, give them spending money etc. When they realize most guys on the site aren't looking for that kind of deal, they either bounce or adjust telling themselves they'll just find a few regulars and they keep their rates high because they don't consider themselves hookers so they should be worth more. The reason to pay more is for that experience, not necessarily because she's hotter.

Pretty equal split between the two types of femaes on SA.

Male type 1 - guys who are on sites like this and just looking for alternatives to agencies, BP & CL. We mostly know the game but might lose out on a special opportunity because we assume every girl is type 1.

Male type 2 - the genuine SD looking for a paid mistress type arrangement with a SB.

99% of males on SA are type 1.

**Ho Hunter 328** · 02-28-18 20:20

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

I think she used to go by Dasha, or something like that, when she posted on Boston BP. I think that there are reviews of her under the Boston BP section, but I can't find them. I think she is from Salem, which is what she posted on BP.

Here is her SA profile page. She asked for 300, but agreed to 200. Unfortunately, she doesn't host, which prevented me from seeing her.

Any info appreciated.

I remember her, did a car date BBBJCIM with her for $40 back when she was on backpage. She was kind of a pain in the ass to actually meet with though, flaked on me twice.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

**Attwater** · 02-28-18 11:37

Originally Posted by Cpcdman [View Original Post]

Don't waste your time, she's a game player. This is her 4th profile on SA. I contacted her last year. I live on the Cape and she agreed to come to the Cape. The day before I text her and nothing. She disappeared from SA for awhile. I see her on the site again, figured I'd give it another shot, same thing. She agreed to come to the Cape saying she just got a new car. Again, day before I contact her by text, silence. I contacted her from another profile on SA which she must have got rid of and created this one. Personally I wouldn't waste my time.

I use to see her for car dates.