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[OldPilot71]

http://nova.backpage.com/FemaleEscor...-pick/25290588

Anybody been to see this one? She's got a decent amount of history and reviews. I've tried to set up a meeting a couple times but every time she has either been busy or not answering. Wondering if it worth the effort to keep trying. Anybody have any experience with her?

[JmSuttr]

By the way, is anybody else besides me getting error messages when checking out BP ads this evening? It took several tries before I was able to provide the link to Lexi's escort ad. I hope Uncle LEO isn't messing with the site.

Tried it both from my phone and my laptop and everything's working normally.

[JmSuttr]

More often than not, when I give one of these girls validation, I live to regret it. I don't know if this rub-only policy is temporary or permanent because when I called her, she wouldn't give me details even about what her "new" session is because she doesn't want to talk on the phone;.

How does this work? Last time, it was just short of GFE, but now when I ask what else she does during her "body rub" session, she tells me "we can talk about that in person?" WT living F?

My original review is still mostly valid. The pix are really her and she's not a setup, but from enthusiastic FS to bodyrubs with upsell is not the progression I was looking for.

Some FS providers, when they get their periods, think it's no big deal and they'll just do bodyrub for a while so they can keep making $. But the truth is that the two kinds of sessions are quite different and many escorts really suck at FBSM (and not in a good way). Your recommendation was spot on for FS Lexi but there was no way to know what bodyrub Lexi would be like.

Only time will tell if this is a temporary or permanent change and the critical test will come when she resumes escorting. Hopefully she'll go back to her previous level of service but I guess we'll just have to wait and see. But for now she's definitely not worth seeing for what she currently offers.

[Tom McAn]

By the way, is anybody else besides me getting error messages when checking out BP ads this evening? It took several tries before I was able to provide the link to Lexi's escort ad. I hope Uncle LEO isn't messing with the site.

[Bunker Buster]

Based on Bunker Buster's recommendation, I recently paid Alexis, aka Lexi, a visit. I received even less of an alphabet than my fellow senior. When I called, Lexi told me that she was providing body rubs only. I went ahead and visited anyway. Upon arriving, she said Aunt Flo was paying her monthly visit. Fair enough. Strangely, she remained covered from the waist down during my visit, even keeping her shoes on. (Lexi wore black sneakers rather than boots.) She also tried to upsell for a HE following the flip. Having RTFF, I only brought the agreed-upon fee of $ for a 30-minute visit. Lexi finally relented and began the HE, though I eventually had to finish myself off. She seemed to be a nice gal, but I'm debating whether I'll return. One question: if Lexi is only providing body rubs, then why is she advertising in the escort section?

http://nova.backpage.com/FemaleEscor...apist/25055577

More often than not, when I give one of these girls validation, I live to regret it. I don't know if this rub-only policy is temporary or permanent because when I called her, she wouldn't give me details even about what her "new" session is because she doesn't want to talk on the phone;.

How does this work? Last time, it was just short of GFE, but now when I ask what else she does during her "body rub" session, she tells me "we can talk about that in person?" WT living F?

My original review is still mostly valid. The pix are really her and she's not a setup, but from enthusiastic FS to bodyrubs with upsell is not the progression I was looking for.

[MohMan69]

Don't forget what happened to Eliot Spitzer, David Vitter and others whose names were on the lists of various escort agencies. Even if we're nowhere near as famous (or infamous) as these two, giving sensitive personal information or photos to providers can have serious unintended consequences. That includes loss of jobs, careers or marriages as well as negative publicity, the threat of blackmail and potential legal consequences. The best response is to politely decline the provider's request and move on.

Part of the issue are these things called phones. You make the call, regardless if it's a burner, and you have issues: you have to register it with a credit card or personally identifiable information. Registering online results in your IP address being logged. Once a provider has your number, even with an assumed name, it can easily be traced back to the originator. Now if something bad were to happen to a provider, it will be a matter of checking and tracing the phone log. With this digital world makes for an easily traceable end. I miss the old days of driving down to the corner, picking up, taking care of business dropping them off without having to worry about being contacted when they need money. It even worked with girlfriends I could disappear without a trace.

Brotherman you need to read about VPN's, TOR, and using public internet. Not trying to be a dick but if all you're worried about is an IP addy there's a million ways to spoof that.

A2

[Tom McAn]

She even wears the knee-high boots in the pic. Not much in the way of alphabet soup, but nice girl who delivers the basics with a good attitude.

Based on Bunker Buster's recommendation, I recently paid Alexis, aka Lexi, a visit. I received even less of an alphabet than my fellow senior. When I called, Lexi told me that she was providing body rubs only. I went ahead and visited anyway. Upon arriving, she said Aunt Flo was paying her monthly visit. Fair enough. Strangely, she remained covered from the waist down during my visit, even keeping her shoes on. (Lexi wore black sneakers rather than boots.) She also tried to upsell for a HE following the flip. Having RTFF, I only brought the agreed-upon fee of $ for a 30-minute visit. Lexi finally relented and began the HE, though I eventually had to finish myself off. She seemed to be a nice gal, but I'm debating whether I'll return. One question: if Lexi is only providing body rubs, then why is she advertising in the escort section?

http://nova.backpage.com/FemaleEscor...apist/25055577

[Tom McAn]

I know of a guy that passed his driver's license and work phone number to a BP provider. He had a great session with that provider, then weeks later when she was back on some CANDY she threatened to show up at his residence (address on his license), or call his boss (phone number used for screening) if she did not get $300 in the next 5 hours. He refused and then her manager called and and let the monger hear him call his company's voicemail box and leave a message about him. That monger was a member on here once upon a time and I don't recall ever hearing from him or seeing him post after that scary a** time in his life. So, just don't do it. Is 45 minutes worth of pleasure worth weeks of damage control? Maybe years of damage control?

Don't forget what happened to Eliot Spitzer, David Vitter and others whose names were on the lists of various escort agencies. Even if we're nowhere near as famous (or infamous) as these two, giving sensitive personal information or photos to providers can have serious unintended consequences. That includes loss of jobs, careers or marriages as well as negative publicity, the threat of blackmail and potential legal consequences. The best response is to politely decline the provider's request and move on.

[Bunker Buster]

I admit it's been a while since I watched Gone With the Wind, but when I see the term "Southern Belle," the girls using it on BP aren't what I think of.

I'm not exactly reminded of Scarlet O'Hara here.

http://nova.backpage.com/FemaleEscor...ecret/25292057

Amirite?

[Miketastic69]

Just find a pic that's a passing resemblance to yourself and save it so you can send that.

Plenty of guys have the misfortune of looking like me. I once actually sent a BP girl a pic of Colin Powell and she did not know the difference.

[Miketastic69]

I completely understand a provider's need for security but some of their screening procedures border on the ridiculous. Sending your real pic puts her in control of an important piece of your personal info. Maybe nothing bad will come of it, but that's not the point. The point is that you no longer have control.

One possible way to counter that kind of request is to tell her (assuming she's staying in a hotel) that you will be happy to stand somewhere in the parking lot where she can see you from her room. Then if she doesn't want to go through with the appt she is free to decline.

But I think the better answer is to avoid these kinds of providers entirely. There are plenty of well-reviewed providers who don't make clients jump through unreasonable hoops. Girls who are new to the hobby are understandably a bit paranoid but hopefully over time they will get over that. IMHO, giving in to these kinds of requests is an example of little-head thinking and only encourages more of the same.

I know of a guy that passed his driver's license and work phone number to a BP provider. He had a great session with that provider, then weeks later when she was back on some CANDY she threatened to show up at his residence (address on his license), or call his boss (phone number used for screening) if she did not get $300 in the next 5 hours. He refused and then her manager called and and let the monger hear him call his company's voicemail box and leave a message about him. That monger was a member on here once upon a time and I don't recall ever hearing from him or seeing him post after that scary a** time in his life. So, just don't do it. Is 45 minutes worth of pleasure worth weeks of damage control? Maybe years of damage control?

[Grafenberg]

I've been getting asked to send a pic pretty often lately when trying to meet a new provider. Not sure why this started to become more prevalent.

Just find a pic that's a passing resemblance to yourself and save it so you can send that.

[JmSuttr]

Someone was asking for a photo of a diver's license.

Take everything I wrote in my post about sending real pics and multiply it by 1000 x for DL info. I've heard of providers wanting to briefly check a client's DL when they meet in person (to which I've always replied that I'll show them mine if they show me theirs), but asking for it beforehand is complete and utter BS. In fact, it strikes me as a great LEO tactic when running a sting op.

[JmSuttr]

I've been getting asked to send a pic pretty often lately when trying to meet a new provider. Not sure why this started to become more prevalent.

I completely understand a provider's need for security but some of their screening procedures border on the ridiculous. Sending your real pic puts her in control of an important piece of your personal info. Maybe nothing bad will come of it, but that's not the point. The point is that you no longer have control.

One possible way to counter that kind of request is to tell her (assuming she's staying in a hotel) that you will be happy to stand somewhere in the parking lot where she can see you from her room. Then if she doesn't want to go through with the appt she is free to decline.

But I think the better answer is to avoid these kinds of providers entirely. There are plenty of well-reviewed providers who don't make clients jump through unreasonable hoops. Girls who are new to the hobby are understandably a bit paranoid but hopefully over time they will get over that. IMHO, giving in to these kinds of requests is an example of little-head thinking and only encourages more of the same.

[Member #5678]

I've been getting asked to send a pic pretty often lately when trying to meet a new provider. Not sure why this started to become more prevalent.

Someone was asking for a photo of a diver's license.