Thread: "Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?
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12-08-13 00:43 #5257
Posts: 5498Originally Posted by Ltnric [View Original Post]
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12-07-13 23:40 #5256
Posts: 526Always talking about how broke they are
First let me thank all the wonderful members on this forum for the great advice. Dolato Thanks for the advice and I completely agree with you. I will not wine and dine this sugarbaby until I'm able to get her to the FC. I told her that there would be no allowance until I was also fully satisfied with our arrangement. I'll go out with her once maybe twice and I'm going to keep it to only chain restaurants and keeping it below $40 per date. I do realize that with this one she needs to go out and make sure that she feels comfortable with me, and I completely understand. I think I made it very clear that she won't get any money until I get the honey. So I wanted to go ahead and share an experience I had today.
I got a reply to my email from a 37-year-old sugarbaby. I knew something was off when she gave me her phone number right away. However I was thinking with the little guy so I thought I would give her a call. Long story short while we were talking on the phone she must've brought up how low on cash she is about 10 times. I don't know about the rest of you but that is a huge turnoff for me. Don't get me wrong I completely understand that the only reason why they are On sites like SA is because they need money. But I don't want them constantly having to bring that up. So I wanted to take a quick poll how many of you have spoken to your sugar babies and how many of them constantly bring up how they are in a bad financial situation. If so does that turn you guys off?
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12-07-13 19:29 #5255
Posts: 5498Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
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12-07-13 16:56 #5254
Posts: 272Don't worry! Be Happy!
Originally Posted by StickyRice [View Original Post]
Three years ago, my Doctor found a 25 year old girl dead in her home (status of his relationship with the girl was not revealed). He lawyered up the next day. 5-0 searched his home and office. Ultimately plead guilty to obstruction of justice. This was all over the news and you can google his name and find numerous articles about the case. This was a case that involved the death of another human being and a guilty plea to a criminal charge. He is still practicing.
My advice. Tell your SB not to expend needless energy worrying about it. Everyone has a bad day. Nothing is forever except death and taxes.
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12-07-13 15:00 #5253
Posts: 5498Originally Posted by Showtime2020 [View Original Post]
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12-07-13 11:05 #5252
Posts: 53Felicity from Richmond on SA
If anyone has hung out with Felicity, can you please PM me? I'm about to take the plunge and I want to feel comfortable more quickly. Thanks!
Originally Posted by Ltnric [View Original Post]
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12-07-13 02:23 #5251
Posts: 55Originally Posted by ThirdCoaster [View Original Post]
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12-07-13 00:52 #5250
Posts: 19Originally Posted by ThirdCoaster [View Original Post]
1. Can you host or will I need to get a hotel?
2. Do you have a car?
3. Will you travel to me?
4. What are your rules, what can I do and what can't I do? Most then ask "sexually" and I respond "both".
My goal is to pay by the visit so I'm not tied to giving them cash frequently. The number I have in mind is 200 per visit and include the hotel and any travel. So when they say $500 I say "that's way out of my budget." They then come down to $250 every time. I then say I have to get a hotel and factor that in and usually they understand and say, well what can I do? Starting at $100 I slowly move up to $130, because a hotel is $60-70 and parking is $10. I had 2 girls accept the $130,1 took $120 and 1 took $100 just this week. I took one to the FC this week and could of seen another but I wasn't expecting that type of success.
Before I started actively negotiating I accepted a $300 allowance for my main babe, she has her own place and I hang out there all day one day a week. For now it works but I'm going to renegotiate her arrangement soon.
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12-06-13 21:34 #5249
Posts: 313Farewell Tigg
The bowl will not be the same without you.
You are one of a kind. Not only willing to go out there and do it. Which is different than most of those cold and timid souls.
But you were always there to help. And I appreciate it.
The bowl is better with you in it.
Good luck.
Revvo.
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12-06-13 21:27 #5248
Posts: 713Congrats!
Originally Posted by Ltnric [View Original Post]
I understand how she's your SB#1 and wanting to get her into your FC, but I don't know about having to wine and dine her especially when she's a little thicker than what you normally like.
Maybe others will chime in, but I'm thinking maybe just texting / talking to her until she's ready for the FC instead of having to pay for dates after dates?
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12-06-13 21:11 #5247
Posts: 713Originally Posted by ThirdCoaster [View Original Post]
There's much posted on the allowance amounts. Reading through the different posts, the others are fairly open about what they give / how they give.
There was a post a while back that mentioned negotiating when there's a huge difference in the number will just lead to disappointment because you'll pay more than you wanted and she'll get less than what she wanted.
I'm pretty firm on starting at $/ date and leading with that from the beginning based on Hollywood guy's suggestion. That way if she's suffering from gps then she'll filter herself out. But if she's a looker I've gone to $.5.
So don't really see it as negotiating. Tell her what you'll do and if she's living in fantasy land, then move on to the next.
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12-06-13 20:32 #5246
Posts: 25Yeah, kinda figured that. Right after I hit "upload report".
I had sent a "Hey you're cute, you should be spoiled!" type message, and the 19 yo sent a reply saying that she and "her girl" would loved to be taken shopping this weekend.
D'oh! I don't know if she really knows what's expected (but likely she does), but now visions of a three-way are dancing in my head. They kicked the sugarplums out completely.
I have definitely decided not to have a meet with either. It occurred to me the other day that if she recognized me online it could mean the ends of employment and several other things like house, wife, etc. This one'll have to remain in the vault.
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12-06-13 20:17 #5245
Posts: 115Originally Posted by FScott [View Original Post]
These sites exist because of freedom of speech. If she knowingly allowed her pics to be taken, they can be posted anywhere as everywhere. There's no invasion or expected privacy with photos, whether nude or not.
Unless she is being extorted, it's not a crime. I believe California is one state where this type of scenario is illegal by statute. However, these sites operate in the virtual world and can be located anywhere.
How is US law going to apply when the site is located on a server in South Africa?
Our legal system can't keep up with advances in technology. I feel bad for your SB, but there's thousands of victims like her without any type of resolution.
Never let anyone take compromising photos of you is the lesson. Not even your SO, as there is no right to privacy if you allowed it willingly.
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12-06-13 19:30 #5244
Posts: 526Finally met a sugar baby
I finally had my very first ever M&G. I was getting discouraged after having had three previous women flake out on me.
SB#1: She is a 22 year old SB who has a 3 year old son (I don't know but there is something that is a turn off about a woman with kids, but considering what this lifestyle is all about I guess I need to expect that). We met on SA and we emailed a few times and we finally had our M&G. She was a little thicker than what I normally like but hey beggars can't be choosers. I was actually hopeful that something good would happen as I have been reading posts about some of you out there getting some good action. Long story short, it would be my luck that I meet the one "good girl" SB. She was telling me how she was getting a lot of rude and suggestive emails off of SA and how that isn't her. Don't get me wrong I wasn't expecting to take to her a hotel at our first M&G but it does sound like I am going to have to put a lot of work and effort to get her into my FC. Yep just my luck. HOwever, I did make it clear that we would go on a few dates and if we decided to get "closer" then and only then would we talk about our arrangement. Basically telling her I am not going to give her any type of allowance just to hang out with me. THanks to all of the members on here for the advice. I kept my expectations realistic and after a good first meeting I hope I won't to have to wine and dine her for too long before I can get her into my FC. Happy Hunting everyone and stay safe.
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12-06-13 19:06 #5243
Posts: 754Calling all Legal Brothers out there
My friends,
Are any of you lawyers who might feel inclined to give me some insight into this situation with my baby who has had truly nasty shit posted about her, with her real name and photos, on an internet site apparently devoted to spreading this sort of crap. It is the most evil, mean-spirited and pointless site I have ever run across. Its only reason for existing seems to be to delight in gossip, rumors and real hurt to people. It is a harbinger of the End of Days, I am certain.
PM me please, and I will give you more info. This is a baby who does not deserve this, whether the allegations are true or not.
Thanks,
Scott.