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07-08-13 20:23 #3918
Posts: 272SO Dynamics
To all married or committed Players out there in Sugar Land, I pose questions I have been struggling with. Why the hell do I risk so many things to play this tantalizing yet dangerous game?
Who can actually say that they passionately love their SO? (And do not stay in the relationship for practical reasons)
A Questionnaire if you will. I will tabulate the results if there is enough interest to have a significant sample size.
You stay committed (Married) because. Pick the most important one)
1) money
2) children.
3) inertia.
4) Family / friends.
5) breaking the SOs heart.
6) professional.
7) other (write this in)
I answer #1 But actually all apply, In the end, if I won the lotto I would bail with a pocket of money and move to SB Island. At least my SO would have her security as well.
2) You rank sexual attraction and performance with your SO as :
A) high.
Be) soso.
See) very low.
The) none.
I answer see
3) You have sex with your SO / week :
A) more than 2.
Be) 1 to 2
See) 0 to 1.
The) none.
I answer the.
4) you have sex with all your SBs :
A) 2+
Be) 1 to 2
See) 0 to 1
The) 0.
E) add a # up to 12 special category
I answer see right now and a) fully staffed.
5) Has a SO ever caught you in flagrante delicto? (this includes suspicion, reasonable certainty, etc) which led to divorce or close monitoring
A) yes.
A1) divorce
A2) no divorce.
Be) no.
I answer a2.
6) Do your SOs suspect your infidelity?
A) yes.
Be) no.
I answer be
7) What are you spending now / month (include ALL costs)
A) $ 4000 to 5000 +
Be) $ 2000 to 3000 +
See) $ 1000 +
The) $ 500 +
I pick see.
8) what is the most you have spent / month?
A) $ 4 to 5000 +
Be) $ 2 to 3000 +
See) $ 1000+
The) $ 500 +
I pick be.
9) How many SBs have you carried on an average month?
A) 4 +
Be) 3.
See) 2
The) 1
E) 0 (how many lurkers reading but not pulling the trigger?)
I pick see.
10 Are your SOs happy with you? (are they cleverly fooled?)
A) yes.
Be) no
How much time do you spend with your SB on average / visit?
A) 24 + hrs.
Be) 12 + hrs.
See) 6 + hrs
The) 3 + hrs.
E) 1 + hrs.
I pick be
Thanks for reading. Add more if you desire.
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07-08-13 18:22 #3917
Posts: 754Astonishing, isn't it?
Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]
When it is the first visit to the FC I always ask if they are comfortable with the lights on, and it astounds me how many of them say yes, and that it would be the first time! It makes me think that we older dudes are also in the prime of OUR sexual lives. Sure, maybe we need some chemical assistance, but certainly not in the experience department. Onward, my brothers! There are babies out there who need us! It's a tough job, but somebody's got to do it.
Tally ho,
Scott
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07-08-13 18:09 #3916
Posts: 5501Update
So my "little porn star princess" got a job at a strip club. So far she is working as a "good girl stripper". Meaning no extras only lap dances. We'll see how long that lasts. But she is happy with the $ a day she is making. This should dramatically cut my allowance commitment. I never date strippers for all the obvious reasons, but she was an SB first so we'll see how it works out.
When I met her she had never even had sex with the lights on. They grow up fast.
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07-08-13 15:02 #3915
Posts: 17Intro
Just wanted to give thanks to all the guys here sharing their wisdom. I'm out in SoCal and have been on this site a while, but only recently discovered this thread. I know there's an L. A. One, but it's nowhere near as comprehensive as this one. I guess Richmond is the happening place.
I've been wading through the posts here for weeks and still haven't digested it all. Cracks me up sometimes reading about the things that we all experience. I found out I was a "Sugar Daddy" and didn't even know it. LOL.
It never occurred to me to try the SD sites until coming here. I'm encouraged to give it a shot. Hopefully, I can report my success (or failure) back here.
Igor
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07-08-13 14:59 #3914
Posts: 754Atf
Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]
As I said, I'm trying to keep my emotions in check, but as you pointed out, the heart sees what it wants to see. I can't imagine my little bird being a player, but maybe that would be better for me if I kept that image towards the front.
If she has other arrangements, I think I'm fine with that, as long as I don't hear about them. When we are together, I want to be able to pretend. And while she did, in fact, contact me privately via my cell first, and at first the language was very light and cordial, it has gotten more and more familiar as we have been texting. I'm thinking that she would not have even bothered to contact me at all if she weren't interested in starting something up again, right?
In the meantime, I have met someone locally who is truly fantastic, and in fact could easily become my new infatuation, so I am in a good position to meet my ATF again, I think. Unfortunately, my SNB got laid off last week, so any Chicago brothers who have or know of a position, especially in the tech field, please let me know. This baby is smart, personable, attractive, ambitious and well-rounded, so would be a great hire for anyone. I'd give her a job in a second, if it weren't for the obvious problems that would present. PM me if there is anyone out there with a lead. I'd be in your debt.
Many more tales to tell, both successes and failures, since I last posted up, but not enough time today.
Nothing near Tigger or Hollywood level, but I try my best,
Scott
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07-08-13 13:51 #3913
Posts: 272ATF Redux
Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]
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07-08-13 12:48 #3912
Posts: 754No wonder!
Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]
Seriously, nice touch with the list. I'm going to steal that idea, my brother!
Newsflash: ATF, who dumped me a little over a year ago, is back in touch! She sent me a text last week, just reaching out, and we have been in communication daily since then. We are slated for lunch and to "catch up" on Friday. I am trying to keep my emotions in check and just see how this plays out, but I noticed this morning she has a new profile up on SA, so I surmise she is looking to get back into the Bowl.
What a world!
Scott
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07-08-13 08:27 #3911
Posts: 1420Gifts
I bought a girl a pair of espadrilles once. It fit her look and style and was a big hit. Putting them on she said,"Even my husband doesn't know my shoe size."
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07-07-13 07:42 #3910
Posts: 526Gifts
Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]
Also, craigslist is your friend. On more than one occasion I've seen something that they wanted or needed on CL. Purchased it for 1/3 of the retail price and the young lady is happy. I tell them that I know it's not new, but I was thinking about them. I usually get extra points and a really good screwing if it's something they need. I've gotten laptops for $150, mavado watches, etc.
BigTigg
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07-06-13 18:06 #3909
Posts: 5501Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]
Get a gel gloss manicure and pedicure.
Get their hair done.
I always try to get stuff that will be enjoyed by both of us.
Anything involving their appearance. I only let them buy shoes, clothing or lingerie that is pre-approved by me.
I must also have approval on nail/hair color and style.
I try to stick to the basics, food, clothing, dr visits, booze, weed (its legal here)
I am not figuring the free rent to my live in into this expense.
The actual % of just straight cash I give is probably in the 30% range. I consider all money spent as part of their so called allowance.
Including all normal dating expenses. Still I am averaging $2500 a month so far this year. But I do have 3 full time babies.
1. Employed and on gov assistance. Just got her own house. Exclusive.
2. Hoping to see her employed soon. Lives at dads. Exclusive.
3. Lives here. pro SB. Non exclusive
I admit I am not so romantic with the flowers, chocolates, trips, expensive dinner, etc. I am more the practical type
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07-05-13 20:24 #3908
Posts: 313Sugar Daddy Poll Gifts
I am curious what are good gifts for your babies?
I will start.
Spa treatments.
Gift cards to Starbucks.
Gift cards to Victorias Secret.
Chocolates.
What has been a big hit for you guys?
Revvo
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07-05-13 19:09 #3907
Posts: 313GPS Woes
I have had them tell me I am cheap.
I have had them demand to be spoiled but not tell me what spoiling means.
I had one say to me "what are you going to do for me"? And this was via text before they have even met me.
I have had them tell me I am worth $5k per month and she was not that good looking and she certainly did not have the personality.
I had one that was fat and ugly tell me 500 per visit.
You have to keep your eyes open out there boys.
SD has fewer than SA though.
Revvo
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07-05-13 10:11 #3906
Posts: 319Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]
I had fun with one GPS though. We had arranged to meet for drinks, and that morning she text's me saying "baby I need some cash to buy a new dress so I can look good for you tonight" (notice she mentions buying a dress as in she's asking indirectly for north of $$). I replied back "you looked good in that bikini pic you sent me wear that". She didn't reply which was fine.
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07-04-13 13:27 #3905
Posts: 526Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]
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07-04-13 13:14 #3904
Posts: 272GPS everywhere
Keeping a pretty low profile these days but still amuse myself by talking to a few Pots looking for that elusive Home Run. I came across this amusing example of a GPS. Cute girl in early 20s, perhaps a 8/8? Who I negotiated a M&G all nighter at $300 including hotel and no extras. We were nailing down the date when she texted this is for getting to know each other only because " I don't have sex on the first date " Whaaaat? I responded that I was OK with no sex but Sugar does not flow until it flows equilaterally. Needless to say I didn't hear from her again but this goes to show the frustrations that we all encounter sometimes.
I don't know how these girls think that they will find someone stupid enough to pay for the privilege of being in their company, but perhaps those guys are out there. I know none of the men on this board would go there.