Sugar dating

[BlackWookie]

I may have to pay for a membership again so I can chat with her. I am also interested in how flexible that number is. 400 is steep for anyone around here but I guess you truly never know till you try. I'm just don't have much interest in that high of a starting point because if she knows you really enjoy it you will keep paying it. I prefer to start low and if the performance is good and stays good them I can start being flexible. Glad to see we finally have a few guys chatting here. Sometimes a little chatting saves us all a lot of time and wasted money. LOL.

[Helios01]

Rachel has never disappointed me. She is sweet and fun. She also seems to be very private and does not seem to want to make a bunch of small talk. Personally, I like a little more of a friendship based arrangement. But believe me she makes it worth your time.

Good to hear. Though she threw out a number of $400. I haven't explored what the flexibility of that number is.

[LivingMyBst55]

Also, SweetBabyRachael appears to be the woman who used to go by Mel something or another. She seems interested to meet on more of a "pro" basis. For $$.

Moving on.

Rachel has never disappointed me. She is sweet and fun. She also seems to be very private and does not seem to want to make a bunch of small talk. Personally, I like a little more of a friendship based arrangement. But believe me she makes it worth your time.

[BlackWookie]

I talked to roundup a year or so ago and something made me feel uncomfortable about her. Seemed real but something didn't seem right so I backed off.

Sweetbabyrach is one I've never chatter with but I have always had interest with. She looks like someone who I would be willing to go out on a limb and meet to see where things go. Semi pro is fine with me as long as they are into it.

[Helios01]

Also, SweetBabyRachael appears to be the woman who used to go by Mel something or another. She seems interested to meet on more of a "pro" basis. For $$.

Moving on.

[Helios01]

I seem to remember RoundUp was discussed around here at some point (https://www.seeking.com/member/b9edd...7-23223cd0c16e) with the warning that she had lots of rules. But I can't seem to find that in the search. Anyone have any experience? Is she real?

[BlackWookie]

Very well said. I couldn't agree more. As long as we stick to nobody around here is worth more than 200 then it should drive the prices they ask buy down. I domt believe when they say they are getting 500 per meet. They may have got that a time or 2 or maybe even a few times but I bet that's just from a visiting guy who doesn't want to mess around and look and make calls all day to arrange something.

[Veritas1]

In this area you can easily get an arrangement for 200 per meet. I always do a non paid meet and greet over coffee or lunch somewhere. I normally will get them a gift certificate for $100 and if the m&g goes well give it to them so they know I am serious and the real deal. I would never go over 300 ppm in this area, but right now I won't even go over 2. I have done weekly allowances with the babies that I really like and have had long term arrangements with, but I only pay if I can't meet that week. If she can't meet for whatever reason I don't pay. Full allowances are dead. If you ever start out doing that a very good chance you just kissed your money away after the first meet or when they do flake it will be right after you pay them for the full month. None of the them would meet you once a week for a month then have you pay them at the end of the month. Why should you pay them up front. No one is paying over $500 per meet unless you are in a Tier 1 city (Chi, NYC, LA, SF, ect) and you can still get SB's there for $500 a meet.

[BlackWookie]

I can see that with her. I haven't countered but did tell her she would her to prove her worth to me. Told her she is to high for our area. Acts like she runs a tight ship time wise. Extremely punctual which doesn't work the best for me to be honest. Probably won't waist my time but chatting has been kinda fun and who knows ill see if I can get her to crack and ill find out what she's all about.

[CrewMan7]

Ok so Romaniangypsie has been talked about and the expectation of 500 has been talked about, but has anyone met her? Just curious if she is worth a more reasonable counter offer or if you guys have tried that.

I was headed to the casino to play poker last weekend and countered with $300 for a date. She agreed but said we can only get naked. No sex for $300. I just wished her well and said I'll stick to Chicago area then.

[BlackWookie]

Ok so Romaniangypsie has been talked about and the expectation of 500 has been talked about, but has anyone met her? Just curious if she is worth a more reasonable counter offer or if you guys have tried that.

[BlackWookie]

I would agree after time you definitely gain a sense of trust. I just recently sent some money to one that is struggling a little. She isn't currently here in south bend but will be before to long. We have met many times. She is very reasonable on her per meet and I believe she may enjoy the visit more than me. I definitely always leave smiling. 500 is way to much for south bend, and 2000 is just plain crazy. Do I believe there is a location for those amounts yes but not here. I've definitely enjoyed many locals from 0-200 and truly believe this area doesn't support anything more than that. Correct me if you found a local worth more and I would definitely be willing to give her a shot.

[Helios01]

I've had one in the $500 range in Chicago. But that is way too much in my opinion for South Bend area. I usually start with ppm. I've only moved to an allowance after a few months of seeing someone.

I had one lady say she really was expecting something like $2000 per month. Thanks, and good luck with that.

[Helios01]

I would say how much is to much depends on what your looking for and willing to donate. Me personally I have never done a monthly allowance at the begging. ... I would much rather them prove what they are worth before agreeing to anything opposed to paying them 100 plus to meet for dinner to talk about things. Everyone is different but I feel like you are letting your guard down by paying them to just meet.

Yup, I agree with you on this. A platonic meeting is not something they should expect payment for. And I take your point about a lady suddenly getting really busy after arranging an allowance. My thinking was if it was someone you'd built up a longer relationship with, and I was mostly wondering about the scale. As you say, it depends on how often you'd expect to meet, who the person was, etc.

[BlackWookie]

I would say how much is to much depends on what your looking for and willing to donate. Me personally I have never done a monthly allowance at the begging. I did have one that I would definitely help out if she needed help but I got to know her pretty well and I knew I would be taken care of. I think we as daddy's sometime drive the price up by giving to much. I have had many I have seen ranging between 19 and 55. The 19 year old was the most reasonable one (I know that doesn't happen often) she was willing to meet whenever and do whatever for a quick visit type price. I have no interest in the monthly allowance because it seems like the ones that want that want it up front and probably won't take care of you very well after they get the allowance. I've read alot of guys saying they always seem to be busy after allowance is paid. I prefer pay per meet and have had very good luck with that. I've actually met a decent amount of locals that are willing to give you a test drive to see what they are made of before agreeing to any type of arrangement. I would much rather them prove what they are worth before agreeing to anything opposed to paying them 100 plus to meet for dinner to talk about things. Everyone is different but I feel like you are letting your guard down by paying them to just meet. I feel like your are letting them know your willing to give what you have for nothing in return. Any thoughts from anyone else? I'm an old dog but definitely willing to learn new tricks.