Sugar Daddy Sites

**ScConnoisseur3** · 04-19-17 17:15

I'm new to this but I have had an ok experience so far. I have tried to develop a rapport and treat all the ladies with respect. But some of them are all about the money. And for some reason think I'm automatically enamored with the idea of spending time with them. I set up a m&g with a AA girl yesterday in Downtown LA but turns out she flaked at the last moment. Had this happen a couple of times where I get to the point of a m&g with the understanding of $100 per meet up afterwards. But the girls never follow through. And I'm being very conscientious on which girls I contact. I'm trying to stay in my Lane and it's a good learning experience. Worth the one month subscription I signed up for.

It's eye opening seeing the unmitigated GPS that most basic girls have. Trust me, the girls I've contacted are no where near 9's or 10's. But still there's always a tinge of GPS present. I'm glad I decided to try this out because I'm learning a lot. And I am slowly reading through all the great info on the Richmond thread.

**John HandCock** · 04-19-17 08:15

Originally Posted by BigBear818 [View Original Post]

I'm kind of new to the game on this website, but I decided to pull the trigger by purchasing a premium membership. As soon as I became a premium member, I was finally able to see the sugar babies pm's. I met up with this sb a few days ago at a public place and she did tell me that she was basically looking for a Captain Save-A-Hoe type of guy that will provide and take her out of the trap lifestyle of dancing at the local strip club. So I set up an arrangement a few days later and we both agreed to the $ donation and what I should expect for her service. When she arrived to meet me at my FC, she wanted the $ donation up front and proceeded to give me a HJ. I was board and disappointed with her actions and told her that I expected more from her. She then tells me that if I want more intimate services, then I would have to pay her an additional $$ I told her that we agreed to $ and the additional $$$ is not what we agreed on, so I ended the session with her and kicked her out of my place. She looks good on her photos, but she is about 60 lbs overweight in person and I felt that it was not worth giving her additional $$ But feel free to try her out if you don't believe me.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-ff92d38b522a

First off you got to know the difference between the sb and a sex worker. You could have picked this girl off of CL, BP or out of the club. Lots of sex workers are posting on SA now and because they have a profile up guys go crazy over the new sb. You got to make better choices or some guys are happy getting a recycled sex worker with a sb title.

**BigBear818** · 04-19-17 04:19

I'm kind of new to the game on this website, but I decided to pull the trigger by purchasing a premium membership. As soon as I became a premium member, I was finally able to see the sugar babies pm's. I met up with this sb a few days ago at a public place and she did tell me that she was basically looking for a Captain Save-A-Hoe type of guy that will provide and take her out of the trap lifestyle of dancing at the local strip club. So I set up an arrangement a few days later and we both agreed to the $ donation and what I should expect for her service. When she arrived to meet me at my FC, she wanted the $ donation up front and proceeded to give me a HJ. I was board and disappointed with her actions and told her that I expected more from her. She then tells me that if I want more intimate services, then I would have to pay her an additional $$ I told her that we agreed to $ and the additional $$$ is not what we agreed on, so I ended the session with her and kicked her out of my place. She looks good on her photos, but she is about 60 lbs overweight in person and I felt that it was not worth giving her additional $$ But feel free to try her out if you don't believe me.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-ff92d38b522a

**Member #5794** · 04-18-17 20:03

Originally Posted by BearWithMe [View Original Post]

Really? I went there, and all I got were pancakes!

I go to Dennys for pancakes.

**ScConnoisseur3** · 04-18-17 19:54

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-d2df58b39161

Exchanged a couple of messages and then texts with this Latina from sylmar. Set up a M&G, she backed out because I wasn't going to pay for a M&G. But from every indication she can host, and isn't interested in developing a relationship beyond the money aspect. I'm sure one of you guys can come at her the right way cause she's a lock for the FC. Just I couldn't make it work. Offered $100, and she was down for that. Good luck.

**BearWithMe** · 04-18-17 09:57

Originally Posted by Hundred [View Original Post]

I had a massage from this girl two months ago at international house.

Really? I went there, and all I got were pancakes!

**Member #5794** · 04-18-17 04:10

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Too bad my chemistry with this one wasn't what I had hoped for. Her body is bangin. But I just wasn't feelin it as much as I wanted too. Not all bad, a nice 18 year old freshman, just missing the mark a little. We still talk, but my plate is pretty full right now. Maybe next month. I need a little more lovin these days, like the emotional kind.

I had a massage from this girl two months ago at international house.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-17-17 22:33

Too bad my chemistry with this one wasn't what I had hoped for. Her body is bangin. But I just wasn't feelin it as much as I wanted too. Not all bad, a nice 18 year old freshman, just missing the mark a little. We still talk, but my plate is pretty full right now. Maybe next month. I need a little more lovin these days, like the emotional kind.

**Madaboutmax** · 04-16-17 21:03

I pay attention to expectation levels, but don't let it stop me. I've found many of the younger girls have no understanding of the value of a dollar and can't translate 10,000 a month to a per meet number. Others, set the expectations high hoping to win the lottery, but quickly accept something reasonable if the connection is there. Still others, claim to use the higher expectations as a way to weed out the low ballers.

I usually start by expressing my interest, but letting them known if their expectations are above my budget. Very few decline to continue the conversation because of my limited budget.

I almost always delete any girls with the "I know my worth" claim. That is almost always a "pain in the ass" red flag.

Also, any girl that presses for what my budget is also is red flag that she is only about the money.

My best experiences have been with SB's interested in an experience beyond the maximize dollars they can make. If their focus is on maximum dollars, they are just expensive BP girls IMHO.

Originally Posted by Venator [View Original Post]

I keep my filter set at negotiable but I've had some fun with a couple of "practical" girls over the holidays. It seemed that the college lovelies need some extra Christmas/New Years Eve money so I was willing to help out. Seems the ladies quickly come back out of the stratosphere when they realize guy's aren't going give them what they want. I just take Kevin Hart's advice and stay in my lane. LOL.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-15-17 03:27

My new little girl is just adorable. I wish my x would stop hating on her.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-14-17 18:11

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

You reap what you sow. You're treating them like BP hookers. You spend no time cultivating them as sugar relationships - these take time - even HWG does this. You are risking getting banned from the site, since you are clearly offering sex for $ - this will eventually bring down sugar dating sites and SA in particular. If a girl makes a specific $ proposal / demand, I'd report her. There is an excellent discussion of this topic on the Richmond sugar thread over the past few days. I recommend it.

FF away

I make my dollar amount offer on SA for what I refer to as a date. When they ask me what a date is, I tell them to email me, and then I will spell it out for them. I never discuss sex and money together on SA directly unless they bring it up and even then I only talk about the money but never any specific sex act.

In the past I didn't do much cultivating, but since my funds went down I have had no choice but to do so. The results have been OK, meaning the frequency and variety of girls have been less, but it's all I can afford, so it has fulfilled my needs (i.e. used up my budget). My super spinner who I saw yesterday for date # 2 had been conversing with me for weeks. I am sure in the past I would have just blown her off due to her not committing in a timely fashion. But she has been well worth the wait, and most likely I can now ditch my ATF thanks to her.

My ATF is a super spinner, but a much taller version, which has been fine but doesn't compare to a 5'5" height girl of actually better proportions and some equally and in some aspects sexier features. Plus she likes it really rough. I finally pushed her to her pain limit and even then I only stopped when she politely asked me too. Which was so sweet on her part. So, the bottom line. Being forced to converse for much greater lengths of time has yielded some good results and also helped fill up my time (which I have so much more of these days). Also my new little girl came about in a similar way. After multiple times flaking and missed communications we finally met up and it all worked out fine.

Also I have only reported one "girl" on SA. It was just some guy who non stopped harassed me for money for 3 days before I finally got their profile removed. Otherwise I would advise not going there. There are hundreds of pros on SA and it can only get worse as the gov keeps shutting down the real pro sites. I like to think of SA as a way to relax, and so getting all hot and bothered about anything that goes on in there would spoil the experience for me.

**FarFarAway** · 04-14-17 16:26

Originally Posted by WHM69 [View Original Post]

1. I just got blocked by a trashy-looking (but sexy) black girl after I offered her $300. She sent the message "I'm not that cheap" right before blocking me.

2. $300 seems to be the going rate for most girls who are down with casual fucking on a per-meeting basis. At least the ones I'm interested in. Relatively attractive, thin / athletic.

3. $500 will open the door to some of the really high quality girls that are serious lookers and head-turners. I have one girl I'm meeting soon who is a published model and youtube / instagram star. She doesn't advertise herself as such, but she got a little sloppy with some of the info she gave me and I figured it out. I won't let her know that I know.

4. Attractive light-skinned college girls won't even talk to me unless I bring $1,000 per night to the table. I did get one to compromise, but she's flaky and has an attitude problem.

5. Some girls will proposition me with their rate after 1 or 2 messages. Others are too shy to ask until the very last moment, after days of conversation and logistical planning. I can't decide which I like best.

There are exceptions to all of this, of course. But this has been my experience after the last week of intense S. A. Hunting.

You reap what you sow. You're treating them like BP hookers. You spend no time cultivating them as sugar relationships - these take time - even HWG does this. You are risking getting banned from the site, since you are clearly offering sex for $ - this will eventually bring down sugar dating sites and SA in particular. If a girl makes a specific $ proposal / demand, I'd report her. There is an excellent discussion of this topic on the Richmond sugar thread over the past few days. I recommend it.

FF away

**WHM69** · 04-14-17 15:59

1. I just got blocked by a trashy-looking (but sexy) black girl after I offered her $300. She sent the message "I'm not that cheap" right before blocking me.

2. $300 seems to be the going rate for most girls who are down with casual fucking on a per-meeting basis. At least the ones I'm interested in. Relatively attractive, thin / athletic.

3. $500 will open the door to some of the really high quality girls that are serious lookers and head-turners. I have one girl I'm meeting soon who is a published model and youtube / instagram star. She doesn't advertise herself as such, but she got a little sloppy with some of the info she gave me and I figured it out. I won't let her know that I know.

4. Attractive light-skinned college girls won't even talk to me unless I bring $1,000 per night to the table. I did get one to compromise, but she's flaky and has an attitude problem.

5. Some girls will proposition me with their rate after 1 or 2 messages. Others are too shy to ask until the very last moment, after days of conversation and logistical planning. I can't decide which I like best.

There are exceptions to all of this, of course. But this has been my experience after the last week of intense S. A. Hunting.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-14-17 02:07

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-e0869b2641fd

What I'm Looking for.

I just want to be treated like a princess and getting choked on occasions.

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Thats my kind of princess. lol