Sugar Daddy Sites

[SteveTandberg]

Funny you mention it, I was just online with a second profile I have had for a while but haven't really used. Had a first date today with a girl that I thought went well. Immediately afterward her profile was either deactivated or she blocked me. I was curious which it was so went to the second profile, searched for her and did not find her. Hopefully this means she was BSing me when she said she was only looking for one person. I will reach out to her in a day or two and see what happens.

100% effective to determine if she blocks you. Theoretically she could take herself out of search but most girls don't do that. SB 2 times ago did that and does that so she can't be searched. Then occasionally she will pop on to answer messages and look for other SDs.

[Dsprdo]

I've been using SA off and on since before 2015. Over time I realized that there was value in starting over. My tastes changed. My approach changed. The PPM / donation changed. Certain girls that would block me were accessible again.

This time around, I got curious about what wealth levels and body descriptions would attract certain sbs. So on this free profile, I changed it up a bit. Stayed with my ethnic category and age but increased height and upped the wealth / income.

Wealth matters although I have no idea of the quality of SBs that wealth attracts. Could be more scammers.

Since it's a free account I can't send or read messages but for sure it receives significantly more attention than the profile I use. I found some guy that kind of looks like me and use his photo but modified it so it's not him anymore.

Then through the reddit Sugarlife forum, I found out how to discretely check the activity of the sbs I'm seeing.

Just favorite them on the alternate profile and view Last Active. The timing isn't precise but according to the reddit guys, online activity is accurate to 1 hour of use. Past that, even if you're logged in but not using the site, it doesn't show your profile as active.

Can anyone confirm that? I haven't made a female profile so I have no way of checking that.

Seeing a SB you're seeing constantly active on the site helps me make better decisions on my interactions. Definitely an eye opener especially when you see a SB you're seeing reach out to this fake profile. I had a SB date and within 2 hours of her leaving, she was back on the site.

Anyone else do this?

Funny you mention it, I was just online with a second profile I have had for a while but haven't really used. Had a first date today with a girl that I thought went well. Immediately afterward her profile was either deactivated or she blocked me. I was curious which it was so went to the second profile, searched for her and did not find her. Hopefully this means she was BSing me when she said she was only looking for one person. I will reach out to her in a day or two and see what happens.

[Felix06]

Sorta, not exactly. I work in a large organization. Thousands of people at this location. There are definitely some girls who are also here who are candidates to show up on SA. I have for the most part been careful about this, figuring if I was seeing someone from my organization, there is a much greater chance of her coming across my IRL identity (of course I have a sugar story that doesn't involve my working here). So once those POTs divulged that they were here, I just blocked them and went on. Too many fish in the sea and all.

However, I am just now sorely tempted to violate my rules. I have a hankering to bang an Indian-American girl, and there is a POT right now who really floats my boat. And in my organization. Absolutely gorgeous. She is in a department far from mine (subject-wise and physically). We've spoken by phone and she is interested, though I am above her age range. Hence she wants to see full pix. Even those that have been sanitized to avoid facial recognition, someone at this organization upon seeing them could recognize me. Of course, this girl likely doesn't want anyone knowing that she is active on the site either.

She says her last arrangement ended about a month ago. She is hot enough she won't have to wait long to get some new offers. Carpe diem.

I don't know what kind of financial stakes you have at risk, but you might want to listen to the rationale part of you that made the rules in the first place. I'm not sure you could ever under-estimate the amount of embarrassment a person would be willing to put up with, especially someone younger than you (or, generally, of the younger generations), and even more so if they have less to lose. She might be able to start over, but what are your odds if the worst were to happen and you became the talk of your organization? Just food for thought.

[SteveTandberg]

I've been using SA off and on since before 2015. Over time I realized that there was value in starting over. My tastes changed. My approach changed. The PPM / donation changed. Certain girls that would block me were accessible again.

This time around, I got curious about what wealth levels and body descriptions would attract certain sbs. So on this free profile, I changed it up a bit. Stayed with my ethnic category and age but increased height and upped the wealth / income.

Wealth matters although I have no idea of the quality of SBs that wealth attracts. Could be more scammers.

Since it's a free account I can't send or read messages but for sure it receives significantly more attention than the profile I use. I found some guy that kind of looks like me and use his photo but modified it so it's not him anymore.

Then through the reddit Sugarlife forum, I found out how to discretely check the activity of the sbs I'm seeing.

Just favorite them on the alternate profile and view Last Active. The timing isn't precise but according to the reddit guys, online activity is accurate to 1 hour of use. Past that, even if you're logged in but not using the site, it doesn't show your profile as active.

Can anyone confirm that? I haven't made a female profile so I have no way of checking that.

Seeing a SB you're seeing constantly active on the site helps me make better decisions on my interactions. Definitely an eye opener especially when you see a SB you're seeing reach out to this fake profile. I had a SB date and within 2 hours of her leaving, she was back on the site.

Anyone else do this?

[IronClad999]

There's a reason we are in the bowl though. When traveling I met up w / a girl who was super kinky about the age gap, she was introduced to it by watching porn, and the experience of being w / her was top level. I got this from her afterward.

Hard to resist stuff like that; maybe go with the flow LOL.

[FarFarAway]

There's a reason we are in the bowl though. When traveling I met up w / a girl who was super kinky about the age gap, she was introduced to it by watching porn, and the experience of being w / her was top level. I got this from her afterward.

[FarFarAway]

I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.

Everyone has their limits / values. I have had a couple of dates w / super hot SBs lately, but one was dumb as a post, and one was truly autistic. Super shy, inexperienced, and unskillful in bed, etc. In both cases, I just could not do the deed and politely excused myself. I fulfilled my part of the bargain for their time and our room, but afterward ghosted. I am very 'mature,' as the saying goes, perhaps I am past the stage where simple hotness is sufficient. I really need to learn this lesson, and make the M&G useful for myself, to avoid these aborted FCs in the future. I tend to say 'oh, she's so damn hot, how can I miss out on this kitty even though there are these issues I can see?' But it doesn't work for me.

[Murrican]

I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.

I'm realizing after I just sent the last message but it's really the narcissism here the bothers me. Not that I would characterize her as narcissistic. It's more a generational thing. Like they were always girls who wanted to be actresses and such. But the idea someone thinks it's a good career direction to try to be an influencer. And to really push for that, earnestly. To basically have it be your mission to have people follow you for daily 30 second dribbles on which color you think it's going to be in style this fall, or which brand of makeup foundation is the best. It seems like such a huge waste of human potential.

But again, she's really hot. So you know what I say over dinner in the hour leading up to taking her to bed? I compliment her taste, her vision, her connecting with an audience, her dedication to the craft.

I lie.

[Murrican]

I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.

I totally get that. This one isn't exactly stupid. Just has vapid hobbies and aspirations.

[Chupacabra]

I'm only sharing this for the sheer pleasure of making fun at somebody else's expense.

I have an SB. She's 19 and quite attractive. Very into fashion and makeup and stuff. Anyways she doesn't know I know but I know her TikTok handle. I look everyday.

She posts literally everyday. She mimicks this whole stupid generational thing where they dress up or dance or do product reviews. She refers to herself as an influencer. She starts every video with "like and subscribe. " She referred to herself in one video as "undiscovered famous. ".

She has like 400 followers. Every video gets like 4 comments. It's sad. But it's also funny. I mean to see someone in this generation pour so much time and energy into something so asinine and fruitless. She's a server at a restaurant. I want to shake her and say "you need to switch directions now and fast because you're not going to be this hot or young forever. " But I don't. Because I like banging her and I don't care enough to. So I'm just sharing it here like an asshole.

I swear I'm happy I was raised before this stupidity.

I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.

[Gidden Lade]

Forgot to add that the pic I used was of some old jazz bassist that I never heard of (and I'm a music junkie). Thus, I assumed no one else would know either, esp a SB. Do you think the person being "famous" even if not very widely known was the problem?

[Murrican]

I'm only sharing this for the sheer pleasure of making fun at somebody else's expense.

I have an SB. She's 19 and quite attractive. Very into fashion and makeup and stuff. Anyways she doesn't know I know but I know her TikTok handle. I look everyday.

She posts literally everyday. She mimicks this whole stupid generational thing where they dress up or dance or do product reviews. She refers to herself as an influencer. She starts every video with "like and subscribe. " She referred to herself in one video as "undiscovered famous. ".

She has like 400 followers. Every video gets like 4 comments. It's sad. But it's also funny. I mean to see someone in this generation pour so much time and energy into something so asinine and fruitless. She's a server at a restaurant. I want to shake her and say "you need to switch directions now and fast because you're not going to be this hot or young forever. " But I don't. Because I like banging her and I don't care enough to. So I'm just sharing it here like an asshole.

I swear I'm happy I was raised before this stupidity.

[Gidden Lade]

I have provided my solution to posting photos that are safe. Someone who looks like you, with also some parts cut out as if they really are you and you are trying to stay discreet. There is even a new approach to locating photos on the web who look like you. Facial recognition sites.

Tried this & came up with what I thought was a good match. Site came back with a message saying the "image appears not to be you. " Will try finding another one. Guess not that many poor bastards are cursed enough to look like me.

[FarFarAway]

Its YMMV for sure. Not everyone can post pictures for obvious reasons. Tons of men on there are married I read somewhere.

I have provided my solution to posting photos that are safe. Someone who looks like you, with also some parts cut out as if they really are you and you are trying to stay discreet. There is even a new approach to locating photos on the web who look like you. Facial recognition sites.

[FarFarAway]

Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.

I will say stuff like 'I am sure some girls on the site get that', but qualify that isn't something I'd be able to do. And that if all they care about is that one allowance payment, they should try to track that guy down again. Meaning, yeah, history is fine, but you are here and now talking to me, and what you got before isn't that relevant. If you just want to say 'bye' without pissing her off and risking her reporting you to the site (however invalid) you can always go with HG's "I'll keep that in mind".

I don't think it is very fruitful to really haggle, people tend to have their numbers in mind. Think of it the same way you would about car prices. The phenomenon of pinning. I never never discuss $ online, only face to face. People are brave behind a keyboard, they fear rejection when face to face, and when they have invested in the meeting. Their ask will be less.

I emphasize I want an ongoing arrangement, where they'll get paid multiple times and they don't have to be on the site meeting someone new all the time, who might be nice or not really.

I have also had girls claim they were getting like 1-2 K per meet in past arrangements. Some I even believed that. Of course, they are ruined forever by that. A guy who does that, his mind is in a funny place, and he is fucking up the sugarbowl for most. I would not believe that a girl who had once gotten that kind of dough would ever be satisfied w / the 3-500 that I could do. I heard this at a M&G w / someone I thought had real potential for a friendly relationship, but I declined to pursue further.