[QUOTE=LCB;4539712]I'm not sure what DDS stands for. Anyone? Where's this place?
-LCB.[/QUOTE]The place by Green Lake [URL]https://www.rubmaps.ch/erotic-massage-dds-massage-seattle-wa-69390#rubmaps[/URL].
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[QUOTE=LCB;4539712]I'm not sure what DDS stands for. Anyone? Where's this place?
-LCB.[/QUOTE]The place by Green Lake [URL]https://www.rubmaps.ch/erotic-massage-dds-massage-seattle-wa-69390#rubmaps[/URL].
Up for a business trip. Went to Tokyo Spa, been a few years. Still have a good shower and sauna. It was a little worn down but service was good. Opted for the hour, had a good looking 30 ish. Still a good place good selection FS.
Any Intel on Four Seasons Massage: [URL]https://www.rubmaps.ch/erotic-massage-four-seasons-massage-shoreline-wa-78890[/URL]#review-906593.
There is another site that says from the reviews that it is not a fun place but a legit place.
Someone else may have some input or maybe pm you.
I keep seeing this ad on RubRatings:
[URL]https://seattle.rubratings.com/123101[/URL]
Number Googles to a Jasmine Spa in Kirkland. It's the same girl in every photo, so I wonder if that's a good or bad sign.
Anyone got any intel on this place?
[QUOTE=Facials;4536919]Anyone know which AMP this was at?
[URL]https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5dcc7bedd15d2[/URL][/QUOTE]How do you know if it's near the Seattle area?
[QUOTE=NoFearToTry;4540325]There is another site that says from the reviews that it is not a fun place but a legit place.
Someone else may have some input or maybe pm you.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the reply though. Appreciate it!
Can someone please share the reviews from rubmap if you have membership for: [URL]https://www.rubmaps.ch/erotic-massage-aurora-massage-spa-seattle-wa-38645[/URL]#rubmaps.
Please feel free to PM me.
Thanks In Advance!
Stopped by Soft Bay looking to see Jessica because I was up for some full-service fun. Unfortunately, it being a Friday night, Jessica was busy with another monger when I got to Soft Bay. At the top of the landing, I was greeted by Cindy, who was very nice to me in my last visit to Soft Bay about a month ago. Cindy, however, is far away from full-service as she is more of a Rub & Tug gal.
As I am trying to figure out how to not get Cindy, a monger opens the door to the room at the top of the stairs. After he walks out, this cute young thing (looks early 20s or so) walks out behind him. I asked Cindy if this is a new girl. She says yes, her name is Lulu. She is, by far, the cutest girl in the current Soft Bay lineup.
Oh, how I wish Lulu had never opened that fucking door! What ensued was the worst experience I have ever had at Soft Bay, which at worst is good for a Rub & Tug. Not tonight! Lulu gives me one of those light massages where she just presses down on whatever body part she happens to touching. I asked 5x to massage harder, but her English was non-existent, although she seemed to understand, she just never massaged any harder.
The massage featured no teasing, I basically had to beg to get rid of the towel citing extreme heat as the reason and when I touched her calf early on, Lulu about jumped out of her skin and asked that I not touch her. Bad sign! I was tempted to ask for someone else then, but didn't. I wish I had.
Lulu never came close to touching me in any teasing or sexual manner! She never even touched my ass. The flip came REALLY late and after the flip, she basically just rubbed my hand and then my head, the big one!
No rub & tug, no nothing! I was so damn pissed! It's one thing to go to a legit place and leave with blue balls, but it is another thing to go to a place regularly for 3 years, where you have received everything from BBFS to DATY to BBBJ and at the ABSOLUTE LEAST a hand job and leave with blue balls.
I mean how can you be two doors away from Jessica, who will fuck you silly and sit on your face while sucking your bare cock, and get stuck with the asexual virgin-like girl who stays as far away from your genitals as humanly possible while still being in the same room.
When I was leaving, I was so damn pissed off that I just gave Lulu a terse "Have a good night!" and started walking down the stairs. She asked for a tip. I said "No tip". She seemed surprised, so she asked again. I said No tip again and kept walking down the stairs. She seemed stunned.
I tip well in almost every occasion. I never stiff a waiter or waitress. Ever, no matter how bad the service. When I have been to a Massage Envy type place, I always leave a tip. This, to me, is different. I felt cheated out of not just the $60 house fee for a terrible massage, but also the experience I was expecting and have always received there.
My recommendation is to stay the fuck away from Lulu at Soft Bay and I would probably think twice about seeing any of the current crop at SB. What a fucking waste of an evening where my wife is out of town for the night!
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4543745]
My recommendation is to stay the fuck away from Lulu at Soft Bay and I would probably think twice about seeing any of the current crop at SB. What a fucking waste of an evening where my wife is out of town for the night![/QUOTE]Wow, thanks for the warning! When I was there a couple weeks ago, I was told that the new girl was "Amy", but apparently these new girls aren't lasting very long.
Maybe she was on "Full" from the previous monger hahaha!
I feel bad for all you mongers that visited Jessica after me. I stopped in right when they opened recently. Jessica was fresh out of the shower. We went straight to business, Jessica got on here knees & started me off the right way. I gave her a good stretching and a nice work out with a deep creampie. She followed up with a nice massage that led to a repeat of the previous. I left her really sloppy. I know one of you pervs. Came in after me and slopped up my sloppy seconds.
Have a good one!
-LCB.
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4543745]Stopped by Soft Bay looking to see Jessica because I was up for some full-service fun. Unfortunately, it being a Friday night, Jessica was busy with another monger when I got to Soft Bay. At the top of the landing, I was greeted by Cindy, who was very nice to me in my last visit to Soft Bay about a month ago. Cindy, however, is far away from full-service as she is more of a Rub & Tug gal.
As I am trying to figure out how to not get Cindy, a monger opens the door to the room at the top of the stairs. After he walks out, this cute young thing (looks early 20s or so) walks out behind him. I asked Cindy if this is a new girl. She says yes, her name is Lulu. She is, by far, the cutest girl in the current Soft Bay lineup.
Oh, how I wish Lulu had never opened that fucking door! What ensued was the worst experience I have ever had at Soft Bay, which at worst is good for a Rub & Tug. Not tonight! Lulu gives me one of those light massages where she just presses down on whatever body part she happens to touching. I asked 5x to massage harder, but her English was non-existent, although she seemed to understand, she just never massaged any harder.
The massage featured no teasing, I basically had to beg to get rid of the towel citing extreme heat as the reason and when I touched her calf early on, Lulu about jumped out of her skin and asked that I not touch her. Bad sign! I was tempted to ask for someone else then, but didn't. I wish I had.
Lulu never came close to touching me in any teasing or sexual manner! She never even touched my ass. The flip came REALLY late and after the flip, she basically just rubbed my hand and then my head, the big one!
No rub & tug, no nothing! I was so damn pissed! It's one thing to go to a legit place and leave with blue balls, but it is another thing to go to a place regularly for 3 years, where you have received everything from BBFS to DATY to BBBJ and at the ABSOLUTE LEAST a hand job and leave with blue balls.
I mean how can you be two doors away from Jessica, who will fuck you silly and sit on your face while sucking your bare cock, and get stuck with the asexual virgin-like girl who stays as far away from your genitals as humanly possible while still being in the same room.
When I was leaving, I was so damn pissed off that I just gave Lulu a terse "Have a good night!" and started walking down the stairs. She asked for a tip. I said "No tip". She seemed surprised, so she asked again. I said No tip again and kept walking down the stairs. She seemed stunned.
I tip well in almost every occasion. I never stiff a waiter or waitress. Ever, no matter how bad the service. When I have been to a Massage Envy type place, I always leave a tip. This, to me, is different. I felt cheated out of not just the $60 house fee for a terrible massage, but also the experience I was expecting and have always received there.
My recommendation is to stay the fuck away from Lulu at Soft Bay and I would probably think twice about seeing any of the current crop at SB. What a fucking waste of an evening where my wife is out of town for the night![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LCB;4544198]Maybe she was on "Full" from the previous monger hahaha!
I feel bad for all you mongers that visited Jessica after me. I stopped in right when they opened recently. Jessica was fresh out of the shower. We went straight to business, Jessica got on here knees & started me off the right way. I gave her a good stretching and a nice work out with a deep creampie. She followed up with a nice massage that led to a repeat of the previous. I left her really sloppy. I know one of you pervs. Came in after me and slopped up my sloppy seconds.
Have a good one!
-LCB.[/QUOTE]I got to Soft Bay well into a Friday night. Following LCB's post, it got me thinking about what a typical day for Jessica might be like. My guess is that she is taking more deposits than the local Wells Fargo branch!
EVERY time I go to Soft Bay now, her door is closed and she is "busy" with a client. She HAS to be sore at the end of a long workday. I give her credit, though, she loves her job and loves bangin' the boys!
I just wish the rest of the girls there did likewise because when you show up wanting a full service buffet and it isn't available, then you are left with either an appetizer or just plain go home hungry like I did with Lulu Legit!
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4543745]Stopped by Soft Bay looking to see Jessica because I was up for some full-service fun. Unfortunately, it being a Friday night, Jessica was busy with another monger when I got to Soft Bay. At the top of the landing, I was greeted by Cindy, who was very nice to me in my last visit to Soft Bay about a month ago. Cindy, however, is far away from full-service as she is more of a Rub & Tug gal.
As I am trying to figure out how to not get Cindy, a monger opens the door to the room at the top of the stairs. After he walks out, this cute young thing (looks early 20s or so) walks out behind him. I asked Cindy if this is a new girl. She says yes, her name is Lulu. She is, by far, the cutest girl in the current Soft Bay lineup.
Oh, how I wish Lulu had never opened that fucking door! What ensued was the worst experience I have ever had at Soft Bay, which at worst is good for a Rub & Tug. Not tonight! Lulu gives me one of those light massages where she just presses down on whatever body part she happens to touching. I asked 5x to massage harder, but her English was non-existent, although she seemed to understand, she just never massaged any harder.
The massage featured no teasing, I basically had to beg to get rid of the towel citing extreme heat as the reason and when I touched her calf early on, Lulu about jumped out of her skin and asked that I not touch her. Bad sign! I was tempted to ask for someone else then, but didn't. I wish I had.
Lulu never came close to touching me in any teasing or sexual manner! She never even touched my ass. The flip came REALLY late and after the flip, she basically just rubbed my hand and then my head, the big one!
No rub & tug, no nothing! I was so damn pissed! It's one thing to go to a legit place and leave with blue balls, but it is another thing to go to a place regularly for 3 years, where you have received everything from BBFS to DATY to BBBJ and at the ABSOLUTE LEAST a hand job and leave with blue balls.
I mean how can you be two doors away from Jessica, who will fuck you silly and sit on your face while sucking your bare cock, and get stuck with the asexual virgin-like girl who stays as far away from your genitals as humanly possible while still being in the same room.
When I was leaving, I was so damn pissed off that I just gave Lulu a terse "Have a good night!" and started walking down the stairs. She asked for a tip. I said "No tip". She seemed surprised, so she asked again. I said No tip again and kept walking down the stairs. She seemed stunned.
I tip well in almost every occasion. I never stiff a waiter or waitress. Ever, no matter how bad the service. When I have been to a Massage Envy type place, I always leave a tip. This, to me, is different. I felt cheated out of not just the $60 house fee for a terrible massage, but also the experience I was expecting and have always received there.
My recommendation is to stay the fuck away from Lulu at Soft Bay and I would probably think twice about seeing any of the current crop at SB. What a fucking waste of an evening where my wife is out of town for the night![/QUOTE]That was funny. Only a question of time before she gets the memo. I'll be in seattle soon was planning to stop there probably won't happen now or at least will be avoiding Lulu. Thanks for the info.
[QUOTE=Dami206;4544535]I'll be in seattle soon was planning to stop there probably won't happen now or at least will be avoiding Lulu.[/QUOTE]Yes, when I stopped by yesterday and was told that Lulu was the only one available, I turned around and went a block away to LaurelSpa. Limited menu there, but far better than what was described here from Lulu!
Has anyone come across a Thai massage provider with extras? Looks like Carnation massage on lakecity has Thai staff but not sure if they provide any extras. Appreciate any info on this.
[QUOTE=BlueOrigin;4545339]Has anyone come across a Thai massage provider with extras? Looks like Carnation massage on lakecity has Thai staff but not sure if they provide any extras. Appreciate any info on this.[/QUOTE]There was a time when you could get a HJ from Carnation, but the last two times I went there the staff had changed and was strictly legit, so I stopped going. That was early this year.
It's was all-Chinese, although of course that could have changed.
(I'm referring to the Carnation on Lake City Way, around 135th, east side of the road).
[QUOTE=SeattleAmpfan;4546241]There was a time when you could get a HJ from Carnation, but the last two times I went there the staff had changed and was strictly legit, so I stopped going. That was early this year.
It's was all-Chinese, although of course that could have changed.
(I'm referring to the Carnation on Lake City Way, around 135th, east side of the road).[/QUOTE]Thanks Ampfan. Appreciate the input, I will steer clear.
Every time I find a FS AMP shop, I'm always told that I'm very large. And the girl complains about every size.
I'm not "huge". Rather average with maybe a little more girth than normal. Is this just what the Asian girls do to make you feel good about yourself?
[QUOTE=Hwewax;4547331]Every time I find a FS AMP shop, I'm always told that I'm very large. And the girl complains about every size.
I'm not "huge". Rather average with maybe a little more girth than normal. Is this just what the Asian girls do to make you feel good about yourself?[/QUOTE]Some Asian gals are just too "small" down in their vagina. I am a little above average in terms to length, but not girth. Been recently visiting 2 Asian gals. One is older, taller, and she is fine with me. The other is cuter, younger, but definitely tighter. But she does not complain, especially when I use my oral skills with her!
Saw this girl a few times. Her incalls are hit or miss on how nice they are but her service is outstanding. She's older than she says, closer to 45-50 but an amazing body with bolt ons. Was a massage plus BBBJ also FS a time or two. Sorry trying to get caught up on reports. Always roughly $. 5 for donation.
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[QUOTE=Hwewax;4547331]Every time I find a FS AMP shop, I'm always told that I'm very large. And the girl complains about every size.
I'm not "huge". Rather average with maybe a little more girth than normal. Is this just what the Asian girls do to make you feel good about yourself?[/QUOTE]I think they're just small genetically so most guys from the west will be larger than what they normally would deal with if they were in Asia.
[QUOTE=Hwewax;4547331]Every time I find a FS AMP shop, I'm always told that I'm very large. And the girl complains about every size.
I'm not "huge". Rather average with maybe a little more girth than normal. Is this just what the Asian girls do to make you feel good about yourself?[/QUOTE]Funny! I'd describe myself similarly; average length and somewhat above average girth that grows toward the base. All the girls at ET comment and laugh about how "big" I am. It's just good-natured fun to me. But with some I can indeed feel the tightness. Many non-Asian providers have mentioned it too though. From what I'm told at least, some appreciate having their pussies spread without the guy pounding away at their cervix.
I'll admit it, I have a thing for Vietnamese chicks! Sadly, it's rare that I find a place with Vietnamese girls. Any intel on where I can find some would be greatly appreciated!
Feel free to PM me directly. I've been going all over the Greater Seattle area, visiting AMPs for 5+ years and am willing to trade intel.
It's right across from Symmetry spa, and has all the appearances of a traditional AMP from the outside and based on their hours (10-10) but I can't find any reviews confirming. Has anyone been?
Looking for a new spot since 85th and 8th closed. Lala isn't really doing it for me, and my experience at evergreen on 65th was self service.
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4544343]I got to Soft Bay well into a Friday night. Following LCB's post, it got me thinking about what a typical day for Jessica might be like. My guess is that she is taking more deposits than the local Wells Fargo branch!
EVERY time I go to Soft Bay now, her door is closed and she is "busy" with a client. She HAS to be sore at the end of a long workday. I give her credit, though, she loves her job and loves bangin' the boys![/QUOTE]Anybody notice that Jessica is taking a ton of FS customers at Soft Bay and over on Strip Clubs, Monse seems to be the busiest at Pandora's?
Soft Bay and Pandora's are 1 mile apart. That's a ton of FS in one little spot.
[QUOTE=MassageMeow;4548544]It's right across from Symmetry spa, and has all the appearances of a traditional AMP from the outside and based on their hours (10-10) but I can't find any reviews confirming. Has anyone been?
[/QUOTE]Is that the one in the strip mall, with parking in front? Yeah, I've been there a couple times, and it was totally legit.
Symmetry is totally legit as well, but that's my go-to place to get "a real massage".
There is a third place there, on the corner of 144th and Greenwood, on the bottom floor in a multi-use building. Sign says "Thai Massage" or something like that. I've only been there once, and it was awhile ago, but the gal didn't seem qualified to do anything (massage or extras), but she was open to mutual touch and wanted to blow in my ear at lot. I recall thinking the place was bizarre, and never went back.
New member here Had a dream I went to lake serene spa, Jennie there has some big Bolt ons.
A very tight box and she's no more than 30. Paid house fee and tipped $. All in all solid visit.
[QUOTE=SeattleAmpfan;4548950]Is that the one in the strip mall, with parking in front? Yeah, I've been there a couple times, and it was totally legit.
Symmetry is totally legit as well, but that's my go-to place to get "a real massage".
There is a third place there, on the corner of 144th and Greenwood, on the bottom floor in a multi-use building. Sign says "Thai Massage" or something like that. I've only been there once, and it was awhile ago, but the gal didn't seem qualified to do anything (massage or extras), but she was open to mutual touch and wanted to blow in my ear at lot. I recall thinking the place was bizarre, and never went back.[/QUOTE]Been to that Thai place too and had similar experience. Never went back. Older too.
But for symmetry and eternity what would you say age range would be?
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4480409]Had some time to burn yesterday after work and I decided to take a visit to Jackson Street and 12th Ave for a little mongering fun. Stopped in to Seattle Foot & Body Massage.
This was the second time that I have seen Lena and this time was similar to the last, except that the pre-flip "massage" was even shorter and less therapeutic than the first time. She didn't even make a real effort to give me a massage. After gently rubbing lotion around my back for a couple of minutes, she started playing with my man region, asking if that was okay. I'm pretty sure that she could that I enjoyed what her hands were doing.
Seriously, maybe 7 minutes into the massage, she tells me to flip over! I actually wanted a massage, not just a fuck like last time. Lena is nice, a bit older than I would prefer, but she is still cute, with a really nice figure for someone in their 50's.
She wanted to fuck more than massage, but I told her I was too tired. She pointed to her mouth and I said sure. Then she held up 1 finger. I actually laughed out loud. I told her that I would do sixty. She said eighty. I said just your hand then for forty. She wasn't thrilled with that, but I didn't feel up to FS, which was BB last time by the way.
After awhile of her jacking me with her big tits showing and a finger of mine up her pussy, I asked for some DATY. She said "Sixty" and I said okay. Figured someone should get some oral. Licked her into a frenzy and then she stroked me while I fingered her soaking wet pussy. Came and then went.
All in all, I won't repeat as I actually would like at least a feeble attempt at a massage before the sex part. If not, the provider better be younger and hotter. She loves to fuck, tho, and will offer you a party hat, but when you decline, she is okay with that, too.
When I went FS a few months ago, I ended up paying the $60 house fee, then $80 because that was all I had on me. The FS was a surprise to me since I had never been there before.
Rock Chalk.[/QUOTE]Same experience many times and never more than. 8. Massages keep getting shorter and shorter! Declined full twice in a row and she seemed a little upset. Never even knew bare was an option.
[QUOTE=CoolJohn101;4548530]I'll admit it, I have a thing for Vietnamese chicks! Sadly, it's rare that I find a place with Vietnamese girls. Any intel on where I can find some would be greatly appreciated!
Feel free to PM me directly. I've been going all over the Greater Seattle area, visiting AMPs for 5+ years and am willing to trade intel.[/QUOTE]No I can't think of any nowadays. There used to be quite a few, that was years ago though.
[QUOTE=Justice2001;4549136]
But for symmetry and eternity what would you say age range would be?[/QUOTE]Age at Symmetry seems to be in the 20's and 30's, unless you get the owner, I think she's probably in her 40's (but she tries her best to have her employees give the massages). Symmetry is about as sexy as you could get and still stay legal. In fact, you'll probably walk out thinking that everyone else is getting extras and you were just unlucky. But I've been there enough times to know that's just the way it is.
Eternity I haven't been to in a year, and even then it was the same women I saw 2 or 3 times, and she was probably in her 30's or 40's.
[QUOTE=MassageMeow;4548544]
Looking for a new spot since 85th and 8th closed. Lala isn't really doing it for me, and my experience at evergreen on 65th was self service.[/QUOTE]Brainstorming. Isn't there a place around 79th & 15th (Ballard) ? And a place on Greenwood between 85th & 87th (Greenwood)? Not that I've been to either of these places, or seen any reviews.
There's a place that's on Greenwood & Northgate way that I haven't been to in years (foot massage), but was totally legit when I did go there.
And of course there are two places near Aurora and Northgate Way that I've never been to.
(My solution to getting good extras has been to NOT go to Greenwood or Ballard, and instead go to Lake City or Fremont).
[QUOTE=SeattleAmpfan;4549771]And of course there are two places near Aurora and Northgate Way that I've never been to.(My solution to getting good extras has been to NOT go to Greenwood or Ballard, and instead go to Lake City or Fremont).[/QUOTE]Any Fremont intel you could share? BBBJCIM finish is my jam.
[QUOTE=SeattleAmpfan;4549771]Brainstorming. Isn't there a place around 79th & 15th (Ballard) ? And a place on Greenwood between 85th & 87th (Greenwood)? Not that I've been to either of these places, or seen any reviews.
There's a place that's on Greenwood & Northgate way that I haven't been to in years (foot massage), but was totally legit when I did go there.
And of course there are two places near Aurora and Northgate Way that I've never been to.
(My solution to getting good extras has been to NOT go to Greenwood or Ballard, and instead go to Lake City or Fremont).[/QUOTE]Which place in Fremont?
[QUOTE=TitFucker;4549859]Any Fremont intel you could share? BBBJCIM finish is my jam.[/QUOTE]Of the 3 places I've been to in the Fremont area, they don't seem to go beyond a HJ. I tend to go to Yili as the girls there are generally younger & prettier. For more than that you'd probably need to go to Ravenna (DDS) or Lake City (Soft Bay), or east lake union (Lavender)?
In your dream, did Jennie offer up BBFS & does she like creampie?
-LCB.
[QUOTE=Deeto420;4548974]New member here Had a dream I went to lake serene spa, Jennie there has some big Bolt ons.
A very tight box and she's no more than 30. Paid house fee and tipped $. All in all solid visit.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CoolJohn101;4548530]I'll admit it, I have a thing for Vietnamese chicks! Sadly, it's rare that I find a place with Vietnamese girls. Any intel on where I can find some would be greatly appreciated!
Feel free to PM me directly. I've been going all over the Greater Seattle area, visiting AMPs for 5+ years and am willing to trade intel.[/QUOTE]Try Sunshine on Ranier ave in Seattle or Highland Spa in Renton. Both Vietnamese with little focus on "massage. ".
[QUOTE=Mcigarz;4550418]Try Sunshine on Ranier ave in Seattle or Highland Spa in Renton. Both Vietnamese with little focus on "massage. ".[/QUOTE]Interesting! Only considering the situation to be a fantasy what exactly are the extras that might be offered at these locations?
Has anyone gone to an aamp in Seattle or Everett? How is that compared to an AMP?
[QUOTE=Jreads;4550813]Has anyone gone to an aamp in Seattle or Everett? How is that compared to an AMP?[/QUOTE]Yes, AAMP stands for Apartment Asian Massage Parlor and AMP stands for Asian Massage Parlor. The former is as you described: they send an address and apartment number and they buzz you in upon arrival. I've visited both types and I prefer the AMP set-up. In general, I believe that the more transparency there is, the less likelihood that something nefarious is going on. That is, in a condo or apartment in a secure building, it is potentially easier for management to hold / coerce providers against their will. Additionally, my fear of an LE sting is greater when I enter an unknown and anonymous venue like an AAMP. (I could be completely wrong-headed on this. In recent years, based on local news reports, it seems as if LE has netted many more arrests by shutting down and re-opening AMPs as sting operations than by operating AAMP stings. Though they've done both, so neither is completely safe.).
For me, when the urge hits, I like the convenience of the AMP. There's no back and forth texting or appointment-setting, and I'm generally happy with the luck of the draw when it comes to whichever provider I get to share time with.