I was reminiscing about a recent IG model I met a couple of years ago, and wondering, who here has had an interesting experience to share. Perhaps, share some tips with others on how to proceed.
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I was reminiscing about a recent IG model I met a couple of years ago, and wondering, who here has had an interesting experience to share. Perhaps, share some tips with others on how to proceed.
A few notes about meeting women on social media:
First: This is going to be about playing the long game. If you want a Friday night date, the odds are overwhelmingly against it. Women are skeptical of guys on social media, as they should be.
Second: Many women are not local, and may not even live within driving distance. You need to have the means to get away, and the time. If you're married, stay local.
Third: Many gals won't answer your DMs for the longest time, if at all. The primary reason many are on social media is to make money. If they have tens of thousands of followers, they can make money for each post as an influencer.
Finally: Your best bet, from what I've learned is to find someone who is just starting out. Think, under 5000 followers. You will become more relevant to them, if you're an early follower.
I've been following this strategy for a couple of years now, and it pays off.
You'd be surprised to find out how many girls are willing to meet for money on Instagram. Just hit them up asking if they'd be interested in a sugar daddy and you'll get a response about half of the time. I'm talking about girls with 1 k followers though nothing too crazy haha.
For most of us this goes without saying but please do not use personal social media accounts that you verified with her personal cell phone or personal email. Please use hobby phones and fake names.
[QUOTE=GeneralObvious;6213674]I was reminiscing about a recent IG model I met a couple of years ago, and wondering, who here has had an interesting experience to share. Perhaps, share some tips with others on how to proceed.[/QUOTE]Where's HanginBalls when you finally need him?
Can't say I've ever hooked up with a non-pro through Instagram, but I've had my share of LinkedIn hookups. It's weird, I never thought of it as a dating site, but it's surprisingly easy to transition from work chat to personal chat to a date.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;6247236]Where's HanginBalls when you finally need him?
Can't say I've ever hooked up with a non-pro through Instagram, but I've had my share of LinkedIn hookups. It's weird, I never thought of it as a dating site, but it's surprisingly easy to transition from work chat to personal chat to a date.[/QUOTE]I doubt anyone has made a burner LinkedIn, so you need to not give a fuck to pull this off.
[QUOTE=Rauly9;6246863]You'd be surprised to find out how many girls are willing to meet for money on Instagram. Just hit them up asking if they'd be interested in a sugar daddy and you'll get a response about half of the time. I'm talking about girls with 1 k followers though nothing too crazy haha.[/QUOTE]So what's a good opening I'm?
[QUOTE=DynoJr;6247361]I doubt anyone has made a burner LinkedIn, so you need to not give a fuck to pull this off.[/QUOTE]I'm not married so it's not a big deal. I don't go sugar baby hunting or mongering on LinkedIn or anything. Just some chatting, feeling things out, then inviting her for a drink. I keep it vague enough that it could be business or it could be not business. Then when we are in front of each other I turn on the charm and see where it goes. I've always been enough of a gentleman that nobody could say anything bad about me even if I'm unsuccessful in converting to a hookup.
Facebook used to be another place for hookups but the demographics are too old now.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;6247858]I'm not married so it's not a big deal. I don't go sugar baby hunting or mongering on LinkedIn or anything. Just some chatting, feeling things out, then inviting her for a drink. I keep it vague enough that it could be business or it could be not business. Then when we are in front of each other I turn on the charm and see where it goes. I've always been enough of a gentleman that nobody could say anything bad about me even if I'm unsuccessful in converting to a hookup.
Facebook used to be another place for hookups but the demographics are too old now.[/QUOTE][URL]https://twitter.com/heckyessica/status/1601326558395781120?s=46&t=wLnJizG8tDWcUZU7dAYP5w[/URL]
[QUOTE=DynoJr;6248730][URL]https://twitter.com/heckyessica/status/1601326558395781120?s=46&t=wLnJizG8tDWcUZU7dAYP5w[/URL][/QUOTE]LOL. Those are usually guys who msg women on LinkedIn out of the blue with "what's up? You look good in your profile pic. ".
I won't message random women. There has to be some sort of reason why I'm connecting with them. And it never starts personal. Keep things professional and maybe occasionally throw in a personal detail, see if she bites with a personal detail of her own. Place where we traveled, restaurant we've been to, a hobby. Then switch from like 90% business /10% personal to 70% business, then 50% business, then offer a networking drink because you'll "be in her area". She's got to feel safe or it won't happen. Guys who treat LinkedIn like Instagram come across as creepy. You have to be a lot more careful than that.
[QUOTE=Jayp80;6246978]For most of us this goes without saying but please do not use personal social media accounts that you verified with her personal cell phone or personal email. Please use hobby phones and fake names.[/QUOTE]Not sure if this has been mentioned but to add, it's important to note the disadvantage of using personal accounts and your name is in the event they want to screenshot your message. Even of its not blackmail, some of these girls will post your conversation. Good luck if she forgets to blur or erase your info. May not even be out if malice.
[QUOTE=LongDStyle;6250416]Not sure if this has been mentioned but to add, it's important to note the disadvantage of using personal accounts and your name is in the event they want to screenshot your message. Even of its not blackmail, some of these girls will post your conversation. Good luck if she forgets to blur or erase your info. May not even be out if malice.[/QUOTE]If you approach your encounters on social media as friendly, you don't have much to worry about. I know, most guys are married on these boards, so depending on how much access your wives have to your phone, you may want to be careful.
For me, my hobby is photography. Been a hobby since the days of 35 mm film. It's a great way to strike up conversations on Instagram. A lot of women reach out to me about my photos. Thus, I started chatting up the nicer looking ones. Bonus points if they're close by.
Since I'm single, retired, and have no human dependents at home, I can travel anywhere for some fun. Bottom line, if you have an art type of hobby, use it to connect with women on social media. Artists get laid easily, fellas.
[QUOTE=Rauly9;6246863]You'd be surprised to find out how many girls are willing to meet for money on Instagram. Just hit them up asking if they'd be interested in a sugar daddy and you'll get a response about half of the time. I'm talking about girls with 1 k followers though nothing too crazy haha.[/QUOTE]Interesting. How do you know if they are local? Do you friend them first?
[QUOTE=GeneralObvious;6243241]A few notes about meeting women on social media:
First: This is going to be about playing the long game. If you want a Friday night date, the odds are overwhelmingly against it. Women are skeptical of guys on social media, as they should be.
Second: Many women are not local, and may not even live within driving distance. You need to have the means to get away, and the time. If you're married, stay local.
Third: Many gals won't answer your DMs for the longest time, if at all. The primary reason many are on social media is to make money. If they have tens of thousands of followers, they can make money for each post as an influencer.
Finally: Your best bet, from what I've learned is to find someone who is just starting out. Think, under 5000 followers. You will become more relevant to them, if you're an early follower.
I've been following this strategy for a couple of years now, and it pays off.[/QUOTE]What kind of search terms are you using to find local prospects?
Twitter has lots of potential, that's where I found Cassandra last year. Back then she had a BF and he knew about her taking dates. He would drop her off to me and we go to my out door storage unit that I had with a couch. I had several girls there. It's too bad I had to let that storage go. But yeah twitter works real good.
I've found my niche on the free dating sites. Unfortunately another of them have evolved so it's not as easy to pluck them off there but the time investment is worth it. I met my Egyptian girlfriend that way and plenty more women that I could ever count. I use to have success on Facebook but that has dwindled. Anyone aware of fetlife? Kik was gold for some years but it's mostly bots and deposit scammers now. I heard Bumble was ok.
Haven't used in awhile, Fetlife has some gems. Just takes some research and patience. Good to join groups and look for events. There are some quirks, but with patience you can find some good action.
[QUOTE=LongDStyle;6251173]I've found my niche on the free dating sites. Unfortunately another of them have evolved so it's not as easy to pluck them off there but the time investment is worth it. I met my Egyptian girlfriend that way and plenty more women that I could ever count. I use to have success on Facebook but that has dwindled. Anyone aware of fetlife? Kik was gold for some years but it's mostly bots and deposit scammers now. I heard Bumble was ok.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DynoJr;6247365]So what's a good opening I'm?[/QUOTE]I honestly just ask if they are looking for a sugar daddy. You'd be surprised at how many girls will say yes. I get a decent amount of responses and that's with a burner account that has no pictures on it. Can't imagine the responses I'd get if I would post actually pictures of myself at lavish places and traveling.
[QUOTE=LongDStyle;6250416]Not sure if this has been mentioned but to add, it's important to note the disadvantage of using personal accounts and your name is in the event they want to screenshot your message. Even of its not blackmail, some of these girls will post your conversation. Good luck if she forgets to blur or erase your info. May not even be out if malice.[/QUOTE]That's a good point to remember. None of this stuff really dies, and you never know when somebody is going to be rubbed the wrong way.
Remember, someone listened to literally thousands of hours of Joe Rogan's podcasts looking for every and-bomb every dropped on the show.
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