Anyone ever have luck with a professional cuddler?
I have an appointment set up with a promising looking one at her hotel.
Wondering what to expect.
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Anyone ever have luck with a professional cuddler?
I have an appointment set up with a promising looking one at her hotel.
Wondering what to expect.
I've been on cuddle comfort on and off for a few years. I've had some good success on there. Sometimes a pro gets on the website but typically they get banned fairly quickly because some dope reports them to the website operators that they are offering more services.
But generally, it is 100% YMMV, all depending on the connection you have with them. Cuddling is a sort of intimate thing and it is sensual being up against each other, and oftentimes it naturally leads to more. Usually on first meeting, I try to hang out and have a drink (s) with them to relax and just have fun talking and telling stories. It can be a little awkward if something happens between the two of you, and then when its time to pay them. Do you pay them normal cuddle rate or give extra as tip? Honestly, I've just paid normal cuddle rate with no tip even when it gets wild. But to prevent that from occurring, you can also pay upfront upon arrival, that way you don't have to worry about whether to tip or not.
I don't believe than many women on the cuddle websites are openly offering more, but they are human and if they are having fun and connecting with you, things happen.
[QUOTE=Bugs2112;6031718]Anyone ever have luck with a professional cuddler?
I have an appointment set up with a promising looking one at her hotel.
Wondering what to expect.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ballsagna;6031801]I've been on cuddle comfort on and off for a few years. I've had some good success on there. Sometimes a pro gets on the website but typically they get banned fairly quickly because some dope reports them to the website operators that they are offering more services.
But generally, it is 100% YMMV, all depending on the connection you have with them. Cuddling is a sort of intimate thing and it is sensual being up against each other, and oftentimes it naturally leads to more. Usually on first meeting, I try to hang out and have a drink (s) with them to relax and just have fun talking and telling stories. It can be a little awkward if something happens between the two of you, and then when its time to pay them. Do you pay them normal cuddle rate or give extra as tip? Honestly, I've just paid normal cuddle rate with no tip even when it gets wild. But to prevent that from occurring, you can also pay upfront upon arrival, that way you don't have to worry about whether to tip or not.
I don't believe than many women on the cuddle websites are openly offering more, but they are human and if they are having fun and connecting with you, things happen.[/QUOTE]+2 couldn't have said it better.
It is super awkward when it's time to leave after you just got done having sex and it's time to pay. I don't want the girl thinking I feel she's a prostitute. But we did agree on the session and price beforehand.
CC is a big YMMV site, what one cuddler does to me, she might not do to you. I think guys biggest mistake on here is being too horny and aggressive in conversation and expectation.
I don't go into any session expecting sex or talking about extras.
Just laying back having good conversations, it's the women who initiate.
Out of 5 different cuddlers, I've had sex with 3 of them, and one of them turned into a relationship. All were "Pro's" I've had no luck with getting with an "enthusiast".
[QUOTE=Bugs2112;6031718]Anyone ever have luck with a professional cuddler?
I have an appointment set up with a promising looking one at her hotel.
Wondering what to expect.[/QUOTE]There's a few different cuddle sites I came across. Does this one offer the most talent or all they all around the same?
I have no idea. I signed up for one a few years ago on a lark and forgot about it. Someone sent me a message a few days ago and we set something up.
I make a report on my experience.
[QUOTE=Bertil;6032552]There's a few different cuddle sites I came across. Does this one offer the most talent or all they all around the same?[/QUOTE]
Really sweet AA, everything covered, never discussed a tip (only that there would be one).
Said she's leaving town tomorrow.
[QUOTE=Bugs2112;6032565]I have no idea. I signed up for one a few years ago on a lark and forgot about it. Someone sent me a message a few days ago and we set something up.
I make a report on my experience.[/QUOTE]
LOL is this inspired by the discussion on reddit?
Ohh I never heard of this, sounds interesting, what are good websites for this?
[QUOTE=Bugs2112;6031718]Anyone ever have luck with a professional cuddler?
I have an appointment set up with a promising looking one at her hotel.
Wondering what to expect.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=MrJhonny;6033398]Ohh I never heard of this, sounds interesting, what are good websites for this?
.[/QUOTE]Adult females cuddlers, sites will pop up I tryed it one time years ago with some kissing and touching only on the outside of her clothes.
Never went back, but I may gove it a shot again. I can't remember the cost.
In NC and Florida. More misses than hits. I would say 7 to 5 years. Then Covid came and I stopped.
Everyone I have seen from the cuddling site is a "Pro" as in professional cuddler that charges for cuddling.
When I mentioned Pro in my earlier post, I should have clarified that I meant a Pro as in a pay for play pro that is a majority of what is discussed in our forums. These types of Pros do exist on the site, but the ones that overtly offer up more often get banned sooner or later.
I have not ever been able to meet an "enthusiast" cuddler that simply cuddles for free.
Similar to Jay, I never go in with expectations of more happening. If me and the cuddler are having a good time, and something happens. Great. If nothing happens, no worries, and I just appreciate the time together. I think alot guys on the site are pushy with wanting more, which may not be the right approach for cuddling websites.
[QUOTE=Jay1646;6032409]+2 couldn't have said it better.
It is super awkward when it's time to leave after you just got done having sex and it's time to pay. I don't want the girl thinking I feel she's a prostitute. But we did agree on the session and price beforehand.
CC is a big YMMV site, what one cuddler does to me, she might not do to you. I think guys biggest mistake on here is being too horny and aggressive in conversation and expectation.
I don't go into any session expecting sex or talking about extras.
Just laying back having good conversations, it's the women who initiate.
Out of 5 different cuddlers, I've had sex with 3 of them, and one of them turned into a relationship. All were "Pro's" I've had no luck with getting with an "enthusiast".[/QUOTE]
Thanks to the creators of this thread! I never seriously thought about going for a cuddle with possibly more on the table until I saw these posts.
I looked around and signed up on a couple of sites. CuddleComfort offered the best info for searches and doesn't make you pay extra to read messages like Cuddle Up does. (Those messages most likely from bots).
During a boring afternoon at work I did the research. I chose wisely, asked for a meeting, got accepted, had a half hour massage and one hour cuddle that ended with HE. All in one day. For 150.
And she invited me back to try a triple with her cuddle partner in crime.
SJ.
Was your success with a pro? I'm looking forward to my first cuddle session and see where it goes.
PM your recommendation.
[QUOTE=SquidJigs;6061042]Thanks to the creators of this thread! I never seriously thought about going for a cuddle with possibly more on the table until I saw these posts.
I looked around and signed up on a couple of sites. CuddleComfort offered the best info for searches and doesn't make you pay extra to read messages like Cuddle Up does. (Those messages most likely from bots).
During a boring afternoon at work I did the research. I chose wisely, asked for a meeting, got accepted, had a half hour massage and one hour cuddle that ended with HE. All in one day. For 150..[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SquidJigs;6061042]Thanks to the creators of this thread! I never seriously thought about going for a cuddle with possibly more on the table until I saw these posts.
I looked around and signed up on a couple of sites. CuddleComfort offered the best info for searches and doesn't make you pay extra to read messages like Cuddle Up does. (Those messages most likely from bots).
During a boring afternoon at work I did the research. I chose wisely, asked for a meeting, got accepted, had a half hour massage and one hour cuddle that ended with HE. All in one day. For 150.
And she invited me back to try a triple with her cuddle partner in crime..[/QUOTE]Interesting, going to look into this.
Who did you see? PM, please, if you feel ok with it.
[QUOTE=SquidJigs;6061042]Thanks to the creators of this thread! I never seriously thought about going for a cuddle with possibly more on the table until I saw these posts.
I looked around and signed up on a couple of sites. CuddleComfort offered the best info for searches and doesn't make you pay extra to read messages like Cuddle Up does. (Those messages most likely from bots).
During a boring afternoon at work I did the research. I chose wisely, asked for a meeting, got accepted, had a half hour massage and one hour cuddle that ended with HE. All in one day. For 150.
And she invited me back to try a triple with her cuddle partner in crime.
SJ.[/QUOTE]
Nothing that even remotely interested me, outside the ones that clearly state several times only platonic, and have logged in, in the last few weeks.
I've had really good luck with cuddle sites both in Orlando and while traveling in different parts of the US, so I wanted to share some things I have learned if you want to try this offshoot of the hobby.
- It is incredibly YMMV. You have to be OK with a normal straight cuddle session. Think of it as a way to get some good reviews on the cuddle sites if you don't get any extras.
- Do not hint that you want extras in any way on the cuddle sites or while texting the girls. Even girls that I had good luck with all mentioned that they don't like it when guys hint and will frequently block or report them.
- The girl is in charge! Let her lead the session and be comfortable with you. When you start a session most girls will ask what position you want to cuddle in first. Let her decide. Saying something like "What do you feel comfortable with" will help her feel safe and know she is in charge.
- Do not grind. Once again, let her make the first move. Patience is a virtue! If you get hard it is OK to mention it and apologize and see how she reacts.
- Look good and smell good. Think of it as you are going on a date. You want her to be interested in you and WANT to take it further.
- Don't stress too much about what they put in their profiles, ones with huge disclaimers about no sex have fooled around and ones without cleavage pics have jumped on top of me. I personally ignore non-pros because they seem to be filled with time wasters and lots of back and forth.
The cuddle girls seem to break down to three groups in my experience.
50% - girls that will not do anything except cuddle. No extras, no nothing. Cuddling can still be fun and refreshing but you will not get anything at all.
25% - girls that are basically sex workers. These are ones that will expect extra $$ for extras. This could be anything from a HJ to FS to a naked cuddle with you being allowed to grind against her. But be prepared with extra cash. One of the ones I had fun with a few times offered for a "topless cuddle" for an extra $100 on the first session. She then allowed me to grind on her pussy to completion later on. Most will be obvious about the upcharge when they feel comfortable with you.
25% - this is the fun group. Girls that may be willing to fool around because they get turned on or like you and do not expect (or sometimes even want) extra $$. You will notice the signs with this group. They will start to gently hump your leg or give you kisses right by your lips. But let them guide the session. I had one that would only let me go down on her, no service to me at all! Money can get akward with this group because they clearly aren't SW. I generally give them a few extra bucks as a "tip" or "for their extra time" since these sessions will almost always run long.
Hope this helps!
My experience was great, easy set up, met her at her hotel and took care of the donation up front (she advertised as pro).
She asked how I wanted to cuddle and we laid spooned on the bed me behind her as we chatted about our lives. My hand was right up under her breast and I just casually moved it up and asked if it was okay if I touched her there. She said that was fine if there would be a tip. I agreed and up came the shirt and bra. We continued the same way chatting and me fondling her breat for about 20 minutes when I whispered in her ear if she'd remove the rest of her clothes. She said"You want to play?" Boom we got down to multiple positions with 2 pops.
Money was never discussed, I gave her $. 5 and she never even counted it. A nice hug and a promise to see her again when she's back in town.
[QUOTE=OnTheGoInMco;6092497]I've had really good luck with cuddle sites both in Orlando and while traveling in different parts of the US, so I wanted to share some things I have learned if you want to try this offshoot of the hobby.
- It is incredibly YMMV. You have to be OK with a normal straight cuddle session. Think of it as a way to get some good reviews on the cuddle sites if you don't get any extras.
- Do not hint that you want extras in any way on the cuddle sites or while texting the girls. Even girls that I had good luck with all mentioned that they don't like it when guys hint and will frequently block or report them.
- The girl is in charge! Let her lead the session and be comfortable with you. When you start a session most girls will ask what position you want to cuddle in first. Let her decide. Saying something like "What do you feel comfortable with" will help her feel safe and know she is in charge.
- Do not grind. Once again, let her make the first move. Patience is a virtue! If you get hard it is OK to mention it and apologize and see how she reacts.
- Look good and smell good. Think of it as you are going on a date. You want her to be interested in you and WANT to take it further.
- Don't stress too much about what they put in their profiles, ones with huge disclaimers about no sex have fooled around and ones without cleavage pics have jumped on top of me. I personally ignore non-pros because they seem to be filled with time wasters and lots of back and forth.
The cuddle girls seem to break down to three groups in my experience.
50% - girls that will not do anything except cuddle. No extras, no nothing. Cuddling can still be fun and refreshing but you will not get anything at all.
25% - girls that are basically sex workers. These are ones that will expect extra $$ for extras. This could be anything from a HJ to FS to a naked cuddle with you being allowed to grind against her. But be prepared with extra cash. One of the ones I had fun with a few times offered for a "topless cuddle" for an extra $100 on the first session. She then allowed me to grind on her pussy to completion later on. Most will be obvious about the upcharge when they feel comfortable with you.
25% - this is the fun group. Girls that may be willing to fool around because they get turned on or like you and do not expect (or sometimes even want) extra $$. You will notice the signs with this group. They will start to gently hump your leg or give you kisses right by your lips. But let them guide the session. I had one that would only let me go down on her, no service to me at all! Money can get akward with this group because they clearly aren't SW. I generally give them a few extra bucks as a "tip" or "for their extra time" since these sessions will almost always run long.
Hope this helps![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bugs2112;6093156]My experience was great, easy set up, met her at her hotel and took care of the donation up front (she advertised as pro).
She asked how I wanted to cuddle and we laid spooned on the bed me behind her as we chatted about our lives. My hand was right up under her breast and I just casually moved it up and asked if it was okay if I touched her there. She said that was fine if there would be a tip. I agreed and up came the shirt and bra. We continued the same way chatting and me fondling her breat for about 20 minutes when I whispered in her ear if she'd remove the rest of her clothes. She said"You want to play?" Boom we got down to multiple positions with 2 pops.
Money was never discussed, I gave her $. 5 and she never even counted it. A nice hug and a promise to see her again when she's back in town.[/QUOTE]Who and what site? Link?
Excellent advice, OntheGo!
In short, be a perfect gentleman on your first date with her. If she wants more while cuddling she'll show you. On my first cuddle I was very cautious, then she started rubbing my arm to direct where to go. A week later I was cuddling and making lazy circles on another gal's stomach, getting close to her breasts. After a couple of passes, she picked up my hand and dropped it on her breast. No mixed messages there. I let out a laugh because it reminded me of an experience I had with "heavy petting" when I was a teenager.
Go with the flow. If she wants to talk, you talk. Better still, if you can, make her laugh. If she wants to switch cuddling positions often, let her. Don't let her get bored. Ask her if she is comfortable if she doesn't ask you first. And if she says no to more, act like you don't mind. She might only be postponing it, and taking note how you react. And remember with some girls, they might be just playing games.
One cuddler told me a guy who smelled bad tried to snuggle up close face to face right away. She was turned off right away and it was an awkward few minutes before they just quit. Don't be that guy.
SJ.
[QUOTE=OnTheGoInMco;6092497]I've had really good luck with cuddle sites both in Orlando and while traveling in different parts of the US, so I wanted to share some things I have learned if you want to try this offshoot of the hobby.
- It is incredibly YMMV. You have to be OK with a normal straight cuddle session. Think of it as a way to get some good reviews on the cuddle sites if you don't get any extras.
- Do not hint that you want extras in any way on the cuddle sites or while texting the girls. Even girls that I had good luck with all mentioned that they don't like it when guys hint and will frequently block or report them.
- The girl is in charge! Let her lead the session and be comfortable with you. When you start a session most girls will ask what position you want to cuddle in first. Let her decide. Saying something like "What do you feel comfortable with" will help her feel safe and know she is in charge.
- Do not grind. Once again, let her make the first move. Patience is a virtue! If you get hard it is OK to mention it and apologize and see how she reacts.
- Look good and smell good. Think of it as you are going on a date. You want her to be interested in you and WANT to take it further.
- Don't stress too much about what they put in their profiles, ones with huge disclaimers about no sex have fooled around and ones without cleavage pics have jumped on top of me. I personally ignore non-pros because they seem to be filled with time wasters and lots of back and forth.
The cuddle girls seem to break down to three groups in my experience.
50% - girls that will not do anything except cuddle. No extras, no nothing. Cuddling can still be fun and refreshing but you will not get anything at all.
25% - girls that are basically sex workers. These are ones that will expect extra $$ for extras. This could be anything from a HJ to FS to a naked cuddle with you being allowed to grind against her. But be prepared with extra cash. One of the ones I had fun with a few times offered for a "topless cuddle" for an extra $100 on the first session. She then allowed me to grind on her pussy to completion later on. Most will be obvious about the upcharge when they feel comfortable with you.
25% - this is the fun group. Girls that may be willing to fool around because they get turned on or like you and do not expect (or sometimes even want) extra $$. You will notice the signs with this group. They will start to gently hump your leg or give you kisses right by your lips. But let them guide the session. I had one that would only let me go down on her, no service to me at all! Money can get akward with this group because they clearly aren't SW. I generally give them a few extra bucks as a "tip" or "for their extra time" since these sessions will almost always run long.
Hope this helps![/QUOTE]
You al are making me curious about this option. Can anyone PM me a few recommendations of cuddlers? Going to begin looking now. Thanks !
Just signed up for CC. Any recommendations?
Hey GDriver and Heywood2020. I'm going to PM you with some thoughts. It is incredibly YMMV so what worked for me may not work for you. My current fav is taking a break from the site so I don't have a direct suggestion but I can try to help!
[URL]https://orlando.craigslist.org/hws/d/winter-park-cuddle-therapy/7526864833.html[/URL]
She said 1 per hr was curious if anyone hit this yet?
[QUOTE=OnTheGoInMco;6098242]Hey GDriver and Heywood2020. I'm going to PM you with some thoughts. It is incredibly YMMV so what worked for me may not work for you. My current fav is taking a break from the site so I don't have a direct suggestion but I can try to help![/QUOTE]Also just signed up for CC and made some requests. Any more info would help immensely.
[QUOTE=MachoManSavage;6098986]Also just signed up for CC and made some requests. Any more info would help immensely.[/QUOTE]Just signed up too. Looks like there are very slim pickings in Orlando.
Those of us who've gotten some extra cuddle action understand the importance of keeping things low key. These are ladies who have jobs, families, and for the most part not SWs. If we're going to trade intel let's keep it via PM!
Wise words have been spoken.
[QUOTE=Whiskeysours;6100017]Those of us who've gotten some extra cuddle action understand the importance of keeping things low key. These are ladies who have jobs, families, and for the most part not SWs. If we're going to trade intel let's keep it via PM![/QUOTE]
She wants a pic of you before you get a pic of her. Good luck with that.
[QUOTE=WhydouCare;6098584][URL]https://orlando.craigslist.org/hws/d/winter-park-cuddle-therapy/7526864833.html[/URL]
She said 1 per hr was curious if anyone hit this yet?[/QUOTE]
Just send a pic of someone that looks similar to you.
[QUOTE=IAmAshamed;6102845]She wants a pic of you before you get a pic of her. Good luck with that.[/QUOTE]
I sent one and she never sent one back. Not sure how she expects to gain business.
[QUOTE=Captainv;6103959]Just send a pic of someone that looks similar to you.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=IAmAshamed;6104314]I sent one and she never sent one back. Not sure how she expects to gain business.[/QUOTE]Probably a bogus ad.
Obviously YMMV, but I've been on a particular one for about 4 years and more often than not it's not just cuddling.
[QUOTE=WadeUncle;6106665]Obviously YMMV, but I've been on a particular one for about 4 years and more often than not it's not just cuddling.[/QUOTE]To share which site it is?
[QUOTE=Whiskeysours;6100017]Those of us who've gotten some extra cuddle action understand the importance of keeping things low key. These are ladies who have jobs, families, and for the most part not SWs. If we're going to trade intel let's keep it via PM![/QUOTE]So hey fellow mongers it is a YMMV kinda thing t do this.
I started towards end of July early August it's the pro's you'll want to.
Get most say platonic but we all know what happens behind close doors.
But there are strictly platonic ones out there also.
When looking click the girls pics for more pics of them. I was more AMPs.
Before finding this and like the idea of holding & cuddling the girl.
Now I found a couple of girls with help from another monger and believe.
I hit a jackpot they are partners and will do doubles the going rate in this area.
Is about 90-100 an hr the girls I go to don't watch the clock too much just got to.
Done by next appt. You have to be very patient don't push & Be A Gentleman my.
Second visit They were pinching my nips bumping into junior making circles around.
Nips and letting me roam otc & ITV and HE. Be safe and good luck.
Is anyone going to post any actual experiences? With names of the girl and sites so we can be more informed? This genera stuff is fine, but intel of who to schedule with would be great. Just sayin.
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This info would be best over PM. Public info will fuck up this niche.
[QUOTE=Heywood2020;6108074]Is anyone going to post any actual experiences? With names of the girl and sites so we can be more informed? This genera stuff is fine, but intel of who to schedule with would be great. Just sayin.[/QUOTE]
Details are best under PM I agree. Links and ads are shared in every forum. Just trying to determine if this avenue has any talent worth pursuing.
[QUOTE=DPiddy;6108157]This info would be best over PM. Public info will fuck up this niche.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SquidJigs;6095433]Excellent advice, OntheGo!
In short, be a perfect gentleman on your first date with her. If she wants more while cuddling she'll show you. On my first cuddle I was very cautious, then she started rubbing my arm to direct where to go. A week later I was cuddling and making lazy circles on another gal's stomach, getting close to her breasts. After a couple of passes, she picked up my hand and dropped it on her breast. No mixed messages there. I let out a laugh because it reminded me of an experience I had with "heavy petting" when I was a teenager.
Go with the flow. If she wants to talk, you talk. Better still, if you can, make her laugh. If she wants to switch cuddling positions often, let her. Don't let her get bored. Ask her if she is comfortable if she doesn't ask you first. And if she says no to more, act like you don't mind. She might only be postponing it, and taking note how you react. And remember with some girls, they might be just playing games.
One cuddler told me a guy who smelled bad tried to snuggle up close face to face right away. She was turned off right away and it was an awkward few minutes before they just quit. Don't be that guy.
SJ.[/QUOTE]I've used cuddle sites since 2016 and YMMV definitely applies. The best approach is to expect a good cuddle session and only a good cuddle session. If you want more right away, you need to look elsewhere.