Stupid Bullshit that has nothing to do with getting laid.

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[QUOTE=BabySeal1959;2399912]Recent post from "Haley" on FB: "I don't really like guys I'm GAY!! Men made me this way and it almost feels like each and every day I grow more and more hate and discuss for yall. Just wanted to get that off my chest before I went to sleep. ".

She should add that to her BP ad.[/QUOTE]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2400540]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.[/QUOTE]Well said. I totally agree!

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2400540]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.[/QUOTE]I have a book store I like to take the girls too. It has mostly gays there but its fun to do some playing in front of them. But its a good hr drive to get there. You would be surprised of the things you find out about the girls and their life. Stop get them a bite to eat talk to them listen to what they have to say you become like a old friend. For me getting the story is half the fun. (everyone has a story) In turn the treat you much better. But it can be heart sickening one girl ate like she hadn't had a good meal in yrs. Just remember they have their problems and habits just like we have problems and (HABITS).

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2400540]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.[/QUOTE]Respect should be your default mode. Everything else you said I think is fine, but compassion is not an emotion to be just applied to someone you don't know. And you don't know them just because you got a screw or BJ from them. Respect is the only thing anyone deserves off the bat. Unless of course they start out saying I hate you guys more and more each day. No compassion there it looks like, but I'm supposed to feel compassion for her? F that.

[QUOTE=VaInSight;2402131]compassion is not an emotion to be just applied to someone you don't know.[/QUOTE]Oh yes it most definitely is. I'm sorry you haven't figured this out yet.

[QUOTE=BabySeal1959;2399912]Recent post from "Haley" on FB: "I don't really like guys I'm GAY!! Men made me this way and it almost feels like each and every day I grow more and more hate and discuss for yall. Just wanted to get that off my chest before I went to sleep. ".

She should add that to her BP ad.[/QUOTE]Who cares. Time to move on.

[QUOTE=VaInSight;2402131]Respect should be your default mode. Everything else you said I think is fine, but compassion is not an emotion to be just applied to someone you don't know. And you don't know them just because you got a screw or BJ from them. Respect is the only thing anyone deserves off the bat. Unless of course they start out saying I hate you guys more and more each day. No compassion there it looks like, but I'm supposed to feel compassion for her? F that.[/QUOTE]Guys just be careful with people like that bad things can happen. She ca take her anger out on us.

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2402175]Oh yes it most definitely is. I'm sorry you haven't figured this out yet.[/QUOTE]And you will too one day. Keep giving that compassion to someone who's set on you as their ATM and making withdrawals by lying, cheating, stealing, and doesn't give 2 cents about you. You going to tell me that person ain't out there? Good luck.

...should indeed be the default with someone you don't know. That doesn't mean it should continue once shown that it's misplaced. The former doesn't preclude the latter or vice versa.

[QUOTE=CantWinLosin;2402531]...should indeed be the default with someone you don't know. That doesn't mean it should continue once shown that it's misplaced. The former doesn't preclude the latter or vice versa.[/QUOTE]You guys are scaring me. Throwing around compassion very lightly. When you pick up streetwalkers or see a chick with the monkey on her back, you're only giving them advice and resources to help them get out of their situation, right? Cause that's compassion. When you popping girls you just met bareback then claiming how scared YOU are that you might have caught something dangerous but not if THEY might have caught something dangerous, tell me where was your compassion then? Just because you don't call a SW a disrespectful name doesn't mean your compassionate. But as was once said, we're her to exchange info about working girls, so I'll shut up.

Was coming back from a trip south and saw an ad Wendy posted. She'd also posted the link to her Facebook page. The pictures on the FB page are either very old or she's really on serious drugs. She's easily aged a good 10 years since any of those pics were taken.

Still, since I was already there and had the cash and the obligatory hard-on, I figured I'd stay. Besides, the lighting was bad and I could pretend she didn't look so haggard. Ha.

The BBBJ was very good. I do enjoy a good BBBJ. Bareback was available, but fortunately I was packing and strapped up. She was neither particularly tight or loose, but I'd say she worked out pretty well. The sex was satisfactory, nothing more. I won't be going back because there are better options out there. I'd become spoiled by gals like Skyy and Liz and a couple of other high quality / low cost providers and knew I could do better. I have Wendy's info if anyone's interested.

I couldn't agree more. Most of these chicks are feeding habits and playing on the fact that we're all a bunch of horn dogs. I've done my time being compassionate. I've done my time being empathetic. I've gone my time being supportive. I treat everyone with respect and I'm friendly to anyone I am with. If I was being compassionate I would simply give them the money and maybe take them to dinner and wish them a happy evening. That's what all of us would do. The fact of the matter is if they stop fucking we stop spending.

Most all of them would take the money without giving anything in return every time. They all know that they'd run out of customers long before they ran out of the habit. I haven't met a single woman out here who doesn't have some sort of a habit she is trying to feed.

Most of them have at least one kid because they were stupid at some point and got knocked up. It is so refreshing when you meet an honest girl out here that will freely admit she's seeing other guys. Most of them blow smoke up your ass and act like you are special. Let me assure you you are not special. If you were not sporting the cash you would not be getting the gash. So I think the bottom line is f* the ones that are interesting to you in some way. Clean up well and go the hell home. Save getting to know someone w* someone who is worth it.

[QUOTE=VaInSight;2402782]You guys are scaring me. Throwing around compassion very lightly. When you pick up streetwalkers or see a chick with the monkey on her back, you're only giving them advice and resources to help them get out of their situation, right? Cause that's compassion. When you popping girls you just met bareback then claiming how scared YOU are that you might have caught something dangerous but not if THEY might have caught something dangerous, tell me where was your compassion then? Just because you don't call a SW a disrespectful name doesn't mean your compassionate. But as was once said, we're her to exchange info about working girls, so I'll shut up.[/QUOTE]You make some good points, but it feels like all you want to do is argue semantics. Call it compassion, call it being nice, whatever, just don't be a fucking jerk.

I never claimed to be Mother Teresa, and I reiterate that I find the agreements I make with these women to be perfectly ethical. If you don't agree, then what are you doing here? Feels like you want to give me a guilt trip, just because I dared utter the word "compassion". Might you be projecting your own feelings of guilt?

Look, I can't make the ENTIRE WORLD a better place. But I can at least not make any parts of it a worse place. Keep your judgement to yourself, all I really said is that we should be kind to these women, and if you object to that, then I just got nothing else to say to you.

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2403042]You make some good points, but it feels like all you want to do is argue semantics. Call it compassion, call it being nice, whatever, just don't be a fucking jerk.

I never claimed to be Mother Teresa, and I reiterate that I find the agreements I make with these women to be perfectly ethical. If you don't agree, then what are you doing here? Feels like you want to give me a guilt trip, just because I dared utter the word "compassion". Might you be projecting your own feelings of guilt?

Look, I can't make the ENTIRE WORLD a better place. But I can at least not make any parts of it a worse place. Keep your judgement to yourself, all I really said is that we should be kind to these women, and if you object to that, then I just got nothing else to say to you.[/QUOTE]Dude don't backtrack and say now because you don't understand the words coming out of your own mouth. You didn't say kindness. I specifically explained you were using the word compassion loosely. Never claimed you were mother teresa, never claimed I or anyone here was, so how you are trying to turn this around that I'm feeling guilty is beyond me.

I had a long reply composed, but fuck it. Haters going to hate, small hearts going to always be small.

[QUOTE=VaInSight;2403177]Dude don't backtrack and say now because you don't understand the words coming out of your own mouth. You didn't say kindness. I specifically explained you were using the word compassion loosely. Never claimed you were mother teresa, never claimed I or anyone here was, so how you are trying to turn this around that I'm feeling guilty is beyond me.[/QUOTE]So, not only are you a douche who likes to correct people on semantics, but you're uneducated. I know the damn definition of "compassion", perhaps you don't -- [URL]https://www.google.com/search?q=Compassion&rlz=1C1CHMO_enUS560US560&oq=compa&aqs=chrome.0.69i59j69i57j0l4.2385j0j7&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8[/URL].

We were talking about a girl who posted on her Facebook page that she hate's men. Dudes on here started hating on her. I suggested that maybe we should show a little compassion, and yes, I was using that word correctly. I think it's highly likely that the reason she is in this line of work, AND the reason why she hates men probably stem from some very traumatic experience in her past. I obviously don't know that; some might say I'm playing arm-chair psychologist, I'd say I'm just showing compassion.

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2404363]So, not only are you a douche who likes to correct people on semantics, but you're uneducated. I know the damn definition of "compassion", perhaps you don't -- [URL]https://www.google.com/search?q=Compassion&rlz=1C1CHMO_enUS560US560&oq=compa&aqs=chrome.0.69i59j69i57j0l4.2385j0j7&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8[/URL].

We were talking about a girl who posted on her Facebook page that she hate's men. Dudes on here started hating on her. I suggested that maybe we should show a little compassion, and yes, I was using that word correctly. I think it's highly likely that the reason she is in this line of work, AND the reason why she hates men probably stem from some very traumatic experience in her past. I obviously don't know that; some might say I'm playing arm-chair psychologist, I'd say I'm just showing compassion.[/QUOTE]Admin is going to be jumping in here and put you both on probation LOL that's what happen to me for less.

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2404363]So, not only are you a douche who likes to correct people on semantics, but you're uneducated. I know the damn definition of "compassion", perhaps you don't -- [URL]https://www.google.com/search?q=Compassion&rlz=1C1CHMO_enUS560US560&oq=compa&aqs=chrome.0.69i59j69i57j0l4.2385j0j7&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8[/URL].

We were talking about a girl who posted on her Facebook page that she hate's men. Dudes on here started hating on her. I suggested that maybe we should show a little compassion, and yes, I was using that word correctly. I think it's highly likely that the reason she is in this line of work, AND the reason why she hates men probably stem from some very traumatic experience in her past. I obviously don't know that; some might say I'm playing arm-chair psychologist, I'd say I'm just showing compassion.[/QUOTE]Look, I'm all about being compassionate and I've got the occasional charity case I help out but this chick has serious issues. If she's that invested on hating men then maybe you should set her up with Dr. Phil.

[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2404363]So, not only are you a douche who likes to correct people on semantics, but you're uneducated. I know the damn definition of "compassion", perhaps you don't -- [URL]https://www.google.com/search?q=Compassion&rlz=1C1CHMO_enUS560US560&oq=compa&aqs=chrome.0.69i59j69i57j0l4.2385j0j7&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8[/URL].

We were talking about a girl who posted on her Facebook page that she hate's men. Dudes on here started hating on her. I suggested that maybe we should show a little compassion, and yes, I was using that word correctly. I think it's highly likely that the reason she is in this line of work, AND the reason why she hates men probably stem from some very traumatic experience in her past. I obviously don't know that; some might say I'm playing arm-chair psychologist, I'd say I'm just showing compassion.[/QUOTE]Unbelievable. No, you are not showing compassion. You've got sympathy, maybe understanding. But not a damn bit of compassion because you haven't done a damn thing to help her. To the link you posted, this was in the definition. "Compassion is really the act of going out of your way to help physical, spiritual, or emotional hurts or pains of another. " Compassion is a strong ass thing and I tried, obviously futilely, to debate that it shouldn't be the default emotion when you don't know these girls yet. And I would have respected your difference of opinion. But that went out the window when you decided you were so much smarter and sorry I hadn't figured it out yet. You go that route and I just have to throw your words right back at you.

You're so compassionate but you'll say how some of the bitches are just dumb. Where's the default compassion? You're compassionate but yet you raw dog a girl and then worry if you might die of AIDS. There you have it. Mr Compassion 2015.

What would be compassionate is if you all would start your own thread and get the fuck off the Backpage thread.

[QUOTE=ICantGetNo;2404674]What would be compassionate is if you all would start your own thread and get the fuck off the Backpage thread.[/QUOTE]Lets get back on track here!

[QUOTE=ICantGetNo;2404674]What would be compassionate is if you all would start your own thread and get the fuck off the Backpage thread.[/QUOTE][BLUE]You asked, we listened, and here it is.

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[QUOTE=ICantGetNo;2404886]Thanks A2! Since you liked my suggestion, may I have a 2nd star? LOL![/QUOTE]Fuck, is that all you need to do to get your own thread? LOL.

I just read the entire thread. Someone please give me some acid to pour in my eyes. LOL.

Haha, some of why'all are some heartless motherfuckers. Go fuck yourselves. Literally, tear off your tiny little dicks and shove them up your own asses.

I've been checking out this site [URL]http://www.eroticmonkey.com/[/URL]#erotic Costs nothing but the info for the Richmond area or anything south of DC, for that matter, is non.

Existent. Well, except for a post in NNews and our friend Lynn, who seems to be everywhere. How do we turn this in to an asset?

[QUOTE=RagTop66;2424901]I've been checking out this site [URL]http://www.eroticmonkey.com/[/URL]#erotic Costs nothing but the info for the Richmond area or anything south of DC, for that matter, is non.

Existent. Well, except for a post in NNews and our friend Lynn, who seems to be everywhere. How do we turn this in to an asset?[/QUOTE]Rebecca / mischief well worth the trip. She is near 64 and 264 at the beach.

[QUOTE=AOneFred7734;2425125]Rebecca / mischief well worth the trip. She is near 64 and 264 at the beach.[/QUOTE]Literally. I had to watch each step I made the place was a mess. Luckily I'm not screwing the mess so I agree she's worth the price.

I work I got to a life, I don't get on here every day of my life, now I just got cussed out, because I wasnt on yesterday to give a guy Cherry number, she ask me not to give it out, must be a sad life you live. You know who you are. I'm usally nice guy give out info. To people I know or trust. So becareful who you give out info to. Hve a nice day mongers.

Hope this is the correct thread for this dilemma:

Been with gf for a few years now, about a year ago she moved into my house. Three months ago, found out that she was a utr escort for the previous 6 months. She said she was only with a couple of guys but none of her stories added up. Don't know why, but gave her another chance. Now she comes home with new things and no receipts, disappears for blocks of time during the day, takes trips she can't afford, spends more then she makes and now went away overnight but has nothing to prove she was where she says she was. I think she is still seeing some "johns". Am I over reacting?

If she is, I guess it's what I get for playing?

Hound.

[QUOTE=HoundI81;2625855]Hope this is the correct thread for this dilemma:

Been with gf for a few years now, about a year ago she moved into my house. Three months ago, found out that she was a utr escort for the previous 6 months. She said she was only with a couple of guys but none of her stories added up. Don't know why, but gave her another chance. Now she comes home with new things and no receipts, disappears for blocks of time during the day, takes trips she can't afford, spends more then she makes and now went away overnight but has nothing to prove she was where she says she was. I think she is still seeing some "johns". Am I over reacting?

If she is, I guess it's what I get for playing?

Hound.[/QUOTE]You are not over reacting. You either accept it and do your own playing, or kick her whoring ass out.

That is the question.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2625978]You are not over reacting. You either accept it and do your own playing, or kick her whoring ass out.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HoundI81;2625855]

If she is, I guess it's what I get for playing?

Hound.[/QUOTE]Yes, it is. Don't be one of those double standard guys. One who thinks it is OK to play on the side then gets all upset if the SO does the same thing.

Give yer head a shake! Yer getting, for free, what must be some very good P*ssy that other mongers are paying for! Good for you!

But if the relationship is to last, you will need open and honest communications between the two of you. Sit down and have a non-accusatory conversation with her and share your feelings.

Oh, and since she has money, she should be paying HALF of the expenses: rent, electric, water, cable, food, etc. Maybe even buying you a few toys along the way too!

Good luck!

Thanks for the messages and posts. Everyone has been in agreement that she's an escort. She was not able to produce one thing from her overnight trip that showed where she was. After the last time, I told her if she stepped out again it would be over. Now I just need to man up, or except the fact that I'm dating an escort.

Now, back to mongering.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2626624]Yes, it is. Don't be one of those double standard guys. One who thinks it is OK to play on the side then gets all upset if the SO does the same thing.

Give yer head a shake! Yer getting, for free, what must be some very good P*ssy that other mongers are paying for! Good for you!

But if the relationship is to last, you will need open and honest communications between the two of you. Sit down and have a non-accusatory conversation with her and share your feelings.

Oh, and since she has money, she should be paying HALF of the expenses: rent, electric, water, cable, food, etc. Maybe even buying you a few toys along the way too!

Good luck![/QUOTE]Be careful about this girl in your house. Who knows what guys she is Mongering with. You don't want people coming around your space.

CL gives good advice, but I believe strongly in the double standard and would not tolerate my homie stepping out. It just is what it is.

[QUOTE=HoundI81;2626635]Thanks for the messages and posts. Everyone has been in agreement that she's an escort. She was not able to produce one thing from her overnight trip that showed where she was. After the last time, I told her if she stepped out again it would be over. Now I just need to man up, or except the fact that I'm dating an escort.

Now, back to mongering.[/QUOTE]You don't have to tell, but if you are not banging her, she is not using you. You are letting her use you. But if you are banging her, I for one would like to know how you manage that. !

Z.

Yes we are banging- have been not often enough though- she always has an excuse. In hindsight, that is probably a good thing. Didn't even consider that she would have someone in my house. That is messed up. Her kids stay here every other week. Once a liar always a liar. I just need to tell her to pack her shit.

Hound.

[QUOTE=Zepplin;2626801]You don't have to tell, but if you are not banging her, she is not using you. You are letting her use you. But if you are banging her, I for one would like to know how you manage that. !

Z.[/QUOTE]

Her lies are so good I almost believe them.

I know everyone is in agreement that there's enough circumstantial evidence to "convict" her of being an escort, but I needed to find more proof. I went back to her vacation and then her overnight date and added up all the cash that she must of spent. Looked at her bank account and there were not enough cash withdrawals to cover over the thousand plus dollars she must of spent. She has to be working on the side for cash.

When I caught her a few months ago doing this I knew a few people in town knew about it and had to be laughing at me behind my back. I live in a small town and rumors and gossip like this spread through like wildfire. When I'm out now I notice a second glance and then whispers Makes me think that this news is already running through the town. All it takes is one person to say something that says something. I would really hate to be known as the guy who's live in GF is also the towns escort.

Hopefully some of these warning signs will help someone else.

Hound.