Rants, Raves, and Opinions
[blue]ok, i'm not [b]always[/b] breaking up fights in milwaukee, but it happens enough so i'm giving you guys a fight thread. threads like this have relaxed argumentative rules. you can call a guy a cocksucker if you want. most of the rules are still in effect, no arrest reports, no personally identifying information, no threats of physical violence, n unfounded std reports, and as always no information about **** people.
this name is generic, most of the fight threads have names. cincy has the octagon, jacksonville the woodshed, in boston it's the massholes, if anybody has a suggestion for here throw it out there.
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Yeah I hear you guys and sorry, have to disagree.
It's the honor among thieves rule guys and we're ALL taking a risk here to hook up, now aren't we?
SO, this post won't win me many friends here, but it needs to be said.
Of the 2 dozen girls I've dated in just the last 6 months, not one had a fake pic and I could list them all and prove it. Some hid their faces and I have no problem with that as THAT MUCH is completely understandable if they so choose. None had legal troubles any more for their craft than the fakes running specials, ripoffs, scams and more and some probably a lot less because they're both honest and smart.
I'll admit, I'm picky, but I treat women like they deserve to be treated and get rewarded for it with each visit too. I also don't try to haggle with women and tell them they're worth less than they believe they are which in most cases results in a reward with the right women (The honest ones I'm referring to).
To each his own, but I'll walk from a fake that won't admit she's not as publicized and especially any flat out liar. That's the first red flag and the last for me. Maybe if some walked away from the initial red flags, they'd have less bad experiences? I dunno.
The good / best women are rarely cheap to be with, but they're honest, trustworthy and are SO worth the time and effort and when treated well, usually respond in kind. (In difficult situations they respond with complete class as well, but that's another experience and story entirely, Thanks again BDL).
List one higher class woman whom we all know about, who posts fake info and denies it who's had all these imagined problems with the legal system. I can post dozens who have none. WHY can't the perceived lower level women do the same? Is it because they're 50-100 less? Baloney.
The last woman I was with, we'll call her MF, told me as I was kissing her good bye, that any time I call, she'd bump anyone to see me. The rewards outweigh the little benefits you feel you get in haggling or compromising. Not only was she another real and exactly as advertised and more woman, but also full of class and trustworthy.
You guys can certainly all have the same response from women in this hobby if you change your way of thinking about them AND we can all reduce the number of scammers out there.
I don't think I'm special in any way, I just don't treat women with any disrespect and as she and others have expressed to me, that's pretty rare. So I say, a lot of you guys may be missing the opportunity for something better than you imagined things could be in this hobby.
CE, I'm sorry my friend, but what you describe is the rules for "How to deal with scammers".
My rule is simple.
DON'T.
[QUOTE=CoochieEater;2106680]Damn guys, let's stop griping about fake pics. It's a fact of life. Learn to live with it. Wanting girls to stop using fake pics is like wanting summers in Wisconsin to stop being humid, winters to be warm, roads to be pothole free and politicians to be honest. Understand that sometimes (rarely) the girl is as hot or hotter than the fake pic. Hell, a girl could use a pic of herself 10 years and 25 lbs ago: it's not fake, but it's not accurate either. It's easy to deal with:
1. Tell the girl while making the appointment. If the pic is fake and you're not hot, I'm walking.
2. Leave your money (all of it) in the car.
3. If the pic is fake and the girl is hot, get your cash and fuck her.
4. If the pic is fake and you don't care whether she's hot or not, get your cash and fuck her.
5. If the pic is fake and she's not hot, either bargain her down or leave.
6. If the pic is fake and she's ugly as mortal sin or as big as your ex-wife's mother, leave.
This is super simple guys. As I've said before, I've posted ads for girls and used fake pics. I understand why they do it. Both girls I posted for were as hot or hotter than the pics. The last provider I was with used fake pics and guys, there aren't any pics on the net that do this babe justice. Super thin, beautiful black babe with HUGE natural hooters who is a sexual dynamo. Did I give a flying fuck at a rolling donut that her pics were fake?
You be the judge.
Coochie (Don't give a fuck if the pics are fake) Eater.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Stallis;2106738]Even though I'm one of the newest Seniors here I agree 100%. I never expect the pics to be real. Some of these providers still have families that could see them, why give LEO extra ammo, they know we guys think with our little heads more often than our big heads and we're more likely to call with hot pics. Very little incentive to use real pics. I've reviewed 4 providers in the last few weeks, only one used 100% real pics and as I indicated with them, they understand camera angles very well and used them to hide enormous guts. I never, ever walk in expecting to find the girl in the images.
I just hope they are closer than my very first BP experience, before I was a member here, in which I arranged an incall with a buxom 23 year old white blonde and a mid twenties AA provider showed up. She was still pretty hot so I let her in and foolishly paid up front only to get a long list of "I don't do that" and ended up paying $.5 for a 15 minute HJ. Live and learn and follow Coochie's lead.[/QUOTE]
Teach these appointment-breakers a lesson, PLEASE!
I have run into a couple of newby BP in calls recently that told me that they were running late, AFTER I WAS ALREADY THERE, so I just HAD to put in my two cents worth here (and then some. Sorry). And in some cases, they said they were already at the in call location when I first called them. In the future, I will do the following, and if more guys would do this or something similar, I'm sure at least a FEW of them reading this would figure out they better be on time or they are going to lose a lot of business, and more importantly, their reputation, gas and time (even tho I KNOW they don't really care one bit in most cases, and of course just change their posting name and get a new number / disposable phone);.
Make your date and ask if they are currently at the location. Tell them they need to stay there, or be on time if they aren't there, or you will leave. Tell them they need to text or call IMMEDIATELY if they have to "leave suddenly" or will be late. If YOU are on time, wait about 5 minutes and call / txt to see what the problem is, but LEAVE. If they say they are almost there, and don't have a legitimate good reason for being late which they can prove, tell them you will wait for them for a little while, while in reality you are driving home with no intention of turning back, other than the little head telling you to. After numerous more texts and calls from them saying they are "on their way", or asking if you are still there, keep telling them that you are there, but you are getting impatient. This makes them REALLY leave their real hotel / house / apt to go to their agreed upon temporary in call location. I believe that they figure if you have waited 20 or more minutes already, you must be REALLY hoping to see them, and will wait a little longer, so it is at THIS point that they ACTUALLY leave to meet you. Then, when they REALLY get there, which is usually like 30 or more minutes late, and they don't see your car, tell them you "JUST" left, and that waiting 30 or more minutes just wasn't in your plans, and that maybe next time they could be on time? Now you have wasted ALMOST as much of their time and gas as they wasted of yours. Plan on being black-listed from that provider most likely, however. But that is probably for the better, since this type of provider doesn't seem to possess that very basic distinction between humans and animals that allow them to learn from past mistakes. They probably would have been late on your second date too. Sorry, but I'm old school and believe that appointments are meant to be kept. Is it any wonder that most doctor offices now charge you if you don't give them 24 hour notice?
BTW, a GOOD reason why they are late would be one that they could prove somehow. If they say they had to take their baby / girlfriend / sister / pimp to the hospital, ask for a copy of some paperwork from the hospital. This will usually get them to hang up on you, since they now know that you have at least a tiny amount of brain matter in your big head, and that you are on to them. Many excuses (and believe me, I've heard them all) would be hard to prove, like they are stuck in traffic. But I've already caught one in a lie by saying they were on I43 in a traffic jam, when the live DOT camera at that location showed traffic was flowing just fine. Thank you, technology! Yeah, I got hung up on.
On a side note, and pardon me if I just haven't located it on this site yet (there is a LOT to read on this site! Does anyone know of a list somewhere on the web of "games that providers / escorts / prostitutes play"? I'd love to see how many I've heard, and add the ones I've heard that aren't listed! That would be an interesting / enjoyable list to see, IMHO. I've been hobbying quite a few years now, and unfortunately have run into more games / excuses than raincoats I've used since I was born! I've googled it, but got 4. 1 miliion hits, mostly of a real book you can buy called "Games Prostitutes Play". But I don't think I've ever read an entire book in my life yet, and I don't plan on starting any time soon. Came close on "50 Shades of Grey", but since I'm not into S&M, I got pretty bored after the first several chapters. VERY long book, as are the two sequels. Looks like it could be a good book though, I have to admit.
Keeping with a football theme, how about
We could use the punch line of an old joke
You walk into a room where half the women have PMS and the other half have yeast infections. Where are you?
Whine and Cheese party.