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There is an old saying that getting a blow job with a condom on is like eating a steak with a balloon on your tongue. I see the way the streetwalkers ply their trade on my latex sheathed penis and I wonder what the harm will be if I got the BJ the old fashioned way.
What is the final word on STDs and bare back blow jobs? Other than herpes, is there anything else that one catch from a bare back blow job?
I have heard that chlamydia and NGU can be easily transmitted from the throat to the penis. Is there any truth to that?
How about HIV and Hepatitis B? I hear that even a slightly bleeding gum from hard toothbrushing, or even a tiny cut inside the mouth can deliver a payload of virus.
Any thoughts or suggestions?
[QUOTE=xryder]There is an old saying that getting a blow job with a condom on is like eating a steak with a balloon on your tongue. I see the way the streetwalkers ply their trade on my latex sheathed penis and I wonder what the harm will be if I got the BJ the old fashioned way.
What is the final word on STDs and bare back blow jobs? Other than herpes, is there anything else that one catch from a bare back blow job?
I have heard that chlamydia and NGU can be easily transmitted from the throat to the penis. Is there any truth to that?
How about HIV and Hepatitis B? I hear that even a slightly bleeding gum from hard toothbrushing, or even a tiny cut inside the mouth can deliver a payload of virus.
Any thoughts or suggestions?[/QUOTE]I had the unfortunate honor of catching something from BJ, actually BBBJ. I went to Malaysia in March and had several sessions with locals and Filipinas. I covered up for the main event every time but got BBBJ's from all girls.
About 6 weeks after I got back I got this flu like symptom and got a big pimple right below my balls. At first I thought it was Herpes since I had no knowledge about STD's. I was freaking out. I was going to ruin my life I thought.
After reading million pages of articles on STD's I sort figured out what it was and went to a clinic to get checked out. It turns out I was right. It was Lymphogranuloma Venereum, which is common in tropical and subtropical countries. Obviously I don't know which one it was since I had 5 girls in 6 days.
According to one report it is very rare in the states, affects mostly gay men having anal sex. So I was one of those very unlucky heterosexual men that caught it from BJ. Talk about being a close call...I didn't have to get my significant other involved in this as we didn't have sex during that time. She would have literally killed me.
I got tested for syphllis and HIV also. Those came back negative. So be careful out there. I am going to be very careful and take care of myself. Everything covered including BJ's and thourough washing before and after. I may use listerine to rinse my mouth and dick as it apparently kills jerms according to some monger's report.
Re: BEWARE OF PLEJUR PEACH "THE SEXUAL ASSASSIN
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NEVER ASSUME SOME DUMB HO IS NOT BAREBACKING MORE THAN ONE GUY IF SHE LETS YOU. IF YOU DO, I AM SURE THERE ARE MORE. IF YOU SEE herR PUSSY PICS YOU WOULD KNOW SHE HAD AN STD WITHOUT EVEN HAVING TO SEE HER. SEE HER ADS
Losangeles. Craigslist.org/ers/162764329.html (new poc)
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TO ALL OF MY FELLOW HOBBYISTS IT IS IN YOUR BEST INTEREST TO READ THIS POSTING, SO THAT YOU DON'T MAKE THE SAME LIFE CHANGING MISTAKE THAT I DID.
YOU ARE WELCOME TO EMAIL ME FOR FURTHER INFORMATION.
I had seen warnings about this girl Plejur Peach (Keisha) before I had become a regular of hers. I never believe anything anyone says unless I know its factual.
Over the last 3 months, I have seen her on a weekly basis. At first, Everything we did was protected until I got to know and trust her. We went to AIM and both got tested and we were both negative. From then on we did EVERYTHING bareback. She told me that this was a rare opprutunity and that the only other person that she went bareback with was her boyfriend. I was recently scrolling through CL ads and saw a posting of hers that advertised bareback BJ's. I confronted her on that fact and she had a very convincing and detailed explanation that led me to believe that it was a hook just to get the clients there and then persuaded them to use condoms.
When I first met her the only insecurity she had was her teeth. The biggest priority was getting her teeth fixed. But, over the last couple of weeks I noticed a tremendous downfall in her hygeine and she stopped going to the dentist after having several of her teeth pulled already. Her surroudings became very unsanitary. I asked her if everything was going okay and she went on and on about supposed bad postings on CL on her.
My last visit with her was Monday, May 15th. As usual, I was greeted with a hug and DFK. It was then I noticed a foul taste and odor coming from her mouth. I overlooked it and figured it was from her smoking. She fixed me a drink and we sat down to smoke our usual party favor. I noticed after a few drinks that the foul odor in her mouth was stronger than I had thought. As she got closer to me talking and laughing, I noticed her constantly licking what looked like puss coming out of a sore in her mouth. I asked her what was wrong with her mouth and she said she had constantly been biting the inside of her lip. At the time I didn't know what it really was, but being careful I decided to refrain from getting head.
Thinking with the wrong head (drunk and high) I told her that I just wanted to do greek using a condom this time. But, again my dumb ass let her talk me into doing it without one as we usually do. BIG MISTAKE! As she pulled off her pants I noticed an odor similar to the one in her mouth. She automatically said she had just had a client and had used a spermicidal condom which gives her that odor. So, we agreed upon doing it in the shower. Of course the odor was not noticable with the smell of the soap. After I popped and pulled out, I noticed a yellowish, creamy discharge. I asked her what it was and she acted surprised and I said that you should probably get that checked out. I had planned to go right away and asked her if she wanted to go with me and she said she already had a scheduled visit the following day.
I went straight to AIM in Sherman Oaks and was tested and found out the next day that I had contracted Gonorrhoea. If things weren't bad enough I was contacted Friday morning and was told that I had also contracted Type II Genital Herpes Virus. I have since tried calling her and she sends me straight to voicemail.
YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!
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Well, I can't believe I am to the point where I have to ask the question. I have been at this for a year. I do have a family so when I started my one rule was to be completely safe. I have only received erotic massages with hand job finishes. Today I decided to mix it up. I asked the girl at the parlor to perform russian as I believed it would be completely safe from a std standpoint. In the heat of the moment, before she started to perform russian, she lightly used her tongue to stroke the base/middle of my penis and scrotum. She basically did it without asking. She then proceded to perform russian. I have read the risks and it appears to be minimal but of course I am freeking out. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions? I did read the risks website at the bottom of this forum. Please PM me if you don't feel comfortable writing.
Thank you
Rbrown987, don't panic. It's not a big deal. As it was explained to me, the only way a STD will get into your system under the circumstances you described is if you have an open sore and she licked it or she performed a BBBJ. That is assuming she was infected with a STD to begin.
You are on the right track with the safety thing. Don't let your guard down and don't let the little head think for the big one.
[QUOTE=Masterful One]Rbrown987, don't panic. It's not a big deal. As it was explained to me, the only way a STD will get into your system under the circumstances you described is if you have an open sore and she licked it or she performed a BBBJ. That is assuming she was infected with a STD to begin.
You are on the right track with the safety thing. Don't let your guard down and don't let the little head think for the big one.[/QUOTE]HPV would still be transmissable. Fortunately, 80% of sexually active adults have it. There is nothing wrong with getting a handjob with a condom.
Benchseats Rock
Check out CDC.GOV, Center for Disease Control.
Rbrown is not accepting PMs, so sending this as a post.
Howdie hon: I know your posting is "old" but simply wanted to comment that as an old-timer, the dude whom said, "uness you had an open sore. Have nothing to worry about". THIS IS TRUE.
Find it hard to believe got so worked up over licking scrotum and middle of penis w/ bare tongue. Hon, RELAX!
At least enough time has passed to where now you know, didn't catch anything.
Hugs,
Sun Huntsville, Al
per EDITOR'S SUGGESTION: This is interesting, but you might consider re-
posting it under the Safe Sex topic ...
[note: originally posted in huntsville, al general reports ... direct quotes]
stats -- glad asked, I thought high too
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Am GLAD asked that! (thought about when posting; but, didn't have time to look up at the time) I thought it very high too! Read in HT sometime about late summer/early fall '06. k, just spent the past couple hours trying to look this up -- is the thing with stats, eh? why quantified stating, "if believe stats" ... who believes them?
[all paraphrased, direct quotes]
black Males 79.8% AIDS/HIV entire state of ala (all ages)
black Females 20.2% AIDS/HIV entire state of ala (all ages)
age 20 - 49 of BOTH sexes is 85% HIV/AIDS of black population of alabama
source: ADPH (ala dept of public health), sept 2006.
there were 358 new HIV in Madison in 2004 ... the aids action coalition currently serves 500 clients in madison county.
African-American and Hispanic women, who represent less than 25 percent of all U.S. women, account for more than 79 percent of AIDS cases in women. More specifically, African Americans make up nearly 60 percent of AIDS cases in women ... white women account for only 16.8 percent. HIV/AIDS ... is the leading cause of death among African-American women in 20-34 yr age group.
Sources: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Division of HIV/AIDS Prevention-Surveillance and Epidemiology, Special Data Request, November 2006.
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[and, no, numbers do not add up; seldom do in stats]
no, could NOT find stats on HIV/AIDS for black wimmen in Madison County.
THAT is why glad asked. sooooooo, according to this, you guys can still see black F ...
as stated previously ... we're responsible adults, so we use raincoats, eh? do that and then don't have to worry about stats, jacks.
["am a poet and don't show it" ... ok ok already ... is from some song, i think, excuse ...]
Have fun but be safe,
Sun
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[posted by:] Father Mike
Senior Member
Update: Madison County [Alabama] Statistics
I have a friend who is a doctor and asked her about the statistics for HIV cases in Madison Co. She updated me with the following current stats:
Total cases - 558
56.8% Black
41.6% White
1.6% Other
~20% of the cases are female or roughly 112 cases. 89 are black females, 19 are white females, the remaining are other.
She told me that per cap., the hispanic population carries more STD's including HPV (#1), chlamydia, syphillis, gonorrhea, and herpes.
The major STD treated in Madison Co. is herpes. It is possible to get herpes from a BBBJ but is rare. You can get chlamydia, hepatitis A, HPV (warts), shigella, and syphillis from a BBBJ. The riskiest form of sex for STD's is anal.
Think about it the next time your little head starts thinking and you don't have a condom.
Keep it SAFE,
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Developed a redness and couples of sores on my penis a month ago. Embarrassed to go to the doctor. No itching, pain, wouldn't even know it was there unless you looked at it. Any ideas? Seems by research herpes burns, etc, and last only 2-3 weeks.
Dang, hon! You're over the age of 14, aren't cha? Go to the health department then! No, doesn't sound like herpes. Sounds like syphillis, which could NOT be cleared up except w/ antibiotics and a shot in the ass of penicillin. You've GOT to get to the doctor! Or health department, one. Does NOT require an appt. Is MORE embarrassing (& idiotic to say the least) to NOT go.
Whom else have infected in the meantime? CONTACT them!
Take responsibility. Is NO big deal, 'cept by NOT goingto get it cleared up!
I haven't had sex with anyone in 3 or 4 months, would think someone would have showed up by now.
[QUOTE=winddance1]I haven't had sex with anyone in 3 or 4 months, would think someone would have showed up by now.[/QUOTE]Herpes can hide for 6 months or longer before it pops up again. Syphilis has a sore at the point of infection that is often painless. The sore goes away but the disease continues in the body causeing brain and other organ damage, You have to get a test to know for sure.