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I've read posts every now and then regarding dining at the Y with a provider, and I have a question. I usually have no qualms about eating out a regular girl that I'm dating or pick up. I'm a little hesitant to dive in on on a provider due to the chances of them having an STD. Does anyone have any bad experiences like catching anything?
I've DATY at plenty of strip clubs and AMPS in the US and Canada and also a few working girls in Costa Rica and Mexico and so far no problems. I wouldnt go licking on anything out there because there's some nasty ass SW'S that just dont look healthy but even if they do look clean and healthy its always a risk with anything you do with these girls.
Chances are the girls that you pick up in a bar could be as dangerous as any sw you pick up. She may have just crawled out of her friends bed 10 minutes before you saw her.
You just need to use some sense. If it smells bad, don't go there. If it looks bad, don't go there. If it feels right, then go for it and enjoy it.
Besides I'd rather my tounge falls off than anything important.
I too have done DATY at Strip Clubs and AMPs I've visited an have also not had any problems. I have a feeling they clean themselves more often than the average streetwalker though. Still, there's always a risk.
There's a great link posted in the Special Interests > [url=http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=268]Safe Sex[/url] section by Bill Bradsky that gives the STD risks for different types of acts. See the quote below:
-USTraveller
[QUOTE=Bill Bradsky]Link to risk factors.
[url]http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/stdbasics/stdchart.asp[/url][/QUOTE]
I only do brothel workers. I am selective and only those that are truly pleasant in all ways get my repeat business. I typically have one favorite at any given time and am "exclusive" to her. She will always be very clean, very healthy, very strict about use of a condom for any contact other than a HJ, and of course she will be very beautiful.
I won't hesitate to DATY with my special friend. But I really prefer to time my visit to be her first customer of the day so I get the freshest possible experience and can be pretty sure that no dicks have been in there since the last bath.
Hey, want to increase the size of your load? It's simple.
Just hold off for a while. If you cum every day like I do (by masturbating or other means, it doesn't make a difference) then your body gets used to producing semen at that rate. Just don't have sex or masturbate for three or four days. If I do this, I end up with so much load stored up that I can dribble cum when peeing or taking a dump. When I get to that point, it's time to go visit my friend and hose her down with an absolutely HUGE load of cum.
Also. You generate semen much faster whiile you're aroused. If you want to boost your load size, look at some porno or stimulate yourself for a couple of hours before your "date" and when you do cum, you'll have a much bigger load than usual.
I don't know any guy who doesn't like to eat pussy, unless it's not clean. Like the old joke: show me a guy who doesn't eat pussy and I will show you a girl I can steal:o).
The only pussy I eat are the straight girls that I know very well and have been dating. I know they are safe and the risk is very low. I would not risk DATY of some SW who has been with numerous guys. The risk of catching a STD is monumentally higher.
I would really like to get a medical opinion on the chances of catching a disease from oral sex. I am talking about both giving and receiving oral sex. I have heard conflicting information about it and wonder what is the truth.
There are way too many diseases out there that could put you at risk, not to mention kill you. A moment of pleasure is not worth the risk for me. Most of the SW's I have seen are dirty, drugged out, have open sores and thus are not appetizing nor safe.
It's all a deadly game of Russian roulette. Do you feel luck today?
I just won't take the chance.
BBB
sup guys well i got to report yall this one i meet this big gurl and me being such a small guy in height this lady is like 6 feet 2 and in 5 feet 6 but guys she suck me so hard and long lick my balls and suck them then she get so into it she start licking my ass but im not to into that one but she make me feel so good but she get mad i dont wanna be seen in public wit her cause she is kinda fat but when she be looking at me and when she swallow it it just do something to me and she let me fuck her face and got damn her mouth so big and lips so fat luv when she gloss them up 2 wow guys she makes me crazy i need to run from her before i be and moved in wit her..lol
Be sure to catch Hitchens' brilliant article in the current Vanity Fair. It's titled "As American As Apple Pie" and is great reading!
[url]http://www.vanityfair.com/commentary/content/articles/060619roco01[/url]
[QUOTE=USTraveller]I too have done DATY at Strip Clubs and AMPs I've visited an have also not had any problems. I have a feeling they clean themselves more often than the average streetwalker though. Still, there's always a risk.
There's a great link posted in the Special Interests > [url=http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=268]Safe Sex[/url] section by Bill Bradsky that gives the STD risks for different types of acts.[/QUOTE]
Not a bad link. But one thing leaves me questioning the academic integrity of that site. Wouldn't it make sense that if men can get x disease from receiving oral sex, we can give it to a woman also? Oral transmission is exactly that - regardless of gender. Here is a screenshot of part of the chart I am asking about. Maybe I am missing something?
Bench
[QUOTE=Benchseats Rock]Not a bad link. But one thing leaves me questioning the academic integrity of that site. Wouldn't it make sense that if men can get x disease from receiving oral sex, we can give it to a woman also? Oral transmission is exactly that - regardless of gender. Here is a screenshot of part of the chart I am asking about. Maybe I am missing something?
Bench[/QUOTE]Local Health departments and state level agencies have data and statistics on diseases including STD's and STI's. Sexually Transmitted Infections. Some release info on possible route of transmission. Google it as well. Some sites have photo's of what you can catch and the information is backed by the medical community if not put out by them. After reviewing that mini photo chart. Ghonno is transmitted via any mucous membrane so it is not gender specific and doesn't need to be genital contact. And, I do know guys who have gotten ghonno wearing a condom because infected vaginal fluid ended up on their pubes and the bacteria festers in that dark region. Both the penis and anus are way too close for the bacteria not to infect.
MRSA is a new contagious staph infection. No one knows everything about this one yet and it can be antibiotic resistent. For those who visit MP's, what does that say if they don't change sheets and towels after every customer? . Or a table shower? Don't trust me or the next guy's opinion. Find good, reliable information from a doctor or public health professional.
At least as far as the risks for DATY. I know for a fact you can get gonorhea from that and I know I've seen other info showing other STD's transmitted that way. I think anything a Man can pass from his cock a woman can pass on if you go down on her. IMHO , why go down on a ho anyway, unless in the very rare situation where you find a 10, know her at least a little, and care enough to get her off, in which case she should be paying you?Does anyone have any personal knowledge of someone getting genital warts in thier mouth? From either a male or female?
[QUOTE=chefdog]Be sure to catch Hitchens' brilliant article in the current Vanity Fair. It's titled "As American As Apple Pie" and is great reading!
[url]http://www.vanityfair.com/commentary/content/articles/060619roco01[/url][/QUOTE]
Although blowjobs are "as American as apple pie" we might have learned it from the French. "French" is slang for blowjob. In Europe Swedish Massage means with handjob, French Massage means with blowjob, Danish Massage means with full service. Perhaps Korean women learned blowjob technique from us during the Korean War. Or it might be due to early French presence in Southeast Asia. At any rate, today's Korean Massage Parlor masseuses are certainly masters of it. They can put the condom on with their mouth so skillfully you hardly notice. The shaft is slid down the mouth with ease and the rythmic sucking is so smooth it is as if the KMP girls have been doing it for half a century. (And some of the more experienced Korean providers might be very close to that mark). Chinese masseuses seem to be a different story.
The Chinese are certainly masters of the handjob. I know from personal experience and from reading the posts here. And they obviously know how to fuck. There are over a billion Chinese on the planet. But read the posts and the reviewer might complain that finally he managed to get a BJ from a chinawoman - but it was the worst he's ever had. I don't have nearly as much personal experience as with Korean providers. But my limited experience is that the shaft is more likely to be kissed and lightly tongued by the Chinese woman rather than totally engulfed in the mouth by a tiny Korean woman. The Chinese woman won't fit much more than the head in her mouth and just a little lip pressure will be applied. Something like dipping your wick in a large-mouthed Bass trying to breathe. The Chinese BJ experience was pleasant enough for me, but different. Does this tally with what other hobbyists have experienced?
Double Nickle
"Sorry, but we can't find the URL you tried to access." is all that is here now. Damn, I really wanted to read it too.
[QUOTE=chefdog]Be sure to catch Hitchens' brilliant article in the current Vanity Fair. It's titled "As American As Apple Pie" and is great reading!
[url]http://www.vanityfair.com/commentary/content/articles/060619roco01[/url][/QUOTE]
It seems that they don't keep their archives online for very long, bummer.
I know I saved a copy of the whole article but I must have moved it off my day to day hard drive, so the chances of my ever actually getting around to finding it a reposting it here are slim to none, but I did manage to find the following at jossip gossip in New York. Enjoy, I think it actually hits all the good highlights there were anyhow.
Benchseats Rock
We devoted our morning to the desperate search of Christopher Hitchens' Vanity Fair article which promised to teach us all about the history of the blowjob. Ok, not exactly, but we were awfuly interested in reading the article, As American As Apple Pie in which the writer discusses the patriotism of sucking dick.
Basically, Hitchens tells us how the blowjob started, and answers the age old question, to blow or to suck? by defnining Souffler ("to blow") and fellatio ("to suck"). But, his analysis is specifically on the blowjob in America. Hitchens makes sure to fully stereotype sex, examine this subject from a strictly heterosexual male view, praise pornography, and objectify women to the fullest all in one essay. He did throw in a few examples of guy on guy as well (using the term "faggoty") but immediately turned away from the subject with discomfort to focus on the straight man's peril of not being able to give himself oral pleasure.
Well done, Hitch. After the jump, our full (slightly feminist and reactionary) take on this less than informative and wholly disappointing essay. Oh, and we used some of the PG 13 quotes the Daily News wouldn't print.
Hitchens begins his analysis of head in America with an attempt to identify the origin of the word "blowjob."
[b]The crucial word "blowjob" doesn't come into the American idiom until the 1940s, when it was (a) part of the gay underworld and (b) possibly derived from the jazz scene and its oral instrumentation. But it has never lost its supposed Victorian origin, which was "below-job" (cognate, if you like, with the now archaic "going down").[/b]
There is, Hitchens decides, something distinctive about oral sex in America. Bill and Monica aside, Hitchens concludes that Americans embrace the act of going down (on guys) with more vigor and less shame than other cultures. He concludes not only that US girls are easy,
[b]And such a kiss on the first date is not now considered all that "fast." America was not the land of birth for this lavish caress, but it is (if I may mix my anthems) white with foam from sea to shining sea. In other cultures, a girl will do "that" only when she gets to know and like you. In this one, she will offer it as a baiser as she is making up her mind.[/b]
[b]but that they are just a bunch of mouths walking around waiting for some guy to come up and shove it in there. A theory that is likely making any parent regret the thousands of dollars they spent on their young daughter's braces.[/b]
[b]when any sweet American girl smiled at me, I was at once bewitched and slain by the warm, moist cave of her mouth, lined with faultless white teeth and immaculate pink gums and organized around a tenderly coiled yet innocent tongue. Good grief![/b]
He did, obviously, leave out the fact that some women look upon a bj with the same disdain reserved for scrubbing floors, and would likely prefer to strap on the knee pads for the latter. Oh, Maureen Dowd, where are you when we really need you?