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[QUOTE=RockyRhodes;2836417]New thread devoted to sharing information about all topics related to sugarbabies and arrangements.[/QUOTE]I'm glad you started this as I've had a few from columbus. I live in Fairlawn, so I would like to hear about some of those babies down there.
I may renew my membership, didn't have too much luck really. I still talk to one girl, and actually finally met one from Dayton yesterday for a quick car ride. Too many games on there for me.
I've done surprisingly well in cbus and surrounding area. Have 1 in Dayton, 1 in cinci, 1 in Nashville, 3 in cbus plus ended 1. I also have met up with a couple others and played for free (bought food and drinks, etc).
My impressions on SA: figure out type of girl because you have to weed through them. Some cute young babies actually think you will pay them 100-300 to join you for dinner. They are not ever going to bang you just hang out & they expect to be paid. These are easy to weed out through email. Next type are those looking for a relationship. Usually can tell from profile but not always. You can after an email exchange. Dump these also from your list.
Next are providers. Some are easy to recognize; others more subtle. Typically can exchange a couple emails and get right to the pay for play talk. I have met up with 2 in cbus. One was actually young, cute (7 on college campus), and fun. She was 200 hr no rush mpops. I repeated a few times and even git an hr for 100 the last visit.
Last are ladies looking for a weekly or monthly allowance. (Run clear of the college girls wanting you to pay fir school). Here is the most expensive group & you have to invest some time before you can play. However, the reward is a hot college girl out of your league. These vary too. Some will meet up in public a couple times, text back & forth, etc. Then be comfy for arrangement including sex. Others will require mutual chemistry. And the worst batch will try to lead you on to get payment with no intention of sex.
Even though the last group is the most difficult to work with this is where I focus. I'll admit I spent over 400 on a college baby at OSU learning a hard lesson. I am spending more money but have secured some wicked tail! In fact I cannot afford all I have secured and just broke one off. If anybody wants sa contact info for a 19 yr old black chick soph at ODU let me know. I was banging her in dorm room in campus which was fun. She is hot and nice big tits. 5-2, athletic / slim. You must be under 45 for her, not fat in decent shape. She doesn't have to think you are hit, but can't bang an older guy that she is repulsed by physically. I was dropping her 500 2 times a month. I could swing by 1-2 times a week. I enjoyed her but looking at cash out flows had to drop a baby and she was my choice.
[QUOTE=DireWolf75;2848732]I've done surprisingly well in cbus and surrounding area. Have 1 in Dayton, 1 in cinci, 1 in Nashville, 3 in cbus plus ended 1. I also have met up with a couple others and played for free (bought food and drinks, etc).
My impressions on SA: figure out type of girl because you have to weed through them. Some cute young babies actually think you will pay them 100-300 to join you for dinner. They are not ever going to bang you just hang out & they expect to be paid. These are easy to weed out through email. Next type are those looking for a relationship. Usually can tell from profile but not always. You can after an email exchange. Dump these also from your list.
Next are providers. Some are easy to recognize; others more subtle. Typically can exchange a couple emails and get right to the pay for play talk. I have met up with 2 in cbus. One was actually young, cute (7 on college campus), and fun. She was 200 hr no rush mpops. I repeated a few times and even git an hr for 100 the last visit.
Last are ladies looking for a weekly or monthly allowance. (Run clear of the college girls wanting you to pay fir school). Here is the most expensive group & you have to invest some time before you can play. However, the reward is a hot college girl out of your league. These vary too. Some will meet up in public a couple times, text back & forth, etc. Then be comfy for arrangement including sex. Others will require mutual chemistry. And the worst batch will try to lead you on to get payment with no intention of sex.
Even though the last group is the most difficult to work with this is where I focus. I'll admit I spent over 400 on a college baby at OSU learning a hard lesson. I am spending more money but have secured some wicked tail! In fact I cannot afford all I have secured and just broke one off. If anybody wants sa contact info for a 19 yr old black chick soph at ODU let me know. I was banging her in dorm room in campus which was fun. She is hot and nice big tits. 5-2, athletic / slim. You must be under 45 for her, not fat in decent shape. She doesn't have to think you are hit, but can't bang an older guy that she is repulsed by physically. I was dropping her 500 2 times a month. I could swing by 1-2 times a week. I enjoyed her but looking at cash out flows had to drop a baby and she was my choice.[/QUOTE]Your inbox is full, have info for you.
Cleared room.
[QUOTE=DireWolf75;2848732]I've done surprisingly well in cbus and surrounding area. Have 1 in Dayton, 1 in cinci, 1 in Nashville, 3 in cbus plus ended 1. I also have met up with a couple others and played for free (bought food and drinks, etc).
My impressions on SA: figure out type of girl because you have to weed through them. Some cute young babies actually think you will pay them 100-300 to join you for dinner. They are not ever going to bang you just hang out & they expect to be paid. These are easy to weed out through email. Next type are those looking for a relationship. Usually can tell from profile but not always. You can after an email exchange. Dump these also from your list.
Next are providers. Some are easy to recognize; others more subtle. Typically can exchange a couple emails and get right to the pay for play talk. I have met up with 2 in cbus. One was actually young, cute (7 on college campus), and fun. She was 200 hr no rush mpops. I repeated a few times and even git an hr for 100 the last visit.
Last are ladies looking for a weekly or monthly allowance. (Run clear of the college girls wanting you to pay fir school). Here is the most expensive group & you have to invest some time before you can play. However, the reward is a hot college girl out of your league. These vary too. Some will meet up in public a couple times, text back & forth, etc. Then be comfy for arrangement including sex. Others will require mutual chemistry. And the worst batch will try to lead you on to get payment with no intention of sex.
Even though the last group is the most difficult to work with this is where I focus. I'll admit I spent over 400 on a college baby at OSU learning a hard lesson. I am spending more money but have secured some wicked tail! In fact I cannot afford all I have secured and just broke one off. If anybody wants sa contact info for a 19 yr old black chick soph at ODU let me know. I was banging her in dorm room in campus which was fun. She is hot and nice big tits. 5-2, athletic / slim. You must be under 45 for her, not fat in decent shape. She doesn't have to think you are hit, but can't bang an older guy that she is repulsed by physically. I was dropping her 500 2 times a month. I could swing by 1-2 times a week. I enjoyed her but looking at cash out flows had to drop a baby and she was my choice.[/QUOTE]My only stab at a sugarbaby arrangement thus far was a failed attempt at converting an escort who lived in Akron but always reached out to me when she was in Columbus. I first saw her as an escort. We had a nice rapport and became friends with occasional benefits, which I sometimes paid for. It progressed to me providing occasional ride services between Akron and Columbus. We had agreed on $800/ month, which was primarily to help her quit escorting. It failed because her expectation was that my visits would be <2 hours once a week. My expectation was to visit once a week, but that her schedule would be clear just for me on those days, and that if she wanted me to visit she would also include me in other activities. In hindsight, I wonder if I should have been more of a pimp in setting the terms and conditions. I probably should never have offered her the sugarbaby arrangement because it cost me what had been a convoluted but perfectly fine relationship.
My main question is, why do you advise against those looking for a relationship? What is the difference between a sugarbaby that is looking for a relatiinship and one that is not? It seems that there might be a large gray area where the arrangement may change if both parties are open to a relationship after spending time together. Is it because a relationship might be tainted and destined to fail due to expectations changing like in my failed arrangement?
I appreciate your insight.
[QUOTE=Mike7794;2848607]I'm glad you started this as I've had a few from columbus. I live in Fairlawn, so I would like to hear about some of those babies down there.[/QUOTE]I can only take credit for starting the thread after somebody else suggested it.
I've actually been to your area and liked it a lot because I noticed a few athletic, curvy, good-looking AA women around. I don't see many around here anymore for some reason.
Have your arrangements with sugarbabies been smooth sailing? If not, were they similar to traditional long-distance relationships?
Thanks!
[QUOTE=SpaSearcher;2848612]I may renew my membership, didn't have too much luck really. I still talk to one girl, and actually finally met one from Dayton yesterday for a quick car ride. Too many games on there for me.[/QUOTE]I need to check the forum rules but I think we can identify sugarbabies we've checked out by posting a link. I'm sure we can PM info in the meanwhile.
I don't really even know what site to use to have the best odds of finding one. Maybe by advertising on CL?
Everyone's image of a sd / sb relationship is different. I'm with you, looking for more of a connection, not just physical. It definitely carries risk, attachment, getting caught, blackmail. But any of this game has risk.
[QUOTE=RockyRhodes;2854681]My only stab at a sugarbaby arrangement thus far was a failed attempt at converting an escort who lived in Akron but always reached out to me when she was in Columbus. I first saw her as an escort. We had a nice rapport and became friends with occasional benefits, which I sometimes paid for. It progressed to me providing occasional ride services between Akron and Columbus. We had agreed on $800/ month, which was primarily to help her quit escorting. It failed because her expectation was that my visits would be <2 hours once a week. My expectation was to visit once a week, but that her schedule would be clear just for me on those days, and that if she wanted me to visit she would also include me in other activities. In hindsight, I wonder if I should have been more of a pimp in setting the terms and conditions. I probably should never have offered her the sugarbaby arrangement because it cost me what had been a convoluted but perfectly fine relationship.
My main question is, why do you advise against those looking for a relationship? What is the difference between a sugarbaby that is looking for a relatiinship and one that is not? It seems that there might be a large gray area where the arrangement may change if both parties are open to a relationship after spending time together. Is it because a relationship might be tainted and destined to fail due to expectations changing like in my failed arrangement?
I appreciate your insight.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RockyRhodes;2854829]I need to check the forum rules but I think we can identify sugarbabies we've checked out by posting a link. I'm sure we can PM info in the meanwhile.
I don't really even know what site to use to have the best odds of finding one. Maybe by advertising on CL?[/QUOTE]The only site I have used as been SA. Not sure the rules on posting links to other sites but there is always PM.
[QUOTE=SpaSearcher;2855425]The only site I have used as been SA. Not sure the rules on posting links to other sites but there is always PM.[/QUOTE]On Cincinnati page, they post links to the profiles on SA. I think we can do it here as well.
[QUOTE=RockyRhodes;2836417]New thread devoted to sharing information about all topics related to sugarbabies and arrangements.[/QUOTE]I stopped seeing escorts several years ago and saw only SBs since then. My position now is as it was then, escorts & SBs are two different animals. I guess from a technical viewpoint, both are still "pay-2-play". But the escort seems to play with a hundred.
or so gents a year and the SB mostly just one on a regular basis over the same year. Whether the SB is paid by the date or by the month is irrelevant. Just depends on what she needs. I prefer the more relaxed intimate date that a SB provides. My last SB.
Graduate from OSU and moved back to NY. She was easily in the top 3 of the hundreds of ladies I've seen over the past 40 years.
Why did "I" evolve to do this? A variety of reasons but it seemed it was getting very difficult to find an escort that matched my needs: average size; non smoker; host in non smoke & odor free room; host during the window of 10 am to 2 pm, M-F; dependable;.
Good communicator; enjoyed a GFE personable as well as physical encounter; etc. I still keep a minor hunt going on CraigsList but with the improved economy in Columbus, I am not getting quality replies. One must be patient. Be very detailed as to what.
You really want and you might be surprised what is out there. The few SBs I saw for about a year although one lasted for two wonderful years. BTW, I paid an average of 100 to 120 per date but also always left a tip or presents for birthdays, etc.
Here is an example of one of my ads: What's in your wallet? (Columbus Ohio). An empty wallet is not fun any time. I am a helpful non-smoking white gentleman who seeks a nonsmoking white sweetheart for regular discreet school time visits only at your.
Smoke-free place. Lets fill that wallet back up. Please send your email addy /# and a full length clothed picture. Girl-next-door type is perfect. Absolutely no escorts! Put COULD USE A HAND in the subject line when you reply so I know you are real. Thank you.
I tried a couple of the freebie SD sites but found them worthless and over half were known escorts. If you are tired of the escort scene, I can highly recommend the SB scene IF that is what you are seeking. Just my two cents worth! Peter N. Igo.
I have been doing the SB thing for a few years and agree that it takes far more effort but can be way more rewarding than escorts. CL has been much more "flaggy" recently so it's hard to get a post on there that describes what you want, whereas SA seems to be much more straightforward. It takes a bit more hunting but once you find one, you are usually good for about a year or more with the right fit.
In the last month I have dreamed about 6 SA girls.
2 OSU girls (1 Latina, 1 Caucasian), both outcalls.
1 married Filipino woman outcall.
1 Caucasian country girl. Car dream.
2 Divorced Caucasian woman. Outcall.
All 1 HR for between 200 to 300 Mario coins. I have a waiting list of girls who want to see me. Too many too see.
-PL200.