Problem You're Having Is Not Related To Attraction To Provider. Nutrition Is The Key
[QUOTE=EvaSparkling;5191519]Have why'll ever met a provider & unable to get it up?
That happened to me sometime last week & I felt embarrassed.
I got hard during BJ but when I try to put on the condom to fuck my dick went soft.
Maybe I wasn't attracted to her.
Now debating whether I should pay a little bit more money to meet ones I'm much more attracted to.[/QUOTE]The issue you are having is unrelated to the provider but you but there are some remedies. Paying more won't fix anything. This is more related to testosterones levels and nutrition. Also it is a mind set thing as well. First I'd like to mention if you get nervous or start getting really stressed your cortisol levels will go up causing you to go flacid. Sometimes I get like this especially with new providers I meet or if I'm stressed from work. I just try to get myself situated and focus on their ass and pussy. At times I have them suck me and have their ass by my face just to get me down. Find what arouses you and focus on that.
From a nutrition stand point. Be sure to stay well hydrated. Drink water and be sure you have something to eat. Now don't eat a hamburger or something like that which is packed with estrogen tbh. Eat something fortifying. We as humans also lack vitamin D. I always supplement vitamin D3 (1000 IU softgels) every now and then as tbh I really don't go outside much since I work the majority of the day and well into the evening. You can supplement a higher IU level but do research on that. Supplementing zinc is good but don't go to high please. Like 20 mg per day depending on age is fine. There are 50 mg tablets for zinc but I'd suggest doing that every 2-3 days. Don't supplement to often or your body gets used to it and then you have to use higher doses to get the same I usually stay on the natural side in addition to occasional supplements. So I eat raw ginger, onions, red meat, abstain from fast food, eat kale, swallow garlic that I chop up etc to name a few which boost selenium production in our bodies etc. As men this helps our sperm count and also this increases testosterones levels. Abstain from soy, fastfood etc. Eat more red meat. Like steak and tenderloin. Working out etc over the long run is beneficial in every way.
In addition to this and this is just a suggestion but if you beat your meat or regularly watch porn videos. If you beat your Johnson up with a firm grip that can cause issues. Cut back on that or totally. Abstaining for porn helps us psychologically believe it or not. Plenty of studies on this. You will get more aroused by anything. I cut out porn for a few weeks including abstaining from looking at erotic things etc. After a while I started getting random boners. Worst part was when I didn't want one LOL but literally aroused by anything on a woman. Even women I didn't perceive as attractive. Porn etc. does trigger a brain chemical named dopamine but do research and you'll see its not so good. Already am doing this. I barely watch or view porn now because it does skew our expectations in the bedroom. If you have a lack of sensitivity or experiencing dryness etc. on your Johnson one remedy is using castor oil on your Johnson. Do it for a couple of days or regularly if you like. It heals the skin on the tip and increases sensitivity. Just don't let the castor oil dry up on your balls though. Be sure to bathe but do leave it on for some time.
Hope this helps you and others out but be sure to do independent research to further what will best help you. Nutrition, Hydration and your Mental estate is key.
Also one more suggestion is bring lube. Sometimes these providers are just dry. It's not a good feeling on my Johnson when they are dry. Now if the provider is rude or not obliging to request it is at times a turn off unless if you stay in the right mindset or alter it.
Check out Out of the Blue thread
[QUOTE=EvaSparkling;5191516]Any of you ever tried Viagra before seeing a provider? I hate paying for 30 minutes & busting in 15 minutes or less. I love to use up my full allocated time.[/QUOTE]There's another thread called Out of the Blue more focused on the V topic than this one; see [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?25443-Out-of-the-BLUE!&p=5092315&viewfull=1#post5092315[/URL] . Personally, I find the Little Man's Helper to be somewhat of a Catch-22 in that they get me in the game but then there's a 50-50 chance it'll be all drilling and no gusher. . . . (I ain't complaining, just sayin'.