"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3772163]Dinner.

"My first one was asking for 300 for dinner with extras not included. Dinner lasted about 30 minutes or less. No contact or any convo that included names or any specific personal info. No shaking hands before or after, no eye contact and most of the time she was texting.

The donation was given up front with no mention of what might happen after dinner, not even a thanks after.

I will say SA is totally gold don't you think?"

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Hey Marto,

I attempted to interpret what you were trying to say. Correct me if I'm wrong. It sounds like you had a bad experience with a bad SB.

Your experience demonstrates why I would never pay an allowance for the meet and greet. It's also why I like to establish a good connection and chemistry before agreeing to a meet and greet. There are too many women on the site to let one take advantage of me. If one doesn't fit, i move on to the next.

SA can be a gold mine, but you need to know how to mine It.

Happy hunting!!

Max.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. You have to understand the environment you're hunting in. You have to find what they're looking for. As anywhere else you have to chat them up. It's not everyone's cup of tea. As a kid I couldn't do it well.

I've had successful threesomes before, but never from a two girl "team".

I've always been suspicious that these "teams" are just geared to put the guys at a disadvantage and often are a scam. I would be curious if anyone has had a good experience with the self advertised duos?

I suspect it is rarely a good thing for the guy.

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3772827]I see a few two girls come to you. Anyone try this? Experiences?[/QUOTE]

Just cleaned it up.

[QUOTE=MarkUser;3772716]I was trying to give sn update[/QUOTE]

Hey bowl brothers.

Joined SA a couple of days ago afterreading here did several days. Have sent messages to 10 SBs and chatting with 4 currently. I think this may work out. A few questions:

1. How soon do you move conv from messaging on SA site to phone text and phone conversations?

2. Do you discussed allowance figure before first date or initial M&G?

3. Why are there many foreign and out of state SBs favoriting me (I only want meet local SB or with in 1 hr drive)? It is a hassle to block each of them every day.

Thanks!

Hey Satecho,

Welcome to the Bowl! Make sure you read the index for this thread listed on Richmond board.

1. I move to text as soon as possible, but only after they pass my list of qualifying questions. Usually after 10-15 back and forth messages which can be the same day or a week depending on the pace of conversation.

2. I don't discuss allowance other than to indicate I'm not the biggest spender on the site, but past girls were happy. If they push the issue for specifics and a commitment, it's an indication they aren't a good fit for me.

3. There are plenty of scammers on the site looking to take advantage of newbies. Almost any unsolicited message from someone far away is a scam and can't be trusted unless you have some very specific descriptions in your profile that may attract individuals (I. E. BDSM, submissive / dominant, etc).

Best of luck in your search.

Max.

[QUOTE=Statecho;3773307]Hey bowl brothers.

Joined SA a couple of days ago afterreading here did several days. Have sent messages to 10 SBs and chatting with 4 currently. I think this may work out. A few questions:

1. How soon do you move conv from messaging on SA site to phone text and phone conversations?

2. Do you discussed allowance figure before first date or initial M&G?

3. Why are there many foreign and out of state SBs favoriting me (I only want meet local SB or with in 1 hr drive)? It is a hassle to block each of them every day.

Thanks![/QUOTE]

Rejoined about 2-3 weeks ago. The water is as clear as ever. Unclear where all the angst and struggle is coming from. Just be reasonable and real, particularly if you want a real gal. I will also add this — a little more goes a long way.

Hey RVA SDs. Set up a M&G with 143 LoveLyfe. She has been on SA for about a year. Anyone have any experiences with her. Looking for guidance. If you could give me some info I would appreciate it. You can send me a DM if you don't want to post public.

Thanks!

Starkey.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3743833]*Excellent* point. I have of course been lucky enough to get some girls to send me their selfies. I attach a particularly tasty one.[/QUOTE]Is she on SA? I need to track her down!

My current profile is setup to appeal to the girl who wants to sugar date, but wants a more realistic relationship in the mix. It almost sounds like a legit profile on a regular dating website, complete with mushy sentiment and about my hobby's etc. This has worked well, but I am thinking to try a month going a little darker. I am thinking to throw in a short paragraph about myself, but get to the point and try and attract the more submissive and kinky natured girls. I'm kind of burned out on the "girl next door" types and would like to meet some more wild girls, into more adventurous things and perhaps some girls wanting to try BDSM.

My old profile in my area usually yielded 5-8 emails per day when I'm online. I usually don't even have to send many emails out, they came to me. I'm guessing I'll get less this, way, but likely girls who are more adventurous?

And on side note, I cannot believe we continue to give up our constitutional rights in this country. Fosta is the biggest, big daddy government oppressive law ever passed in this country. Wait to see where it's tentacles reach. What will happen is hosting sites will move off shore and so their next move with by the block them from US based users. From there thy will apply this logic to other sites that host "illegal" activities. Fiirst making them outlaws and then banning them from being seen, blocked. We have been censured Americans! Our first amendment rights are GONE! And what cracks me up, is this new law does NOTHING to protect any children being trafficked. NOTHING! In fact it will make it worse as all back page etc girls will soon be walking the streets again like in the 80's. I cannot believe or elected official fell for such a poorly written bill. I am all for stopping true underage trafficking or anyone engaged against their will, but this bill has ZERO to do with that. It has to do with the bigger picture of control, and censorship and eroding our freedoms.

[blue]We aren't going anywhere

[url]http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds[/url]

Just saying,

A2[/blue]

[QUOTE=Starkey2008;3774554]Hey RVA SDs. Set up a M&G with 143 LoveLyfe. She has been on SA for about a year. Anyone have any experiences with her. Looking for guidance. If you could give me some info I would appreciate it. You can send me a DM if you don't want to post public.

Thanks!

Starkey.[/QUOTE] she has some hot pics

From the guys in Richmond. So I'll share my last experience.

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?19231-Arrangement-Reports&p=3775502&viewfull=1[/URL]#post3775502.

Hey everyone. Just looking for opinions. SA is okay, but overpriced and doesn't offer much in the services department. So I figured to try and do better.

[URL]https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1919751433/sugar-dating-website?ref=created_projects[/URL]

First off, I plan on having instant messenger, group chat, video chat, notes sections, blogs, a much improved search capability, more detailed profiles, and the ability to upload videos as well as photos. Plus I'll accept any type of credit card. Also will have apps for Android and iOS. That's just at launch. And a monthly cost will be twenty dollars, unless you do the lifetime membership of course.

So what could I do better? Do you all think I'm wasting my time? Sure, it might take a little time to grow, but that's with all things.

If any of you donate, I appreciate it. If not, no worries. If you do donate, PM me and I'll make sure to find some extra way to reward ya.

Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3775147]My current profile is setup to appeal to the girl who wants to sugar date, but wants a more realistic relationship in the mix. It almost sounds like a legit profile on a regular dating website, complete with mushy sentiment and about my hobby's etc. This has worked well, but I am thinking to try a month going a little darker. I am thinking to throw in a short paragraph about myself, but get to the point and try and attract the more submissive and kinky natured girls. I'm kind of burned out on the "girl next door" types and would like to meet some more wild girls, into more adventurous things and perhaps some girls wanting to try BDSM.

My old profile in my area usually yielded 5-8 emails per day when I'm online. I usually don't even have to send many emails out, they came to me. I'm guessing I'll get less this, way, but likely girls who are more adventurous?

And on side note, I cannot believe we continue to give up our constitutional rights in this country. Fosta is the biggest, big daddy government oppressive law ever passed in this country. Wait to see where it's tentacles reach. What will happen is hosting sites will move off shore and so their next move with by the block them from US based users. From there thy will apply this logic to other sites that host "illegal" activities. Fiirst making them outlaws and then banning them from being seen, blocked. We have been censured Americans! Our first amendment rights are GONE! And what cracks me up, is this new law does NOTHING to protect any children being trafficked. NOTHING! In fact it will make it worse as all back page etc girls will soon be walking the streets again like in the 80's. I cannot believe or elected official fell for such a poorly written bill. I am all for stopping true underage trafficking or anyone engaged against their will, but this bill has ZERO to do with that. It has to do with the bigger picture of control, and censorship and eroding our freedoms.

[blue]We aren't going anywhere

[url]http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds[/url]

Just saying,

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]This is not ROCKET science that you guys try to turn it into LOL. I'm soon to be 66 and my profile states seeking very sub and kinky with no photo pic and I still get quite a few inquiries. Stick to the KISS principal and don't over think this LOL.

Anyone get anywhere with this one?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/79e98e47-9e1d-0c4c-1f75-98590168e4c6[/URL]

She has been on the site as along as I have, but can't seem to get much out of her. Expecations activities. She just wants to meet to "see if we enjoy each other's company".

I would have a hard time justifying paying a monthly fee until you had a decent supply of SBs in the area.

[QUOTE=Doc2016;3775765]Hey everyone. Just looking for opinions. SA is okay, but overpriced and doesn't offer much in the services department. So I figured to try and do better.

[URL]https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1919751433/sugar-dating-website?ref=created_projects[/URL]

First off, I plan on having instant messenger, group chat, video chat, notes sections, blogs, a much improved search capability, more detailed profiles, and the ability to upload videos as well as photos. Plus I'll accept any type of credit card. Also will have apps for Android and iOS. That's just at launch. And a monthly cost will be twenty dollars, unless you do the lifetime membership of course.

So what could I do better? Do you all think I'm wasting my time? Sure, it might take a little time to grow, but that's with all things.

If any of you donate, I appreciate it. If not, no worries. If you do donate, PM me and I'll make sure to find some extra way to reward ya.

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]