Dinner will cost you extra
I was a premium member on SA for a month. Two years ago I was on SD4 M. SA has about 20 times the volume of women. The patterns of behavior are similar between the sites. I talked to perhaps 300 women and nearly all conversations went nowhere. It was tiresome. Mind you, I am polite, friendly, and reasonable. Maybe it's my personality. YMMV, as usual. I think that 95% of the profiles go silent after a week. It's a striking observation! What does that mean?! Based on reading here and my own intuition, I suppose that most of the women are afraid and give up. They may start with some optimistic idea of finding a rich guy, a Big Fish, but then after many crude solicitations ($20 BJ or $40 QV or whatever) they run away. It reminds me of the one SB I met from SD4 M (I reported on her) : scared, naive, had moral qualms, but I got lucky because she liked me in a qualified way.
Some girls want exclusive arrangements with monthly allowances, typically $1500 and I think $1000 is the minimum (I tended to look for young, under 25, and fairly attractive.) One girl I met (my entry 14766) would have been worth 1500, but I'm not rich. She was active online the whole time I was. I guess it's not easy to land a Big Fish. My budget is $600/ month cash to the SB plus overhead for date costs and hotel. For that pathetic amount I think you can become the regular client of someone who you would probably be sharing with others. I met 3 women in person, who were all the actual person in their profile pics, and I have had sex with 2, admittedly not much statistics to draw any conclusions from and a modest contribution to the many good stories on this thread.
One of my sexual encounters was with a girl who looked on her profile like she was an athletic dancer and very sexual. Both turned out to be true! She's 23, a single mom, had a day job and works sometimes at a strip club on the weekends, and she indeed liked sex. A lot. However, she didn't want to have dates or go to dinner for only $200. She politely pointed out that dinner would cost extra. For $200 she would only do a hotel visit. It actually made sense because she had to hire a baby sitter and a driver, and time is money. Very sweet and friendly girl, she would make a good "SB", just not for me. It was funny that when we had the M&G she very rapidly and professionally found out about me, what I wanted and for how much. After 5 minutes she declared "Ok, I accept. You're not creepy!" It seems that not being creepy and my willingness to meet her price was sufficient.
The other sexual contact was with a cute 19 yo college girl, I already described the first encouner (entry 14835). It was amazing. I have had two follow-up visits and more is planned. All during the time I was on SA she was online frequently and she's already forgotten my name. She likes sex, is very pretty, and I guess she is parlaying that into paying for college with clients who meet her criteria and her price ($200). The encounters are secret and purely physical. A talk with her is simple and direct. She says she likes me and wants to continue. It fits my budget because I can control the frequency of visits. Perhaps I'll say more on that situation later, after it plays itself out. You could say it's a hooker / john situation, but it is slightly more than that as we kiss and caress and she has orgasims.
Oicture sending concerns.
The photo I send the is a photo fo me easily accessible on the net. Throw a photo of yourself on a few sites. Culpable deniability.
Rvaexec60: clear mailbox space
I was trying to give sn update. . .