"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=MajMilkDuds;7049428]I can vouch for her. She is a little odd but is real and legit. Does suck a good cock. I have had plenty of car dates. But her not having a car and she said she lived with family kinda turned me off. If you are ok with all that she is safe a fun.[/QUOTE]Yes I had to go pick her up from her house on her lunch break. Then was kind of rushed doing it in the car, but not that she rushed me but I knew she had to get back to work. (She does call center work from home).

But she was super casual about everything and not uptight. She got naked in the back of my SUV and went to work. She was also ok with pics and video, and CIM at the end. Although she was a bit of a cum dodger, which was disappointing. Anyway, I would see her again for the right PPM.

Again, I don't know about BBFS vs CFS. I think I could talk her into bare, but I'm trying to take less risks lately, after some penicillin shots recently so maybe I don't want to try to get in there. But if I get together with her again, I will probably get turned on and try anyway.

Anyway I like her and treat her right if you meet up. I think she said she will be staying in Roswell for the next week.

I have found my long term SBs for now, so here are a few more I am throwing back:

London.

She started out great. Nice body and tall. We went on a meet and greet and talked and texted. Great conversation but when intimacy was brought she tried to delay and only wanted to date for gifts, so I stop pursuing. A great girl if you ok with no intimacy.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d9e09743-39ea-44fa-94b5-71d65eab0eb4[/URL]

AsianPersuasion.

Good conversation, but never could tell if she was real or fake.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3e0a6d1c-9934-4e9d-87d0-2df51586a59c[/URL]

Jasmine.

A small beauty, but too inconsistent. I knew her from her massage days so we hit it off instantly. If you don't mind the inconsistency, she is a good one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/883933c0-5d73-43dc-bc07-465b566292db[/URL]

Mei.

I think she is all about the meet and greets for $150. I usually don't pursue but I thought she was interesting, but surely after the third day she texted and said she had fun but it wasn't enough to enter an arrangement. Smh. So if you just ok with taking out and paying her, go for it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b93434a-5b39-48da-866e-b00d809172a6[/URL]

Wittylady.

Nice and sweet, but travels a lot to be in an arrangement to meet weekly.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/035cc1b3-5019-4426-a3f1-3ebfa8a09be5[/URL]

Excited beauty.

A freak for sure. Very sexy, but a pro. She is all about the Benjamins.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e00eadd0-3dfe-4bec-950c-e48a0778a67f[/URL]

Maola.

A scammer. She lies about what is agreed on. She is a pro working as a SB and wants to upsale you on everything. She says she GFE, but she is not. She has a nice body, but not worth the time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/001c0167-392d-4c8c-ab0a-3aaa6f103056[/URL]

TallGoddess.

Nice girl. Starting stripping and loss contact.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f6e2e9c9-3038-47d4-b055-4856247f8ed8[/URL]

Slim honey.

I believe she was a pro as well. She immediately had car problems and was strained in another state and needed money. She caught an attitude when I decided not to meet her after picking up on her pro vibes.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1d3276fd-fa13-479b-9f10-8dc7a23eb984[/URL]

GeorgiaGal.

I hated to let this one go because she was a true SB and was great at everything I needed. She is a little needy at time where she will call everyday and talk like a real girlfriend, but I do not have a SO so I was ok with it. She ran into some money problems and began to ask for more than I was willing to give.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/58a5b0e0-4743-4303-85ca-c6df57ce8f7b[/URL]

Adrain.

Not sure if she is a pro or not I have read mixed reviews. She is a sweet girl with a nice body but a bore lay. She just lays there and don't like much touch.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684[/URL]

DarlaDarling.

Crazy. You have been warned.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9d42367e-009d-4b55-be53-dc21901046f2[/URL]

Maria.

Very Beautiful. Obsess with working out. Just like the fun part of an arrangement.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ee4c21d-04e0-4f4d-8e58-7522609c40ac[/URL]

Thecrazymamacita.

My boo. My first SB and she was great and still is.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/46ed00ce-f838-4ea4-8f3d-0d8ec2137e9c[/URL]

Lizette.

Too many games.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c2a55388-8c2a-46a7-8749-40fc93c81261[/URL]

KitKat.

Have a date set up. She is in between Atlanta and Birmingham.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2b7f114a-d663-484e-9408-ec4d6be5ecfe[/URL]

LovingHeiress.

Very sweet girl.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9b957288-3994-4aa6-b6b5-841401a349cd[/URL]

Enjoy guys!

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0[/URL]

Lani.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ff[/URL]

Bean.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/86c51496-f9d3-4799-8f9e-712cc5d12ecb[/URL]

Petite2638.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8256b820-ba6b-4a06-8500-c7687038b432[/URL]

Pheonix.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4145576b-9cbd-46ce-8b8e-345591b17dc7[/URL]

The end of the month is usually a good time to check the sugar sites out as rent / bills are coming due. I usually look for girls with something in their profile that sounds like they are willing to meet and have a few photos, ideally full body. Here's a couple around the Atlanta area:

Gracie6431,20, Marietta.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73132081&nsp=1[/URL]

"Looking for a kind and caring individual to occasionally hangout with. Should be mutually benefial!

Esme, 22, Griffin.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=67837782&nsp=1[/URL]

"I want to be your sugar b*by*. I go to college, I live on my own*.

Diva, 21, Atlanta.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72945838&nsp=1[/URL]

"currently looking for a short term arrangement but long term is possible".

Goddess08,21, Savannah.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72456646&nsp=1[/URL]

"interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement".

Sofi2834,22, Atlanta.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=69320884&nsp=1[/URL]

"prefer a longterm discreet arrangement. I require an allowance. Monthly or PPM. ".

[QUOTE=ReffingMan94;7049816]Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0[/URL]

Lani.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ff[/URL]

Bean.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/86c51496-f9d3-4799-8f9e-712cc5d12ecb[/URL]

Petite2638.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8256b820-ba6b-4a06-8500-c7687038b432[/URL]

Pheonix.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4145576b-9cbd-46ce-8b8e-345591b17dc7[/URL][/QUOTE]Lani always claimed she could meet, but would ghost when the time was agreed upon.

Petite: I reached out to her about 4 months ago but never heard anything back.

[QUOTE=ReffingMan94;7049816]Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0[/URL]

Lani.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ff[/URL][/QUOTE]She has decent pics on the site, but they hide the gut in front (40#'s worth). And she is very aware of it, boring, unethusiastic and a pain in the ass to pin down for a meet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/033251ce-6046-455f-ad9b-2269a2e8d8bc[/URL]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

PM if you like, but this is the concise version.

It's still a quid pro quo situation, just as you are accustomed to, but less turn & burn. You need to play up your value slightly (but not overboard) and persona a bit more than a girl who knows nothing about you before you come & after you go. But don't overthink it, keep it simple and don't share anything you don't want getting out to the world. Create an alter ego and live up to that. A decent SB only wants to know some basics to know you are a decent human typically and she wants to be left alone outside of the arrangement probably as much as you do.

[QUOTE=Xcvxxx;7051324]Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ReffingMan94;7049816]Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0[/URL]
Lani.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ff[/URL]
Bean.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/86c51496-f9d3-4799-8f9e-712cc5d12ecb[/URL]
Petite2638.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8256b820-ba6b-4a06-8500-c7687038b432[/URL]
Pheonix.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4145576b-9cbd-46ce-8b8e-345591b17dc7[/URL][/QUOTE]She's Filipina, it was like pulling teeth to get her to show a pic of her. The profile pic is supposedly her four kids go. She first sent me a pic of her when she was slim her current pics she try to hide her shape.

Has anyone met this girl:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb[/URL]

She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.

That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).

In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.

The sugar daddy lifestyle is very much a situation of you get exactly what you're looking based on how much effort you and SB put into the relationship.

If you still just want pump and go, you'll find that. If you want something more long term FWB, you'll find that. If you want to divorce your wife and find a new one, you'll find it. If you're poly and want a real gf with sugar benefits, you'll find it. Whatever you want, establish it early at the latest in the meet and greet.

For boundaries, a burner phone or google voice number is great. Avoid connecting on social media. If you're meeting out in public, have a game plan if you run into someone you know.

[QUOTE=Xcvxxx;7051324]Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Xcvxxx;7051324]

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice![/QUOTE]I'm not married, but just remember the saying "There are 100 ways to get busted, cheating, and if you can think of 50 of them, you are a genius." And I've certainly had girlfriends and had to do the same thing so I know how challenging it can be. But the obvious steps to take are use burner phone, don't use your real name. Use burner email for the Seeking acct, of course don't have your real pics on there, etc. You can also go further and takes steps not to let a SB see your car or license plate, etc but can only go so far and there will always be some risk. And always, the usual std, pregnancy and psychb*tch stalker risks, as with any dating.

But yes, it can all be worth it if you find the right girl and have some amazing experiences (and no fallout). Just don't get lazy and complacent, if you have a lot to lose and could be a lot of innocent and harmless fun, to be had by all.

I had messaged her back and forth several times via text and almost met up. I don't recall what she was asking for because I deleted our convos. We never met up though, my fault. Seems nice and real though.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;7051484]Has anyone met this girl:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb[/URL]

She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.

That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).

In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;7051484]Has anyone met this girl:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb[/URL]

She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.

That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).

In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.[/QUOTE]If you like 70's & 80's porn she's your girl if I remember right she said she's doesn't used deodorant or uses natural deodorant.