Don't get in your feelings
[QUOTE=Viktor213;7029649]Treat SA like a dating site. You need quality pics and a quality profile to attract interest. No personal details are needed but the profile needs to make clear you are doing well. I don't reach out to people and I normally get 2 to 3 people hitting me up daily not including the international scammers or people outside the area which I ignore. I could have much more interest if I juiced the profile but I prefer to be direct. The people hitting the profile are all shapes, sizes, and races and I chose what I want. Remember SA girls are not the cheapest option so get ready for sticker shock when you start talking business. Last thing, never talk business on the platform. Once you get a decent hit move the discussion to your GV or Telegram account or risk getting banned. SA doesn't play.
Safe Hunting.[/QUOTE]Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.
Don't Get In Your Feelings
[QUOTE=VoraraMesh66;7029058]Senior members please share you thoughts.
I just joined seeking and bought premium. I reached out to few those are discussed here as real profiles. Also contacted few on my own. I am not targeting top 20's profile but average profiles.
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. Also the one who replied said definitely interested. I responded to it. Basically 3 messages total. Never got response to my last message so I asked her again after few hours about why no response and she basically blocked me. She is constantly online and did not respond to me so I asked her.
Is it enough reason to block even after first enthusiastic message??
My question, is it same for you? They take so much time to respond and even say interested then play games like it? I thought they would be eager to chat and finally meet? Is it this much fragile?
If you can share your usual / on average experience that would be great.
DM is fine too.[/QUOTE]Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.
Ok, this girls been around for a minute.
Somebody has to know something about her. Lovee Liyra.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cd9b0995-5991-4410-9997-1fb97843948b[/URL]
If you have any info I'd appreciate it, trying to get something setup with her. PM is fine.
Thanks for the advice my friends
I read each of the advice multiple times. It definitely help someone like me who is new to hobby. Really appreciate your guidance.
[QUOTE=SandyGeet;7029865]Keep it simple, not too short or too much. Be very direct about you are real and wanting to meet irl.
You are the one who provides here and if they don't respond back, it's their loss. I followed the op and some other tips and was on date with 12 girls in last two weeks. Also your profile age does matter.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CrimpShrine;7029751]It's like anywhere else online. Your return rate as a male is going to be low. That's just how it is. These girls get dozens of messages. You're a new profile. Be patient and when you send an ice breaker message, make it sound human so they know you're not a scammer in Indonesia. It's going to take longer than 3 days for you to get any traction.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JohnnyKash;7029702]Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Viktor213;7029649]Treat SA like a dating site. You need quality pics and a quality profile to attract interest. No personal details are needed but the profile needs to make clear you are doing well. I don't reach out to people and I normally get 2 to 3 people hitting me up daily not including the international scammers or people outside the area which I ignore. I could have much more interest if I juiced the profile but I prefer to be direct. The people hitting the profile are all shapes, sizes, and races and I chose what I want. Remember SA girls are not the cheapest option so get ready for sticker shock when you start talking business. Last thing, never talk business on the platform. Once you get a decent hit move the discussion to your GV or Telegram account or risk getting banned. SA doesn't play.
Safe Hunting.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HawkJock;7029422]SA is a lot of work. It was a great site in 2015-2018, then like all things internet it has devolved. Then add COVID and the elimination of Craigslist and Backpage. I'd guess it is now 90% worthless (scams, bots, content sellers, and providers that are just a notch above SW.) Having said that, there are some genuine contacts to be made, especially international. Here in the ATL and surrounding areas, you'll have to send / sift thru 10 emails to find 1 genuine contact.[/QUOTE]