Reference Checks and other ranting
Since we're on the topic.
I am (according to what I see on this board) a low-volume monger unless I really "click" with a provider and we can work something out at what I consider a reasonable arrangement (more on that later). I understand the need for reference checks, but I'll buy a burner phone and use it until I lose it or have to pitch it, so with my lower volume it can be tough for a lady to remember me from one or two visits especially in regards to a third party asking when all they have is a first name and a phone number. I have been posting since 12/07 and am a respectful person. Shouldn't that count for something? I don't review every encounter, but simply being "senior" I agree isn't enough. Do any of you ladies do a quick check of posts and briefly scan their content?
As for the arrangement I was referring to. I have tried to set this up a few times and it worked well once. I asked for a discount if my next visit was pre-paid. I'll pay now and you "owe me one" for a lower cost. Usually, I'll pay for the next visit when I'm there and keep one visit "in the bank" so to speak. I'm happy I'm getting a more reasonable rate and she knows I'm serious and has cash in hand before services are rendered. When I need a visit and I'm short on cash, I'll cash in, but the following visit is back to full price and I'll pre-pay then for the one following. This worked out well with one lady and VERY BADLY with another and the others were so-so. I didn't post about it as it was a calculated risk on my part that didn't pay off, so live and learn. The lady that it worked well for asked not to be spoken about, so I haven't and won't.
When you work in Detroit and frequent Windsor, you get spoiled. I got some of the most fantastic massages for $50-60 for 75-90 minutes of paid time (60-ish was the massage but when I worked on her, the sessions sometimes nearly doubled in length) and every once in a while, there was more than the usual "finish. " These ladies stayed UTR and only saw gentlemen, so I never violated their trust. They enjoyed themselves as did I and they made cash while doing it. I enjoy pleasuring women, but not on my time for dime. If I'm getting them off, the clock should stop. After all, I'm paying (plus, like all men, I think I'm pretty good at what I do). Few women have met the high bar set when capitalism reigns in a market economy.
I guess I'm done with my ramblings.
Maybe Clients need help here and there too?
I'd never agree to scamming or shorting anyone, that should go with out saying, I agree in someone's time of need, it is a terrible feeling to kick me when I'm down.
So I'm wondering if a general "regulars" discount can help this? What I mean is, we have no way of showing clients our appreciation for their loyalty. We can't put " thank you" cards under their windshield wipers. I have a regulars thing I do for clients and it works really good, because they know they have a discount day available to them, they don't short me they use their earned visit I gave 50% off. I was scammed in 2012 when I gave a 5th visit for free to anyone who came that many times, but after I was scammed I realized it happen right before Christmas, these clients are used to seeing us on regular basis and when life makes them short on funds some will just do without while others will get panicked an try to scam you.
Maybe we should have some form of a "life happens" for clients, regulars of course, to use when they too get down on funds.
I think it could help limit the need to short girls, they won't be too ashamed to ask for a discount, they won't try to short anyone without telling them and this way it keeps good connections together, it sucks to lose a great client over $20 bucks!!
I'm open to suggestions if anyone has any, I've even thought about a milage thing, some of my clients drive from far away, since I know there must be other providers that are closer, yet they make that drive just for me! I've thought maybe I should give those clients $25 off to make it easier for them to continue with me being far away, the only thing stopping me is figuring a way to verify the drive without looking NOSEY. So if we can think of a way to give clients a break it might limit or even stop the need to short anyone. It's just a thought of course.
False reviews and LEO accounts
I got PM from a senior member here saying a specific user is PMing HIM asking odd ball questions that a person in this industry wouldn't ask, I looked up the guy and he only has one review, it's a review only validating someone else's review, just to remind everyone, that is a tactic used to make other members comfortable with talking to them about behind the scenes info, an a lot of people fall for it!! They won't have any validated reviews, they use old reviews about girls already reviewed and they either write something similar so the member who wrote it originally will reply in forum an talk in PM. They write good an bad reviews but it's almost always on girls previously reviewed. Please be careful who you give personal Info on, don't give behind the scenes info about providers or other members to people you don't know.
Be safe.
What Kind of Photo Identification is the Question:
Photo identification in additional to other info could be used to securely confirm who you are to someone but a state issued photo identification card or DL alone proves nothing. For example if someone is asking for; employment information along with an employer issued photo identification card or badge, if available, that's one thing. However, the last time I checked LE have state issued photo identification, such as a DL, same as anyone else.
CX.
[QUOTE=MassageIt;2182171]I also have a problem with the reference check. Both the monger and provider are taking a chance. Recently I wanted to see a provider and I was willing to provide TWO photo I'd's. I really did not want to do this. She stated that it would only prove I was not a cop. I will not see a provider who does not require a reference just so the other provider can call them to check me out.
Mt.[/QUOTE]
When are people going to figure it out?
Do not fuck around on the review threads of my beloved Queen City.
Petra is anti prostitution?
I totally trust A2, but find it funny / interesting since contractual sex is Petra's line of work, unless she just quit. That member name only had 1 other post and it was her putting up an ad introducing herself years ago, so I would assume it is actually her. Again interesting.
This might bother some but I have to believe someone out there understands?
I hate looking stupid defending clients, I hate feeling like an idiot and looking like I'm the one they "settle" for.
While picking up my daughter I like to leave the house quickly, to get the same ole thing, (why you rushing off?) I say "oh I have a regular on his way I haven't got to seen in forever, I want to get back to set up really nice, I have new sheets and these really good candles to help with sinuses, he has sinus issues, an I'm working on making sure I'm never late", a chuckle from the side of the room, I mess up saying "what's so funny?" . To hear (it kills me how you talk about them lames like they ever give shit about you, like they care what stupid ass candles you bought! You spent cash on F-ing candles it's honestly comedic! I say "no I don't do it for everyone I'm not stupid! But certain clients, yes I will! He only sees ME, works long hours, anything I can do to help make him feel better I do, so I'm an idiot for being nice huh?" She says. (Only you? Ha! The ones that say, "I only see you!" Are the ones who seen everyone EVEN ME!) I laugh an said "oh trust me!! This guy would NEVER put up with YOU!" She says. (bet me $50 that who ever your rushing home to meet, is in my phone, I've already seen them, probably more than once, we all know I Won't treat them special!) another voice in the room yells (OHHHHHHHH!! That's a challenge!
Confidently, Knowing my guy 2 yrs, him hating bad attitudes & he won't be scammed, he lives & breathes through the info on USASG. So I felt comfortable taking the challenge.
(what's his first name) I gave it!. What's his area code?. I give. She then reads aloud the rest of his number. My heart drops, "So he called you once, it was to see if you're really like everyone says!" She then starts to read this text. (You are a beautiful girl & I love blondes but you rush everything, I was hoping the reviews wasn't true & came more than once thinking you need to get comfortable with me, you'd make a lot of money I'm sure, I will see my regular girl who knows how to treat people, you could of had a regular if you wasn't the way you are.).
I demanded to see it coming from him! An there it was.
So now I feel like He was "settling for me". No matter how nice I was, all the little extras I'd put in. All to see him say (if she was just a little nicer, based purely on her looks, barely having a soul!, she could have him as a regular. So I gave her $50 an left. He Told me he isn't into her type & never seen her. What's wrong with just being honest? You think I don't know she is beautiful?
Don't lie to me, Don't offer stories about how you never do this or that, I'm not competitive with other providers, we are human & have feelings. I treat you good because it's the right thing to do, but please don't tell lies or butter me up, I promise I'm going to treat you good no matter who you've seen or will see in The future, but don't make me look like an idiot, taking up for you, we to go into the real world when leaving the session, you guys talk about providers in PMs & you wouldn't want one of us telling you lies about other members then it make you look bad if we lied right! I'd prefer to have the army policy (don't ask don't tell!
It's likely seen as petty but I'd like to be heard, maybe it's the wrong site to vent this on? I'll know if I get that PM from my favorite guy telling me he deleted it, an thank God for "admin2" because I can't be the only one who gets on here & vents, not painting myself in the best light, he looks out for you guys but he looks out for us too. He knows if something will be taken the wrong way so he looks out for us all. If this gets posted I hope someone understands it.
Sincerely Christina.
Suppose to say BOOBS DONE!! LOL
[QUOTE=CurvyChristina;2186290]I'm thinking of getting my boobs done. I'm a full see but I adore how absolutely perfect the fake ones look, plus I'd love being 70 yrs old with perfect perky boobs!! What's your opinion on real or fake? Or does it matter at all? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Boobs not "boots!" LOL.
Tough weekend to get gals to answer
I tried today to get to many providers to see if I can meet for a session. I had only few hours available for myself today and none of them replied or not replied on time except silky (couldn't meet her since our times didn't work).