I agree with you to a point
[QUOTE=HornyMan11;7116060]I think this is a good post to re-visit and guys can give their experiences on increasing chances of more than cuddles (from even just rubbing her butt all the way up to FS). Obviously unless the girl is "in the business" she won't respond positively to a guy who is touchy right away, it seems to always take time. But after I've read through the past 4 months of reviews from here and Tampa, this is what seems to be most consistent:
-If the girl looks like a stripper, is ugly, fat, or old (40's and above, sorry, yes this is "old" in the biz), there is a high chance of her offering extra. Unless she mentions many times in her ad that it's strictly platonic and says things like "if you touch bikini area I will stop the session" and similar, it seems like if she doesn't even acknowledge "platonic" or things like that, the girl is a near guarantee that something extra is offered.[/QUOTE]I've told these stories before so I'll keep it short. I booked 2 hours including a massage with a provider in Clearwater who looked stripper-ish (chest tattoos, etc.) and ended up having a by-the-book cuddle session with her (at least the massage was good). On the other hand, I had the most beautiful woman I've ever shared a bed with in any capacity gradually open up her menu from by-the-book cuddling to receiving massages while topless, then kissing, then making out, then roaming, and finally, sex. She and I had a great connection and chemistry from the very start and every session, even if it stayed platonic, was worth it to me, and I was frankly stunned everything went the way it did.
The girls he describes may very well be inclined to go to extras, but "may" never means "will. " Connection is everything. If you don't feel like you're connecting, extras probably are not going to be had. If you are connecting but she's not offering extras right away, you have to decide if the long game is worth it to you.