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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2265629]I have lived on both coasts, the mid-west and the south. I have lived in small towns and major cities. And L. A. Is by far the least racist place I have encountered. I can't speak to foreign countries. But if you think L. A. Is racist you really haven't traveled this country much. I love your posts but just had to put in my 2 cents.
Being that I am Jewish (and obviously look jewish to anyone that is), one of favorite race baiting games is to take my girls to an orthodox jewish restaurant I frequent. Low prices and healthy food. The shock and awe that we get from the patrons is laughable most of the time. Kinda the way people look at a car accident. But it can range from outright hatred, to guys tripping over themselves to get a second look (or a third), to secret high fives from the dirty old men that only wish they could get some of that thang.
As far as providers and their preferences. Like any business owner all they are trying to do is mitigate their risk (real or imagined). And lets face it, they are in a risky business.[/QUOTE]Adding my 2 cents in the mix here. I too was curious to the "no black men" statement until I became comfortable asking the working girls why they state that. I get a mix of responses but I would say 70% they say because black men don't pay, 20% say that they are too rough and "lose control / can't take no" and 10% other reasons. I don't know where this pimping thing came from as I have never heard this excuse from any working girl (both dependent and independent). This is just what I hear out there so don't kill the messenger.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2265629]I have lived on both coasts, the mid-west and the south. I have lived in small towns and major cities. And L. A. Is by far the least racist place I have encountered. I can't speak to foreign countries. But if you think L. A. Is racist you really haven't traveled this country much. I love your posts but just had to put in my 2 cents.
Being that I am Jewish (and obviously look jewish to anyone that is), one of favorite race baiting games is to take my girls to an orthodox jewish restaurant I frequent. Low prices and healthy food. The shock and awe that we get from the patrons is laughable most of the time. Kinda the way people look at a car accident. But it can range from outright hatred, to guys tripping over themselves to get a second look (or a third), to secret high fives from the dirty old men that only wish they could get some of that thang.
As far as providers and their preferences. Like any business owner all they are trying to do is mitigate their risk (real or imagined). And lets face it, they are in a risky business.[/QUOTE]So you're that guy at Canter's. My dumb ass dines out with friends at Roscoe's on Manchester. Yep. Seen a lot of shit.
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did so. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. "
Twain
HG! Don't waist all your molla here. Let's go down to Teejay for a Tequila Christmas! Is The Camel still around?
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[QUOTE=Showdown;2265104]I am going to touch on a subject that needs addressing. And that is racism and mongering.
Now we have all heard the anecdotes before-.
*Its all the same color in the dark.
*Its all pink inside.
But evidently in Los Angeles this is not the case. And I say Los Angeles. I have mongered all over this planet and never have seen the overt racism that exist in the sex trade like I see in this city. And the racism even extends to people of the same race.
Visit Backpage and you will find atleast half of the white girls and 70% of the black girls write in their ads "No Black Men".
What the hell?
I assume they are implying that either A.Black men will rob/harm them B. Black men are disease ridden C.They are just outright racist. Regardless of their reasons they, will, in the pursuit of the green (money) ignore the black.
You see this same pattern with Craigslist ads that are posted.
Are black men prone to be disease ridden robbers than white, Latino or Asian?
There are several things going on here. And it strictly depends on where these women are (I. E. Street, Backpage etc).
First let me touch the most explosive one. Black women.
I am a man of color (black and Latin descent) and it amazes me in general how we hate ourselves. Yes its true. We are the only race I know of that addresses each other as and*gger. Do you hear whites address each other as "cracker" or Asians call each other "chink". No you don't. It is an internal hatred that extends back to slavery. Now black providers now extend that to black men. They will not have sex with a black man for money for fear of God knows what. What is fascinating is that though these providers will not serve black men they WILL get knocked up by one. Furthermore they will go with a non black man for money yet RARELY will you see a black women in a relationship with a white man. The Black SW are the absolute worst. In addition to 90% of them being overweight loudmouth whales they will have a black man attempt to pick them up and they will see he is black and simply walk away.
What the hell?
If you don't want to be with black (or even Latin) men why the hell are you street walking in the blackest and brownest parts of town (I. E Fig and Western). Why aren't you in Orange County or something? You are street walking where the bulk of the population is of color.
I don't give these women the time of day. Is a black man more prone to rob you, assault you or give you a disease? The first two are just as possible with white men at a truck stop or a Latino in East LA. But their hatred of themselves as black (dying your hair blond? Someone please tell them they look ridiculous) extends to other blacks as well. No SW is going to pick up a man driving an Cadillac Escalade with 4 other young looking guys in it. White, brown, Asian it does not matter.
Don't believe these SW hate being black and extend that hatred to black men who want to pick them up? Read Malcolm X from decades ago. He speaks of this internal hatred of one self.
Now lets touch on Backpage and CL.
Interestingly enough Asian providers rarely say "No black men" as black and white providers do. This is because in Asian cultures-and I can speak to this having spent many years of my life in Asia-do not have the prejudices Americans do. Their history does not teach them to hate non whites. They only learn it once they are in the US or if they are around racist people. I have seen this in practice in Asia. It's like the infamous story from the Korean War. When black soldiers first arrived the people had no problem with them. But as more arrived they were racist toward black soldiers. Why? Because white officers told them black soldiers had tails like monkeys.
Google it. Its true.
I have never ever when mongering been discriminated against by an Asian women. And yes there are few Asian SW. And in the massage parlors I have never had this happen. And don't say the women there HAVE TO go with you. Believe me I have seen Korean, Thai and Vietnamese girls in MP refuse to go with certain men. This never ever happened to me. They like to call you "chocolate" and things like that but it is all in good fun. No harm.
Latinas can be hit or miss. Given I have Latin blood and speak Spanish it depends on the Latina and where she is from. In LA they are mostly Mexican and blacks and Mexicans have a bad history here. So some of them in their ads will write "No black men". But in south Florida, where Latinas are from everywhere, I never saw this nor was ever discriminate against by a Latina. And Latinas are the bulk of providers in south Florida. In most Latin cultures you do not have such overt racism based on skin color though I have heard Brazil is the exception. But in Costa Rica and Dominican Republic and Jamaica they notice your skin color but do not practice the overt racism I see in LA.
Surprisingly, with white women, I do not find as many "no black men" on Backpage and CL as I would have thought. In fact a lot of my responses to CL ads are white women. You would think they would automatically be racist but this evidently is not true. I think sometimes popular culture and the press in the USA likes to keep people at each others throats and always make it seem everyone is hateful, spiteful and prejudice. I will tell you this. I have a stable of 9 providers. Three of them are white girls under 24. And when I first connected with them they gave less than a damn that I was black. When I mongered for SW in the Pacific NW almost every provider is white. And no one ever said no to me or just walked away from the car in disgust.
So what does this mean for men of color that are mongering?
You have to work harder.
I am an educated good looking man. And I use this as a carrot when I first connect with providers. Because of popular culture, that God awful rap music (ok TuPac was ok) and the fact that many YOUNG black men commit crimes I go out of my way to make them comfortable. When I hunt for SW I never play loud music and I always wear a shirt with a collar. I know it sounds a bit much but this is what you must do because of the racism among SW. When I go to AMP or meet a non pro the first time I do the same thing. And the black women that have gone with me(SW and CL/BP girls), even though it took some convincing on my part, all adored me afterwards and out of all the races I have been with mongering were most likely to call me alot and even invite me places with them. Even would give me freebies.
In all I have learned that LA is a racist place. With the history of Darryl Gates (LAPD), Rodney King and other things I can see why. It's a shame that when these providers are offering pink for the green that black and brown isn't wanted.
Food for thought.
Showdown.[/QUOTE]I am black I see this shit all the time in SGV.
If these providers were poor in Asia or Latin American they would surely take us in if they thought we would bring them to the USA.
I have several Asian and black friends and their mothers are not worn out.
I can tell you one them no hooker has never tried to upsell me nor manipulate me because I would not go for it. She could bring her pimps or whoever.
No scams in the hotel nor be. S. From pimps they know black and Latin men will not allow upsell to get fucked out of money or a bait and switch.
My white and Asian friends in the hobby have been ripped off a few several times.
My 2 cents.
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[QUOTE=Seephor;2265718]Adding my 2 cents in the mix here. I too was curious to the "no black men" statement until I became comfortable asking the working girls why they state that. I get a mix of responses but I would say 70% they say because black men don't pay, 20% say that they are too rough and "lose control / can't take no" and 10% other reasons. I don't know where this pimping thing came from as I have never heard this excuse from any working girl (both dependent and independent). This is just what I hear out there so don't kill the messenger.[/QUOTE]Theres a thing called "pimp arrest" and "gorilla pimpin". In areas like north and southern ca (with thug and gang culture) this is more likely to happen. If a girl even looks at a pimp, she's out of pocket (meaning he can take her and claim she "chose" to go with him.) So pimps will try and mix in with mongers and take the girls by suprise. Same can happen if a pimp (thug lookin to become a pimp) answers a BP ad.
In Cali gangs play a role because of where the tracks are. Even latinos try to tax girls for playing on their turf (ie oc. Where most sws are blk still.).
Most real pimps (on the blade) are blk and network w / eachother. They only go after unknown independents (usually) and will help guard other girls. In Cali a lot of bangers and wannabes try to get a girl (It only takes 1 to make you rich. Ie the bf / pimp.) Bottom bitches recruit girls for pimps too.
My reg latina never wants another pimp. So she will not be near blk males when working.
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I just want to know where I can go to get pimped out by a hot chick to other hot chicks. Monger can only dream.
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[QUOTE=Christophe1;2265730]So you're that guy at Canter's. My dumb ass dines out with friends at Roscoe's on Manchester. Yep. Seen a lot of shit.
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did so. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. "
Twain
HG! Don't waist all your molla here. Let's go down to Teejay for a Tequila Christmas! Is The Camel still around?[/QUOTE]I kinda worry about the mileage on those Tijuana girls and the STD levels. But I like the idea of seeing some really hot young girls down there. LOL.
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Last night I was driving around Dt there a lot LEO and Jw I drove for 15 min until I found the one Monica LSW I think she said she was 29 or 39 year old don't remind her age. Monica has great body. She only ask 40 I gave her 30 FS. Tits were small apple and her ass was little bit big and her face was baby doll and her skin was like a super soft and her pussy was tight like it was never have been fuck before. I saw on union and 8th st. She was wearing gray boots and black spandex pants and black / gray shirt. She wearing baby blue g string. She got into the my SUV she took off the boots and ask me get parking spot. I said oh ok I told her I have 30 she said it was fine she just want to get fuck. So I found spot. She took off every thing. If only penis could talk. Once she got nake I was trun on like 11 year that just walk in the strip joint. I took off my short she saw my tool. Her eye open up like it was Christmas. She start give me a bbj for like 12 min. I was fig her man pussy was tight my finger would get push out. I jump to the back seat she came right behide me she ask me fuck her hard I told I would she put on a hat me. I go to town. I was there for 30 min her was super tight I was get push out every 5 pump I did to her she would tell me fuck her hard I would. We did mish cg bcg. Every way I could of done her in my SUV. I Finish. She gose take off my hat off then another bbj. 5 min of that man I was tired it was like end days for me I am late 20's but still Monica must of been super horny. She finish me. She get dress I drop her off at her car I ask for number she didn't have phone at this time I told her I want to see you again next frinday I made appointment with her again I hoping to go get see her again I don't this she walker. If you see her just treat her rite.
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I concur. I mainly see Asian providers and have had these discussions and pretty much say the same thing. Ripped off mostly and down the list, roughed up. It's probably far and few between, but a couple of bad or scary experiences can unfairly skew reality, especially coming from a mostly mono cultural Chinese perspective.
Baggens.
[QUOTE=Seephor;2265718]Adding my 2 cents in the mix here. I too was curious to the "no black men" statement until I became comfortable asking the working girls why they state that. I get a mix of responses but I would say 70% they say because black men don't pay, 20% say that they are too rough and "lose control / can't take no" and 10% other reasons. I don't know where this pimping thing came from as I have never heard this excuse from any working girl (both dependent and independent). This is just what I hear out there so don't kill the messenger.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Showdown;2265104]I am going to touch on a subject that needs addressing. And that is racism and mongering....
Showdown.[/QUOTE]Good post, and thanks for it. As a guy who looks like most of the guys you see photographed at a KKK rally, I really hesitate when I see 'no black men' in an ad. I'm more and more often seeing 'no men under 35' or 40. I'm safe in both quadrants, but I don't want to even obliquely support racism. The age thing, I think may have more to do with Internet/gamer culture where women are never more than objects.
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[QUOTE=Willie23;2266174]Good post, and thanks for it. As a guy who looks like most of the guys you see photographed at a KKK rally, I really hesitate when I see 'no black men' in an ad. I'm more and more often seeing 'no men under 35' or 40. I'm safe in both quadrants, but I don't want to even obliquely support racism. The age thing, I think may have more to do with Internet/gamer culture where women are never more than objects.[/QUOTE]It is incredible the response that this post has had. Since yesterday I have gotten 18 PM's-more than I have ever gotten about any post-regarding this subject. Three of the PM's have been from people out of state and one post was from a guy in LA who said he is LEO and even he is discriminated against. America was always a great experiment-allowing everyone of different races, creeds, religions etc to live under the same flag. However Americas track record as it regards to race and even gender is awful. Even George Washington in his farewell address noted that slavery and foreign wars would do America in if it remained unchecked.
Nevertheless we all just have to monger on and do the best we can with the situation. I look at it like this. No matter where you go someone will not like you. If you are a Jew in Saudi Arabia they won't like you, if you are a Korean and in many parts of Japan theywill not like you, if you are Haitian and live in the Dominican Republic they won't like you. You just have to get over it and look for a better opportunity for yourself despite the challenges.
There are still enough women who don't care about race.. Those are the only ones I seek.
Now if I can find a non prejudiced (LOL) preggo or girl offering anal.
Showdown.
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I look at it like this. No matter where you go someone will not like you.
Wise realism. It's maybe really worse outside America because the hatreds are instituted and entrenched in the same locale over generations and centuries. Sometimes I think our inter-community problems are almost play-acting by comparison. Sure we have folks with plenty of dislikes against other folks but in traditional rooted societies it's hatred as opposed to dislike. We haven't been in our country long enough, and we have too much contact with all the many other folks around us, to really get a true hatred going. I mean hatred the visceral uncompromising thing you can't see through with the capital H. Maybe the American case of rooted blind hate is the Hatfield versus McCoy thing. Minor in the national scene. When I was 21 I went and lived in Kenya for a couple years. I carried my expectations of what Africans would be like from my (scant, white) knowledge of what US black people were like. Why? I ask myself in retrospect. Because both are black. What! Was I thinkinnnngggggg? Frogs and oak trees are both green too. Didn't last long, I found out the local dynamic once I became a resident there. The different groups hate each other (it got loose in their 2008 post-election rioting and killing). Just because other people might be all different from me doesn't mean they are all the same as one another, not at all. Fine, if somebody hates somebody there's not too much I can do about it I like your post and attitude: Keep Calm and Monger On. And respect everybody. Thanks.
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[QUOTE=Christophe1;2265730]So you're that guy at Canter's. My dumb ass dines out with friends at Roscoe's on Manchester. Yep. Seen a lot of shit.
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did so. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. "
Twain
HG! Don't waist all your molla here. Let's go down to Teejay for a Tequila Christmas! Is The Camel still around?[/QUOTE]No not cantors (they are not even kosher). I am talking about ultra orthodox, long black coat wearing, black hats and long beards. You know like the ones in hancock park. Anyway. Very funny everytime.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2266409]No not cantors (they are not even kosher). I am talking about ultra orthodox, long black coat wearing, black hats and long beards. You know like the ones in hancock park. Anyway. Very funny everytime.[/QUOTE]So what's the deal with those big furry Orthodox hats? I love driving down Fairfax on Saturdays and seeing all the Grand Poobahs walking around. The deeper you go in, the bigger and furrier the hats. I wish some of them would place saber-tooth tiger teeth ala Flintstones style sticking out the sides.
Tijuana girls seem to be fairly clean. I haven't done anything more crazy than have sex with three SGs in one day, well maybe 4. Might of spent $130 total to be with some really cute, friendly Latinas. Very safe sex. Sadly I haven't ever gone all out in one the SCs. I think it's regulated so the girls get health checks and carry a license? While there stock up on your favorite male enhancement drugs. Unfortunately Christmas in a Catholic country means a scarcity of Tijuana SWs as they go home to spend time with the family.
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[QUOTE=Christophe1;2266429]So what's the deal with those big furry Orthodox hats? I love driving down Fairfax on Saturdays and seeing all the Grand Poobahs walking around. The deeper you go in, the bigger and furrier the hats. I wish some of them would place saber-tooth tiger teeth ala Flintstones style sticking out the sides.
Tijuana girls seem to be fairly clean. I haven't done anything more crazy than have sex with three SGs in one day, well maybe 4. Might of spent $130 total to be with some really cute, friendly Latinas. Very safe sex. Sadly I haven't ever gone all out in one the SCs. I think it's regulated so the girls get health checks and carry a license? While there stock up on your favorite male enhancement drugs. Unfortunately Christmas in a Catholic country means a scarcity of Tijuana SWs as they go home to spend time with the family.[/QUOTE]I would like to stock up if they were not the so called generics. And yeah Christmas does not seem like the right time due to family obligations.
As far as the furry hats, its just the fashion. There is somewhat of a a dress code to denote the supposed depth of their convictions (the more costumey the more religious). But its more generational than religious these days. My grandad came from one of those families. The ultra orthodox do monger as they are only allowed to have sex with their wives about 20 days out of the month.
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[QUOTE=IsopMan;2262918]I have met me a Sexy BL Teen. This is a NON-Pro attitude chick. About 5' and only 98 lbs she is a Monster in doing what needs to be done. If you want to meet this Chick contact me on PM but make sure you have posted some things before so. I can't talk to Non Posters.
I will give you the Skinny on her then [ATTACH=CONFIG]350863[/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]350864[/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]350865[/ATTACH].[/QUOTE]I know several of you contacted me and still waiting for this one to re contact me. On Friday she contacted me and said her Boyfriend was going to be with her this weekend, but she would contact me on Monday. It appears he is still with her. So I guess we got to wait a bit more. Ho's So damn unreliable. Until they need something.
In the mean-time I met another Throw-Back chick 30 MILF. Offers a good Deal BBBJ to completion and in some cases BBGFE this one is a real Bargin and she has a phone number you can actually call. Anyone interested contact me at the USUAL place and I will share her Digits. She often can only play in the Daytime I will create a new post with her Pictures.