Working at a disadvantage
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7204298]This is a great post! Do a lot of what is outlined but will fine tune my game. My # of SB's is much higher in past year, but 300 is the # you should be looking for! Can't always get there, but its enough for most for their time. Some will still hold out for 5 or say they never go below 8, etc. This is a fun game, to try and get them for the lowest amount and then have them be ok with that amount for continuous times. I only go for for 8's or better so you will miss out on a few, but even those you can have for 5, and if you follow the game plan can possibly get some to be ok with 3 moving forward. We all are looking for the unicorn, but they are as well and for them, they also want to feel safe, have fun, and in their minds make sure they are valued. In their minds, the higher the # the higher the value, but they also would rather be spending their time with someone who they feel safe with and treats them nicely. They all have been on enough bad dates that the good ones stand out and those are the ones they are willing to take a little less from so they avoid the headaches.[/QUOTE]Personally, working at a disadvantage.
1. Post as married.
2. No profile pics at all (share covered face via SA text, and delete if doesn't get them offline).
3. Only 8-9's only (hide the rest). Prefer I'd verified*.
4. I have Facecheck, so I assume they do to. I Never share a face pic at all (ever).
5. Over 60, so age gap is usually 40+.
6. Always discuss expectations / boundaries via text.
7. Usually texting with Tito's in my hand, so not a good idea.
8. Surprising easy to get offline without a picture, but harder to close (thanks Titos).
It still works, but volume effort required, and not many new faces in the demographic searching. 5 yr average is 1/ mo.
Renewed last week, and a few new faces, so. Who knows. Wish I had known in my 40's.
Don't know the next 10 in 2025
But they will emerge. Girls on the site forever likely no, but sometimes circles back work.