Agree most except the allowance part
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7204298]This is a great post! Do a lot of what is outlined but will fine tune my game. My # of SB's is much higher in past year, but 300 is the # you should be looking for! Can't always get there, but its enough for most for their time. Some will still hold out for 5 or say they never go below 8, etc. This is a fun game, to try and get them for the lowest amount and then have them be ok with that amount for continuous times. I only go for for 8's or better so you will miss out on a few, but even those you can have for 5, and if you follow the game plan can possibly get some to be ok with 3 moving forward. We all are looking for the unicorn, but they are as well and for them, they also want to feel safe, have fun, and in their minds make sure they are valued. In their minds, the higher the # the higher the value, but they also would rather be spending their time with someone who they feel safe with and treats them nicely. They all have been on enough bad dates that the good ones stand out and those are the ones they are willing to take a little less from so they avoid the headaches.[/QUOTE]The MO is all great, similar to mine, and I've had great luck finding some gems. Rarely have gone below 8's, sometimes 7's if cheap and one off, many 9's (slim, fit, petite, young), and rarely above 30. My average age has been 25 ish. Included college freshman, 18 year old, up to 29 year old professionals. So it works. That said, I just don't think I'll surprise you at end of date with an envelope works for any of them I have met. May be before 2019, it worked, and $300 was okay. I just don't how your SB's have no expenses or being able to get by with $300, given you may see her max once per week, that's just $1200. Her rent alone will be more than that, unless she's in a ghetto. My SBs are younger and many are finding their way in life, building their financial base. They need at least around $2 k or more from sugaring to ease their lifestyle. I just can't meet them 6-7 times a month and they can't either. Also, we will both get tired of each other more than once a week. I like variety.
So, if they are taking $300, that means she has other SDs on side, and she has a very low self esteem, is not the true 8's, and 9's I am speaking of. I don't have an issue with her having other SDs, and they almost certainly have fuck buddies their age on side, I am under no illusion on this, although taking care of her will ensure she slows that down, since she has less needs to go find another SD for money. Anyhow, the average rates are in $2 k month, with 3-4 meets. I have one now that I am giving that much and saw her 4 times this month. She's ready to see one more time, although I am not interested since I can't get excited with same girl that many times a months. When I don't see her for a week or two then I get the spark again. So, for me $2 k a month with max 4 meets, and sometimes just 3 is the sweet spot. The money really is for her expenses, and they need it. It's a simple matter of economics.
