MichelleSuzy1234 is very weak performance for premium price
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6463377]She only does oral / anal. Both very badly. And super high volume. Her car has condoms all over the floor. I cannot understand how anyone still sees her. Hands down worst experience I have ever had on seeking.[/QUOTE]I'm embarrassed to admit it but I have seen her a few times hoping things would get better but they never did very very lackluster performance and you could tell she just didn't want to be there. And I sprung extra for the Greek one time I had to lie down she tried for all of 3 seconds and said no way and I'm not big at all.
LovingDuchess / SunRays21
This is the same lady posting on both SA as LovingDuchess and SB as SunRays21. Any information on this lady will be appreciated. She looks familiar but I can't remember.
Where.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/92760a012bfc0e5b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af11db9f-c1d3-408f-8f7f-6d357e581782[/URL]
Worth a revisit? -Reflecting back and advice.
[QUOTE=GMag69NC;5648886]Sometimes I wonder. Is there another site, that I'm not aware of, that has all of us Guys on here including me, with their SA links and pictures posted for the girls to discuss and review. Makes you wonder sometimes.
If the chick is a few years, 5+ years older than you, are you considered a sugar daddy? Or are you the sugar baby, but giving her the sugar? Do older women still just want to be paid or are they usually just looking for an escape?
How do you keep some of these girls from getting too attached, sometimes I might disclose too much of my lavish lifestyle but mainly to keep the convo not too generic, and I'm always doing something fun, I don't give my personal cell or host. Do you just reiterate that you'll just looking for NSA / FWB thing? No long term arrangement? I feel like I've talked to girls that are both transactional or girls just looking for a potential relationship and not too focused on payment.
Random PSA:
I was taking to this one girl, and we both mentioned being discrete, then later throughout the conversation she tells me that she showed a few of her girl friends and they approved and though I was hot. Like. I could care less about what her friends think.
But Just a friendly reminder, if you are being discreet, the person you are sharing your pics with may not, and may share your pics around, and if you think the area you're living in is small, usually it is -And sometimes people do know each other.
Just something to think about. Happy Seeking.[/QUOTE]
Continuing my thoughts from SA and hoping to offer a nice retrospective, as I contemplated renewing once again. Its crazy how far my journey came on that site. I started in 2021 Oct, and didn't renew since Mar 2023. Wasn't even in my 30's back then but was among other sugar daddies of all wages and ages.
From having promo codes, to various subscriptions, I spent a little over $1,300. Out of the 1000 girls I spent tons of time talking to, I only had 3 encounters.
Only 1 of those encounters led to me back to her house with really decent FS, a girl from Winston-salem who was mixed Spanish and White. Never repeated due to her strange roommates and vibe getting interrupted.
Pros:
-If you win the lotto and get yourself a nice girl, keep her, as it's almost an investment at this time. Girls are bombarded with messages both locally and far away.
-Younger age of girls that might be better than your avg. Escort page with handlers, bad locals, etc.
-A connection with a girl that could feel less transactional than an escort.
-Frequent communication with a girl that could feed your ego or give you self affirmation, if you're looking for that.
Cons:
-Amount that premium costs.
-Time wasted on potentials that lead to dead ends.
-Scammers, fake pages, ex-us members flooding your inbox, deposit scammers, girls only looking at you as a nice meal ticket.
-Building a good connection, than getting lost in the messaging herds of other guys.
-Girls going ghost, due to being overwhelmed, busy with school, taking a break, or just not interested in you.
Deff more pros and cons, but that's just a few top of mind.
I think overall, the time I spent messaging 1000's of girls, sifting through fakes, getting let down, and also paying a decent premium, wasn't worth it.
Looking at reviews from decent providers or taking a chance on a non-AMP or escort has a better ROI than chancing a fantasy.
What are your thoughts? I know I'll get a, "good stay off and it'll be less competition for me" line, but just curious your thoughts on this?
Seeking's new splash screen
It used to be that upon login the screen had a few sections: new members, popular members, recent search, etc. , and the sections were populated with women more or less in your "home" area.
Now it's just one endless scroll section and the women are located all over the place. Is there a way to customize this setting so they only show SBs within X miles from "home"?