Only Dates Blacks/Whites, who the hell cares?
You let her get a rise out of you, when you shouldn't worry about it. And it's funny how a provider would try to offset the fact that she doesn't see black men by saying that she likes Black Rappers. I guess this is so she can justify it in her mind. The truth is that people have personal preferences, you, me and everyone else on this board. I can honestly say that I rarely see black providers nor date black women. Does that make me a racist? No. We cannot control who we are attracted to. I also cannot stand overweight or out of shape providers yet miraculously I am not a separatist. I think a lot of the black providers are very beautiful just not my cup of tea. And there is no reason with regard to this that we need to waste time trying to justify it. Just move on. As for the providers that do not see black men. I have heard several reasons: If a black "thug" calls them, he may be too aggressive, to inconsiderate or to unwilling to pay the correct amout and after the hour, get the hell out. Another reason I have heard is because black males are "bigger" on average and that poses a problem. Another theory is that the majority of Pimps are black and they try to "employ" the girls, which would be ridiculous. If I were a provider and ran into those issues I might reject a group of people as well. Especially if it compromises safety. There is a difference between that and general hate for a race, yet both are forms of racism. I get discriminated against by some providers because they think I am too young, I am in my 20s. They feel that I would not be serious, or pay the correct amount sometimes. The bottom line is to take everything with a grain of salt. If a provider rejects you. Get over it and keep it moving. Besides, look at it this way. You are a couple hundred dollars richer because of it, and the big head won for the day.
[QUOTE=Dominguez]Someone help me. What in the world does Gucci Mane and Young Jeezy have to do with blackness? Blackness is not this generic ghetto thing you think it is. Even within the "black community" (as if there were a single community for blacks or any other ethnic group), there is variation from place to place and based on the economic scale. I'm a brown skinned Brazilian and lived in Bed Stuy Brooklyn for many years. New York black men typically have a completely different culture than even southern black men. But even within these geographic boundaries, there is diversity of though and attitude!
I can't stand Gucci Mane OR Young Jeezy. I prefer "real hip-hop" over this strip club- "yesa massa" Sambo bs the South has popularized. I also dig on great black musicians like Miles Davis, Coltrane, etc.! Living in Florida I have realized that, though it is diverse, it is still VERY southern! Whites see blacks as the old "coon caricature" and, for the most part, blacks in the south play the role pretty good! Stop telling us what it means to be black (listening to Gucci Mane & Jeezy. We've contributed more to music than this crap). And stop assuming every man of color even wants a white woman. I personally prefer black women. And the darker and smoother the skin, the better. Just because you know some black people does not mean you don't view then through the lens of social Darwinism or that you do not make assumptions about people based on skin color. Truth be told. You should probably limit sex to who you are dating anyways. One of these white dudes could flip on you as well![/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Hapkido1947]I read Asian Persausion in this forum and checked the BP for phone number ending in 9417. REAL DEAL GUYS, they have different girls every 21 days, and today 2-3-2010, I had a Japanese, there is no problem with upsell just pleasure and the house is very big and clean. They will text you with directions. and I was told to only ask for the thirty minutes because 1 hour is a waste and the mamsan gets the difference not the girl $200.00, go for the 1/2 for $160.[/QUOTE]
I completely agree. Their house is very clean and the ladies so far are gorgeous. And for a 1/2 hour, you will definitely get your money's worth. The latest posting, I must personally try Linlin - the pretty lady with the Reddish-Brown hair.
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Which label or box fits me?
[QUOTE=Dominguez]I understand. Like I said. White women typically do very little for me as well. We all do have preferences and are entitled to them. My point was to correct her ridiculous definition of black=fans of Gucci Mane (you know, the Stepin Fetchit who sounds like he's reciting nursery rhymes) and Jeezy. As if this makes her "down with black people".
Furthermore, if the sight of black men does nothing for her, that's fine. But to say black men are "more aggressive" is just silly talk. Could it be that she's dealing with a bunch of ghetto, drug dealing/using blacks? Could suburban/non drug dealing blacks be different? Of course they are and, as I stated, even within "the hood" there is variety. I just wish we could all cut the politically correct BS and say what we really think! She doesn't find black men attractive. That's her prerogative. Like me. When I hear white men rave about a flat bottomed skinny blonde, I'm like "wha? " I prefer, almost exclusively, darker skinned, curvy women. I'm no racist either. It just is what it is! But I don't need to say "I listen to Taylor Swift" to lessen the offense taken by some.[/QUOTE]I like curvy women and like to listen to Taylor Swift on occasion.