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[QUOTE=Wishbone7; 1545069]Earlier this week, I had an appt scheduled with a woman I have seen a few times. We have a few beers and she makes her mission that I go twice before I leave. Good times. She had to cancel last minute and little head was very disappointed so started looking for an alternative. I don't usually go for the quick BP girls (just not my thing) but found an ad for one who had been reviewed on here and seemed like would work.

I call and ask for an appt. She asks are you law enforcement (this qualifies as screening?)? I say no and she says ok it is 100 for the hh. I say fine. She tells me the hotel. Ok neighborhood but low end hotel. I say I can be there in 30 minutes. She says ok but no anal and no cim. Red flag. Who talks about services on the phone?

But I go. Cruise the parking lot and area first. Seems ok, a few construction workers drinking beer in the parking lot. I call her and tell her I am there. She tells me I need to park in a certain spot and she will meet me there. I say How about I just meet you at that spot? She says, no, I must park in that spot. I tell her I am uncomfortable with that and she cusses me out. So I leave. Concerned that this was a set up for a car jacking or having someone break in my car while I am in the room knowing my wallet, watch, etc are probably in the car.

Did I miss an enjoyable 30 minutes with a young hard bodied female or did I avoid a potential ripoff? Is the parking thing some kind of leo screening?

What would you have done?

Thanks[/QUOTE]I've had several ladies ask me to part in a certain area so they can watch me exit the car and "see" who I am. If she has many reviews or has been vetted by (trusted) members of this board, it doesn't bother me. If I'm TOFTT or she has mixed reviews, or my spidey sense is going off, I will park where ever I feel I need to. Bottom line is that you ALWAYS follow your gut. Did you miss out on some good tail, maybe, the fact that she cussed you out for you telling her your uncomfortable (and her not saying ok), says to me that you may have dodged a bullet.

[QUOTE=Wishbone7; 1545069]Earlier this week, I had an appt scheduled with a woman I have seen a few times. We have a few beers and she makes her mission that I go twice before I leave. Good times. She had to cancel last minute and little head was very disappointed so started looking for an alternative. I don't usually go for the quick BP girls (just not my thing) but found an ad for one who had been reviewed on here and seemed like would work.

I call and ask for an appt. She asks are you law enforcement (this qualifies as screening?)? I say no and she says ok it is 100 for the hh. I say fine. She tells me the hotel. Ok neighborhood but low end hotel. I say I can be there in 30 minutes. She says ok but no anal and no cim. Red flag. Who talks about services on the phone?

But I go. Cruise the parking lot and area first. Seems ok, a few construction workers drinking beer in the parking lot. I call her and tell her I am there. She tells me I need to park in a certain spot and she will meet me there. I say How about I just meet you at that spot? She says, no, I must park in that spot. I tell her I am uncomfortable with that and she cusses me out. So I leave. Concerned that this was a set up for a car jacking or having someone break in my car while I am in the room knowing my wallet, watch, etc are probably in the car.

Did I miss an enjoyable 30 minutes with a young hard bodied female or did I avoid a potential ripoff? Is the parking thing some kind of leo screening?

What would you have done?

Thanks[/QUOTE]For me, if anyone talks openly of services on the phone, I'm out of there.

If I've seen her before, and she mentions services, I need to carefully consider if the context of her conversation is out of character for her.

If LE has you on tape just AGREEING to a sex act for money, you will be arrested. We've all read stories of how LE has used legitimate providers to catch mongers.

Always better to be safe than sorry, especially if your married and have a lot to lose (like half your stuff, a ruined reputation, and labeled a sex predator for the rest of your life!) I would rather make a mistake leaning towards the side of caution than putting myself in a situation that would significantly change my life, involuntarily.

I have seen mixed reviews on a place called Laura's Video, etc. in Gaston. The reviews reflect it as being a swingers place, adult video store, MP, and CBJ place. Some reviews have said it was mostly males but a couple reviews said there were females who liked to play. I drove by and it looks really run down but several cars were there. I was hesitant to stop in without a little checking around first.

[QUOTE=Wishbone7; 1545069]Earlier this week, I had an appt scheduled with a woman I have seen a few times. We have a few beers and she makes her mission that I go twice before I leave. Good times. She had to cancel last minute and little head was very disappointed so started looking for an alternative. I don't usually go for the quick BP girls (just not my thing) but found an ad for one who had been reviewed on here and seemed like would work.

I call and ask for an appt. She asks are you law enforcement (this qualifies as screening?)? I say no and she says ok it is 100 for the hh. I say fine. She tells me the hotel. Ok neighborhood but low end hotel. I say I can be there in 30 minutes. She says ok but no anal and no cim. Red flag. Who talks about services on the phone?

But I go. Cruise the parking lot and area first. Seems ok, a few construction workers drinking beer in the parking lot. I call her and tell her I am there. She tells me I need to park in a certain spot and she will meet me there. I say How about I just meet you at that spot? She says, no, I must park in that spot. I tell her I am uncomfortable with that and she cusses me out. So I leave. Concerned that this was a set up for a car jacking or having someone break in my car while I am in the room knowing my wallet, watch, etc are probably in the car.

Did I miss an enjoyable 30 minutes with a young hard bodied female or did I avoid a potential ripoff? Is the parking thing some kind of leo screening?

What would you have done?

Thanks[/QUOTE]I think you made the right call. If I am calling a provider for the first time and they mention anything other than yes / no to their availability, I quickly come up with an excuse not to see them. Better safe than sorry!

[QUOTE=Jon Waters;1547107]I have seen mixed reviews on a place called Laura's Video, etc. in Gaston. The reviews reflect it as being a swingers place, adult video store, MP, and CBJ place. Some reviews have said it was mostly males but a couple reviews said there were females who liked to play. I drove by and it looks really run down but several cars were there. I was hesitant to stop in without a little checking around first.[/QUOTE]Pretty much a sausage fest the 1 time I was there. Did ask the girl behind the counter if couples or females ever frequent the place, she said sometimes but not a lot, I think weekend evenings is the best time. I was there during the week, midday. They do charge a flat fee for the upstairs, downstairs is extra if I recall. They have parking in the back also.

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[QUOTE=Domiam; 1547877]Pretty much a sausage fest the 1 time I was there. Did ask the girl behind the counter if couples or females ever frequent the place, she said sometimes but not a lot, I think weekend evenings is the best time. I was there during the week, midday. They do charge a flat fee for the upstairs, downstairs is extra if I recall. They have parking in the back also.

D[/QUOTE]You are correct, do not go unless you want to be around all guys.

[QUOTE=Steve PA; 1551706]I'm in Tucson Arizona, but I'll be in the area for two weeks around Thanksgiving.

I'll be in Fort Mill, SC,

Any senior members who can give me some leads to work with would be appreciated.

Please PM me.

Anyone coming out to Arizona and I will do the same for you.

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Well, we have 5 main types of play; strip clubs, indie massage girls, AMP's / MP's, and BP girls and SWer's. You can get FS with all of them, it just depends on how much you are willing to leave here. I don't partake of SWers so you will have to read the SW board or PM some body. Its difficult to get FS in the strip clubs and expenisve. Indie girls are great, some do FS some don't but its hard to find a good indie girl here now, but they do exist, with some work there are some great ones. AMP / MP's are the same, FS is an option, you don't have to make an appointment, they are mostly Asian, the MP's are mostly non-asian and require more to get FS. BP girls need no introduction as I'm sure you have them in AZ. Good luck!

Was wondering if there were any clubs in the Charlotte to Winston Salem area that might be similar to the Trapeze in Atlanta?

A bar / club where couples go to get their freak on with themselves or other couples in a semi public / yet still private venue.

[QUOTE=Fredies Dream; 1551827]Was wondering if there were any clubs in the Charlotte to Winston Salem area that might be similar to the Trapeze in Atlanta?

A bar / club where couples go to get their freak on with themselves or other couples in a semi public / yet still private venue.[/QUOTE]Used to be a place called The Estate that was similar to what you are seeking. I do not know if it is still around. When there several years ago with a woman I was dating. Had a fairly good time.

[QUOTE=Fredies Dream; 1551827]Was wondering if there were any clubs in the Charlotte to Winston Salem area that might be similar to the Trapeze in Atlanta?

A bar / club where couples go to get their freak on with themselves or other couples in a semi public / yet still private venue.[/QUOTE]There was a place in Ft Mill, SC (outside of charlotte) that was called the estate that did just that, however, I've never been and I've heard its shut down, also there is CVE, and Lauras (both adult book stores with booths/theaters) both in Gastonia they are reputed to have couples there, but I've never had any luck seeing women there at all, some members have had positive reports. Outside of charlotte, IDK, try Google.

A few years ago CVE used to have couples nights and a woman named linda used to come in the theatre and service the guys. She gave damn good head too. Couples used to get it on in the theater and guys would watch, then they remodeled it and the theatre where this stuff used to go on is no longer there. They are a room with booths but it is nothing but a sausage fest anymore, though I have seen a couple going in there a few months back. I believe they still have the couple's rooms room but I think it is more a private thing now. Even when all the action was out in the open it was very hit or miss. I am sure some action still goes on in there, but you may have to be invited to it? I don't know how it is anymore. I have tried it a time or two to see of there are any women in there. I don't hang around very long if I don't see any females to either watch or partake in some action. I have seen couples going in there. Perhaps they are just looking to buy some toys? WHO knows. It has mostly been a big waste of time.

[QUOTE=Bouinage;1552222]There was a place in Ft Mill, SC (outside of charlotte) that was called the estate that did just that, however, I've never been and I've heard its shut down, also there is CVE, and Lauras (both adult book stores with booths/theaters) both in Gastonia they are reputed to have couples there, but I've never had any luck seeing women there at all, some members have had positive reports. Outside of charlotte, IDK, try Google.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NC Transplant;1552236]A few years ago CVE used to have couples nights and a woman named linda used to come in the theatre and service the guys. She gave damn good head too. Couples used to get it on in the theater and guys would watch, then they remodeled it and the theatre where this stuff used to go on is no longer there. They are a room with booths but it is nothing but a sausage fest anymore, though I have seen a couple going in there a few months back. I believe they still have the couple's rooms room but I think it is more a private thing now. Even when all the action was out in the open it was very hit or miss. I am sure some action still goes on in there, but you may have to be invited to it? I don't know how it is anymore. I have tried it a time or two to see of there are any women in there. I don't hang around very long if I don't see any females to either watch or partake in some action. I have seen couples going in there. Perhaps they are just looking to buy some toys? WHO knows. It has mostly been a big waste of time.[/QUOTE]That has been my experience a waste of time, maybe if I lived in Gashouse it wouldn't be big deal to stop by on the regular, but having to drive there for a hit or miss situation, and get leered at by old men grabbing there crotches is NOT my idea of fun. I see on CL couples have postings about going there all the time, the few I emailed never responded, not a big suprise since they probably recieved about 1k emails after there post!

[QUOTE=NCguy50;1552152]Used to be a place called The Estate that was similar to what you are seeking. I do not know if it is still around. When there several years ago with a woman I was dating. Had a fairly good time.[/QUOTE]The organization that ran the Estate still puts on events at hotels in Charlotte and Greensboro. A few very open minded suburban couples added me to their email list and now I get invited to all those things, all though I've never taken them up on it because I'm not really into that age group. If I knew some of them would at least be in their early thirties I'd try it out, but I digress; that organization is still around, still popular, and taking over a hotel every other week or so.

Saw this on the otThERr board and thought it was pretty funny, posted by PorkPieHat. While I really don't agree with all his definitions, many are spot on!

PorkPieHat Primer on Understanding / Interpreting Provider Ads. Many have asked this be added to the Newbie Manual.

This Provider ad Primer is pretty damn accurate! Beware the following euphemisms. Enjoy!

BBW = fat.

Voluptuous = fat.

Curvy = fat.

Curvaceous = fat.

Thick = fat.

Rubenesque = fat.

Womanly = fat.

Full Figured = fat with big tits.

Gives bra size only? = fat.

Busty = either saggy or fat.

Naturally busty = saggy and fat.

Real woman = saggy, fat and ugly.

Slim = no boobs / flat.

Svelte = no boobs / flat.

Slender = no boobs / flat.

Dancer's body = no boobs / flat.

Bombshell = fake boobs.

Baywatch = fake boobs.

Playboy = fake boobs.

Model = fake boobs.

Barbie = fake tits.

Brazilian = black.

Caramel = black.

Chocolate = black.

Cuban = black.

Ebony = black.

Egyptian = black.

Ethiopian = black.

Exotic = black.

Hawaiian = black.

Mocha = black.

Mulatto = black.

Nubian = black.

Mixed = black.

Native American = black.

Mature = old.

Courtesan = old.

Gracious = old.

Refined = old.

Elegant = old.

Classic = old.

Legend / Legendary = old.

No age listed = old.

Educated = graduated High School.

Cultured = drinks wine, not beer.

Age = generally add 7-10 years, here are some frequent exceptions:

College Student = late 20's.

Just turned 18 = mid 20's.

19 = possible jailbait.

21 = late 20's.

28 = late 30's.

30 = 40s.

MILF = 45 and up!

Intelligent = brunette.

Sorority Girl = blonde.

Selective = overpriced.

Exclusive = very overpriced.

Classy = can't afford lingerie.

Freaky = doesn't shower between clients.

Upscale = over priced w / snooty personality.

All American = trailer trash.

Princess = has an attitude problem & LOTS of rules.

Las Vegas = Bellagio prices, Motel 6 service.

Coed = plain looking with acne problem.

Girl next door = looks like the boy next door.

Goddess = If you believe this is me in the pictures.

Real Doll = Bubba brings you an inflatable doll, no refunds.

Energetic = methamphetamine addict.

Down to earth = boring.

College graduate = sleeps with professors.

Open minded = openly accepts tips.

New to business = changed name.

New to area = changed name and moved across town.

Up to an hour = 1 shot and she's gone.

Discreet = I check your I'd.

Discrete = I can't spell.

Advance notice required = you'll never get a hold of me.

Seeks generous gentleman = robs the elderly.

Seeks generous businessmen = robs out-of-towners.

Once in a lifetime experience = you won't repeat.

I love what I do = I'm desperate for clients.

Satisfaction guaranteed = I guarantee I'm getting your money.

Available 24/7 = my pimp never sleeps.

What an ad DOESN'T say, is also a source of information. Unless specified, you can assume:

Hair color = brown.

Hair length = to shoulder.

Eye color = brown.

Age = mature.

Height = short.

Weight = heavy.

Cup size = small.

Measurements = large.

BE FOREWARNED!

[QUOTE=PieMonger;1553970]The organization that ran the Estate still puts on events at hotels in Charlotte and Greensboro. A few very open minded suburban couples added me to their email list know I get invited to all those things, all though I've never taken them up on it because I'm not really into that age group. If I knew some of them would at least be in their early thirties I'd try it out, but I digress; that organization is still around, still popular, and taking over a hotel every other week or so.[/QUOTE]The organization is called Carolina Friends. It's a Charlotte based swingers club. Single men aren't really welcome and pay more to enter. They prefer that you bring a woman with you to keep it from turning into a sausage fest.

See [url]http://carolinafriends.com/the-estate/[/url]