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[QUOTE=XxBullXx;2828294]I have one set up for tomorrow. The girl seems sweet, 19 yo college student, lives with crazy friends. She does not drive, but I can't host so it works.
We discussed going shopping, me helping her with a bill, or $ per date.
She says she has never met anyone on SA, I told her the same with me. I told her the important thing is that we have chemistry.
The interesting aspect will be finding a room.
Tomorrow we are supposed to just m&g, maybe I will take her to eat or something.
She says she liked the message I sent her, and that she didn't think she would receive one like that on the site. (I just asked her how she was doing, and what she was searching for on the site. Also said I thought the she was very pretty).[/QUOTE]This is the way it should be. All totally normal and casual. I would say good luck, but I doubt you will need it. But hope she doesn't get cold feet. So make that M&G asap.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2828283]Just say you met someone if you even feel obligated to reply.
Or no reply... She will get the memo.[/QUOTE]Great advice. Thanks HG.
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[QUOTE=Raslan;2827691]So at $. 5 + hotel and a few gifts, it was easily the most expensive yet from SA. Don't get me wrong, gorgeous girl but not my style.
From the masters here, any tips on cutting it off when she comes begging for Daddy. Well, his wallet anyway?[/QUOTE]The easiest way to cut it off is to say an unexpected issue came up at work or some emergency where you have to tighten your sugaring budget a bit. Ask them if they would be okay taking a lower allowance for a short period of time. 90% of these girls will find an excuse not to see you again if you ask to reduce their allowance. When I cut things off I always try to do it amicable and get the girl to think she's breaking up with me. This makes a cleaner break and the girls are less likely to feel spurned and seek out revenge. Also by doing it this way if I ever feel the itch to restart things, I can just say my money hiccup is over.
But yeah, if you're dealing with a "strictly business" girl, asking her if she's okay with you lowering the allowance will cause her to dash 40 yards to the next daddy. So if you're looking to cut it off, that's the way to do it. And if she still wants to see you, then you know she has some genuine interest in you and you saved a few bucks.
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First M&G
So I met the 19 yo yesterday. Picked her up from work, so she wasn't as dolled up as I would have wished, but she did look cute.
I was going to take her to get her nails done, so we went to the strip mall. Took her to VS instead. She tried on a few bra's for me and showed me them in the dressing room, I picked the one out I liked most. (I was putting my hands on her hips and showing affection while shopping).
So I bought her the bra, then we went to grab some pasta. We discussed what we were doing on the site, and what we were looking for, me sex her $. Obviously.
I took her home we made out in the car, and I left. (down about 100 after bra and food).
Next meet, I will make it a date more for me, and let her know that I actually want some physical action, as this was more of a M&G so I wasn't trying to be forceful or awkward.
I am afraid that with the younger girls maybe they are just inexperienced, or playing games. So I need to ensure that this girl wants to do more than makeout.
Anyone know of a way discuss this, or should I do as I mentioned and set up the next meet, and just head straight to the notel.
Thought advice comments or concerns welcome. Thanks!
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[QUOTE=JohnGSmith;2830655]When I cut things off I always try to do it amicable and get the girl to think she's breaking up with me. [/QUOTE]I love when that happens.
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[QUOTE=XxBullXx;2831141]So I met the 19 yo yesterday. Picked her up from work, so she wasn't as dolled up as I would have wished, but she did look cute.
I was going to take her to get her nails done, so we went to the strip mall. Took her to VS instead. She tried on a few bra's for me and showed me them in the dressing room, I picked the one out I liked most. (I was putting my hands on her hips and showing affection while shopping).
So I bought her the bra, then we went to grab some pasta. We discussed what we were doing on the site, and what we were looking for, me sex her $. Obviously.
I took her home we made out in the car, and I left. (down about 100 after bra and food).
Next meet, I will make it a date more for me, and let her know that I actually want some physical action, as this was more of a M&G so I wasn't trying to be forceful or awkward.
I am afraid that with the younger girls maybe they are just inexperienced, or playing games. So I need to ensure that this girl wants to do more than makeout.
Anyone know of a way discuss this, or should I do as I mentioned and set up the next meet, and just head straight to the notel.
Thought advice comments or concerns welcome. Thanks![/QUOTE]You are a very generous guy. But just email her and say how hot she looked, and how you can't wait to see her again. And that you are not desperate in any way, but you would at least expect a HJ on the next $ date. Once you get on the date be prepared for her to let loose.
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My first wife used to tell me all the time how un-romantic I was. I just didn't have a clue. I was like damn. I'm only 22. Plus I bring home the bacon and cook it too. LOL.
But over the years I learned a few things. So to honor my ATF tonite I made a little shrine to her. Lets just say she greatly appreciated it.
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[QUOTE=XxBullXx;2831141]So I met the 19 yo yesterday. Picked her up from work, so she wasn't as dolled up as I would have wished, but she did look cute.
I was going to take her to get her nails done, so we went to the strip mall. Took her to VS instead. She tried on a few bra's for me and showed me them in the dressing room, I picked the one out I liked most. (I was putting my hands on her hips and showing affection while shopping).
So I bought her the bra, then we went to grab some pasta. We discussed what we were doing on the site, and what we were looking for, me sex her $. Obviously.
I took her home we made out in the car, and I left. (down about 100 after bra and food).
Next meet, I will make it a date more for me, and let her know that I actually want some physical action, as this was more of a M&G so I wasn't trying to be forceful or awkward.
I am afraid that with the younger girls maybe they are just inexperienced, or playing games. So I need to ensure that this girl wants to do more than makeout.
Anyone know of a way discuss this, or should I do as I mentioned and set up the next meet, and just head straight to the notel.
Thought advice comments or concerns welcome. Thanks![/QUOTE]This is always tricky with girls who are in the 18-21 age range and may not have much if any experience in the sugaring world.
On one hand if you come on too strong, you can scare them off. If you come on too soft, they will keep juicing you without giving you any physical action. In the last 6 months, just about all my disappointments have come from fresh 18-20 year-old girls who got cold feet or decided they weren't ready for a "physical arrangement" just wanted to keep things mostly platonic.
So just keep in mind that when you're dealing with newbie 18-20 year-olds, it's going to be normal to bat at a very low percentage. That said, I recommend being direct without being crass. Instead of saying you "expect a blow-job the next date", say something like, "If you want to proceed forward with this arrangement, it needs to become mutually beneficial and needs to progress to a physical relationship". She'll get the hint without being scared off. And if she still isn't physical with you in a noticeable way on the next date, then you know she's a waste of time and you can move on.
Best of luck!
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[QUOTE=XxBullXx;2831141]
Anyone know of a way discuss this, or should I do as I mentioned and set up the next meet, and just head straight to the notel.
Thought advice comments or concerns welcome. Thanks![/QUOTE]While she is not 19 yo, my AA hottie definitely got my attention while texting after the M&G with the question "Want to get a room?" Maybe you can incorporate that phrase into your conversation.
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[QUOTE=Raslan;2832192]While she is not 19 yo, my AA hottie definitely got my attention while texting after the M&G with the question "Want to get a room?" Maybe you can incorporate that phrase into your conversation.[/QUOTE]If I look back on every girl I really connected with... It always happened pretty fast.
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Budget
Hello all. I want give SA a try. What is a going rate? I've read somewhere that the avg SB makes about 3. 5 k. I guess it all depends on the type of arrangement. But I'm looking to connect once or twice a month.
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Need to
Just let her know that you did not see the bra too clearly. And that you want to make sure they fit properly.
[QUOTE=XxBullXx;2831141]So I met the 19 yo yesterday. Picked her up from work, so she wasn't as dolled up as I would have wished, but she did look cute.
I was going to take her to get her nails done, so we went to the strip mall. Took her to VS instead. She tried on a few bra's for me and showed me them in the dressing room, I picked the one out I liked most. (I was putting my hands on her hips and showing affection while shopping).
So I bought her the bra, then we went to grab some pasta. We discussed what we were doing on the site, and what we were looking for, me sex her $. Obviously.
I took her home we made out in the car, and I left. (down about 100 after bra and food).
Next meet, I will make it a date more for me, and let her know that I actually want some physical action, as this was more of a M&G so I wasn't trying to be forceful or awkward.
I am afraid that with the younger girls maybe they are just inexperienced, or playing games. So I need to ensure that this girl wants to do more than makeout.
Anyone know of a way discuss this, or should I do as I mentioned and set up the next meet, and just head straight to the notel.
Thought advice comments or concerns welcome. Thanks![/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=XxBullXx;2831141]So I met the 19 yo yesterday. Picked her up from work, so she wasn't as dolled up as I would have wished, but she did look cute.
I was going to take her to get her nails done, so we went to the strip mall. Took her to VS instead. She tried on a few bra's for me and showed me them in the dressing room, I picked the one out I liked most. (I was putting my hands on her hips and showing affection while shopping).
So I bought her the bra, then we went to grab some pasta. We discussed what we were doing on the site, and what we were looking for, me sex her $. Obviously.
I took her home we made out in the car, and I left. (down about 100 after bra and food).
Next meet, I will make it a date more for me, and let her know that I actually want some physical action, as this was more of a M&G so I wasn't trying to be forceful or awkward.
I am afraid that with the younger girls maybe they are just inexperienced, or playing games. So I need to ensure that this girl wants to do more than makeout.
Anyone know of a way discuss this, or should I do as I mentioned and set up the next meet, and just head straight to the notel.
Thought advice comments or concerns welcome. Thanks![/QUOTE]Ok because they are young doesn't mean they don't know the score. If they have a profile up they know what is expected or have a friend that is on the site and having luck with it.
The M / G is where you discuss what is expected on both sides. What you expect and what she is expecting for an arrangement. From number of meetings to how her arrangement is paid.
Now some of these girls learn they can get a meal and gifts without going any further than making out. Thats why everything should be worked out at M / G.
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[QUOTE=Smari;2832863]Hello all. I want give SA a try. What is a going rate? I've read somewhere that the avg SB makes about 3. 5 k. I guess it all depends on the type of arrangement. But I'm looking to connect once or twice a month.[/QUOTE]You'll see this discussed quite a bit. While I'm sure there are guys that set up allowances, a lot also do per meet deals, my preferred as I don't have a set schedule.
I still wonder if that $3 K+ number comes from the sites estimates based on which lifestyle is clicked. Kinda like MSRP on a Honda; nobody pays that.
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[QUOTE=Raslan;2833223]You'll see this discussed quite a bit. While I'm sure there are guys that set up allowances, a lot also do per meet deals, my preferred as I don't have a set schedule.
I still wonder if that $3 K+ number comes from the sites estimates based on which lifestyle is clicked. Kinda like MSRP on a Honda; nobody pays that.[/QUOTE]MSRP and way more. For that price she better be a straight up 10. Unless you just have money to burn. And some guys do.