[QUOTE=JLew42;3852143]I got busted about 10 years back. I always laugh when guys say this or that makes you safe. Nothing does, the cops can do whatever they want. Some things can make you safer.
Some common misconceptions that were broken for me:
The ad was strictly a message ad nothing explicit implied on ad.
We never talked or discussed any rates, services, or etc on the phone.
The girl was a legitimate provide at some point, was not an undercover cop.
The provider exposed themself to me to prove they were real.
The provider had me touch them to prove she was real.
Red Flags I missed:
Door next door in the hallway was cracked.
Did not lock door in room.
Asked me over and over what position I wanted to play in.
Had a story about no protection was that okay with me, except way more explicit.
After bust:
Immediately had picture taken, was on TV and multiple newspapers as were the rest of the peeps caught (there was someone famous in our bust so the news picked it up).
Was given misdemeanor citation and released on site, did not get taken to jail.
Paid for a lawyer and got the same deal everyone there got.
Had to sit through a class taught by former working girls and pay numerous fines.
Had the ability to expunge for several more 1000.
My face is still on websites to this day (as a girlfriend just "happened" across it a few years ago).
The fact remains no matter how great you think someone is, they will all turn when it comes to them or you. So just because you have seen someone several times doesn't mean they didn't get popped yesterday and now want a get out of jail free card. IMHO the safest way is always to do a. Outcall. As that situation can not be monitored or controlled it is to dangerous to bust that way. Get a hotel room if needed, but always make them come to you. I don't give any final address until I am able to verify they came alone. If they don't agree to that, find next person.
From years of reading I have heard stories from people busted at houses, apartments, hotels, parks, etc. . I have never heard anyone say they came to me and got me.[/QUOTE]Shit man that really has the fear of death in me. I haven't played since the BP shut down. I have felt the edge of wanting sex and dating sites haven't been doing it for me.
What a time and waste this illegality is.