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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3684287]Great, but how did you pay for your credits?[/QUOTE]I payed with just a regular cc, the charge doesn't have anything that would make it stand out on it that I could tell. But I wasn't worried about it anyway because I don't have a SO.
So guys I never knew this treasure of knowledge existed here about SB / SD. I was trying there as a lone wolf so far. Few successes and few setbacks. But man, you brothers! I am glad I found you all.
I am curious to hear your thoughts on couple of these cases:
1. Now a few handful times it happened that I have been texting with SBs for couple of weeks. We agreed on all logistics, details, place to meet etc. They show you all sorts of pics including the ones you will want to jump in phone itself. When the day comes to meet, suddenly texts are becoming rare to none and then vanished. Not just one SB but multiple SBs and not in the same city occurrence made me feel annoyed. Not sure what the heck went wrong, especially when even the day before everything is sounding perfect. I never go into too details either, I am not into any of those crazy explorations either.
2. Now hear this. !! One time found someone at SA, within couple of texts she quotes me xxx amount to meet, and asked me to text. Red flag me thinking may be a Pro. Not to my surprise, when I asked for pics on texts, she sends me the ones you won't resist. Later through texting seems normal, so I decided to meet in person for a meet and greet. Just to test the water.
But here's the weirdest thing ever, as I walked into that restaurant, I got my eyes on a lady (late 20's, early 30's) sitting there who was looking at me. You know that when someone is keeping an eye on you. While I am talking to the attendant, with my corner eyes I noticed that she said something like "he's here!! " Now I don't know for sure if that was for me or someone else, but I could read her lips saying that. Then in couple minutes this hottie SB shows up to meet me.
In conversation she seems perfectly normal, talks about her plans of life etc. And we seem to have absolutely normal conversation for almost an hour. Meanwhile within 30 minutes in conversation, I noticed that lady met some other lady and after few minutes they both left while I am still talking to this SB.
Since I came back from there, I have this bad feeling of that other lady's look and what she said on phone to someone else. May be I am over thinking here, but it was really strange. This SB has her profile for over a year on SA. After that meeting, I briefly texted with thank you and said we could schedule something. She did not contact back yet. I am not sure if I should contact again. Very confused, she was really hot. !!
Am I overthinking here?
What do you experts say about two of my strange experiences? Any feedback is appreciated.
Just FYI, there is a fetish oriented site a sb I see pointed me to. Just looking around it I've run across 4 different girls that are on SA. It's interesting to not only see them naked but to see what their kinks are as well LOL.
[QUOTE=Hungre1234;3689614]Just FYI, there is a fetish oriented site a sb I see pointed me to. Just looking around it I've run across 4 different girls that are on SA. It's interesting to not only see them naked but to see what their kinks are as well LOL.[/QUOTE]Would love to check it out. What's the name / link?
Thanks and be safe!
[QUOTE=Hungre1234;3689614]Just FYI, there is a fetish oriented site a sb I see pointed me to. Just looking around it I've run across 4 different girls that are on SA. It's interesting to not only see them naked but to see what their kinks are as well LOL.[/QUOTE]What is the name of the site? I am a Dom so I know several of the fetish site. Amazing how many of these sugar babies are submissive and dying for bondage and BDSM.
[QUOTE=WildBill225;3689802]What is the name of the site? I am a Dom so I know several of the fetish site. Amazing how many of these sugar babies are submissive and dying for bondage and BDSM.[/QUOTE]Its the really popular one, f*tlife. I stopped looking but I'm sure there's even more SA girls there.
Seems I have been put in SA jail for 24 hrs. Who know you can't use the term casual encounter?
Someone on there should make a list of things you can't say. LOL.
I have not been able to buy credits. Clicking on the link brings me back to the dashboard.
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3690192]Seems I have been put in SA jail for 24 hrs. Who know you can't use the term casual encounter?
Someone on there should make a list of things you can't say. LOL.[/QUOTE]Post their correspondence informing you of the violation. Casual encounter seems rather picky. Also post the link to the girl who complained.
[QUOTE=Apothecary;3689285]So guys I never knew this treasure of knowledge existed here about SB / SD. I was trying there as a lone wolf so far. Few successes and few setbacks. But man, you brothers! I am glad I found you all.
I am curious to hear your thoughts on couple of these cases:
1. Now a few handful times it happened that I have been texting with SBs for couple of weeks. We agreed on all logistics, details, place to meet etc. They show you all sorts of pics including the ones you will want to jump in phone itself. When the day comes to meet, suddenly texts are becoming rare to none and then vanished. Not just one SB but multiple SBs and not in the same city occurrence made me feel annoyed. Not sure what the heck went wrong, especially when even the day before everything is sounding perfect. I never go into too details either, I am not into any of those crazy explorations either.
2. Now hear this. !! One time found someone at SA, within couple of texts she quotes me xxx amount to meet, and asked me to text. Red flag me thinking may be a Pro. Not to my surprise, when I asked for pics on texts, she sends me the ones you won't resist. Later through texting seems normal, so I decided to meet in person for a meet and greet. Just to test the water.
But here's the weirdest thing ever, as I walked into that restaurant, I got my eyes on a lady (late 20's, early 30's) sitting there who was looking at me. You know that when someone is keeping an eye on you. While I am talking to the attendant, with my corner eyes I noticed that she said something like "he's here!! " Now I don't know for sure if that was for me or someone else, but I could read her lips saying that. Then in couple minutes this hottie SB shows up to meet me.
In conversation she seems perfectly normal, talks about her plans of life etc. And we seem to have absolutely normal conversation for almost an hour. Meanwhile within 30 minutes in conversation, I noticed that lady met some other lady and after few minutes they both left while I am still talking to this SB.
Since I came back from there, I have this bad feeling of that other lady's look and what she said on phone to someone else. May be I am over thinking here, but it was really strange. This SB has her profile for over a year on SA. After that meeting, I briefly texted with thank you and said we could schedule something. She did not contact back yet. I am not sure if I should contact again. Very confused, she was really hot. !!
Am I over thinking here?
What do you experts say about two of my strange experiences? Any feedback is appreciated.[/QUOTE]On #1, sometimes they just flake. Just like we often set up plans to meet with 2 or 3 at a time so we have a backup, they do the same thing with SDs, but then you have to throw in the spontaneity dynamic of a nutty young female and the way her mind works, then keep in mind that reliable behavior isn't their strong point. I've had some pretty frustrating scheduling experiences in the past and it's just one of the downsides to the game. I don't really deal with the UTR types, but I would suspect they are more prone to flaking because they have more going on and are approaching the situation like an escort. The college girls that are looking for an exclusive daddy with strong emotional connection are less likely to do that IMHO and I think more likely to value your time.
On #2, I think you're over thinking it. The other women might have been completely unrelated. It sounded like the M&G happened, but I wasn't sure on whether you attempted a trip to the FC? If you did try, what was her excuse?
[QUOTE=JZLizard;3691280]On #1, sometimes they just flake. Just like we often set up plans to meet with 2 or 3 at a time so we have a backup, they do the same thing with SDs, but then you have to throw in the spontaneity dynamic of a nutty young female and the way her mind works, then keep in mind that reliable behavior isn't their strong point. I've had some pretty frustrating scheduling experiences in the past and it's just one of the downsides to the game. I don't really deal with the UTR types, but I would suspect they are more prone to flaking because they have more going on and are approaching the situation like an escort. The college girls that are looking for an exclusive daddy with strong emotional connection are less likely to do that IMHO and I think more likely to value your time.
On #2, I think you're over thinking it. The other women might have been completely unrelated. It sounded like the M&G happened, but I wasn't sure on whether you attempted a trip to the FC? If you did try, what was her excuse?[/QUOTE]They are going to flake. It is part of the game and if you are easily frustrated by that then it will not go well for you.
As to your experience, maybe she had a spy to check you out and report back before she actually decided she wanted to meet you. That could be possible.
You guys are right.
For # 1: I have accepted that it's a game of patience I was just wondering if I was the only one and should I be changing my strategy.
For #2: I sort of got cold feet after that meet and greet, I had various thoughts in my head. What if they took my pics with her, and what can be the potential outcome of that? Just to play safe I suppose. But the SB is hot and she was really good in meet and greet and I am so tempted to contact her again. I guess I may decide to roll the dice Any signs that I should be watching for, given what I explained to you guys.
[QUOTE=RappaHannock;3691430]They are going to flake. It is part of the game and if you are easily frustrated by that then it will not go well for you.
As to your experience, maybe she had a spy to check you out and report back before she actually decided she wanted to meet you. That could be possible.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JZLizard;3691280]On #1, sometimes they just flake. Just like we often set up plans to meet with 2 or 3 at a time so we have a backup, they do the same thing with SDs, but then you have to throw in the spontaneity dynamic of a nutty young female and the way her mind works, then keep in mind that reliable behavior isn't their strong point. I've had some pretty frustrating scheduling experiences in the past and it's just one of the downsides to the game. I don't really deal with the UTR types, but I would suspect they are more prone to flaking because they have more going on and are approaching the situation like an escort. The college girls that are looking for an exclusive daddy with strong emotional connection are less likely to do that IMHO and I think more likely to value your time.
On #2, I think you're over thinking it. The other women might have been completely unrelated. It sounded like the M&G happened, but I wasn't sure on whether you attempted a trip to the FC? If you did try, what was her excuse?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RappaHannock;3691430]They are going to flake. It is part of the game and if you are easily frustrated by that then it will not go well for you.
[/QUOTE]Well in my case, the frustration was not due to "normal" flaking, such as just becoming incommunicado at the very last minute. I've actually had very good luck investing lots of up front conversation time with the girls I really like, such that they are already in the bag in terms of their desire to show up or whatever by the time the M&G takes place. The kind of shit that I find frustrating is more along the lines of immaturity and poor planning, such as them telling me an hour before the scheduled meeting time that they don't have a ride, and then I have to figure out uber, cab, or drive out of my way to go get them or whatever.
[QUOTE=RappaHannock;3691430]
As to your experience, maybe she had a spy to check you out and report back before she actually decided she wanted to meet you. That could be possible.[/QUOTE]I believe you meant this for the other poster's experience? I had the same thought, but the main point I wanted to make is that from the time she sits down, every word that is spoken should be targeting the goal of having her in the fuck chamber within the next 2-3 hours, and I didn't ask but I hope he didn't pay her anything to show up and say hello. If I thought she was there with cohorts, I would have been immediately discussing the possibility of getting drinks somewhere else and the outcome of that would have given me a better read on the situation. But I still think it doesn't matter what else is going on if you close with a trip to the FC. Just focus on getting laid and worry about whether she's a UTR or on a spy mission later.
Thanks for responding.
I hear your point, I have been in situations where I am asked to pay for Uber at the very last minute. I just say no and move on. If she's that indecisive then I don't have any trust on how that will turn out later. So, that's a no go for me.
As per my case#2 I didn't pay for meet and greet. That's what is crazy about the whole thing. Everything went as planned and smooth except for those couple of ladies messing in my head. Sounds like it deserves a follow up.
[QUOTE=JZLizard;3691965]Well in my case, the frustration was not due to "normal" flaking, such as just becoming incommunicado at the very last minute. I've actually had very good luck investing lots of up front conversation time with the girls I really like, such that they are already in the bag in terms of their desire to show up or whatever by the time the M&G takes place. The kind of shit that I find frustrating is more along the lines of immaturity and poor planning, such as them telling me an hour before the scheduled meeting time that they don't have a ride, and then I have to figure out uber, cab, or drive out of my way to go get them or whatever.
I believe you meant this for the other poster's experience? I had the same thought, but the main point I wanted to make is that from the time she sits down, every word that is spoken should be targeting the goal of having her in the fuck chamber within the next 2-3 hours, and I didn't ask but I hope he didn't pay her anything to show up and say hello. If I thought she was there with cohorts, I would have been immediately discussing the possibility of getting drinks somewhere else and the outcome of that would have given me a better read on the situation. But I still think it doesn't matter what else is going on if you close with a trip to the FC. Just focus on getting laid and worry about whether she's a UTR or on a spy mission later.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Apothecary;3689285]So guys I never knew this treasure of knowledge existed here about SB / SD. I was trying there as a lone wolf so far. Few successes and few setbacks. But man, you brothers! I am glad I found you all.
I am curious to hear your thoughts on couple of these cases:
1. Now a few handful times it happened that I have been texting with SBs for couple of weeks. We agreed on all logistics, details, place to meet etc. They show you all sorts of pics including the ones you will want to jump in phone itself. When the day comes to meet, suddenly texts are becoming rare to none and then vanished. Not just one SB but multiple SBs and not in the same city occurrence made me feel annoyed. Not sure what the heck went wrong, especially when even the day before everything is sounding perfect. I never go into too details either, I am not into any of those crazy explorations either.
2. Now hear this. !! One time found someone at SA, within couple of texts she quotes me xxx amount to meet, and asked me to text. Red flag me thinking may be a Pro. Not to my surprise, when I asked for pics on texts, she sends me the ones you won't resist. Later through texting seems normal, so I decided to meet in person for a meet and greet. Just to test the water.
But here's the weirdest thing ever, as I walked into that restaurant, I got my eyes on a lady (late 20's, early 30's) sitting there who was looking at me. You know that when someone is keeping an eye on you. While I am talking to the attendant, with my corner eyes I noticed that she said something like "he's here!! " Now I don't know for sure if that was for me or someone else, but I could read her lips saying that. Then in couple minutes this hottie SB shows up to meet me.
In conversation she seems perfectly normal, talks ....
What do you experts say about two of my strange experiences? Any feedback is appreciated.[/QUOTE]So. Maybe my $0. 02 is different.
We used to call these cock teasers.
They never intended to go to the FC.
Got to learn to weed them out soon so you don't waste your time. I always do M&G within a week. If not, move along.
Then after a pleasant meet will push hard and if cannot.
Seal deal in week, move along.
Don't get too chatty. Even in the bowl there is a friend zone thing of sorts.