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[QUOTE=WildBill225;3684085]I have had great success on SB. I have had several dreams with a very hot 18 year old sugar baby. Have 3 other POTs a 18, 19 and 26 year old that look to be very good. I recommend the site.[/QUOTE]Great, but how did you pay for your credits?
RVA brothers,
This cutie was once on my SA to-do list when she lived in VB, she's since moved to RVA and I never had the opportunity. She's recently hmu asking if I could help and I just don't get up that way often. Thus, I wanted to ensure y'all had the chance to help her out. Mid 20's, no restrictions. Not sure of your financial obligations but she's super cool to talk with. If you're interested PM me and I'll put you in contact with her.
All I ask is you have some forum credibility and please dont hmu if you dont contribute to the sharing of information in here.
Thanks,
Salty.
Went to renew today looks like it went up another $10, Brandon you know you got us right by the balls. Haha!
Anyone with any info on this GPS woman?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/de2e6d08-89e7-465b-a69e-0039626e5412[/URL]
Wants 1 K for first FS meet and $$ for each after that! Damn!
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3685631]Anyone with any info on this GPS woman?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/de2e6d08-89e7-465b-a69e-0039626e5412[/URL]
Wants 1 K for first FS meet and $$ for each after that! Damn![/QUOTE]Actually is was $$ after the first visit!
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3685882]Actually is was $$ after the first visit![/QUOTE]Wow, a grand for first roll in the hay?
If she thinks that highly of her vag, good luck ever getting to the $$ visit level.
Then again, we all have different budgets, wants, needs, types and fantasies.
God Bless the USA🇺127480;.
[QUOTE=BStreet;3685504]Went to renew today looks like it went up another $10, Brandon you know you got us right by the balls. Haha![/QUOTE]Is ArrangementFinders any good? This is free [URL]https://www.sugardaddytoday.com/[/URL] and site is okay probably better than the paid SD4 ME.
[QUOTE=WildBill225;3684085]I have had great success on SB. I have had several dreams with a very hot 18 year old sugar baby. Have 3 other POTs a 18, 19 and 26 year old that look to be very good. I recommend the site.[/QUOTE]Malwarebytes went nuts when I went to their site. Probably not a good thing. I had a really good hit off of Arraignment Finders a few years ago, but the last time I was there it was full of fake profiles.
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3685882]Actually is was $$ after the first visit![/QUOTE]Actually it wasn't $$, it was 5 $ each additional. LOL.
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3686518]Actually it wasn't $$, it was 5 $ each additional. LOL.[/QUOTE]And I would wish her well and say good luck with that. Maybe you will find someone is up for that but it will not be me.
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3685631]Anyone with any info on this GPS woman?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/de2e6d08-89e7-465b-a69e-0039626e5412[/URL]
Wants 1 K for first FS meet and $$ for each after that! Damn![/QUOTE]I guess there are different ways to get to $3 k a month.
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3685631]Anyone with any info on this GPS woman?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/de2e6d08-89e7-465b-a69e-0039626e5412[/URL]
Wants 1 K for first FS meet and 5$ for each after that! Damn![/QUOTE]General rule: if she needs that much sugar to hold her nose and tolerate you, the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less the main course will be fun and exciting. If you're only looking for a warm body that goes through the motion with you, you can do it for a LOT less and more time efficient with a pro.
[QUOTE=FTP1999;3676644]Oh no.
I just noticed that the one week upgrade option in SA applet is gone 😥.
Bummer.
I downloaded the app today, not sure when it disappeared.[/QUOTE]I just noticed the renewal price is 89.99.
Deeds,
I haven't been reading the boards lately so I just now saw this. The subject of managing Arrangements Gone Sideways is one of the most important discussion topics in this entire lifestyle. It is one of those matters that truly puts sugar dating on the dating side of the fence and separates it from simple pay-for-play escorting.
As best as I can recall and if I'm not mistaken, you're in the league of SDs that are considered extremely attractive by the SBs? At least I think that was you and there have been a few others that post here regularly. We have a completely different set of problems with sugar dating that doesn't even apply to a good portion of the SD demographic, and it's hard to approach those subjects on this board without (a) sounding elitist and (b) getting comments from those who don't get it because they don't have the same experiences.
So your first question:
(1) Do I put her in her place and call her out, or just ghost her?
Preventing and preempting this kind of situation is better than doing damage control after the fact! And yes, most of the time it can be prevented, not only by guarding your anonymity very well but also just in your social interactions. It is very rare that I just meet an SB online, swap a couple of texts, then hook up. For each one I meet I spend quite a bit of time exchanging messages just to find out more about who she is. I'm looking for signs of emotional instability, clinger behavior, etc. The filtering process is not perfect but its a good start -- only problem is it is A LOT of work because you have a time investment for each SB, some of whom you may never even meet. Then during your first date, every word that you speak should be geared toward mentally preparing her to have fun, casual sex with a random stranger. You are basically selling the benefits of NSA, drama-less sex, and reminding her of all of the normal dating BS bullshit that you both are avoiding by not getting too deep into each others lives. Sometimes this is hard, because when you are sitting there across the table from an extremely hot 18 or 19 year old that's looking at you all starry-eyed and excited, your first instinct is to maximize your enjoyment and get as much as you can out of the situation. But the reality is you will enjoy it all more if you don't focus on giving her the best orgasm of her life, just focus on the best possible no-complications experience.
When prevention is no longer an option for whatever reason, you are now in damage control mode. In short, do not abruptly ghost and do not agitate the situation by calling her out. Either one are triggers when dealing with the dynamics of female hormones! Both of these cause behavior spikes. You want to eliminate the peaks and valleys of her behavior. What I try to do is make a commitment to keeping the texting going, keep it positive, keep it full of hope and promise. Simultaneously, inject a distraction like family / work matters, travel out of the country, etc that you can use as a reason to not see her in person, and also that helps explain why the time between your text responses is slowly increasing. Slowly increase the amount of time between texts. She is young and will get impatient, but by doing it gradually you are helping wean her off. Then start throwing in things that would be turn offs for women, like you just found out you're getting a pay cut, or anything you can think of to make her want to know you less.
Next question:
(2) How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you?
The Index has some entry points to discussions about anonymity here:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ&p=2480829&viewfull=1#post2480829[/URL]
No method of anonymity is fool-proof! It's just a risk of the game. However the smart game is to always be on guard and proactively protecting your identity as best as you can, and keep in mind that "highly desired" daddies need to be even more concerned about this than the average SD, so never stop thinking about it. At the same time you need to make it look like you are NOT concerned, and not doing anything to intentionally conceal it, because if they see that as a weakness it could increase their interest in finding out.
You mentioned them finding out who you are through the hotel, but I don't think that a well-run hotel would ever reveal your identity. Anything like my vehicle registration, etc. Is moved out of reach of the SB (don't anything with your name in your glove box). I specifically do not let them see CC receipts. In fact I try to pay with cash at every possible opportunity because I'm worried they'll read my name on signing of the receipt or whatever.
But at the end of the day, sometimes my name does get revealed and then it's poker face time, and just convincingly portray that daddy doesn't give a fuck who knows who he is, because if the shit hits the fan he will conquer all takers (without directly saying that).
And honestly there is some truth to it in my case. Not long ago I was at a restaurant with an SB with a long waiting time (they text you when your table is ready). They asked for phone and last name and I intentionally gave them real last name, she still didn't know my first. I just didn't give a fuck at that point. I had been with her the whole weekend and I knew I laid enough preemptive ground work that she is absolutely not going to ever be a problem. An SB that I didn't know as well I probably would have given a different last name.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3674510]I'm a fairly seasoned SD and worked SA off and on for going on four years. I've done well protecting my privacy and such, but have ran into a couple crazies, or jaded women lately. The type who have double standards. Like you owe them a relationship, or something committed, while they're out there fucking everyone. LOL. Usually I've found this happens because they actually like you and when some of these young women like you, they get clingy and downright scary.
My questions is do you just ghost them outright and not put them in their place? One girl is insisting she find out who I am, where I live, she's mad as hell, as I had sex with her twice, paid her allowance and didn't want to see her again. She's going off on my big time as she felt we had some chemistry between us. Meanwhile, she's working the site 24/7. Do I put her in her place and call her out, or just ghost her? I also know if anyone truly wants to find out about someone today, they can do it. So if she really put her mind to it, I'm sure she could show up at my front door. I was good to this ***** and she won; t just go away.
The second case is a girl who has a PhD, but in the process she's lost her mind. She's 28, recently graduated with her PhD and she's insane, but sweet. The pressure to find work, her recently lost boyfriend and so, had her on a bag of medications. We went out for drinks and both got a little drunk and made out, held hands, it was sweet, she told me, "I love you" but I attributed it to being drunk. Well now she wants to be exclusive, and wants me to be her boyfriend. She's not had many, only three her entire life. She too is demanding she know who I am, where I live etc, etc. However this girl is actually not seeing anyone and she has kind of a sweet side and I sort of like her.
How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you? I mean they can look at the credit card slip, check with whatever hotel you stay at, look at your vehicle registration, etc etc and get your name. From there, they got you.[/QUOTE]
I have been playing with Tinder lately. Its actually pretty amusing to see the fake profiles. Most of the real girls are trying to hook up with guys their own age for regular dating but some say they are looking for an SD. Those get superliked if they are cute and nearby.
None of them have ever turned out to be more than a few texts and then they go silent. Until yesterday.
I superliked an 18 yo HS student that says she's an aspiring SB, very open minded and bisexual. 5 ft 4, white girl, very fit, blonde and black hair. She liked me back and we started a conversation that quickly moved to text. It took some polite normal conversation to get to the point of really discussing what we are looking for but at this point the (very explicit) parameters of a potential arrangement are nailed down. She is def DTF and the menu is pretty open. She also does not have GPS. Looking for a very reasonable arrangement.
She is about an hour North of the RVA and doesn't have a car but I am heading up to meet her tomorrow for lunch. Ill keep you posted.
Wish me luck and be safe!