The Massholes

Well, it's harder to stay thin when someone is over 35. Plus obesity is on the rise in general due to food choices and super sized portions. As far as a bad attitude is concerned I think that many providers have bad attitudes due to their being jaded. It's not easy mentally and emotionally for some woman being a sex worker. A woman has to detach from herself in order to protect herself emotionally. So I don't think bad attitude has anything to do with a provider being heavy, but I could be wrong. Or maybe it does. Maybe she's used to receiving crank calls from men who tell her she's fat and to stay out of the business? It could be any of the above. Food can be addictive like a drug and anyone who has an addiction may have emotionally and mental problems as well. Plus bbw's having possible low self esteem, because they are far from the ideal when it comes to beauty.

Funnel clouds reported along route 60 corridor, so you may want to double check that I. E. Postpone appointments if you have any tonight.

(On the other hand, the devil on my shoulder is saying probably more SW activity in Lynn. . .).

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[QUOTE=ShortStroke;2144632]What gives with the increase of BBW providers?

Not putting them down but I see an increase in the over 35 BBW's and when you call to get info you get such an attitude.

Different strokes for different folks but the attitude on the phone is a big turn off.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately, fat seems to be the American way. Look around, everywhere you look you see fat, disgusting people, not just providers.

[QUOTE=SmokeScreen;2145555]Unfortunately, fat seems to be the American way. Look around, everywhere you look you see fat, disgusting people, not just providers.[/QUOTE]I'm not so sure I would say big people are disgusting because they are considered fat but it is the attitude that goes with it that some give.

BBW providers do have those who enjoy them and there are some who can knock your socks off with pleasure. Different stroke for different folks. It is the attitude that some give when you call them asking for info. It's like "WTF why you calling me?" DUH! You placed an ad that interested me and I want info.

If they are so self concious of their size why choose this biz?

There are some nice exceptions. Deb you are one. Enjoy retirement.

Thanks for the well wishes. By the way I lost 20 lbs and counting! I won't be or am not as big as I was. I'm moving down to being a spinner.

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If they are so self concious of their size why choose this biz?

[/QUOTE]More than likely they are too lazy for an actual job, where you have to get out of bed in the early morning and be ready for an honest days work. Sorry to be so negative, but I take good care of myself and avoid getting fat by working out at a gym, eating right, sleeping right, no smokes, very little alcohol, & no drugs. This hobby is my main vice, LOL.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2145616]Thanks for the well wishes. By the way I lost 20 lbs and counting! I won't be or am not as big as I was. I'm moving down to being a spinner.[/QUOTE]Way to go Deb. Knew you could do it. It's just a matter of will power and desire.

Keep in mind some men like a little meat on the bones. Be healthy! That's what counts.

A political party which espouses individual liberty. They tend to be socially liberal and fiscally conservative. "Government should allow persons to engage in whatever conduct they want to, no matter how deviant or abnormal it may be, so long as they know what they are doing, they consent to it and no one-at least no one other than the participants-is harmed by it. " Hugo Adam Bedau. "Why are some consensual activities considered crimes while others are not? The short answer is religious beliefs. " Page 19 of the book "Ain't Nobody's Business If you do. " The Absurdity of Consensual Crimes in Our Free Country by Peter McWilliams. Isn't there supposed to be a separation of church and state when it comes to laws and the Constitution? Also who here would vote and support the Libertarian political party? Just curious.

Libertarianism. Support or don't support. Why or why not?

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2146035]A political party which espouses individual liberty. They tend to be socially liberal and fiscally conservative. "Government should allow persons to engage in whatever conduct they want to, no matter how deviant or abnormal it may be, so long as they know what they are doing, they consent to it and no one-at least no one other than the participants-is harmed by it. " Hugo Adam Bedau. "Why are some consensual activities considered crimes while others are not? The short answer is religious beliefs. " Page 19 of the book "Ain't Nobody's Business If you do. " The Absurdity of Consensual Crimes in Our Free Country by Peter McWilliams. Isn't there supposed to be a separation of church and state when it comes to laws and the Constitution? Also who here would vote and support the Libertarian political party? Just curious.[/QUOTE]I prefer Rational Anarchy personally.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[QUOTE=Olepapa;2143222]I wonder how many other mongers share my desire for a table shower or even just a shower that either the escort provides or a mutual shower. I enjoy being washed by a nice sexy woman, and having spent time with Deb, I can't think of a woman I would rather receive a shower from.

What do you think about providing this service, Deb?

What do you other guys out there think about it, would you want a shower either before or after your visit? Prefer mutual shower or the girl washing you?

Deb, I am certain you could do a fantastic job providing a shower. It's a nice start to a visit, insures the guy is nice and clean and provides him with a nice sensuous beginning, so it should be a win-win all around.

OP.[/QUOTE]I would agree with you. Now of course as you pointed out there are 2 options! Both have their benefits. If I am going to a place to have a nice long relaxing massage and release (think rub and tug places) then I am apt to go for the TS. When done correctly it can be both relaxing and stimulating while still providing 'ramp-up' ability during the massage. Of course if she gets undressed while doing it then all the better. Now if I am going for the more traditional escort experience where massage and relaxation is not the first desired result then a shower with the lady is indeed an option to be explored! Being together with water gently raining down on her naked body enveloping her curves while kissing and fondling under the spray. Well nirvana! There was a (very utr) place I used to go to in Boston in years gone by that had the most beautiful Asian / Korean / Malaysian ladies. It always started out with a shower together. Then the session. Then a shower again afterwards. They were some of the best experiences. Never a worry about anything but a great experience. Sadly it closed over the past year to relocate but seemingly just went away. Another great memory. SO.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2144120]Well, I'm going to start applying for "straight jobs" starting tomorrow. I've been researching and trying to figure out what I want to do with my life. Currently I'm no longer escorting, but I plan to stay on the board and help the guys with their searches for good escorts. I'll most likely still post. I'm not sure what's going to happen in the future, if I'll be able to afford to live in MA making a lot less m thankoney. We shall see. I'll keep you all updated.

Xoxo.[/QUOTE]Good luck, Deb. I tried to send you a pm but your message box is full. Thank you for your help.

No wonder I haven't been getting any messages! I thought you guys forgot me already LOL.