Thunderdome

[QUOTE=Prometheus77;5887895]This isn't an argumentative post, only responding here because it doesn't seem like an appropriate topic to clutter up the review thread talking about, but this is an interesting topic to ponder (and there isn't really a thread for discussing random topics like this). Hopefully this isn't too philosophical for this forum, but I've struggled myself sometimes with the ethics and morality of the whole game. I never really considered myself a "hobbyist", although maybe it's just semantics. I certainly saw plenty of different providers over the years and posted reports about them here. It was never something that I wore as a badge of pride or anything, and my posts were just meant to inform, not to be the amateur literotica that some guys like to write. In any case I saw plenty of providers, and while I maybe wasn't as aware of it at the time, I'm sure almost all of them were dealing with some kind of demons or at the very least in some sort of dire circumstances that led to them choosing this line of work. I won't lie, it's happened more than once that after a particular session, or after learning some news about a provider I had seen in the past, I found myself doing some soul searching. I generally try to be a good person, one who makes an effort to do the right thing to the best of my ability. I don't like to take advantage of people. And yet here I find myself frequently engaging in paying women for sex who are probably desperate for the cash, for one reason or another. Of course it's more nuanced than that. It's not like I sought out desperate women and convinced them to do this. I just responded to an ad on the internet. And I can always tell myself that if they're not seeing me, they're just going to be seeing someone else. And at least I can do my best to treat them with respect, which some of the others guys they might see would NOT do. Still. It's a bit of a moral quandary at times, isn't it? My "hobbying" habits have changed drastically from what they were years ago, and part of the reason for that was the experiences that caused me to have these thoughts (as well as the realization that the majority of the experiences I was having were very unfulfilling, so I increasingly just found myself wanting to repeat experiences that were enjoyable instead of constantly rolling the dice on new ones).

I've never seen Ashley, but I can definitely relate to what you said. Much respect to any provider who's able to keep it up long-term and still put the effort into trying to give their clients a great experience. I don't know that I'd be able to do the same in their shoes.[/QUOTE]I don't really read the sub-thread. Just discovered it was addressed to me. Thank you.

So here is one for the books. I just got back into the hobby after being out for awhile. I decided to book a very reliable provider who I previously met before. She has many reviews and very reliable. Great can't wait to see her looking forward to my date. Drove all the way to her hotel in Foxwoods, did the usual I am here to get the room number, went up to her room knocked on the door, she opened it looking amazing and.

She looked at me and said I don't think it would be a good idea to continue our date. Why? Well you gained some weight since the last time we met and I don't like dating overweight people. Plus I get nervous cause the bed might break, from a past experience. I drove all the way there to get insulted about my weight by a provider who I know trusted and felt comfortable with.

All I did was say ok that's fine, Happy Thanks Giving and left. Went downstairs to the casino part and enjoy myself with the donation from my appointment. I don't have any more to say just I guess needed to vent this experience out of me.

Italian.

[QUOTE=Italian2424;6221175]So here is one for the books. I just got back into the hobby after being out for awhile. I decided to book a very reliable provider who I previously met before. She has many reviews and very reliable. Great can't wait to see her looking forward to my date. Drove all the way to her hotel in Foxwoods, did the usual I am here to get the room number, went up to her room knocked on the door, she opened it looking amazing and.

She looked at me and said I don't think it would be a good idea to continue our date. Why? Well you gained some weight since the last time we met and I don't like dating overweight people. Plus I get nervous cause the bed might break, from a past experience. I drove all the way there to get insulted about my weight by a provider who I know trusted and felt comfortable with.

All I did was say ok that's fine, Happy Thanks Giving and left. Went downstairs to the casino part and enjoy myself with the donation from my appointment. I don't have any more to say just I guess needed to vent this experience out of me.

Italian.[/QUOTE]Man sorry to hear but that's some funny dhit. The bed breaking in the past puts the story over the top. If it makes you feel any better, I would be a fat fuck too If I lived back in the Northeast, Ri has some of the best food around. The older I get the more I appreciate a fine meal over a rented hole.

[QUOTE=Italian2424;6221175]So here is one for the books. I just got back into the hobby after being out for awhile. I decided to book a very reliable provider who I previously met before. She has many reviews and very reliable. Great can't wait to see her looking forward to my date. Drove all the way to her hotel in Foxwoods, did the usual I am here to get the room number, went up to her room knocked on the door, she opened it looking amazing and.

She looked at me and said I don't think it would be a good idea to continue our date. Why? Well you gained some weight since the last time we met and I don't like dating overweight people. Plus I get nervous cause the bed might break, from a past experience. I drove all the way there to get insulted about my weight by a provider who I know trusted and felt comfortable with.

All I did was say ok that's fine, Happy Thanks Giving and left. Went downstairs to the casino part and enjoy myself with the donation from my appointment. I don't have any more to say just I guess needed to vent this experience out of me.

Italian.[/QUOTE]Do you mind sharing who the provider is?

Thanks.

[QUOTE=Jrr1256;6462035]Any idea if stephie from SA is still around and how to get into contact?[/QUOTE]I moved my reply for this over here to this snake pit, from the Escort forum, rather than dilute the useful discussion of the hoes on that forum:

My suggestion, with all due respect, is to first post a few reviews of some ladies that you saw, rather than every single post being a query. Then, possibly, perhaps, just possibly, dudes like me who have her number, MIGHT just consider sharing it. I've indeed shared it, but surely not very often. The main reason: In the past, certain dudes who I made the mistake of not vetting very well, made a LOT of trouble when visiting certain women, and in a couple of cases, that trouble resulted in those women refusing to ever see me, and my referrals, ever again. Remember that gorgeous former female police correction officer who was fired because she was fucking her own inmates? I lost the stellar all-bareback services of that one, because of the thug-like behavior of one of my referrals. Ditto for Brandy in Fall River, the hot young stripper with the big naturals, remember her? I've pics of both of those on this board. But I lost the sevices of both of those very fine whorres because I was indeed careless in not sufficiently vetting my referrals in those days. Live and learn. I've learned.

[QUOTE=Italian2424;6221175]So here is one for the books. I just got back into the hobby after being out for awhile. I decided to book a very reliable provider who I previously met before. She has many reviews and very reliable. Great can't wait to see her looking forward to my date. Drove all the way to her hotel in Foxwoods, did the usual I am here to get the room number, went up to her room knocked on the door, she opened it looking amazing and.

She looked at me and said I don't think it would be a good idea to continue our date. Why? Well you gained some weight since the last time we met and I don't like dating overweight people. Plus I get nervous cause the bed might break, from a past experience. I drove all the way there to get insulted about my weight by a provider who I know trusted and felt comfortable with.

All I did was say ok that's fine, Happy Thanks Giving and left. Went downstairs to the casino part and enjoy myself with the donation from my appointment. I don't have any more to say just I guess needed to vent this experience out of me.

Italian.[/QUOTE]I don't look at this bare knuckes heavyweight fight forum very much, so I just saw this! The part about breaking the bed immediately made me think of when, quite a few years ago, I took a hot young little cutie into a toilet stall in a bar at Soi Cowboy in Bangkok, and while I was inseminating her (for $30 bucks USA) while she rode me cowgirl, the toilet seat broke with a loud CRACK and all her little go-go hoe friends outside the stall who were listening in and egging her on, started laughing hysterically! And then they all high-fived her when we emerged from the stall! Those Japanese toilets that are in all the public restrooms in Thailand are just not made for us 200 pound Farangs plus a 100 pound Thai cutie bouncing with gusto, LOL! Pics of that little honey which I took with an ancient flip top phone, while still sitting on that broken toilet seat, can be viewed in my post number 2817, on the page in the link below.

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?25176-Seeking-Arrangements&p=4764813&viewfull=1[/URL]#post4764813.

The bathrooms in the Bangkok bars, by the way, were almost always unisex, long before this current trans insanity caught on, so the girls usually hang out in there and bullshit with each other when not dancing or fucking! LMFAO!

[QUOTE=Scorpio1981;6541007]This has no value to a RI area escort review board.[/QUOTE]Nothing that he posts ever has any value. It's either just stories about random chicks he "inseminated" 15 years ago (along with gross pictures) or begging for information about whether some girl that someone else mentioned will fuck raw (while never seeming to report back about whether he actually saw any of them and how it went). I can't even recall the last time I saw him post a report with new information about a provider. Always just asks for info and never contributes anything.

I tried to give the courtesy of a response but me basically saying that you have 10 posts over 8 years and those are mostly asking for stuff that I'll not be giving the info. I have no problem helping others that actually Contribute. Ty.

[QUOTE=PokeMe;6564752]I would love those working numbers if you would be so kind to share? Ty.[/QUOTE]

I have been out of the game for awhile. So I decided to reachout to a provider I saw years ago. I will keep her name out of this cause she is a decent person. Bad business woman though. We agree on the time and donation then she said BTW if you want to kiss me its 50 dollars extra. I said no problem I don't want to kiss you and now don't want to see you. Did I miss something in my time away?

Be safe. Italian.

[QUOTE=Italian2424;6582065]I have been out of the game for awhile. So I decided to reachout to a provider I saw years ago. I will keep her name out of this cause she is a decent person. Bad business woman though. We agree on the time and donation then she said BTW if you want to kiss me its 50 dollars extra. I said no problem I don't want to kiss you and now don't want to see you. Did I miss something in my time away?

Be safe. Italian.[/QUOTE]Kind of hard to say what you may or may not have missed without knowing who you're talking about.

[QUOTE=Italian2424;6582065]I have been out of the game for awhile. So I decided to reachout to a provider I saw years ago. I will keep her name out of this cause she is a decent person. Bad business woman though. We agree on the time and donation then she said BTW if you want to kiss me its 50 dollars extra. I said no problem I don't want to kiss you and now don't want to see you. Did I miss something in my time away?

Be safe. Italian.[/QUOTE]Right move in my opinion! Not dealing with their bullshit is better for us all!

Guys I get it prices have gone up. What we decide to pay is our choice. I would consider the asking price if I feel that I think its reasonable and worth it. No arguement with me. Now I am finding that if you ask the question how many cups of coffee can I have in the hour I get ghosted, yelled it which I think is funny cause I just go to the next person on the list or the reply, what do you mean cups of coffee. Back in the day the older retired providers booked the appointment for the hour. These new providers ruch you out in 10 minutes. At my age I am a quick so another cup of coffee is what I am looking for. So here is my laughable history since I have been back. I was told I won't see you cause your overweight. Kissing is 50 extra and can't answer the simple question of cups of cofee. I should just stay in retirement. Safer, and cheaper. Can't relate to this young generation.

Be safe Italian.

[QUOTE=MosesBlack;6607426]LOL I don't even know why my friends and I bother with this place. Got talking with Macy, supposedly a 30 year old blonde who looks 40.400 for a BJ LOL. So we now have over the hill single moms asking for ridiculous amounts. Please don't give these types any money.[/QUOTE]LOL. I do what I like with my money, thank you very much.

If you can't afford it, stay home.

[QUOTE=Jeishein14;6609018]LOL. I do what I like with my money, thank you very much.

If you can't afford it, stay home.[/QUOTE]It's not a question of being able to afford it, it is a question of value. At that price, there are much better options than that. It is your money like you said. But guaranteed that most guys on here would think that price tag is very high and low bang for the buck.

[QUOTE=RobertABouy;6609792]It's not a question of being able to afford it, it is a question of value. At that price, there are much better options than that. It is your money like you said. But guaranteed that most guys on here would think that price tag is very high and low bang for the buck.[/QUOTE]Perhaps they should be sorting out their personal finances then, instead of splurging money they don't have in strip joints?