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[QUOTE=Freakspead;6810201]I thought this was a fascinating conversation and thought I would jump in too. And thought that FafaFooey brought up some good points.

But my approach to Seeking is simple:

1. Yes I click into a profile based on the picture, the age, the location. But I'm also looking for pictures that are actual photographs. So many times pictures look like they are from photo shoots etc. Don't want to look at those. In a weird way you're looking for imperfection in their photos. Because that's the first key that they might be real.

2. I read into their profile. More than anything, a picture might be intriguing, but if there is a blank profile, or a generic one liner. I'll refrain from reaching out. Rather have someone who has put down a few sentences. And I know there is a warm body on the other side. I read through the profile and see if there is a jumping off point. Something to talk about.

[/QUOTE]On photos. If I see a girl of 23 with photos in Dubai, Paris, or other higher end location I scroll by. Normally girls that young aren't traveling to exotic locations on their own dime. I'd guess that's a SD taking them there. If I see a girl sporting Louis Vuitton or Gucci, or sunning on a 140' yacht, same thing. I prefer the GND vibe. I'm not looking to spend my entire portfolio on a piece of azz.

There are many fake profiles sending favorites from Colomnia, Venezuala and Phillipines. Completly ingnore those profiles.

I have gotten some out of state womem reach out and say hi and about a quarter of those have been real meets.

Most girls are looking for an allowance straight out the gates and I explicitly tell them I have no issues bellying up at a random restaurant or bar and meet someone. I have recent pictures on my profile, although I admit that I am no Brad Pitt I have had no issues meeting women whom either reach out to me or vice versa.

I aim for 35 and older and this has had more success for me but I am fallible, many profiles are beneath that age I am aiming for. I am in my forties so I am not looking to go skydiving or swim with sharks. I'm just a guy looking to get my dick wet at the end of the day, spend my weekends doing laundry, going to costco and excersize. But I have met with mostly women between 20-35, most 21-25 which is nice but schedules don't always work and they flake, after 2 flaking events, I just don't bother anymore with a profile and move on.

My rates are between 200-500 and 0 if it is a meet and greet but I do cover meal and drinks. But just a meet and greet don't tend to end there, most of the times we take it back to the hotel or their place. My hotel costare covered from points / loyalty membership from credit cards and traveling job that I have.

Oftenly, some will send a request for some cash out of nowhere and I ask them immediately if they are available, then sure, if not I say no. No honey, no money. I negotiate the donation depending on the quality of the girl and time spend together. Have had over nighters or even weekenders for 300-500.

I do not tend to bring them back to my. Place because that caused so many issues in the past for me where one showed up when I was already with someone else who is more of a regular.

I share my personal number only after having a few meets, could be after 1 or 5 meets, depends on the profile. The mature women are less likely to cause problems. I always use Burner app and pay the credits to have a number active. It is cheap, reliable and has a good back end. Googling your # could lead people scammers to your family members, address, work, and just all in all cause an issue. Luckily, I do not have a very actibe social media profiles: facebook, instagram, snapchat, etc. Only friends, work colleagues and family and set to as much privacy as possible. (Mom is still waiting on grandchildrens).

I like my life and want to keep it simple. SA, Bumble, Facebook Dating and Tinder results give me a wide access to women. On top of that, just going to a restaurant or bar is enough.

I will google image search a profile pictures and phone number and sometimes leads to other profiles or at worst an escort site. I do my research and take it from there but escorts aren't at the top of my list. They are strictly business and avoid them. Most of the times druggies or serious safety issues.

That's basically it. Feel like I could write a book and run out of ink.

[QUOTE=ChiGuy1711;6756563]Anyone have any luck with cuddle companions? I was looking at Chloecuddles93, but wondering if that site is a waste of time.[/QUOTE]She's an escort and has an onlyfans. There was a bad report about here few months ago, mainly complaining about her attitude.

Great post and definitely some good additional points.

I totally agree about the photos. Perfectly posed, processed, high quality photos in exotic locations scream fake to me. You wouldn't think a girl who had a recent photo shoot in a Vegas penthouse would now need $20 of gas money cashapped before she can meet, but I guess you never know. A mirror selfie in a messy bedroom is much more suggestive of a real person.

Also agree on keeping explicit talk to a minimum, at least until you're actually behind closed doors. If no other reason, the site seems to be very aggressive about suspending & banning these days. And asking a girl how much for a bunch of bb activities after a few minutes of texting isn't usually going to lead to her compromising on her donations. Like others and I suggested, its better to get her comfortable in public, then negotiate a good rate, and by then you should have a feel if she's adventurous enough for your specific needs, fetishes, etc. Girls are usually a lot more open in a bedroom naked and feeling good than they are in a random text exchange with someone pushing for every detail in advance. If they quote and negotiate a 'menu' right away then they're basically pros or semi pros. Not the worst thing in the world as it can sometimes speed up the process, but then you're not getting the girl next door image.

[QUOTE=Freakspead;6810201]

1. Yes I click into a profile based on the picture, the age, the location. But I'm also looking for pictures that are actual photographs. So many times pictures look like they are from photo shoots etc. Don't want to look at those. In a weird way you're looking for imperfection in their photos. Because that's the first key that they might be real.

4. When talking to them, I keep it civil. I ask them about what they want, I don't talk about sex, nothing with those acronyms. Hell I don't talk about sex even when I meet them in person. I'll talk about the important stuff like protection and such like that. But NEVER get explicit. I had one girl who initially asked for a crazy high allowance. When I told her that wouldn't work for me, she basically came down on her own accord. Because she enjoyed meeting me, thought I was normal etc.

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[QUOTE=FafaFooey;6810731]Great post and definitely some good additional points.

I totally agree about the photos. Perfectly posed, processed, high quality photos in exotic locations scream fake to me. You wouldn't think a girl who had a recent photo shoot in a Vegas penthouse would now need $20 of gas money cashapped before she can meet, but I guess you never know. A mirror selfie in a messy bedroom is much more suggestive of a real person.

Also agree on keeping explicit talk to a minimum, at least until you're actually behind closed doors. If no other reason, the site seems to be very aggressive about suspending & banning these days. And asking a girl how much for a bunch of bb activities after a few minutes of texting isn't usually going to lead to her compromising on her donations. Like others and I suggested, its better to get her comfortable in public, then negotiate a good rate, and by then you should have a feel if she's adventurous enough for your specific needs, fetishes, etc. Girls are usually a lot more open in a bedroom naked and feeling good than they are in a random text exchange with someone pushing for every detail in advance. If they quote and negotiate a 'menu' right away then they're basically pros or semi pros. Not the worst thing in the world as it can sometimes speed up the process, but then you're not getting the girl next door image.[/QUOTE]Agreed. I cannot stand the women who are just sooo fake. I might as well go for a cheap prostitute if that's the game they want to play. I am usually around 500 ppm. Because no offense to those who do but anything less than 300 I've learned are not women I want to risk fucking. I would rather have a real person I could genuinely help than just some ***** I wouldn't trust to tell me if she was clean or not. For me it's not just about fucking for me a nice connection goes a long way. So I prefer girls who have been recommended or suggested off here. At least then I know they aren't just a random psycho who will do whatever for a quick buck.

PREACH sir! Preach!

I did a test recently comparing premium vs. Diamond. My theory walking into it is that Seeking controls who sees your messages. You might message 100 people on Premium vs. Diamond, but Diamond has a better response rate because Seeking manipulates the messages to show up. There are so many times, my messages will go unread. Could definitely be the volume of people reaching out to a girl. But I had a theory.

The results were interesting. I didn't get a higher response rate to my messages. I got a larger number of girls reaching out to my profile and Liking it. But like so many have pointed out, those were fake profiles or people from Venezuela or Colombia etc. So, you get more attention, but the attention isn't perhaps the attention that leads any where.

This test was done with my basic profile. Where I had no public profile pic, but I had a handful of private pics.

Then I adjusted another variable. I had a full length pic of me. With some pixelating to maintain privacy. Once I made this change. Without Diamond access. Responses flooded in. I attribute this to the fact that women probably get messaged by tons of guys with no profile pic. This one at least gives them some confidence that I"m a warm body. Helps differentiate when they see 10 messages in their inbox, and only a couple have a profile pic showing. (I think the wording of my profile helps a bit as well.).

Couple the profile pic with a brief but personalized intro message, no sex talk in any of my communication. I think its worked great for me!

[QUOTE=FafaFooey;6810731] Also agree on keeping explicit talk to a minimum, at least until you're actually behind closed doors. If no other reason, the site seems to be very aggressive about suspending & banning these days. And asking a girl how much for a bunch of bb activities after a few minutes of texting isn't usually going to lead to her compromising on her donations. Like others and I suggested, its better to get her comfortable in public, then negotiate a good rate, and by then you should have a feel if she's adventurous enough for your specific needs, fetishes, etc. Girls are usually a lot more open in a bedroom naked and feeling good than they are in a random text exchange with someone pushing for every detail in advance. If they quote and negotiate a 'menu' right away then they're basically pros or semi pros. Not the worst thing in the world as it can sometimes speed up the process, but then you're not getting the girl next door image.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Alchy505;6810490] That's basically it. Feel like I could write a book and run out of ink.[/QUOTE]I used to blog about my experience on SA. So many memories. I have to say I've met people on Seeking that I would not normally meet in my regular circles. I enjoy that about the whole thing.

On average it takes me about a month of Seeking access to find my next SB. Haven't had to do that for a while now with my current SB (or two!

Not going to lie Its always fun to explore every so often and test the market. See what's out there.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a72f3a4c-2f4e-476a-bfb5-98edad0c1664[/URL]

A downtown Chicago girl. Any info would be helpful.

She has been around for a while. Pics are accurate. When I saw her, insisted on CFS, but BBBJ. It was average. Biggest problem is that she can be flaky and ghost. Tried to meet up with her 2 other times, ghosted me both times so I stopped trying.

[QUOTE=Donger999;6811029][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a72f3a4c-2f4e-476a-bfb5-98edad0c1664[/URL]

A downtown Chicago girl. Any info would be helpful.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AvgWhiteGuy;6805992][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0b51ba40-a29e-4360-a6d0-5f5b9fd6814c[/URL]

She reached out to me today, typically a red flag but she's been active since Oct 23 so I took a chance. My guess, she needed some cash today because settling up a time and meet went real quick. Met her at a hotel near River North, walked her up to the room and junior was in her mouth within 45 seconds. The encounter struck me as someone that needed a quick lay, she was into it, and someone that needed a quick buck. No rubber but wouldn't let me finish in the kitty, was very willing to take it all in the mouth and swallow and then go back and clean off extras.

Again, I'm into skinny girls, she's very much got a sexy "runner" type body.

500 but can probably be talked down, I just wasn't in the mood to haggle.[/QUOTE]Asked to meet for 450 and she got upset.

[QUOTE=Freakspead;6811022]I used to blog about my experience on SA. So many memories. I have to say I've met people on Seeking that I would not normally meet in my regular circles. I enjoy that about the whole thing.

On average it takes me about a month of Seeking access to find my next SB. Haven't had to do that for a while now with my current SB (or two!

Not going to lie Its always fun to explore every so often and test the market. See what's out there.[/QUOTE]What's your blog name?

[QUOTE=Piper2005;6811047]She has been around for a while. Pics are accurate. When I saw her, insisted on CFS, but BBBJ. It was average. Biggest problem is that she can be flaky and ghost. Tried to meet up with her 2 other times, ghosted me both times so I stopped trying.[/QUOTE]She's a complete flake. She'll commit the day of and then flake a couple of hours before with excuses that make absolutely no sense (forgot I had to work, etc.).

Has anyone seen this one? About to see her next week and wondering if someone else has been seeing her as well?

Thanks guys and can give feedback to anyone interested.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e99224d8-4f7d-4374-948e-06811027fd04[/URL]

[QUOTE=UnsureDarwin;6746541][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1da609d2-65ec-4b1b-87d6-313705ebc7a8[/URL]

[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/chicago/female-escorts/exotic/come-have-fun-with-your-cuban-/977533602811[/URL]

Started by matching with her on SA a little while ago. She told me her PPM was 800. Got her down a little but something came up that we did not meet up. We tried to meet a few more times and but I had moved on to the rest of the rotation. A few weeks pass and I see the her ad on STG. I use my burner number to find out her rates, and I am so glad I did not pull the trigger on her just off SA. Saved a lot of money.

After I saw her, I see she has been reviewed on her a few times already. Just a new profile. I have to start doing more research.

I have a couple more girls I want to post but don't want the flood gates to open on them just yet. Happy Hunting![/QUOTE]Did anyone meet her yet? Someone reported she asked 800 on SA, while she quotes me 500 on stg. Her 2 girl with an attractive blonde who might be a year or two younger than her and slimmer / smaller rack is 1000 total, 500 each per hour. You might as well do the 2 Girl.

However, she says NO kissing and I bet it's no BBBJ. So what's the point in a 2 girl to what clearly is a setup for mechanical or just sitting there in the room? I have her number from SA but at this point if there's no benefits, might as well report her for escorting through SA complaints.

Other than that, anyone know attractive SA women who do threesome other than Dana who also quoted 1000 if she's still around?

Lately I've been coming across TGTBT women thinking I hit the jackpot. I don't blur my pics on the site for a reason, then I end up sending them to the women I'm texting.

I've probably been going back and forth for a couple of days now with one profile that I thought was real and planning for next week, only to say fuck it and use [URL]pimeyes.com[/URL] (free) to see if her face pops up anywhere else. Unfortunately, dozens of other pictures with the same link. Unless pimeyes relies on AI, looks like I've been had. However, because I don't have access to the links, you never truly know because I've seen a couple of real instagram girls appear in Google Reverse search.

Perhaps it's obvious that her profile is AI generator. At least she did me a favor when she specifically asked me 1 day before our meet if I wanted to have "virtual fun" and ever since I said Not until we meet will you receive my coin, silence. Glad I didn't end up driving 2 hours to Chicago, get a $200 hotel room, and have to drive 2 hours back empty handed. This is also why you should plan to meet ASAP rather than wait a whole week or two getting invested.

Another scam I noticed is that a girl may immediately ask me to add her on Telegram. I do the same thing as above: Download her pics whether its on SA or my phone, upload it to Pimeyes from my phone or computer, and see what happens.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18c82ba9-8ee3-48d9-8b45-b39fe07fd995[/URL]