"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=FanRat;3641062]As I posted a few weeks ago I decided to re-up my SA membership and I am sooo glad I did!

I am currently talking via text with a dozen young ladies all of whom meet my criteria. Petite, younger than 25 and DTF. I have done coffee or lunch with 4 and have had 3 back to my place for real fun. 1 of them I have now seen twice and will continue to see a few times a month. She may become the one. She is Asian, 22,5'0" but very feminine. She is beyond GFE, killer BBBJCIM, DATY, CFS very tight & clean kitty and makes the best sounds and expletives while being pounded. She is 1 of the best experiences I have had with any kind of provider.

And its even better that she likes to go eat before or after our dates and hang out cuddling (and 420) on the couch for hours binging netflix.

The damage is a bit higher than most escorts $$$ but not the most I haave had to shell out.

On top of that I have reached out to almost 50 women and am seeing a higher rate of responses this time around.

I think young women are finally coming to the realization that this is a good way to make extra money and it doesn't seem to have the stigma that it once had.

This is a great time to be in the RVA sugarbowl!

Have fun. Be safe![/QUOTE]It's definitly been very productive lately.

[QUOTE=EuroInCincy;3640837]My answer. Real openly. Have you ever tried a good night of sex with the Mrs, when the teenage kids stay up till 2 am? So we want some private time.

Just much easier than having to remember a fake name. The hotel employees don't care, UNTIL you create troubles. A friend of me running one of the 4 star hotels locally. We had MR x coming every Wednesday with his mistress / SB. One day the mistress acted like a ***** to the front staff, my friend. Solved it a very nice way. He sent a letter to Mr & the real Mrs X, apologizing that the staff were not mor courteous and he would get his next weekly visit free. Ofcourse he never saw Mr X anymore, but that is the price a bitching Mistress / SB will cost you.

Hell one time I even brought lunch to the front desk staff, saying, don't mind the noise we wil make this afternoon. (next visit I was upgraded to a suite).

The hotel staff has seen it all, and they prefer an honest client.[/QUOTE]My SB is very vocal which is a major turn on for me.

I pay a little extra and get a suite at the same hotel lately at the end of the hall. The bedroom doesn't have a room beside it. You can't do anything for the room directly above and below.

Although we've never got a call directly asking us to keep it down, we did get a call once from the front seat letting us know "the rain is really coming down and be careful of flooding. " Translation, could you please put a sock in her mouth, we're getting complaints from other guests.

Sorry, they don't like to hear "oh fuck yes, fuck my pretty little asshole Daddy!" "Fuck me in the ass" "Cum in my ass".

I can't hear it enough.

Bottom line, the hotels derive a certain % of their revenue of of sex. Cheating couples, escorts. There not going to turn down the $$$ as long as people act like adults. Heck in around 11:00 am and we go at it for between 3-6 hours.

Yes, the front desk knows, the housekeeping staff knows.

The only thing I feel bad about if someone with young kids can hear.

[QUOTE=BillCullen;3641730]It's definitly been very productive lately.[/QUOTE]I jumped back in last week. A few usual flakes but 2 were good to go! Going to be a December to remember. I do have more than usual asking "What exactly are you looking for" in their initial reply. Saves time as I tell them.

[QUOTE=FanRat;3641062]As I posted a few weeks ago I decided to re-up my SA membership and I am sooo glad I did!

I am currently talking via text with a dozen young ladies all of whom meet my criteria. Petite, younger than 25 and DTF. I have done coffee or lunch with 4 and have had 3 back to my place for real fun. 1 of them I have now seen twice and will continue to see a few times a month. She may become the one. She is Asian, 22,5'0" but very feminine. She is beyond GFE, killer BBBJCIM, DATY, CFS very tight & clean kitty and makes the best sounds and expletives while being pounded. She is 1 of the best experiences I have had with any kind of provider.

And its even better that she likes to go eat before or after our dates and hang out cuddling (and 420) on the couch for hours binging netflix.

The damage is a bit higher than most escorts $$$ but not the most I haave had to shell out.[/QUOTE]Good story, see there is no profile links or actual info included. The holidays always bring new girls willing to give this a go. Most decide its like having a bf who actually helps with bills during the time together.

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3641891]Good story, see there is no profile links or actual info included. The holidays always bring new girls willing to give this a go. Most decide its like having a bf who actually helps with bills during the time together.[/QUOTE]I thought this thread about SBs, not escorts? Although SBs are certainly a subset of escorts.

SBs generally are far more UTR than escorts (even escorts who consider themselves UTR). And most (genuine) SBs arent trying to see lots of different guys. A few that they are comfortable with and that take care of them.

So no, I didn't post any links or phone numbers or anything like that. I have however shared info (SA name and details) with a member that PM'd me asking and I am happy to do so. I just don't feel its appropriate in an open forum.

I do agree that they tend to be "flash in the pan" though. In the bowl for a little while and then they get out.

We haven't talked numbers yet but she seems eager to meet. Anyone know anything? PM me.

[QUOTE=MikeYepthatsm;3636163]I tend to see my SB 3-4 times a month, usually on a Sat or Sun night. I almost always book a room using the Priceline app so I can prepay for the room and I have found that it's almost always the cheapest. I often use the express deals option (you know how many stars it's rated and the general area of town but not the hotel name) but can usually tell what hotel it is ahead of time. I live in the same city I book the room and rarely do I get asked why I am booking a room if I live in town until recently. The last three places I have used all asked me. I try to mix up the hotels so I don't frequent one too often although some of the hotel clerks are starting to recognize me. What excuse do you use if you have a similar situation? I have even gone as far as considering putting a fake change of address sticker on my drivers license but have decided that may be a bad idea.[/QUOTE]Can always use the "have a lot of renovation / remodeling going on at my house so is a bit of a construction zone so it nice to get a break for it every now and then. ".

Hey gang so I have been in the game off and on and haven't had any luck on SA, met 3 over the last year and all 3 have been stalking addicts. I am really curious about these 2 if anyone has any intel? I would love a sane reliable in Chester / Tri Cities. Thanks ahead.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5eb86f3c-cea3-4840-bf41-93d94af9189c[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7dcaa359-dcbc-46a2-a790-87f0ca47a48d[/URL]

[QUOTE=IbDaddy;3643736]Hey gang so I have been in the game off and on and haven't had any luck on SA, met 3 over the last year and all 3 have been stalking addicts. I am really curious about these 2 if anyone has any intel? I would love a sane reliable in Chester / Tri Cities. Thanks ahead.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5eb86f3c-cea3-4840-bf41-93d94af9189c[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7dcaa359-dcbc-46a2-a790-87f0ca47a48d[/URL][/QUOTE]M2324 is one of those who reads but never replies. I am listed as 56 on my profile so she might not be into older guys. I got one that I will share by PM in Chester. Check your mail.

I was in contact with this one for a few days. She will blow your inbox up, desperate to meet. When I wouldn't confirm a time, as I wasn't really interested, she acted like I was inconveniencing her! LOL.

She also said her menu is wide open, hardly any "no's" on her menu so that makes her $ go way up.

If you contact her and she responds, be forewarned.

[URL]www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ae5bf014-6597-44d6-adfe-0560eb7c6ff6[/URL]

I've had a few sb's I've been juggling these last few months which is what pulled me away from this site but I've slowed down and settled on two regulars. I swear if there was ever an appropriate term for these millennial chicks it is snowflakes. If the pusssy wasn't so good they wouldn't be worth it.

So I has a m & g with a pot and it proceeded welk enough that she was willing to go to more private setting. However, I wasnt expecting anything in first m & g and didn't have a hotel lined up. While I was trying to book something quick, she got scared and decided to leave.

I can't take the lady home so how do you guys handle situation like this? Do you book hotel in advance in hope that you get to use it after m & g / cancel if not used or just suck it up and meet next time and proceed to fc?

[QUOTE=Hungre1234;3644010]I was in contact with this one for a few days. She will blow your inbox up, desperate to meet. When I wouldn't confirm a time, as I wasn't really interested, she acted like I was inconveniencing her! LOL.

She also said her menu is wide open, hardly any "no's" on her menu so that makes her $ go way up.

If you contact her and she responds, be forewarned.

[URL]www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ae5bf014-6597-44d6-adfe-0560eb7c6ff6[/URL]

I've had a few sb's I've been juggling these last few months which is what pulled me away from this site but I've slowed down and settled on two regulars. I swear if there was ever an appropriate term for these millennial chicks it is snowflakes. If the pusssy wasn't so good they wouldn't be worth it.[/QUOTE]She responded to my message yesterday but then didn't respond to my reply until today saying she was busy with exams. Maybe blowing up a bunch of guys inboxes has filled up her time.

[QUOTE=Azzy15;3644331]So I has a m & g with a pot and it proceeded welk enough that she was willing to go to more private setting. However, I wasnt expecting anything in first m & g and didn't have a hotel lined up. While I was trying to book something quick, she got scared and decided to leave.

I can't take the lady home so how do you guys handle situation like this? Do you book hotel in advance in hope that you get to use it after m & g / cancel if not used or just suck it up and meet next time and proceed to fc?[/QUOTE]Be Prepared.

Go on [URL]Hotels.com[/URL] and scout hotels near where you are meeting, or better yet, find the hotel and find a place to meet near there. Set up an account so you are just one click away from booking a room.

Never book in advance unless they have a generous cancellation policy.

I have had more than a few girls on SA ask for money for the initial meet and greet. Anywhere from .5 to $$. And a few that want it up front via PayPal or Venmo which I would never agree to.

They say it's to prove that a potential SD is serious.

I have never agreed to this bc it's just too easy to get ripped off but last week I did it and guess what? I got ripped off (I think).

I had been texting a very very attractive young Asian in Richmond that goes by sweetliljay. We messaged on SA a little and then exchanged numbers and texted daily for over a week. I was surprised that her # was an iPhone which feels like her real #. I could be wrong but how many girls use an iPhone as a burn phone?

Anyway, she seemed very real and genuine and interested. We discussed expectations in detail and decided to meet for dinner and drinks but she wanted $100. She said it would come off the top if we hooked up that night. I knew I wouldn't be able to that night bc of other obligations but agreed anyway bc she was just too cute and sounded like a real poa.

We met, she was gorgeous and we had a great time at dinner. She gave me her real name which I later verified by finding her on several soc med sites.

But the day after our m&g she pretty much disappeared. A couple texts but nothing like before and no response when asking to catch up again.

It seems odd. If she meant to just collect $ and disappear I wouldn't expect to have gotten her real name or # (if the # is real). She hasn't blocked me on her # or on IG either. She also has not logged in to her SA account since a couple days before we met.

I was able to learn from some of the sites that she had a heroin problem and it seems like she's in the RVA to try to kick it. She's originally from Brooklyn. It also appears that she had a bf and the relationship was strained bc of the addiction but they may have recently gotten back together.

Anyway, sorry for the long post. The question is; do you guys do the pay for m&g thing and have you had good or bad experiences? I am thinking about adding something to my profile stating that I will not do it. While I understand that the SA wants to know that the SD is real and serious it seems to me that the SD wants the same.

What do you guys think?

Really? So some stranger on the internet asks you for money and you just send it? To prove you're serious! How about this, next girl that asks you to prove that you're serious and wants money upfront tell her that instead you need her to prove to YOU that she's serious and that you require a BJ to completion in the first minute you meet her. If you fail to understand the analogy here there's nothing anybody can do to help you.

[QUOTE=FanRat;3645265]I have had more than a few girls on SA ask for money for the initial meet and greet. Anywhere from .5 to $$. And a few that want it up front via PayPal or Venmo which I would never agree to.

They say it's to prove that a potential SD is serious.

I have never agreed to this bc it's just too easy to get ripped off but last week I did it and guess what? I got ripped off (I think).

I had been texting a very very attractive young Asian in Richmond that goes by sweetliljay. We messaged on SA a little and then exchanged numbers and texted daily for over a week. I was surprised that her # was an iPhone which feels like her real #. I could be wrong but how many girls use an iPhone as a burn phone?

Anyway, she seemed very real and genuine and interested. We discussed expectations in detail and decided to meet for dinner and drinks but she wanted $100. She said it would come off the top if we hooked up that night. I knew I wouldn't be able to that night bc of other obligations but agreed anyway bc she was just too cute and sounded like a real poa.

We met, she was gorgeous and we had a great time at dinner. She gave me her real name which I later verified by finding her on several soc med sites.

But the day after our m&g she pretty much disappeared. A couple texts but nothing like before and no response when asking to catch up again.

It seems odd. If she meant to just collect $ and disappear I wouldn't expect to have gotten her real name or # (if the # is real). She hasn't blocked me on her # or on IG either. She also has not logged in to her SA account since a couple days before we met.

I was able to learn from some of the sites that she had a heroin problem and it seems like she's in the RVA to try to kick it. She's originally from Brooklyn. It also appears that she had a bf and the relationship was strained bc of the addiction but they may have recently gotten back together.

Anyway, sorry for the long post. The question is; do you guys do the pay for m&g thing and have you had good or bad experiences? I am thinking about adding something to my profile stating that I will not do it. While I understand that the SA wants to know that the SD is real and serious it seems to me that the SD wants the same.

What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]