Use a Hobby Account for Everything!
[QUOTE=Nostra3;2702991]Just a hobby tip: Be careful searching phone numbers on FB with your "real" FB account. If there is a match FB often adds you in the searched persons "Do you know?" or (whatever they call it) list. Found this out the hard way. I'd suggest a hobby FB profile.[/QUOTE]Always, always, always use a hobby account for everything you do online. It's too easy for your spouse or SO to search for your real name just about anywhere and come up with suspicious findings. This may not lead to a direct inquiry or confrontation, but she may decide to snoop around for more. Also FB doesn't allow the same phone number on two accounts. I'm fairly sure the same restriction extends to other social media sites. Get a google number or burner phone for that. I suppose it goes without saying: don't use your work phone!
Hotmail / Outlook / Gmail can all be signed-up without any verification. I have learned recently that hotmail (and probably outlook) are flagging emails from certain sites as spam and not even delivering them to the addressed recipients. City Girls admins informed me of this. Google (Gmail) is too snoopy with email for my tastes, but a LOT of people use it.
A thought for the gentlemen and ladies
With the sounds of bells and Christmas songs my love for the season got me to do some research and I have an idea or two PURELY VOLUNTARY OF COURSE! Many of our ladies are single moms or have no one at this time of the season. I read on one board where one lady lost her living space and has sent out an APB trying to get help. I decided for me that I am going to adopt a lady fhe holiday, seek to take her out for a nice meal off the clock then back to her place for time with her to be determined by us both. This is the season to help each other where we can and many ladies need help this season of the year. After bills and payments many can't even afford to get much for their own. Ladies jump in on this also. What if we all got our heads together the bigger one of course and came up with some ways to help each other out and make the season a bit brighter for us all if only for a few 1/2 and hour or two or a mutually agreed fee for and overnight at a low rate for this time of the year only unless a different agreement could be reached. Pick your ladies wisely and ladies if interested PM gentlemen who indicate and interest and see if we can't all have a Merry Christmas, the ladies, the men and yes to a smaller degree some kids who might not get much for whatever reasons. Thanks for reading and hope this works out. If not have a HAPPY HOLIDAY throughout the season and best wishes to all. Last but not least for the men of Indiana DO NOT FORGET Sarah 8032 and her needs due to her situation. BMack.
Good idea adopt lady for Christmas.
[QUOTE=BigMack;2704705]With the sounds of bells and Christmas songs my love for the season got me to do some research and I have an idea or two PURELY VOLUNTARY OF COURSE! Many of our ladies are single moms or have no one at this time of the season. I read on one board where one lady lost her living space and has sent out an APB trying to get help. I decided for me that I am going to adopt a lady fhe holiday, seek to take her out for a nice meal off the clock then back to her place for time with her to be determined by us both. This is the season to help each other where we can and many ladies need help this season of the year. After bills and payments many can't even afford to get much for their own. Ladies jump in on this also. What if we all got our heads together the bigger one of course and came up with some ways to help each other out and make the season a bit brighter for us all if only for a few 1/2 and hour or two or a mutually agreed fee for and overnight at a low rate for this time of the year only unless a different agreement could be reached. Pick your ladies wisely and ladies if interested PM gentlemen who indicate and interest and see if we can't all have a Merry Christmas, the ladies, the men and yes to a smaller degree some kids who might not get much for whatever reasons. Thanks for reading and hope this works out. If not have a HAPPY HOLIDAY throughout the season and best wishes to all. Last but not least for the men of Indiana DO NOT FORGET Sarah 8032 and her needs due to her situation. BMack.[/QUOTE]Go escorts that been adopt for Christmas by hobbyists. Good ideal no strings attached business. Please pick me to adopt for Christmas. !
Putting this here because Indy doesn't have a fight club
[QUOTE=Evalder;2722983]From conversations with the ladies on the site, even those I have no interest in, it is appalling how some of these men behave. From asking how much $ for X, to a guy whose first message to a girl was "I bet your pussy taste great".
SBs (well most anyway) are not BP girls. I'm honestly concerned that the monger hoards will end up spoiling it for those looking for something more than an escort.[/QUOTE]I know that a lot of you guys into this sugar thing like to convince yourselves that they aren't but they are. They wouldn't even be talking to you without the money so that makes them professional sex workers. One can always ask professionals about what services they provide.
If anybody spoils anything it's going to be the guys that teach chicks they can act like difficult girlfriends AND get paid because they don't want to think of themselves as part of the monger horde.
A2.
TOFTT guidelines for dummies
I've been in the hobby for a little more than a year. IDK if I've been surviving off dumb luck some times. I have my own method, but would like some senior knowledge. I used to be able to cross reference w such ease on a previous website, that is now a shadow of what its former self.
When meeting someone new, I usually follow a certain set of guidelines.
First off I ask for an outcall, usually flag a just incall.
2nd, No explicit talk & donations are 4 time only talk.
3rd If no nude pic is offered, start w a strip tease.
4th I say as little as possible until things have progressed.
5th Always trust my first feeling of bailing.
6th Doing an incall, I never bring more cash than I care to lose & never bring my wallet. Always do a room check as well.
These are just guidelines I use.
My hope is that others will help define a list of commandments to help keep us all safer.
As I said before, my old site I used was simple to verify.
With multiple reviews given weekly on this site by trusted members, it makes it easy for alot of us to get lazy. I have bad anxiety myself, so I seldom toftt.
It seems like this should be a bigger topic, don't see much talk about it. I see alot of Backpage chick's that aren't reaching that forum.
Thanks in advance for any contributions.
Burglar.
TOFTT guidelines for dummies Part 2
I knew I'd 4 get some of my no, no's. It was late & the topic was on my mind. That being said, I'd like to add the whole LE check topic. My first massage parlor trip back in the 90's was a West side Washington St place. It was a chicken ranch style brothel where the ladies would form a roster line. This chick simply asked me to kiss the kitty & that was that. At the beginning I placed my donation on the nightstand. (No hand to hand).
The LE check for anyone should be touching? I'm still relatively new to this, but I feel like Ellie's not going to flash her goods before we start our date.
I met one of my ladies recently that was rumored as her uncles favorite niece. She was always 100% pro except for this day. She said she wasn't able to get a room so I opted to meet her some place to talk. After we ran out of things to say, she still just kind of hung out waiting for something. If she was into some car play, she definitely had me, but I became super suspicious & said nothing. I think I might have dodged a bullet by shutting up. There's no need to mention her name because she has disappeared for the moment. I will say she is a red head w nice tits. I don't have proof but we're friends & she hasn't needed any Christmas $ yet? Point is, it's what you don't say.
PM me if you would like the lady s name in question.
