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So final consensus, is she safe to see or not safe to see?
[QUOTE=BlondePreferen;6427056]So final consensus, is she safe to see or not safe to see?[/QUOTE]The post below yours literally said what you need to know.
Why is everyone obsessed with her though? There are like so many women on there from the greater triangle area!
[QUOTE=TigerAuburn;6427106]The post below yours literally said what you need to know.
Why is everyone obsessed with her though? There are like so many women on there from the greater triangle area![/QUOTE]Do you have any safe recommendations? I just created an account on seeking, but still trying to get it established.
I was one of the dudes that hyped her up, she was great until she wasn't. Saw her several times and it was great until she went full pro, and started up charging and straight up set me up to get robbed. She is good, until she isn't. You just run the gamble every time.
[QUOTE=BlondePreferen;6427173]Do you have any safe recommendations? I just created an account on seeking, but still trying to get it established.[/QUOTE]First recommendation is to get serious there is always risk in these ventures. If you're risk adverse or allergic then the game isn't for you. There's always risk. Now, the risk is more on the girl's side because historically it's men who become abusive and stalkerish. She has more to fear from you than you have to fear from her. I'm not one of these hyper paranoid about everything, as I have seen here and I would say if you're hyper paranoid this game isn't for you.
Recommendation is to be sensible. Never have on you more than you can afford to lose. I never bring in a wallet, all transactions are done by app through the phone. Don't risk more than you can afford to lose.
Understand every girl in the game is emotionally broken because no girl dreams of doing this line of work when they grow up. This is last resort so expect the behavior of someone whom this is their last resort accordingly. In general, if you treat them with respect you'll go far because most of these dudes treat the women like objects or, I saw one person write, "they're just here for our pleasure". If you're decent to them they'll be decent to you but don't be surprised if they also try to take as much as they can get because they're in this for the money and only the money.
Do I recommend seeing Kaydee? I mean I had a good time with her, but I set boundaries about money outside a session. You may not have those boundaries according to your situation. You have to decide these things for yourself.
Is cumming inside a pretty 19 yr old worth the risk? Only you know. But she gets so much attention because there aren't many with her looks in the game willing to do BBFS / CIP.
[QUOTE=TigerAuburn;6427106]
Why is everyone obsessed with her though? There are like so many women on there from the greater triangle area![/QUOTE]I've seen her 3 times, haven't had any problem. A really good time for me. I don't understand why she's being targeted with the negative posts. I only believe 1. Someone did try to blackmail her. She didn't pay up, maybe we're seeing the reaction from it.
[QUOTE=SexGeek;6427520]I've seen her 3 times, haven't had any problem. A really good time for me. I don't understand why she's being targeted with the negative posts. I only believe 1. Someone did try to blackmail her. She didn't pay up, maybe we're seeing the reaction from it.[/QUOTE]She has more then one negative post. It's not targeting its warnings, like I said she robbed me, you want to see her go for it.
[QUOTE=BlondePreferen;6427173]Do you have any safe recommendations? I just created an account on seeking, but still trying to get it established.[/QUOTE]Will send by DM.
[QUOTE=SexGeek;6427520]Someone did try to blackmail her. She didn't pay up, maybe we're seeing the reaction from it.[/QUOTE]You realize it's not difficult at all to have one of her girlfriends (she has two others who are in the game) send her a message from TextNow purporting to blackmail her so that her white knight can feel sorry for her and -- of course. Pony up any amount she asks for.
Not just Kaydee but every girl in this game is incapable of doing things for themselves and they quickly learn how to get men to do things for them. Because some man is always willing to do something for them. That's literally how they make their living.
Time will tell the tale. It'll be interesting to see if 6 months, 1 year from now you're still singing her praises. JohnSlayer has it right: she's great until she's not. Tell her "no" and see how well that goes over. LOL.
[QUOTE=DbbClassy2;6427839]You realize it's not difficult at all to have one of her girlfriends (she has two others who are in the game) send her a message from TextNow purporting to blackmail her so that her white knight can feel sorry for her and -- of course. Pony up any amount she asks for.
Not just Kaydee but every girl in this game is incapable of doing things for themselves and they quickly learn how to get men to do things for them. Because some man is always willing to do something for them. That's literally how they make their living.
Time will tell the tale. It'll be interesting to see if 6 months, 1 year from now you're still singing her praises. JohnSlayer has it right: she's great until she's not. Tell her "no" and see how well that goes over. LOL.[/QUOTE]You do know that app puts a 'TextNow' stamp on every text and number it came from was actually a landline from MD. So someone a little more technical sent them. Although the idiot didn't change his speech pattern. I recognize it in his posts on the forum.
White Knight isn't that when the dude takes her out of the game?
Try gaslighting someone who will fall for it.
[QUOTE=DbbClassy2;6427403]First recommendation is to get serious there is always risk in these ventures. If you're risk adverse or allergic then the game isn't for you. There's always risk. Now, the risk is more on the girl's side because historically it's men who become abusive and stalkerish. She has more to fear from you than you have to fear from her. I'm not one of these hyper paranoid about everything, as I have seen here and I would say if you're hyper paranoid this game isn't for you.
Recommendation is to be sensible. Never have on you more than you can afford to lose. I never bring in a wallet, all transactions are done by app through the phone. Don't risk more than you can afford to lose.
Understand every girl in the game is emotionally broken because no girl dreams of doing this line of work when they grow up. This is last resort so expect the behavior of someone whom this is their last resort accordingly. In general, if you treat them with respect you'll go far because most of these dudes treat the women like objects or, I saw one person write, "they're just here for our pleasure". If you're decent to them they'll be decent to you but don't be surprised if they also try to take as much as they can get because they're in this for the money and only the money.
Do I recommend seeing Kaydee? I mean I had a good time with her, but I set boundaries about money outside a session. You may not have those boundaries according to your situation. You have to decide these things for yourself.
Is cumming inside a pretty 19 yr old worth the risk? Only you know. But she gets so much attention because there aren't many with her looks in the game willing to do BBFS / CIP.[/QUOTE]Thank you for your input. Those are some great points.
[QUOTE=TigerAuburn;6427569]Will send by DM.[/QUOTE]Thank you, I appreciate your help.
[QUOTE=SexGeek;6427925]You do know that app puts a 'TextNow' stamp on every text and number[/QUOTE]It most certainly does not, as the holder of several TextNow numbers myself.
[QUOTE=SexGeek;6427925]You do know that app puts a 'TextNow' stamp on every text and number it came from was actually a landline from MD. So someone a little more technical sent them. Although the idiot didn't change his speech pattern. I recognize it in his posts on the forum.
White Knight isn't that when the dude takes her out of the game?
Try gaslighting someone who will fall for it.[/QUOTE]White knighting is when a guy goes to defend a lady in the hopes of "getting noticed or laid" It's not hard to fake texts or create a burner and even threaten yourself or have a friend fake it with you for a cut. Again she was great until she wasn't.
Hey. Does anyone have any intel on ExcitedDiva?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2a474d1f-91d0-4a34-a554-bbe5da68dac4[/URL]
How did that blackmail saga end? Did you team up like buddy cops? Find the guy? Ban him on the forum? I need to know how that turned out.
[QUOTE=JohnySlayer56;6434013]How did that blackmail saga end? Did you team up like buddy cops? Find the guy? Ban him on the forum? I need to know how that turned out.[/QUOTE]Hahaha. Perfectly put. The fact that there's this much drama on the SB forum about a girl should tell you everything you need to know. You'll develop a sixth sense for girls on drugs, who are on the verge of becoming pros (no hate on pros.) if you haven't developed it yet, this is your education.
1 single pic of poor quality and lives in NC, NC with the back to back adjective profile name. Not good signs of being legit.
[QUOTE=Itsaparadise;6431101]Hey. Does anyone have any intel on ExcitedDiva?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2a474d1f-91d0-4a34-a554-bbe5da68dac4[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=AkaToneloc;6434765]1 single pic of poor quality and lives in NC, NC with the back to back adjective profile name. Not good signs of being legit.[/QUOTE]I have found that any girls that do not give a city location are scamming or casting a very wide net and are not in the area they seem to be.
I also favorite girls to see if they are in the same location a week from now. A month from now, etc. I hide and block a lot of girls based on North Carolina, North Carolina or on their quickly moving around.
Also if the background is too tropical or looks West Coast. Block or hide. I am trying to zero in on local and really available.
If a girl pops up in our area and has been a member for a while, usually she is not really in our area. Again I am trying to zero in on real and in our area.
Been talking to this one for a while, and the discrepancies are starting to get pretty amusing (no, Duke doesn't have a "Senior skip day" the day after finals). Sort of morbid curiosity at this point. Anyone seen these pics elsewhere?
[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;6438704]Been talking to this one for a while, and the discrepancies are starting to get pretty amusing (no, Duke doesn't have a "Senior skip day" the day after finals). Sort of morbid curiosity at this point. Anyone seen these pics elsewhere?[/QUOTE]Haven't seen these photos. But anytime all the photos are cropped that tight (to prevent image search from finding a match) - it's an instant red flag.
Anyone know anything about this one?
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/477f76f0dbb899c6[/URL]
PSA to never give your real number ever. Use a fake number or Snapchat. Anyone who insists on your real number does not have good intentions. I've given my real number with success before but the other week a scammer doxxed me some and demanded money. Thankfully all they had was my name and as soon as they sent the text that showed my number looked up I set every social media account to paused / hidden. They showed their hand too soon and I was able to hide everything in time so once it was clear they had nothing else on me I just blocked their number and relaxed. They moved on to lower hanging fruit. Anyways never give your real number until you have met them and are sure they are legit. Been doing this for years and it was the first time I ever dealt with it. Thankfully they showed their hand too early and I had time to hide my online presence.
[QUOTE=Swimmer123;6442521]PSA to never give your real number ever. Use a fake number or Snapchat. Anyone who insists on your real number does not have good intentions. I've given my real number with success before but the other week a scammer doxxed me some and demanded money. Thankfully all they had was my name and as soon as they sent the text that showed my number looked up I set every social media account to paused / hidden. They showed their hand too soon and I was able to hide everything in time so once it was clear they had nothing else on me I just blocked their number and relaxed. They moved on to lower hanging fruit. Anyways never give your real number until you have met them and are sure they are legit. Been doing this for years and it was the first time I ever dealt with it. Thankfully they showed their hand too early and I had time to hide my online presence.[/QUOTE]I've only my true number once. That was 4 years into a sugar relationship and she had given me her actual address. I don't care if you are married, civilian relationship. I have a number for mongering. Use that until you have trust and no feelings. I've heard d of guys losing everything because they revealed too much to soon. It's not a real boy meets girl relationship!
[QUOTE=Swimmer123;6442521]PSA to never give your real number ever. Use a fake number or Snapchat. Anyone who insists on your real number does not have good intentions. I've given my real number with success before but the other week a scammer doxxed me some and demanded money. Thankfully all they had was my name and as soon as they sent the text that showed my number looked up I set every social media account to paused / hidden. They showed their hand too soon and I was able to hide everything in time so once it was clear they had nothing else on me I just blocked their number and relaxed. They moved on to lower hanging fruit. Anyways never give your real number until you have met them and are sure they are legit. Been doing this for years and it was the first time I ever dealt with it. Thankfully they showed their hand too early and I had time to hide my online presence.[/QUOTE]I wonder if this is what's behind the rash of profiles who initiate contact and then immediately ask for a phone number? The excuse is always canned, if not word for word, "I don't check this very often, what's your number so we can message directly?" I always ignore those because real women are all afraid of being murdered so you have to win their trust before they give out any numbers.
Any recommendations in Greenville nc?
Thanks.
Any info on this lady will be appreciated. Has she been on and off SA?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c6228f75-c6d7-47ba-baa8-78298e61de79[/URL]
[QUOTE=DbbClassy2;6444467]I wonder if this is what's behind the rash of profiles who initiate contact and then immediately ask for a phone number? The excuse is always canned, if not word for word, "I don't check this very often, what's your number so we can message directly?" I always ignore those because real women are all afraid of being murdered so you have to win their trust before they give out any numbers.[/QUOTE]Probably not doxxing as often as a run-of-the-mill upfront pay / deposit / plea for emergency money / plane ticket money. Same reasoning as it's in everyone's interest to communicate off the site -- avoid a ban.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6445205]Any info on this lady will be appreciated. Has she been on and off SA?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c6228f75-c6d7-47ba-baa8-78298e61de79[/URL][/QUOTE]Fake -- [URL]https://www.instagram.com/p/CembUhROCy8/[/URL].
[QUOTE=Ncsmm;6444773]Any recommendations in Greenville nc?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Look for Laya on SA. I don't know if she's active these days, but I saw her a couple times when she was still in the Raleigh area. Cute girl, very pleasant company. I haven't seen her again only because she's all the way in Greenville. If you contact her, I'd be curious as to if she's still active and doing arrangements.
Anyone got any info on this one? Pm is open if you prefer to keep it private!!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d824b34d-8f47-4770-ab1d-2e7e2f13cc1d[/URL]
Looks like her profile not active.
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6445672]Look for Laya on SA. I don't know if she's active these days, but I saw her a couple times when she was still in the Raleigh area. Cute girl, very pleasant company. I haven't seen her again only because she's all the way in Greenville. If you contact her, I'd be curious as to if she's still active and doing arrangements.[/QUOTE]
Any info on this lady. PM me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4ab6906f-b761-4565-9488-c2715df8fc52[/URL]
SA has become a real shit show over the past year. I first get on in Feb of 2022 and in a three month period, I went on about 30 dates with attractive women and slept with half of them for free. It's like those girls were too afraid or ashamed to ask for anything in return. Best time of my adult life. Now it's almost all bullshitters, scammers or old / fat chicks.
[QUOTE=DbbClassy2;6448716]SA has become a real shit show over the past year. I first get on in Feb of 2022 and in a three month period, I went on about 30 dates with attractive women and slept with half of them for free. It's like those girls were too afraid or ashamed to ask for anything in return. Best time of my adult life. Now it's almost all bullshitters, scammers or old / fat chicks.[/QUOTE]The amount of chicks on there that I wouldn't touch for free is staggering. And they have the audacity to ask for money for talking to them. LOL.
[QUOTE=JMot87;6449317]The amount of chicks on there that I wouldn't touch for free is staggering. And they have the audacity to ask for money for talking to them. LOL.[/QUOTE]It's hit or miss, some crazed 38 year old wanted 4 k a month. But some are still working out really well. .
I lived in DC till about 3 years ago. It started out great there. Lot's of fun dates, beautiful girls, less BS. One of the girls told me about an online book named "How to be a Sugar Baby. I read it. Was crazy. It says girls should charge $1000 a week and limit the texting and chatting. Claimed it made the man more generous. They said sex once a month was enough too. I chatted with quite a few girls who read the book. Silly. This isn't rocket science, it's just a very personal business deal. Now seeking arrangements is like a Prostitute website.
[QUOTE=GregG73;6449732]It's hit or miss, some crazed 38 year old wanted 4 k a month. But some are still working out really well. .[/QUOTE]
I would never tell someone to sell themselves short or agree to terms that make them uncomfortable, but I feel like many of these women bought into the content of one too many 'influencer' SB's from a metropolitan area with a high millionaire per capita rate, and have no clue why the same isn't being replicated for them. I have no doubt that a woman who is an 11/10 or a 10/10 in NYC, LA, DC can land a high paid arrangement.
I do not, under most circumstances, believe that a 6/10 in Nebraska will ever see those sort of results. And most women don't want to accept that reality. Many of these women need to look into the median incomes of the places they live. And then be brutally honest with themselves:
'Am I a 10/10 in my area?
'Am I still in the prime of my youth?
'Am I willing to indulge in the whims of someone with those sort of resources?
'Do I come with baggage like a boyfriend / husband, children, or a difficult schedule?
'Am I okay with being someone's mistress and the issues that go along with that?
'Am I willing to be with someone I'm not physically attracted to? And can I fake it well?
When I've hobbied in the past, I've often messaged Girl Next Door types, and many have quoted 700 to 1 k. And I always ask, 'Have you personally received those amounts?' I have yet to come across a GND type who has gotten anywhere near those numbers. I'm not saying it hasn't happened, I just haven't seen it. Sometimes they lie and say, 'yup. All the time. ' And then I say, 'well, I don't want to waste your time, good luck!' And more than a few times, in the span of a few minutes or a few days, they'll message again and want to keep talking.
I know those online SB forums suggest that women wait for 'the whale'. And that's good sense. What they leave out is that by the very nature of the whale, there AREN'T VERY MANY. And the vast majority of those women, the whales DON'T WANT THEM. And will absolutely NOT put up with the whole 'sex once a month'. That's both hilarious and misleading.
They're not helping these women. Stop telling fat women, women with criminal records, women with multiple kids, and women with volatile relationships that millionaires are lining up to be with them. That's a lie. It's also why most women quit SA before they even meet anyone. Those sort of numbers, in most parts of the US, do not exist.
[QUOTE=VincentLeMec;6450778]I lived in DC till about 3 years ago. It started out great there. Lot's of fun dates, beautiful girls, less BS. One of the girls told me about an online book named "How to be a Sugar Baby. I read it. Was crazy. It says girls should charge $1000 a week and limit the texting and chatting. Claimed it made the man more generous. They said sex once a month was enough too. I chatted with quite a few girls who read the book. Silly. This isn't rocket science, it's just a very personal business deal. Now seeking arrangements is like a Prostitute website.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;6450827]I would never tell someone to sell themselves short or agree to terms that make them uncomfortable, but I feel like many of these women bought into the content of one too many 'influencer' SB's from a metropolitan area with a high millionaire per capita rate, and have no clue why the same isn't being replicated for them. I have no doubt that a woman who is an 11/10 or a 10/10 in NYC, LA, DC can land a high paid arrangement.
I do not, under most circumstances, believe that a 6/10 in Nebraska will ever see those sort of results. And most women don't want to accept that reality. Many of these women need to look into the median incomes of the places they live. And then be brutally honest with themselves:
'Am I a 10/10 in my area?
'Am I still in the prime of my youth?
'Am I willing to indulge in the whims of someone with those sort of resources?
'Do I come with baggage like a boyfriend / husband, children, or a difficult schedule?
'Am I okay with being someone's mistress and the issues that go along with that?
'Am I willing to be with someone I'm not physically attracted to? And can I fake it well?.[/QUOTE]I can't speak for DC or NY. But LA is overflowing with want to be actresses and models to such an extent I still wouldn't buy it. A whale in LA can book a modeling agency to staff "a party" or outing and they will pull from that pool. Expensive, yes. But that's the high end. Or swing by the playboy mansion back in the day, and drop your corporate title.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3acf457e-32d7-42e0-af5a-1dd530be8d43[/URL]
Curious about this one. I keep seeing the same people but don't see them mentioned here (need to up my search game).
Thanks.
[QUOTE=WelladJustedJ;6451339][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3acf457e-32d7-42e0-af5a-1dd530be8d43[/URL]
Curious about this one. I keep seeing the same people but don't see them mentioned here (need to up my search game).
Thanks.[/QUOTE]She is real. Very quick to agree terms and come over, so basically a pro.