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First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .
[QUOTE=ShogunMaster;3214075]Question: What's the etiquette if you walk into an AMP and the MT isn't really up to your liking? Can you ask if there's anyone else around or do just leave?[/QUOTE]Try to delay giving the door fee until you see the girl at least. Once you give up the door fee I think you're stuck unless you don't care to visit that place again.
[QUOTE=Jadedone;3214627]Another way to not be rude is to just say you were stopping by to inquire about prices and ask for a business card.[/QUOTE]I will say tho that I have never once walked out and it has paid tremendous endings for me of all kinds.
Sure I'm not happy sometimes, but WTF, homely girls are like heavy girls. They don't get much love or pleasure and I feel it is in a woman's DNA to please so If I treat her well and if I get the ultimate service with an ugly provider, doggy style does woders and pussy has no face.
Sorry felllow Mongers, I just can't be mean to a woman who wants to try.
[QUOTE=JeffH83;3214771]First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .[/QUOTE]It blows, but if you know how act act towards the Barneys that bust spas, they fuck with you and let you go.
It is not a good experience by any means.
I think I wrote about this years ago, so try a search and maybe it's here, if not I'm sure others can expound.
Casing a joint doesn't do a fucking thing so forget that.
The worry is always there, but fuck it. No risk, no reward.
If your a pussy, buy a puppy. It's much cheaper and much safer.
You can't worry yourself sick about this hobby.
[QUOTE=JeffH83;3214771]First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .[/QUOTE]While I am new to the board, not so new as a monger. Just took a break for a few years.
Anyway, I have always been on doubting side whenever I go into a situation where it would give Uncle LEO an opportunity to interrupt our conversation. It does not matter if I am going for a massage or something else, I always take a look around for anything out of the ordinary or that might give my gut a "feeling". I also tend to park a short distance away even if there is parking right up close. That gives me. A chance to take a bit more of a look and to assess what is going on outside. If it is not safe for me to walk outside, do you think I am going to go inside?
Also, I tend to leave everything locked out of sight I the vehicle. I will do this before getting to the location so it is not obvious, and where it is at. Only take in what you are willing to leave behind if you have to. I do not even bring in my cell phone. I may be a bit paranoid but it helps me out.
If you do end up with the knock at the door from Uncle LEO, relax, don't panic, and say nothing other than your name. Had this happen once when I was with someone that had an outstanding warrant. LEO was in the lot running plates and found her there. They asked for IDs and did a quick check. Verified her warrant and nothing on me. Asked what we were doing there and I quickly replied "just catching up with an old friend and debating politics".
They arr step her on the warrant and told me to have a good evening. She asked me to put her stuff in the car and lock it up. Asked her if she needed me to call you anyone, said yes and gave me a number. Few days later, she sent me a PM on a board similar to this explaining what happened.
Be safe and think with the big head.
Lunta.
[QUOTE=JeffH83;3214771]First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .[/QUOTE]Of all the AMP's I have been to I have never once worried about getting busted. I just go inside, do my thing and enjoy.
Most places have locked doors with a buzzer so there is advanced warning of anyone wanting to come in. Also, many places now have webcams where the MMS can see who is at the door even before they answer it. I'm sure if uniformed LE was at the door the MMS would say something that all the girls could hear and everyone would cover up. The cops may give you a hard time but just stick to your guns that you were getting a legit massage and you will probably be ok. After all, there is no law against getting a legit massage.
AJ.
[QUOTE=JeffH83;3214771]First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .[/QUOTE]I started the same as you. The first time I finally pulled the trigger and went in I was scared to death. Right up until the end I thought I was about to get put in bracelets, and hauled off. I got lucky and saw an amazing MT who must have known how nervous I was because she kept calling me "Mr serious face" and told me I should smile more. I had a great time and left in shock that it was all real, (I thought for sure these message boards must be a setup, LOL).
In any case, be smart, be discrete, and use your head (the big one). If something feels off, no real harm in walking out. Even now, I refuse to go in if I see construction / painting / maintenance work going on nearby, b / c I feel like that's a perfect cover for LEO to get close.
Then again ask yourself if this is a path you want to go down. Some guys start and can't stop. However, I feel if you control yourself, it can be a fun hobby.
Enjoy!
[QUOTE=JeffH83;3214771]First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .[/QUOTE]I started the same as you. The first time I finally pulled the trigger and went in I was scared to death. Right up until the end I thought I was about to get put in bracelets, and hauled off. I got lucky and saw an amazing MT who must have known how nervous I was because she kept calling me "Mr serious face" and told me I should smile more. I had a great time and left in shock that it was all real, (I thought for sure these message boards must be a setup, LOL).
In any case, be smart, be discrete, and use your head (the big one). If something feels off, no real harm in walking out. Even now, I refuse to go in if I see construction / painting / maintenance work going on nearby, b / c I feel like that's a perfect cover for LEO to get close.
Then again ask yourself if this is a path you want to go down. Some guys start and can't stop. However, I feel if you control yourself, it can be a fun hobby.
Enjoy!
[QUOTE=JeffH83;3214771]First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .[/QUOTE]There is no better time. Before Google Street view, you had to print or write down what MapQuest gave you for directions.
Now you can us Google Street view to conduct business with the next door business, get back in your car and "case" the place.
Now, there's even more people who write reports about the places.
I guess have mixed feelings about it. First of all, try to be sensitive to the person. If you really don't want a massage from that particular woman, try to make a reasonable excuse to return later. I told a story a while ago about my (soulmate) "L". Guy came into the shop and said: "Are you the only person?" (yes) and he said "Never mind" and left. Now in my book she's a wonderful human being, incredible massage therapist. Tiny woman with a great smile and tremendous humanity. Yeah she's not 25 , but I learned a long time ago the young ones are usually not the best. Now, I will add, that attitude is by far the most important criteria. So if your therapist was rude, bored, or otherwise showed poor customer service, then by all means walk out immediately. Bob.
[QUOTE=ShogunMaster;3214075]Question: What's the etiquette if you walk into an AMP and the MT isn't really up to your liking? Can you ask if there's anyone else around or do just leave?[/QUOTE]
I would say its all about mindset. When you go to a new spa, go with the idea you are going for a legit massage. Relax and enjoy. If something is meant to happen, the therapist will give you signals. And by the same token, if it is not meant to happen it will be fairly clear right away. Be friendly. Don't be rude. And for Godsake don't ask for anything and don't start grabbing her. Be a gentleman. Even if nothing extra happens, if she makes an effort to give you a good massage, make sure you tip her (about $20).
[QUOTE=JeffH83;3214771]First of all, thanks to all the guys that contribute.
Its been awhile so I would like to get into this hobby. I've been driving past a few of these places for a couple weeks and I always talk myself out of going in. I guess I'm just paranoid. Do you guys ever worry about getting busted? Do you case the joint before going in? Anyone else have this problem when they were starting out? How did you get over it? Why am I such a pussy? .[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MwmChicago;3212104]Anyone have any info or experience on this one? Been seeing her ads for a bit but can't find any intel.
[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-sofia/38079935[/URL]
Thanks.[/QUOTE]The rumors that she is connected (or even is) a LEO, but just a rumor.
Thanks for a lot of great advice, guys. Will work up the courage soon. .
[QUOTE=Bob521;3215868]I guess have mixed feelings about it. First of all, try to be sensitive to the person. If you really don't want a massage from that particular woman, try to make a reasonable excuse to return later. I told a story a while ago about my (soulmate) "L". Guy came into the shop and said: "Are you the only person?" (yes) and he said "Never mind" and left. Now in my book she's a wonderful human being, incredible massage therapist. Tiny woman with a great smile and tremendous humanity. Yeah she's not 25 , but I learned a long time ago the young ones are usually not the best. Now, I will add, that attitude is by far the most important criteria. So if your therapist was rude, bored, or otherwise showed poor customer service, then by all means walk out immediately. Bob.[/QUOTE]It sucks that he was that rude however I am sure from what you wrote that he was not interested in a legit massage.
When I have only been in the mood for extras and do not like what I see I always just say I am checking on prices and if they offer gift cards or gift certificates. I don't really want to give them false hope that I will come back but I also was raised not to be rude. There have also been the occasions where I stuck it out and was surprised. What I thought was going to be a dud with an older not the prettiest MT turned out to be a very good time.
To each their own, but I've never left because of the MT options.