Thousand Grand =$1,000,000.00
[QUOTE=Cashville]I have a hard time believing this story. Who in the hell leaves several thousand grand sitting around for someone to find? You mean to tell me that you had it laying around for her to find it in the amount of time it took for you to go out to your car? Did you have the money sitting right in front of her on the coffee table? Maybe she could just smell that much money and her nose led her right to it. Or was your car parked 1/4 mile down the street and she had time to go through your home? If you aren't lying then I hate to say it but you deserve to have your money stolen for being that stupid. And who the hell says several thousand grand? Its either several thousand or several grand.[/QUOTE]
I hope it was just a typo, sereral thousand grand and I would have to call Vito on her. Of course if this was illegal money I understand why you would not call the cops.
Sorry Chuck..bad advice IMO
[QUOTE=Chuck G]Just my $0.02 worth. But I would seek re-payment, maybe not conventional, but satisfaction either way.
Later[/QUOTE]That is the gut response that would come first to all of us. I understand why you would say it.
However, escalation of things for HIS mistake could make things dramatically worse. Risk not worth the benefit (satisfaction).
"IF" this story true, he should not mistake the same thing again. "HE" screwed up.
I have "friends" over..UTR types, more like a date with a polygamous wife, but I never ever tempt one of the "wives" with cash about, wallet, cards..the 9mm goes in safe (if I really trust her, LOL).
Would be a good idea BUT...
[QUOTE=Bob Parks]As for the Uncle LEO thing, seems to me if the provider is worried about who the guy works for then getting the donation after an hour or so of fun should cure that. (well this comment is sure to get some of them started. So let the games begin.)[/QUOTE]If this were a solution, it might be worth considering for regular/known hobbyists. Unfortunately, this is not an end-all solution.
The first problem is that, prior to meeting, some type of financial arrangement is agreed upon, which automatically places you in the "illegal" category. There's really no way to avoid addressing finances. Either it's on your site/ad or you discuss by email, phone, etc. One way or the other, obviously, it has to be known before a meeting occurs so that everyone is on the same page where that is concerned.
So, since you've already agreed to a financial arrangement, once you meet, it can be silver bracelet time if LE feels like a jeweler that day (and they usually do, no matter what; they prefer to just let you deal with sorting anything else out in court. They aren't going to negotiate why you shouldn't be arrested or cited with you, period. They simply arrest if they get you to the location based on what they believe your intentions to be, no ifs/ands/buts about it.).
Second, although it is frowned upon by some judges, LE has been known to have informants participate in a session so even if the money is provided after-the-fact, it is still provided and so is the service.
So this wouldn't solve any problems. It only 'sounds good'.
The bottom line is there is no complete safety net; you can only take the precautions you feel are best and hope it all works out the way you planned.
I think every provider should require at least 2 reputable references. Like Julianna, I, too, require a personal check (extended ONLY as a courtesy to people with no refs-not as a requirement; you have the option to say no thanks and we both go on our way with no hard feelings) if you want to continue to try to work something out. I'm never upset if someone doesn't want to provide info, it's totally their choice and I respect that as I hope they respect my requirements even if they don't like or choose to meet them. Personally I prefer the refs over the personal info any day. It's just my way of trying to give referenceless (I know that's not a word so please don't attempt to correct me) gents an opportunity for an alternative if they would like one.
EP's 2 Cents!
*Hugs*
You need tolet it drop and he needs to STFU!
[QUOTE=Julianna]Lol! Let's not go there!
You forgot to mention that I did not have your info at that time. Since you provided me with it since then, I promised to keep it safe as long as you keep your promise Mr whatever your name is! LOL![/QUOTE]
You are just adding fuel to his unsubstantiated claims. He has not seen you nor has his followers. His actions have been discussed with the powers to be and it is not worth the bandwidth or time to keep going. You have great reviews and anyone who has really seen you and was a gentleman was very pleased with you and your time.
Jullianna, he has his followers here so it is best to just drop it as the guys with brains can read thru the BS and know he is just trying to get at you and is and will continue untill further action is taken.
So, just move along to the MEN who know you are good and the MEN who can see the defference in BS and/or maybe just playing around on the computer.
But if you are having fun with it, let the good times roll.
It is all harmless as we all know we are just a name behind a computer till we see each other between the sheets. LOL WOO HOO, I just got egg-ci-tid. Do you still have the glasses and the ice? Not sure I can wait till the 22nd.
Now lets just get back to talking about good times and talking about who we have seen or asking about who we want to see!
Till later, love and licks to you Jullianna and all the lovely ladies here.
To the guys, Wet Dreams, PW
Providers-"Methinks the lady doth protest too much,"
How do my 1 sentence replys turn into this drama? LOL
As Shakespeare said is his writings
""Methinks the lady doth protest too much,"!
Take to the correct topic board PW and Mrs J. Try "Rants Opinions and Arguments "!
Wow I didn't know I had followers. Soooo.........does that make me a clan leader of hobbiest? Or do I get my own cult? LOL
My point on any of these post have been, when a provider trys to use a board members real name on the board,
THEY CROSS THE LINE!
I think we all can agree to that.
Ms J and PW insisting I Apologize for posting what I had been told about her being "heavier than her picture and having an attitude" will not be done by me. So keep making your silly shots. I feel I was correct in my actions. It's a board to share info.
On attitude folks can make their own judgement. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If she looks like her pic's than she is a beauty. Let her reviews speak for her. When she posted the site she sent us to didn't have any.
Please take this to the correct topic board and stop wasting our time.
Out of Towner's!
I have talked to Ms J and said I was sorr for the misunderstanding but enough.
[QUOTE=Pwhipped]You are just adding fuel to his unsubstantiated claims. He has not seen you nor has his followers. His actions have been discussed with the powers to be and it is not worth the bandwidth or time to keep going. You have great reviews and anyone who has really seen you and was a gentleman was very pleased with you and your time.
Jullianna, he has his followers here so it is best to just drop it as the guys with brains can read thru the BS and know he is just trying to get at you and is and will continue untill further action is taken.
So, just move along to the MEN who know you are good and the MEN who can see the defference in BS and/or maybe just playing around on the computer.
But if you are having fun with it, let the good times roll.
It is all harmless as we all know we are just a name behind a computer till we see each other between the sheets. LOL WOO HOO, I just got egg-ci-tid. Do you still have the glasses and the ice? Not sure I can wait till the 22nd.
Now lets just get back to talking about good times and talking about who we have seen or asking about who we want to see!
Till later, love and licks to you Jullianna and all the lovely ladies here.
To the guys, Wet Dreams, PW[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Bamababe]Hey Dan,
It's OK baby. I know that everybodys schedule can't always fit mine. You know your welcome to come see me anytime (when I'm in town). Maybe we can try what you were talking about? Sounds like fun to me Thanks baby, Kathy
PS: Sometimes new things are exciting, especially when it's with friends, and handsome men too. That's just an added bonus. If you can find another willing friend, drop me an e-mail. We can work out the details. I may be returning in about 3 weeks, not sure yet? I'll let you know.[/QUOTE]What are you talking about? a 3 some? You know I would have loved to have seen you had I had the cash. I have stopped seeing Sws because of money but also from your advice.
you could not just drop it , could you
You posted your reply and then said to move it to the "rant board". I let it drop and did not reply which I thought was best for the board as a whole.
But NOOO, your imature mind had to go back hours later and edit your post, expand it to keep the crap going. Grow up, take this to the "rant's" board. You just will not leave it alone. But I guess you think these imature posts, idle accuations and little digs nearly every week makes you a big man on campus.
So be it, I am through with replies, you may have the last word as I know you need to do that to think that make you more important to the others here. Yes I have posted too much about this stupid uninformed posts by you but you started it and when you accused me of being the one who had the Asian house get busted, that really started and proved what a imature uniformed person you are.
There are 100's of guys here that know me by face and name and I did not need to defend myself on the board. BUT, since you keep showing what kind of person you are, then I will just help you a little more.
As I said, I will not reply no matter what you say, have at it as I know you NEED to have the last word.
Not to fear or worry gentlemen, I will reply to infomed posts that Blackawk does and yours if I have further info or questions. Afterall, that is what this board is for, sharing of infomation.
Blackhawk, I do not hold grudges and I will treat you as a gentleman in the future unless you insist.
Have a great day and lets get back to talking about ladies.
Wet Dreams, PW
[QUOTE=Blackhawk 101]How do my 1 sentence replys turn into this drama? LOL
As Shakespeare said is his writings
""Methinks the lady doth protest too much,"!
Take to the correct topic board PW and Mrs J. Try "Rants Opinions and Arguments "!
Wow I didn't know I had followers. Soooo.........does that make me a clan leader of hobbiest? Or do I get my own cult? LOL
My point on any of these post have been, when a provider trys to use a board members real name on the board,
THEY CROSS THE LINE!
I think we all can agree to that.
Ms J and PW insisting I Apologize for posting what I had been told about her being "heavier than her picture and having an attitude" will not be done by me. So keep making your silly shots. I feel I was correct in my actions. It's a board to share info.
On attitude folks can make their own judgement. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If she looks like her pic's than she is a beauty. Let her reviews speak for her. When she posted the site she sent us to didn't have any.
Please take this to the correct topic board and stop wasting our time.
Out of Towner's!
I have talked to Ms J and said I was sorr for the misunderstanding but enough.[/QUOTE]