More commen than you think
12 years ago a buddy of mine had a similar situation in Vegas, except he thought he was happily married, Until his wife started coming home at 2 am in the morning and telling him she was with her mother. Finally he got wise and hired a P. I. And discovered she was having a serious fling with another guy that supplied her with copious amounts of Oxycodone and wild sex.
Of course when he found out, it was divorce American style. She did a similar thing by beating herself with wood and creating black and blue marks and claimed abuse. He was arrested and put in a little orange jump suit and spent a long weekend in the Clark county jail. This is a guy that never had a record, couldn't say shit if he had a mouthful and had the appearance of Harvey Milktoast.
Lucky for him the physician that examined her determined they were self inflicted. Needless to say he will never marry again.
[QUOTE=Showdown;2216896]Short of living under a rock most of us have heard about NFL star Ray Rice. He has been suspended-essentially career ending-from the NFL because of a video of him knocking out his wife with his fist on an elevator in Atlantic City, NJ.
Now let's get this out of the way. I do not support, encourage or believe that ANYONE should be beaten, struck or physically assaulted. Period end of story. We as grown men do not want to be punched in the face by a man who has trained his body to be a battering ram. Ray Rice in that regard used his body as a weapon against a defenseless-in a few senses anyway-person of the opposite sex.
And with that said-Ray Rice is the reason I started mongering.
A few facts about the Ray Rice situation:
*His wife took 20,000 dollars out of his bank account without telling him and gambled it away (ie she lost it all gambling) in the casino in Atlantic City.
* She then spat in his face several times during the verbal argument which led to the vicious assault on her.
A female in my family said to me "if anyone took 20,000 of my money and gambled it away and then spit on me when confronted by it I would have hit her too". Funny how the media does not talk about the actions that led to this. Again I DO NOT support anyone being viciously assaulted. I am simply speaking facts here.
My Ray Rice story.
Years ago when I lived in another state I broke up with a girl. She decided she wanted to get back at me by pulling the stunt that women did in the Martin Lawrence movie "A Thin Line between Love and Hate". You need to watch this movie guys. In the movie she slams her arm in a patio door and injures herself and then calls the police and claims domestic violence and Martin is arrested.
My ex did the same thing. A female cop showed up (funny thing was I wasn't even home when she called them. I went to get my things and the cops were already there) and within minutes arrested me. Here I am, a man that has never been arrested for anything (and frankly has always been a big supporting of following the letter of the law) sitting in the back of a patrol car with all my neighbors looking and my ex screaming how I slammed her into a patio window.
Long story short my job fired me. 85 K per year job. I got fired because they held me for 5 days in jail (I had no way to bail myself out. I had never been in trouble before and didn't know what to do back then. I was terrified). I sold one of my musclecars for money and got a lawyer. The lawyer had the nerve (a women) to tell me to just plead guilty and attend some classes. I said hell no. First domestic violence convictions mean you can never own a gun. And I like to hunt and have a gun in my home. Second it always will be known you have been convicted of something like this. And third I will not plead guilty to something I didn't do.
It took me a year guys. A year to prove she made it up and lied. I proved I was not only not at the house when she claimed she did it but every time she was to show up for court she had an excuse-her car broke down, she was sick and then finally she broke her foot (ridiculous). It cost me $13,450 to defend myself. All this over a single mom who was mad that I broke up with her-I. E. She no longer had that money coming in. When they finally got her in court by putting out a warrant she admitted she lied.
A year. $13,450 dollars. And they didn't charge her with lying or anything else. She simply was allowed to walk away.
I remember around that time thinking that the prostitutes I used to see around downtown where I lived might satisfy my cravings without the added drama. I started a web search and found this website. I read all about the dos and donts and I picked up my first SW. I was hooked.
I have never had a full time gf since. I learned that women have different weapons they use against men. They use the fact they have a vagina to extort money from us. They use our children as weapons against us. And why do we suffer this? Just to have some sex from time to time. I don't dislike women. Don't get me wrong. But men need to realize that most of us get involved with women for sex. We really don't want to be married and burdened with children. I have found most of us would rather enjoy the kids in our families without having our own and be able to go from chick to chick without being burdened with marriage rings and such. What am I saying here? I have found prostitutes to be a welcome change to how I was dealing with women before. For example if I meet a chick I like I:
A. Never tell them where I work (protect your money guys-it's what they want in the end).
B. Never tell them where I live (there are ways to do this. You never want them showing up at your door).
C. Always let them know I have money (I like to see how hard THEY chase after us when they know we have money even if we really don't. True story-I rented a Porsche from Hertz to meet this hot chick who I knew had 20 guys chasing her. Picked her up and she dropped those panties that evening when I knew that other guys couldn't even get a text message from her. Dumped her the next day).
D. Never give them your real phone number or email. Create a new email address just for chicks and use the Burner app to get a separate phone number.
Prostitutes don't expect any calls. And neither do I. I pay her to do what I want and then I toss her. I am respectful of course. You guys have read enough of my post to know that. But I bang her like a porno star and if I want to cum in her mouth or her face or whatever I do it. I pay her. And I leave.
Food for thought guys. Protect yourself.
"I don't pay hookers for sex. I pay them to leave. " Charlie Sheen.
Now if I can just find a pregnant SW (and for those of your who have asked why I want a pregnant SW-I just want the experience. Thats all.).
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