Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Laines;5693615]What's with some of these providers not washing up before having a visitor? Tired of hitting it from the back only to get a whiff of an unpleasant smell, totally turns me off. If I tell you I'll be there in 40 mins, you have plenty of time to wash up with some soap and water. I'm not asking for it to smell like roses, just for it to not have a foul odor.[/QUOTE]But most of them are drug addicts and don't know that their ass smells. On top of that they don't care, they know someone is coming to hit it either way.

[QUOTE=SexTalkFor1000;5698671]How do I go about deleting my account entirely? It's Time for a change. Life is almost over.[/QUOTE]I searched for a bit and didn't find a "leave group" option. You could create a totally fictitious screen name and use no identifying info when creating your account and then not worry about "quitting", just stop eh? If you REALLY need to have closure piss off the admin, it works!

[QUOTE=Cheech1;5693272]By Gestapo I am referring to the government. As far as tracking someone down, in the case of a pregnant woman looking for someone to claim as the father, all she has to do is give your license plate number to family services, they will have your name and addy as soon as they want to.

They will get a court order demanding you provide a paternity test sample and / or DNA. If she didn't get enough identifying date to track you down, AND she gets a judge who likes to really put the screws to men, the judge can run the baby's dna through some of the DNA databases that are used for people who want to research their family backgrounds. You know, the ones they advertise on TV. These databases are becoming quite large. And all they have to do is find a close enough match that could be one of your family members. They narrow it down from there. If she gets child support money from the gestapo they will have the resources to do the work. Admittedly it is a lot of work. Maybe not likely but extremely possible.

The ORC has had those worksheet guidelines since at least the 80's, when I used them to figure out what I was going to have to pay. And as for attaching income, as soon as you work a straight job and your employer withholds taxes, they will send that employer a notice of withholding where the employer will attach your wages and send that money to child support. This would of course be after some judge had held a hearing and determined that you were the father, etc,. Its a process.

Cheech.[/QUOTE]Cum in her mouth, cum in her ass, or wear a condom. Problem solved!

[QUOTE=SexTalkFor1000;5698671]How do I go about deleting my account entirely? It's Time for a change. Life is almost over.[/QUOTE]You could always go back to using your CockNumb account.

Click on the "Front Page" tab and then click "contact us" on the left side of page. There will be a reason button for delete my account. Or you can just post and grand good bye message and that will usually get it done as well.

[QUOTE=JimJaimes;5699615]I searched for a bit and didn't find a "leave group" option. You could create a totally fictitious screen name and use no identifying info when creating your account and then not worry about "quitting", just stop eh? If you REALLY need to have closure piss off the admin, it works![/QUOTE]Admin2 will delete your account.

[QUOTE=JimJaimes;5699617]Cum in her mouth, cum in her ass, or wear a condom. Problem solved![/QUOTE]I got a vasectomy 35 years ago after my 4th child was born and didn't want any more children. It not only helped my now ex-wife who didn't need to take birth control but I didn't have to worry about getting a woman pregnant ever again!! If the arrogant Rick Pitino had got one after his last child he never would have had the scandal with Karen Sypher who he got pregnant and tarnished his reputation. A vasectomy has no effect on your sexual performance.

[QUOTE=Ceenote;5699658]You could always go back to using your CockNumb account.

Click on the "Front Page" tab and then click "contact us" on the left side of page. There will be a reason button for delete my account. Or you can just post and grand good bye message and that will usually get it done as well.[/QUOTE]At the bottom right of each page in every section, there is a [B]Contact Us[/B] link. Follow that and one of the options that will be available is to delete your Account and posts.

[QUOTE=BigCat44;5700167]I got a vasectomy 35 years ago after my 4th child was born and didn't want any more children. It not only helped my now ex-wife who didn't need to take birth control but I didn't have to worry about getting a woman pregnant ever again!! If the arrogant Rick Pitino had got one after his last child he never would have had the scandal with Karen Sypher who he got pregnant and tarnished his reputation. A vasectomy has no effect on your sexual performance.[/QUOTE]When I was young I joked that a V made you look at women like your sister. I wish I'd gotten clipped sooner than I did. It's worry free fucking (at least as far as pregnancy is concerned). The only effect I've noticed is I think I'm hornier now than I ever was.

I've been seriously thinking about getting a vasectomy. Are there any reputable doctors in this area of the country that specialize in them? I've read a little into it and the consensus seems to be that's the way to ensure it's done right. Aside from that, I'm worried about fighting the temptation to go raw during more casual non-provider encounters and catching shit.

Yep They need to start on your neck A few cuts and snips and you will be done. LOL.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5700749]I've been seriously thinking about getting a vasectomy. Are there any reputable doctors in this area of the country that specialize in them? I've read a little into it and the consensus seems to be that's the way to ensure it's done right. Aside from that, I'm worried about fighting the temptation to go raw during more casual non-provider encounters and catching shit.[/QUOTE]If you're worried about catching shit, get a different hobby. You can catch shit from a non-provider encounter just as fast as from a provider. If you troll the streets or see drug addicts a vasectomy won't stop you from getting shit, you just won't get anyone pregnant.

The hobby has risks, so does fucking bar floosies. Determine your risk threshold and stick to it.

As far as finding a urologist to do the surgery get a referral from your primary care physician. He won't steer you wrong.

20+ years ago when I got my V, my wife had to sign off on it. That way she couldn't sue the surgeon for doing the surgery without her knowledge. I guess a wife has rights on your balls. That law might have changed, I don't know.

[QUOTE=BTBear;5700968]If you're worried about catching shit, get a different hobby. You can catch shit from a non-provider encounter just as fast as from a provider. If you troll the streets or see drug addicts a vasectomy won't stop you from getting shit, you just won't get anyone pregnant.

The hobby has risks, so does fucking bar floosies. Determine your risk threshold and stick to it.

As far as finding a urologist to do the surgery get a referral from your primary care physician. He won't steer you wrong.

20+ years ago when I got my V, my wife had to sign off on it. That way she couldn't sue the surgeon for doing the surgery without her knowledge. I guess a wife has rights on your balls. That law might have changed, I don't know.[/QUOTE]Not married but in an LTR so I try to stick to the hobby for uncomplicated side action, and the motivation to continuing wrapping for that is easy. But there have been some situationships with ladies that are better quality than bar floosies. That's where it gets tempting, because the disease risk is still there but alot lower. Found the spousal consent thing surprising and kinda funny, given the my-body-my-choice times we live in. Couldn't find any actual legislation requiring it though, just seems to be paperwork some doctors choose to require if they learn the patient is married.

[URL]https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1282203/[/URL]

Consent by partner.

It is not a legal requirement to involve both partners in the decision-making and consent process. There is a widespread misconception that a wife must consent to her husband undergoing vasectomy. If, against a man's wishes, his wife is informed of and asked to consent to her husband's vasectomy, this can be regarded as a breach of medical confidentiality and an infringement of an individual's right to self-determination (I. E. Autonomy).

Nevertheless, it is good practice to involve both partners if the male agrees.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5701766]Not married but in an LTR so I try to stick to the hobby for uncomplicated side action, and the motivation to continuing wrapping for that is easy. But there have been some situationships with ladies that are better quality than bar floosies. That's where it gets tempting, because the disease risk is still there but alot lower. Found the spousal consent thing surprising and kinda funny, given the my-body-my-choice times we live in. Couldn't find any actual legislation requiring it though, just seems to be paperwork some doctors choose to require if they learn the patient is married.

[URL]https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1282203/[/URL]

Consent by partner.

It is not a legal requirement to involve both partners in the decision-making and consent process. There is a widespread misconception that a wife must consent to her husband undergoing vasectomy. If, against a man's wishes, his wife is informed of and asked to consent to her husband's vasectomy, this can be regarded as a breach of medical confidentiality and an infringement of an individual's right to self-determination (I. E. Autonomy).

Nevertheless, it is good practice to involve both partners if the male agrees.[/QUOTE]And it was a boilerplate cya thing. I would say if I were doing it and a doc asked me that, I would tell said doc to do something unnatural to himself.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5701766]Not married but in an LTR so I try to stick to the hobby for uncomplicated side action, and the motivation to continuing wrapping for that is easy. But there have been some situationships with ladies that are better quality than bar floosies. That's where it gets tempting, because the disease risk is still there but alot lower. Found the spousal consent thing surprising and kinda funny, given the my-body-my-choice times we live in. Couldn't find any actual legislation requiring it though, just seems to be paperwork some doctors choose to require if they learn the patient is married.

[URL]https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1282203/[/URL]

Consent by partner.

It is not a legal requirement to involve both partners in the decision-making and consent process. There is a widespread misconception that a wife must consent to her husband undergoing vasectomy. If, against a man's wishes, his wife is informed of and asked to consent to her husband's vasectomy, this can be regarded as a breach of medical confidentiality and an infringement of an individual's right to self-determination (I. E. Autonomy).

Nevertheless, it is good practice to involve both partners if the male agrees.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WhereDreamsGo;5702164]And it was a boilerplate cya thing. I would say if I were doing it and a doc asked me that, I would tell said doc to do something unnatural to himself.[/QUOTE]I was never asked anything like that. I imagine there's some sort of age / number of kids type formula that leads to that sort of questioning. I agree though. Doctor would be told to get fucked pretty quick if he asked me things like that. Guess "my body my choice" only applies to anti-vaxxers and chicks wanting an abortion now.

Just a shout out to the SW mongers who have revived that thread of late. It's always really the best and most important thing on here, even though none of it is likely to convince me to pick up walkers again. But I do enjoy the info and entertainment, and it's also kind of a way for me to monitor whether any UTRs I may be dealing with are doing the SW thing (it's a nice thing to know purely for risk management). Also, it's probably not out of the question that I'd try to scoop one up some time, and it's interesting to know where the action is, which, by all accounts, seems to be a lot wider spread than it's been for a long time. That latter point makes me thing it may also not be long before a LEO sweep arrives. It's an added risk of that channel, but in general, the whole thing is riskier on just about every level, so I admire the effort.